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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by chy200(f): 11:20pm On Feb 15, 2022
Hmmm! Lucky you.
I pity person wey go follow this guy yell for office, your own fit be sack o. No try am .

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Badguy77(m): 11:21pm On Feb 15, 2022
Thank God u have a sensible M.D and both of you have a close relationship.

Now the hunter has become the Hunted..This deserves a testimony.

Every oga blocking my way to become somebody in life let our M.D transfer him in jesus name..

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by osothermal(m): 11:21pm On Feb 15, 2022
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
similar situation i was, but after serious yelling at my boss, he started avoiding me and i had my peace

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Enemyofpeace: 11:21pm On Feb 15, 2022
I’m so happy for you bro. God punish all the bosses that do not want us to rice up above them. Bosses are not gods, they are ordinary human beans like us.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by smokeyupu(m): 11:22pm On Feb 15, 2022
Na God save you!!! So far......

Don't rest on your oars. The battle might just be begging.

Men are wicked!!!!!

GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by leofab(f): 11:22pm On Feb 15, 2022
cool
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by ariesbull: 11:22pm On Feb 15, 2022
Something is wrong with black man

How can your ex boss be this mean

He isn't the one that own the firm
He isn't the one that is HR
He isn't the one that is paying the salary
He isn't the one that his salary is being deducted to pay yours


The black man is a terrible and funny person... The crab in barrel mentality is annoying... We have it

Look at the political space.. A man that is 80s is justling to be president to offer what actually. He should be at Old people home yet he wants it all...

The black man want to be the only one on top...

Funny lots

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by nairalee(m): 11:22pm On Feb 15, 2022
Now I understand why u had the ginger to blast am as you're related with the MD. Cheers bro. All's well that ends well
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by goodyvin02(m): 11:23pm On Feb 15, 2022
Na relationship save you, no be bobos

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Enemyofpeace: 11:23pm On Feb 15, 2022
osothermal:
similar situation i was, but after serious yelling at my boss, he started avoiding me and i had my peace
na so I take put fear for my boss in our office, today him dey fear me and even dey consult me on some issues. In Nigeria if you too gentle, dem go rubbish you like shiiiit

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by medropoly(m): 11:23pm On Feb 15, 2022
You did de best thing bro..
I too had faced such with my boss in office, though it wasn't my fault, it was just about three days to my pay day when the incident occurred, my boss was just yelling at me even in the present of customers, I endured it because he has been doing this to me, but dis time I couldn't bear it but to shout back at him and poured out my mind, then I took my bag and left the office damming the consequences and my salary...
Long story short... He letter called me to collect and pay and still invites me to the office to help him out anytime he is having difficulties.. wink

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Realdeals(m): 11:23pm On Feb 15, 2022
Well done, just like me. I'll have acted the same way you did if pushed to the brink.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by aminusodiq(m): 11:23pm On Feb 15, 2022
chigoziri2403:
To be candid, your personal relationship with the MD was what saved you

In a work place , there are processes to report an erring superior

You might not be lucky next time,if your next boss also have a personal relationship with the MD.
exactly my thoughts
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Enemyofpeace: 11:24pm On Feb 15, 2022
leofab:
cool
you just dey hungry me tonight
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by MoneyGoDrop: 11:24pm On Feb 15, 2022
What are you celebrating? You're a complete example of nepotism that is currently killing all sectors in the country. You should've told us about your "Personal relationship" with your MD from the onset because it clearly paints a clearer picture.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by aminusodiq(m): 11:25pm On Feb 15, 2022
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.


I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
pls donot try this at work... Especially if you don't have PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MD!
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by CXLVII: 11:25pm On Feb 15, 2022
You ordinarily should have been fired!

I don’t know why they are still retaining you.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Terrence99: 11:27pm On Feb 15, 2022
CXLVII:
You ordinarily should have been fired!

I don’t know why they are still retaining you.

Go and fire him.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by dewaskillz: 11:28pm On Feb 15, 2022
Though I am happy you were let off the hook but then your MD has just set a bad precedent by letting you go scot-free. You deserved some punishment too no matter how little because two wrongs don’t make it right.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Segzy19: 11:28pm On Feb 15, 2022
What have we learnt from this...?

To tell out at a frustrating boss instead of following the normal complain/grievance protocol?

To have personal relationship with out MDS/CEOs

I guess you are a lady and probably you probably have someone or another side business that you could fall on.

The work place is a place of shit. Money is made from shit at times.

Your personal relationship with your MD saved you. Infact, that's why you had the boldness to tell at your N+1 instead of following the normal rule

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Terrence99: 11:28pm On Feb 15, 2022
MoneyGoDrop:
What are you celebrating? You're a complete example of nepotism that is currently killing all sectors in the country. You should've told us about your "Personal relationship" with your MD from the onset because it clearly paints a clearer picture.

Stop talking nonsense. I doubt if you have ever worked in a properly structured organisation before.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by LikeAking: 11:29pm On Feb 15, 2022
Rubish!
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by poiZon: 11:29pm On Feb 15, 2022
WillyWonda1:


Man no be God.
Bros space dey for internship...

Though my mandatory and medicals don expire but i fit find money renew am.

Wouldnt mind if am given a 1yr trial without pay..
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by greggng: 11:30pm On Feb 15, 2022
I am happy for you . Just be prayer ful .the best thing in life is being your own boss. I don't like stress or negative vibes . So I am my own boss . Even though I ve one issues here and their with Internet rats but I don't take things seriously with them cos what you sow you reap. For sometimes now I hardly advertise My cars on nairaland cos of the activities of this Internet rats . The good news is that they made me strategise and found new avenues of marketing my cars ..digital market is real . I don't even waste my time on nairaland Internet rat. I thank them cos without their action ,I wouldn't have gotten the new opportunity I ve now . You guys will miss me on nairaland for a long time .I am cashing out somewhere else. God bless us all

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by osothermal(m): 11:31pm On Feb 15, 2022
Enemyofpeace:
na so I take put fear for my boss in our office, today him dey fear me and even dey consult me on some issues. In Nigeria if you too gentle, dem go rubbish you like shiiiit
I swear bro. The man surprised for the changing. He no expect at all. Since then see giving chance
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by chukwuibuipob: 11:33pm On Feb 15, 2022
cool singing* I have seen,seen the downfall of Satan.Glory be God,Glory be to Jesus.When I look at my right ,I see Satan has fallen
,When I look at my left,I see Satan has fallen.I have seen,seen the downfall of Satan.... Light fade. God will not sleep.Those who seek after Ur downfall will fall for Ur lifting
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by DoggoneDogg: 11:33pm On Feb 15, 2022
Now all your ex-boss' office allies will target you just to get back.
The ones he hired, protected, flirted with/bleeped, bought food for, gave rides home etc

Nigerians and herd mentality na 5 & 6

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by osothermal(m): 11:36pm On Feb 15, 2022
dewaskillz:
Though I am happy you were let off the hook but then your MD has just set a bad precedent by letting you go scot-free. You deserved some punishment too no matter how little because two wrongs don’t make it right.
He might be one of the best staffs there you know
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Chikarata2020(m): 11:37pm On Feb 15, 2022
Thank God u are in a good term with the MD. To loss job for this hard economy no be anyone's prayer
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by GuyWise101(m): 11:37pm On Feb 15, 2022
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I will advice you OP don't loose guard in what you eat and where you go.

People can go so lengthy to get back at you.

In phyno voice**just the moment ina eche na things has taken shape ka ndi imi ga esi ma akuku ka ha kpunye gi wave***

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by posty56: 11:37pm On Feb 15, 2022
yes! OP I was solidly behind you meanwhile ,stupid. people were there saying take sh*t, bro no take sh*t from anybody

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