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Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by frozen70(f): 5:10am On Feb 18, 2022
UGLYSALT:
Okay Our Daughter is 4 Months Now !!! ..... This Woman no wan Go !!!

Abi na 20k Pocket Money i dey Give her every Month for my House !!!

Please you Guys should tell me what to do !!!

She Came for OMUGWO oooooo .... Before you wake up in the morning , This woman don already.... ON DSTV Dey watch African Magic Showcase , With a Bottle For Cool Drink !!!

She No Wan Go Again !!!

I Don tell her Daughter and wetin my wife tell me is ..... "IF SHE GO NOW ..... HOW WILL I BE BATHING OUR BABY" ..... I Don tell her that I Can Bath Our Baby .... She is insisting that she must stay !!!

Here is WHERE The Problem dey ooooo , Read below.

Una know say .... them talk say if woman born , All her curves will come out .... I Think say na Joke oooo

As my wife Born Last 4 Months .... Chaiaa ... come see soft body and Curves ....

But do you know that her Mother Told her Not to Give me Kpekusss Untill Our Baby is 6 To 8 Months !!! .... SINCE THIS WOMAN Born . I NEVER NACK HER oooooooo , and she dey flaunt all those Curves for my Face !!!

Her Mother Can Give Advice for Africa , This woman will come to my room , KNOCK and ask me to come to the LIVING ROOM !!!
She will start Giving all those village advice !!!
weah dey vex me ..... Make i no dey keep friends , Make i dey drink 1 beer in a week , That i chop too much suya , That i should be going to Morning Mass (Church everyday) .

Biko am Tired , what should i do !!!

Invite your own mother, she needs to come over and rest and enjoy too
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by efficiencie(m): 4:35pm On Feb 18, 2022
UGLYSALT:
Okay Our Daughter is 4 Months Now !!! ..... This Woman no wan Go !!!

Abi na 20k Pocket Money i dey Give her every Month for my House !!!

Please you Guys should tell me what to do !!!

She Came for OMUGWO oooooo .... Before you wake up in the morning , This woman don already.... ON DSTV Dey watch African Magic Showcase , With a Bottle For Cool Drink !!!

She No Wan Go Again !!!

I Don tell her Daughter and wetin my wife tell me is ..... "IF SHE GO NOW ..... HOW WILL I BE BATHING OUR BABY" ..... I Don tell her that I Can Bath Our Baby .... She is insisting that she must stay !!!

Here is WHERE The Problem dey ooooo , Read below.

Una know say .... them talk say if woman born , All her curves will come out .... I Think say na Joke oooo

As my wife Born Last 4 Months .... Chaiaa ... come see soft body and Curves ....

But do you know that her Mother Told her Not to Give me Kpekusss Untill Our Baby is 6 To 8 Months !!! .... SINCE THIS WOMAN Born . I NEVER NACK HER oooooooo , and she dey flaunt all those Curves for my Face !!!

Her Mother Can Give Advice for Africa , This woman will come to my room , KNOCK and ask me to come to the LIVING ROOM !!!
She will start Giving all those village advice !!!
weah dey vex me ..... Make i no dey keep friends , Make i dey drink 1 beer in a week , That i chop too much suya , That i should be going to Morning Mass (Church everyday) .

Biko am Tired , what should i do !!!

You be boy boy. You are half a man. Foreigner come your territory come dey dictate law give you. It's either she goes back to her husband's house or she moves out with her daughter. Na another person dey dictate as you go take sleep with your wife. Mehn den don knack you something ohh. Consult the nearest deliverance minister.

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Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 11:27am On Feb 20, 2022
Mercychen:
This set of generation is the most disrespectful.

Mothers would come for Omugwo and stay at least six months in those days and the husband will be all respectful and thankful. Now, nobody wants our mothers to do their Omugwo as they wish in peace because of one nonsense or the other.

See how you mentioned her watching African magic as if she's a slave who has no right to do so.

Learn to show respect to elders so you too can get there.
Nobody stays for six months for omugwo anywhere. Any woman that does that is lazy and disrespectful to her family, husband and son in law. In most culture, an omugwo doesn't exceed 90days (3month at its best); anything more than this attract a fine from the community.

What would a sensible woman that has a family and husband be doing in her son in law's house for 6months ? she for kuku stay a year nah since it's all good.
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 11:31am On Feb 20, 2022
saphiere:
You are ungrateful.
he's not
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 11:35am On Feb 20, 2022
MPESA:



Hopefully you be American, British or Canadian citizen because this is our culture here in Africa.... What's there to debate if your mother-in-law is coming for Omugwuo which is normally six months to look after your wife and your new born baby.....
Abeg make we no dey form posh when we all na local..
Omugwo no de last 6months again o.
that it if it ever had. it's 3 months at most .
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 11:42am On Feb 20, 2022
DarkJeddi:
In which society does mothers stay 6 months for an Ọmụgwọ?

That is certainly not the case in Igboland..

You don't do an Ọmụgwọ as you please..

You do it within the confines of what the tradition dictates..

And nowhere does it dictate doing an Ọmụgwọ for 6 months..
abeg tell her o
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 11:54am On Feb 20, 2022
Skyview01:


Marry first and live with your mother in inlaw for 6 months. Its very easy to give opinions when you are not wearing the shoe.
At some point, i almost punched my MIL in the face.

My mom will not half of the shit my MIL triedin my house.

She will never stay in my house ever again.
Lol. please, run us the gist. what did you mother in law do that made to want to punch her
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MPESA(m): 12:12pm On Feb 20, 2022
MrMacinterchi1:

Omugwo no de last 6months again o.
that it if it ever had. it's 3 months at most .

FALSE.

it's all depends on individuals involved besides there's no specific time pegged to it.... Three ,four or six it's all depends on the people involved.
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 8:17pm On Feb 20, 2022
MPESA:


FALSE.

it's all depends on individuals involved besides there's no specific time pegged to it.... Three ,four or six it's all depends on the people involved.
I will leave you with your thoughts on this.
but know this, after 3months and you were not outrightly asked to stay to help out in one or two, you have no business staying beyond it.

Except if the person is jobless and had no regard to her husband of course.
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MPESA(m): 10:10pm On Feb 20, 2022
MrMacinterchi1:

I will leave you with your thoughts on this.
but know this, after 3months and you were not outrightly asked to stay to help out in one or two, you have no business staying beyond it.

Except if the person is jobless and had no regard to her husband of course.


Get your facts right before stating in public.
SHARON.
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by MrMacinterchi1: 11:47pm On Feb 20, 2022
MPESA:


Get your facts right before stating in public. SHARON.
Thanks for your input. meanwhile, it's better to be open to what is foreign to you. it doesn't hurt. #waves.
Re: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by DonroxyII: 3:57am On Feb 24, 2022
Proudlyomonna:
Leave the house for them before them kill you with frustration �.
Who never ready for mother in law wahala make he rest for marriage oo.
I don already tell my wife to be se I no get strength for stress,if you carry your family member come stress me I go leave house for una two�
I don't joke with my Mental health at all
I don't play with my peace of mind �
Aswear2God ... But Mama house for villa should also be equipped with State of Arts Digital sets at that she can watch what she wants !

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