Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

300whitewolves:
Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

Na guy man you be.
One of my friends once lost his grand mother and I went to the wake keep in company of my very good friend.
Normally, I would have slept over but my spirit was just kinda restless so, I had to leave.
On our way home, we stopped at a hotel and went straight to the bar to have a few more bottles of beer.
No sooner had we entered the bar than I saw my girlfriend with a guy, I laughed. My friend never understood what was going on; he never understood the reason I laughed. It took him up to 15 minutes to notice the presence of my girlfriend there.
When he noticed, he was like 'baba no be your babe be that? , what's she doing with a guy here at this ungodly hour?' and my response was simple 'my man no be my babe be that now, na another man babe she be'

The girl became restless as soon as she saw me, the guy in question even noticed her uneasiness so I had to give space . I being a guy man had to leave as soon as we had like two bottles of beer. My friend was marveled at my reaction.

We headed straight for home and I never dialed her number neither did I chat her up for four days till she called one afternoon and was like 'babe, the person you saw me that night with was my class rep, bla bla bla', I cut her off by telling her that the stories were unnecessary.


To cut the long story short, it helped me understand that she wasn't calm as she always portrayed herself to be. Don't ask me how I arrived at the conclusion. I ain't daft. What could a female be doing with a so-called rep at a hotel by some minutes after 12am?
It made me realise she's a player and I quickly put on my playing boots.


Your girlfriend still has an affection for her ex, alaye use your head before you start crying foul. Forget about the fact the she told you about the outing, some may claim that it's a sign of her being truthful to you, but to me, it has some underlying tones.

"come go......go cum"

She`s just too honest to tell you. 99% of nigeria girls wont tell their boyfriend. The heart of women are deep as the ocean.

300whitewolves:
Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

you gave her the perfect answer... the fact that she even considered going, thus asking you if that was ok, make this woman very suspicious. as any smart man knows, if that babe want to cheat, she will regardless of what you say/do.
she certainly has no respect for either YOU and/or the relatonship you guys have.

99% of girls in this modern age are sluts and shameless WHORĒS, that's why I don't pity them when some people use them to do rituals.

Useless generation.

Next week friday ask her same question, no offence.

300whitewolves:
Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

You answered her stupid question in a matured way, let her deal with her conscience

YinkaOlusesi16:
She`s just too honest to tell you. 99% of nigeria girls wont tell their boyfriend. The heart of women are deep as the ocean.

So telling the boyfriend makes it good??
... me I don’t like hungry girls that see every outing opportunity as a must...

She should know the ex wants something so why is she entertaining him...honesty doesn’t make it look good...it even make it look suspicious to me..

Dear op...... maybe she wasn't going anywhere......she might have asked to know what your reaction would be..
My thought

You answered the question correctly and naturedly OP ...

But I'm more interested in what you'll do if she goes out with her ex ...

Omo.. That your response is the Best

Favfables1:
You answered the question correctly and naturedly OP ...

But I'm more interested in what you'll do if she goes out with her ex ...

After she dropped the call I went on to attend to my patient, I later called her I didn't make mention of it nor did she, I guess play time has come we would continue to play eachother, won't even ask her whether she went or not cos to me now, she already went on the date

Chinehz:
Dear op...... maybe she wasn't going anywhere......she might have asked to know what your reaction would be..
My thought

So a hardworking man will be grinding his ass in the office seeing patients, trying to make some money and a so called girlfriend with so much freetime on her hands will think up something as stupid as that for what to happen? Why couldn't she think of something that would cheer the boyfriend up or something more reasonable.
As far as I know, this is a weak defence.

You gave her the best response OP.

Don't let her get too much access into your personal life ooooo, She aren't loyal and she won't hesitate to deny you for her Ex, She can go back to her Ex, so both of them can always have enough time to go out.

Kingkyle1:


So a hardworking man will be grinding his ass in the office seeing patients, trying to make some money and a so called girlfriend with so much freetime on her hands will think up something as stupid as that for what to happen? Why couldn't she think of something that would cheer the boyfriend up or something more reasonable.
As far as I know, this is a weak defence.

Hmmmm

Chinehz:

Hmmmm

Your earlier Defense was weak and you know it. You women will always try to Defend nonsense so long as Your fellow woman is involved.

Kingosytex:


Na guy man you be.
One of my friends once lost his grand mother and I went to the wake keep in company of my very good friend.
Normally, I would have slept over but my spirit was just kinda restless so, I had to leave.
On our way home, we stopped at a hotel and went straight to the bar to have a few more bottles of beer.
No sooner had we entered the bar than I saw my girlfriend with a guy, I laughed. My friend never understood what was going on; he never understood the reason I laughed. It took him up to 15 minutes to notice the presence of my girlfriend there.
When he noticed, he was like 'baba no be your babe be that? , what's she doing with a guy here at this ungodly hour?' and my response was simple 'my man no be my babe be that now, na another man babe she be'

The girl became restless as soon as she saw me, the guy in question even noticed her uneasiness and I had to give space . I being a guy man had to leave as soon as we had like two bottles of beer. My friend was marveled at my reaction.

We headed straight for home and I never dialed her number neither did I chat her up for four days till she called one afternoon and was like 'babe, the person you saw me that night with was my class rep, bla bla bla', I cut her off by telling her that the stories were unnecessary.


To cut the long story short, it helped me understand that she wasn't calm as she always portrayed herself to be. Don't ask me how I arrived at the conclusion. I ain't daft. What can a female be doing with a so-called rep at a hotel by some minutes after 12am?
It made me realise she's a player and I quickly put on my playing boots.


Your girlfriend still has an affection for her ex, alaye use your head before you start crying foul. Forget about the fact the she told you about the outing, some may claim that it's a sign of her being truthful to you, but to me, it has some underlying tones.

you do not need redpill the redpill needs you , men I love your reaction.

odinson1:

Your earlier Defense was weak and you know it. You women will always try to Defend nonsense so long as Your fellow woman is involved.

Bro calm down nau......
Wasn't defending her......was only assuming

my kinda reply, let her conscience tear her up. nigga your heart don strong since 1960 ah swear

300whitewolves:
Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

Always remember okafor s law ,but more importantly remember the great kwotes from legendary "mosdii"

FuckSilly:
99% of girls in this modern age are sluts and shameless WHORĒS, that's why I don't pity them when some people use them to do rituals.

Useless generation.

u dey vex pass mosdii..

Hoes Gon be hoes

She has gone on the lunch date already.. she just informed you stylishly to see how you'd react.

FuckSilly:
99% of girls in this modern age are sluts and shameless WHORĒS, that's why I don't pity them when some people use them to do rituals.

Useless generation.

Regardless of who they are, no one deserves to die in the hand of a ritualist. Where is your conscience?

Some girls are "girls" and play childish games to make their boyfriend jealous, so they could validate their ego. This silly girl could just be fishing for validation, and she'll learn that that's not *It*

You gave her the best response, you should now back off, and let her conscious deal with her.

You're in an awkward situation now because she might go out with this guy, and come back to you because the other guy only wants to sample the goods.

Only you know her, so she'll either get a free night out, and she'll respect herself, or she'll get used, and she'll come back.

Issokay!!!

300whitewolves:
Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

She is a liar and a cheat..
She only needs ur validation, reason she asked you..

300whitewolves:
Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.

You did well

Loll. Dame is trying to play a fast one. She OBVIOUSLY still likes the ex ex bf. I can deduce that ex ex bf is most probably well to do than yourself.

Now, she likes you no doubt and her conscience wouldn't free her to just go like that. Meanwhile she knows you are A very sweet, maybe too sweet and gentle bf that she can spew anything to. She actually gambled on you saying Yes.

What should your response be? That she could even asked you sef don fall our hand. It means your game ain't tight.

Work in it Bro. I no won talk more.

By the way, want a practical way to earn online? Check my siggy.

She could as well ask- can I go and screw my ex boyfriend?