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tydi:
A man identified as Maxwell Banzi, is currently trending on Facebook after he shared how he stopped himself from cheating on his wife with an old co-worker.

Man shares

According to him, the said co-worker contacted him on Facebook and revealed that she was interested in him and is willing to do anything to be in his life.

After receiving the message, Maxwell who was lying in bed beside his wife, said he thought about the lady’s proposal and concluded that his wife doesn’t deserve to be cheated on.

Read his full post below,

“As I was sleeping with my partner last night �I got a notification from fb. I stood up to check; it was a friend request from a lady. I decided to go through her profile to know who she is. Finally, I found out that it was my old time coworker.

I accepted her friend request and she sent me a massage “Hello” since I was still online. I replied “Hi, I heard you are in a serious relationship ” I responded, “Yes”. she said, “I used to have a huge crush on you and I was afraid to tell you but I’m not afraid anymore✋really love you and I’m willing to do whatever it takes just to be part of your life”.

Hmmm�I quickly closed the chat to make sure my partner was sleeping�and I just slid off the bed and sat my ass down and asked myself is this girl worth my time�.

I looked at my lovely wife , she was deeply sleeping after the busy and exhausting day she had from taking care of our son and chores. As I was still looking at her, something came into my mind. “This woman doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, look at how safe and comfortable she’s sleeping in our bed. She really trusts me so much that I can’t hurt her” I started thinking, ” she left her family, her caring mother and father, who at all times were providing almost everything she needed and her siblings who always brightened her day. But she decided to leave all that behind just to come and share her entire life with me. All these thoughts and more were driving me crazy. Then I asked myself, “how can I do this wickedness to this innocent woman?”

So I hurriedly picked up my phone and hit the “BLOCK” button.I turned to my lovely wife and I rolled over to the bed and cuddled her and she adjusted herself to accommodate me�♥️ I can’t afford to lose her trust or make her cry. Never!

I really hope my bond with my partner doesn’t break, I really love my Ayanda Chantell Mnyambo ❤️�”

See his post below,

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Reference:
What if he is senior special adviser to Vladimir Putin.... bla, bla.
Face the topic.
You know what this is all about, his marriage, his home, his family, so why the side slide..

Tzar:
I understand your anger towards women bashers. The man clearly said the woman is a good one outta the lot who doesn’t deserve to be cheated on. He didn’t marry a Jezebel (which most Nigerian women are) who made his life miserable daily.
I tell men to just be grateful if the Universe gave them a woman with low ‘witch vibe’. If you marry out of the many defective lot out there, you will understand where these men bashing women are coming from.
Most Benz users swear that it is the best automobile you can buy, but if you ever got a defective Benz you won’t even wanna touch it ever again with a 500m stick. Most men have very terrible experiences with Nigerian women, which they have been raised NOT to share, so they don’t look like nagging sissies. If men unlearn this bad and unhelpful predisposition & start sharing their stories like women do, you will understand the psychology behind their anger.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Here is a sensible man not the underage kids on nairaland who are still feeding from Mom's pot parading online as wannabe redpillers..
Bunch of weaklings..I hope these wannabe redpillers won't call him a simp since their brain is only glued to women bashing and unproductivity..
Appreciate and respect your partner then watch things go in order..
Blessing to all real men and women out there...as for the wannabe redpillers keep enjoying mom's rice and stew maybe when you folks grow up you will get back to your senses..
Modified: wannabe redpillers are still crying on my mention? these people are too insecured.. instead of the wannabe redpillers to appreciate this man they are blaming him and calling him names..it's really a pity that most boys on here ain't matured..

vikstandon:
The wife seems so respectful and responsive to her duties more reasons why the man gave a second thought.
Your type and where you place men may not be privileged for this.... CHANGE in 2022.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Here is a sensible man not the underage kids on nairaland who are still feeding from Mom's pot parading online as wannabe redpillers..
Bunch of weaklings..I hope these wannabe redpillers won't call him a simp since their brain is only glued to women bashing and unproductivity..
Appreciate and respect your partner then watch things go in order..
Blessing to all real men and women out there...as for the wannabe redpillers keep enjoying mom's rice and stew maybe when you folks grow up you will get back to your senses..
Modified: wannabe redpillers are still crying on my mention? these people are too insecured.. instead of the wannabe redpillers to appreciate this man they are blaming him and calling him names..it's really a pity that most boys on here ain't matured..

tctrills:
Your reply is as immature as the underage kills. Learn to be a bit more civil. You actually made some sense but you lack the right words. I believe that would come with maturity.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That's your problem deal with it..
Now slide off..

tctrills:
funny kid I am sure you blame your parents for not training you

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Now you left me confused..
Hope it ain't the person I am thinking of tho? pls tell me more..

BigCowH0rn:
Well, I'm trying to turn to a transgender.
Don't you think it's a wonderful idea?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Don't worry once they come online again I will add more for them..
They are just too petty to be called men..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I knew it was gonna be you..
It's great and are you serious about it?

BigCowH0rn:
I have a lot of them lying around.
Saying like 40 is an understatement seeing as i can't even remember many of them. Just ask your new pal Bored.Berry she's know me for years.. the king troublemaker in town.

I'm in retirement now though so wanna take NL quietly
I just need to figure out something that can't associated with my main so easily and yet cause certain people stomach ulcers each time they see it knowing who it really is.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Haha big king..
Hope you ain't targeting anyone this time tho?

BigCowH0rn:
Lol, I don't need to target anyone.

Wars on NL require lots of time which I don't have anymore
Satan and Berry are the new generation of trouble. And there you and Joan too.

You guys are funny and interesting in your own ways... I'll just watch.

ImaIma1:
You make it sound like the Nigerian men are saints, and the women are the condemned gender. Do you know the terrible experiences women have had with Nigerian guys? Do you know how many badly brought up, selfish, mean coconut heads Nigerian women have had to deal with?


It's because it is your gender so it is easier to remove the spec in the other gender's eye when you have a full log in yours.

When we point one finger, the other point right back at us. So use the same energy you use to condemn and castigate Nigerian women for Nigerian men too.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Here is a sensible man not the underage kids on nairaland who are still feeding from Mom's pot parading online as wannabe redpillers..
Bunch of weaklings..I hope these wannabe redpillers won't call him a simp since their brain is only glued to women bashing and unproductivity..
Appreciate and respect your partner then watch things go in order..
Blessing to all real men and women out there...as for the wannabe redpillers keep enjoying mom's rice and stew maybe when you folks grow up you will get back to your senses..
Modified: wannabe redpillers are still crying on my mention? these people are too insecured.. instead of the wannabe redpillers to appreciate this man they are blaming him and calling him names..it's really a pity that most boys on here ain't matured..

Jennyclay:
Shut up! Have she said anything bad?

Instead for you to learn from that man.

Community dick like you!!

bepositive11:
Very well said. All these men who cheat one their wives don't truly love and appreciate them