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stunnert:
BoredBerry, why do I feel this topic is somehow related to you personally, anyways it is well.

And I almost forgot, you don't have to reply to all the negative comments and trolls here, just ignore them and you'll be fine dear

Na wah.

teddybarz:
My BOredberry. .


Plz u re 18 . . U shudn't have been asking dix kinda questiOn. . . U shud be thinking HOw to be a Good WOman



BTW. . I Sent an email. . Plz reply me. . Happy Val Sweetheart . .

I just woke up! Good morning... I will

Happy Val!

I'm already a good woman...

teddybarz:
hey! Are u out of ur sense?


MAnners plz.

Are you mad?? Are you the she-bitch's defender/bodyguard?

blinking001:
Na wah.

bunch of stupid ass stickers everywhere.

Torquena:
bunch of stupid ass stickers everywhere.

Asinnnn, sometimes i just sit and ponder what's really wrong with this generation of men. Pussyfication is a terrible pandemic afterall.

blinking001:
Asinnnn, sometimes i just sit and ponder what's really wrong with this generation of men. Pussyfication is a terrible pandemic afterall.

Hand go touch dem soon, worry not. Experience is the best teacher bro.

Torquena:
Are you mad?? Are you the she-bitch's defender/bodyguard?

Hey! . . Be careful. .

Ya Quick to drop stales

Exkandayee:
You can never be a March baby,we don't reason like you,

Shift jare... I'm aries... Strong-willed, argumentative, adventurous, flirtatious, passionate, etc...

But I'm also sensitive... And it's trait too...

Somehow, everyone thinks we should be all fiery... And we are... But still...

Besides, our experiences shape us...

BoredBerry:
Shift jare... I'm aries... Strong-willed, argumentative, adventurous, flirtatious, passionate, etc...

But I'm also sensitive... And it's trait too...

Somehow, everyone thinks we should be all fiery... And we are... But still...

Besides, our experiences shape us...

You didn't include ugly

Exkandayee:
You didn't include ugly

You're mean...

But yes, I've I'm pitifully unattractive... Not that it matters, you're not interested... Or you are?

BoredBerry:
Yes...

It's weird how all my life, I've heard reasons for why my dad left my mum... Even though that wasn't exactly what happened...

But everyone seems to forget that he left me too... I'm his child, if I had been a thousand dollars cheque and my mum was the devil incarnate (she wasn't, he was the devil incarnate)... Would he have left? now I'm beginning to trace

Even for ₦100k... He would have stayed...

Pity how most of us raised by single mothers ain't worth that amount to our dads...

now I am beginning to trace where your frustration in this forum is coming from.

lalasticcala:
now I am beginning to trace where your frustration in this forum is coming from.

God! Let me guess, the account cloners?

What's your point?

BoredBerry:
Don't you feel stupid...

Imagine using such words on children who were abandoned by their adult fathers...

Most single mothers know the man who impregnated them, don't play dumb... The man also knows that he's responsible...

Only woman know which pikin be bastard

lalasticcala:
now I am beginning to trace where your frustration in this forum is coming from.

Lol. Na dem

stunnert:
BoredBerry, why do I feel this topic is somehow related to you personally, anyways it is well.

And I almost forgot, you don't have to reply to all the negative comments and trolls here, just ignore them and you'll be fine dear

Look no further bro, I can help

BoredBerry:
Yes...

It's weird how all my life, I've heard reasons for why my dad left my mum... Even though that wasn't exactly what happened...

But everyone seems to forget that he left me too... I'm his child, if I had been a thousand dollars cheque and my mum was the devil incarnate (she wasn't, he was the devil incarnate)... Would he have left?

Even for ₦100k... He would have stayed...

Pity how most of us raised by single mothers ain't worth that amount to our dads...

FERNANDEZISBACK:
It's ok Berry...let's not make you reminisce what ain't necessary..
Hope you are doing great today?

SIMP mode activated

BoredBerry:
You're mean...

But yes, I've I'm pitifully unattractive... Not that it matters, you're not interested... Or you are?

What's this one saying

Senomii:
Frogs are cute and don't look poisonous but a few of them are

You like fights and negative thoughts, you should've replaced stepmother in cinderella or the witch in snow white.......if you had to live with a cloned version of yourself, y'all would probably tear eachother apart

I also don't want kids, but I know my future self is just laughing hysterically at me

You don't want kids? You sure about that?

Braga90:
You don't want kids? You sure about that?

Surprisingly, yes

BoredBerry:
Another stupid comment...

I didn't tell you to marry them... I didnt even tell you to like them...

My point is simple: most of you redpillers tend to focus on the single mothers, ignoring the children... While you shame and persecute her, you delibrately forget that the actions of the man leaves lasting scars on his children... Or the children do not matter.


If they did... You would hold these deadbeat fathers accountable...

The way you love to point out the faults of single mothers, you would do the same with him...

the red pillers are the deadbeat fathers. You're preaching to the choir. They don't care. They only want to pump and dump and leave bastard children and bitter single mothers in their wake. Having fun and spending small small money on each coming generation of SS3 girls and jambites who will rub their stomach small.

By the time they are in their forties with pot belly, a receding hairline and their organ is misbehaving like an old car. The smart ones will quickly look for a girl to marry as a backup caretaker for when they fall Ill. They will need medication for hypertension and diabetes and to do a heart check before using Vega 100 to satisfy their wives

The ones who aren't lucky will continue to be balling till their 50s and 60s, but their bodies can't catch up with the fun they want to have. Many will not go for regular doctor's appointments, because they are still 30 at heart. By the time they have their first serious medical emergency(not malaria and typhoid), all their sugar babies will disappear and their drinking buddies will be scarce, before he starts remembering his bitter baby mama on his sick bed.


Na Their type dey die alone pass.

Please tell us "exactly why" you "believe" that a man that won't date a single mother should concern himself with her children?

If someone rejects you for a relationship, why is he expected to bother about the man who impregnated you and left or the result of the impregnation?

I'm fascinated by the entitlement that such a perspective reveals!

BoredBerry:
Another stupid comment...

I didn't tell you to marry them... I didnt even tell you to like them...

My point is simple: most of you redpillers tend to focus on the single mothers, ignoring the children... While you shame and persecute her, you delibrately forget that the actions of the man leaves lasting scars on his children... Or the children do not matter.


If they did... You would hold these deadbeat fathers accountable...

The way you love to point out the faults of single mothers, you would do the same with him...

BoredBerry:
Yes...

It's weird how all my life, I've heard reasons for why my dad left my mum... Even though that wasn't exactly what happened...

But everyone seems to forget that he left me too... I'm his child, if I had been a thousand dollars cheque and my mum was the devil incarnate (she wasn't, he was the devil incarnate)... Would he have left?

Even for ₦100k... He would have stayed...

Pity how most of us raised by single mothers ain't worth that amount to our dads...

Mystery behind the thread solved


Leaves thread*

SPAMBOX7:
Mystery behind the thread solved


Leaves thread*

Do I know you?

BoredBerry:
Do I know you?

You my biitch. Remember I dumped you so you joined NL to feminize

SPAMBOX7:
You my biitch. Remember I dumped you so you joined NL to feminize

Another psycho...

My bad luck... Kindly bleep off...

BoredBerry:
Typical... I didn't mention marriage, why do you keep bringing it up?

Did I suggest anywhere in my writeup that you should date a single mother? Most of you here are poor, young men who can't even feed themselves... I wouldn't curse any single mother with your kind...

Yes, on Nairaland... Y'all go about shaming them... You're not aware?

The same way you girls in this forum are quick to broke shame men.

Learn to live with it hun. The world is a tough place.

crismark:
The same way you girls in this forum are quick to broke shame men.

Learn to live with it hun. The world is a tough place.

After these women are slut-shamed... Seems fair... Thanks for your opinion...

BoredBerry:
Another psycho...

My bad luck... Kindly bleep off...

I won't doubt you

SPAMBOX7:
I won't doubt you

Leave me alone! Jeez...

Aren't you the one eyeing fair guys?

Bleep off... I ain't a man...

BoredBerry:
Leave me alone! Jeez...

Aren't you the one eyeing fair guys?

Bleep off... I ain't a man...

Woah you keeping tabs on me That's cute but I will pass

SPAMBOX7:
Woah you keeping tabs on me That's cute but I will pass

Nope... Checked your profile...

Prey on someone else... I ain't a man... If I were, I wouldn't be gay...

BoredBerry:
Nope... Checked your profile...

Prey on someone else... I ain't a man... If I were, I wouldn't be gay...

Why would you check my profile?
Stalker

the male species finds fulfillment in taking care of their offspring.
it is a fact that there are irresponsible men but before a man leaves his offspring it takes very difficult circumstances.
And in every breakdown of a relationship, the children are the innocent victims because they did not ask to be brought into the problematic circumstances.
I know a friend from the university that had issues with his marriage. I made a stop over in his city to help resolve the issue.
I tried to intervene and help resolve the problem. I ended up pleading with him to forgive his wife and make the marriage work even for the sake of the kids.
After speaking with him, he started crying and asked me why I was pleading with him without considering his own pains.
He told me all the issues he had been facing. How his wife had been going diabolical against him and how she stole a hefty sum of money in forex belonging to his boss and used it to buy properties in Abuja and other places. he almost lost his job, etc.
then he told me how he had decided to leave his wife and the kids to live alone elsewhere in the same city.
He told me something when I insisted on him staying in the marriage for his kids. He tearfully looked at me and said: Bros i love my kids. I live for my kids but I will not die for them. Because If I die, who will love them and take care of them?"
He said I will try to stay alive for them.
today, he is separated from his wife and he has found another wife. He is happy but he keeps calling to tell me how the failure of his marriage is his greatest regret and pain.
So yes, the kids suffer in a broken marriage but sometimes it is a difficult choice to remain alive and love them from afar.

BoredBerry:
Yes...

It's weird how all my life, I've heard reasons for why my dad left my mum... Even though that wasn't exactly what happened...

But everyone seems to forget that he left me too... I'm his child, if I had been a thousand dollars cheque and my mum was the devil incarnate (she wasn't, he was the devil incarnate)... Would he have left?

Even for ₦100k... He would have stayed...

Pity how most of us raised by single mothers ain't worth that amount to our dads...

BoredBerry:
After these women are slut-shamed... Seems fair... Thanks for your opinion...

I feel you are passing through alot.

Are you depressed?(no insult intended)