donborg:
Why don't you advise the OP to join Elegbe omo instead, Mr Bible scholar

Why would I need to acknowledge that delusion of yours?

The 4 different places you went to confirm from still none of them could give you remedy. But you still remit to them with the little you have... See going to fetish places to look for help, they will inflict you with their fetish things that will always make you believe whatever they told you at any given time.
NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOUR WIFE. I GUESSED YOU ARE THE PROBLEM TO YOURSELF BRO. JUST FREE YOUR MIND AND ADD YO UR HUSTLING AND PRAY TO GOD...YOU WILL SEE THINGS MOVING...

I have an easy way out. PROVOKE THE WITCHES AMD THEIR gods . Since they hate you having sex with your wife , Make it a habit , Bleep HER MORE . TRY 3 TIMES DAILY DEM SEF GO TIRE.

nwajesus12:
I pity you if you believe that your wife is the cause of your financial woes, I advise you to look for other things to venture into, networking doesn't really pay much and if you are really good in that, YouCan learn affiliate marketing. The world is now digital, desist from antiquated ways of thinking. It is not as if you had millions before you met her, it is just that your financial responsibility increased, rather than finding ways to increase income, you went on a voyage of sorcery consultations

thanks for telling him the truth. some people and their way of thinking nawa wo.

Young man! Here is your problem just like most Yorubas. Lack of understanding of yoruba spirituality. The same woman you are thinking is "doing" you, can also be the one to uplift you. Problem.is that you are going to the wrong people. Go to a genuine Babalawo or Ifa priest. There are times those Egbe attached to your wife may have issue with you as the husband. The best place to get advice is not on Nairaland. Go to a Babalawo. If you don't know the meaning of the word Babalawo due to foreign religion influence, it mean "Father of mystery". Most Yoruba don't know what Olodumare has given us. We are custodian of the most sacred and deepest spiritual knowledge on the face of this earth. And we are either neglecting it or misusing it. May Olodumare give you wisdom to navigate this issue. And just to enlighten you. All humans come into this world with an Egbe. They are mostly spiritual guides. But it depend on the pact your woman made with her Egbe in the spirit world prior to her birth into this world. Because you don't see or experience them doesn't mean they do not exist.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

The only thing I'm going to ask you is.. did you perform the marital rites on her or are you two just cohabitating without being properly married?

Where did they see the vision and where did you go for prayers? Hope it's not in a white garment Church though.

Well If your answer to my first question is yes, then that ( living together without Marriage ) could be the cause of the setbacks. But if youre properly married, then relax and believe that God will make things beautiful very soon; especially since you've prayed about it.

Needadvice200:


Thanks bro am a Christian but right now am in a state of unknown.

I see, you are a Christian. Obviously because of this, you will not do what you are supposed to do. Foreign religion has been used to turn the lives of most Yorubas upside down.

Mercychen:



The only thing I'm going to ask you is.. did you perform the marital rites on her or are you two just cohabitating without being properly married?

Where did they see the vision and where did you go for prayers? Hope it's not in a white garment Church though.

Well If your answer to my first question is yes, then that ( living together without Marriage ) could be the cause of the setbacks. But if youre properly married, then relax and believe that God will make things beautiful very soon; especially since you've prayed about it.

Blind faith. God will not come down to earth to make things beautiful for any humans. He has already provided us with all the tools, guide and knowledge we need. We human beings think too much of ourselves.

Ofiadiegwu:


Please Nairalanders, can this be real?

I need to be sure this is possible in real life .

What I know is that whenever a person is in financial difficulty, he thinks of many things and may blame wife, children, servants, neighbors, landlord, rodents, pets animals, parents, siblings, village people, government,...

I also know that when a person is poor or peniless: there is one or more thing that person can do to break away from the shackles of extreme poverty.
The task therefore is for such person to find that ONE OR MORE THING(S) AND DO IT.

OP, your task is to rise up from where you're now and do something different.

I recommend that you:
Wake up earlier from now on,
Think positive thoughts more,
Talk to positive people often,
Read motivational books as if your life depends on it.

More importantly, pray with your spouse without ceasing, agreeing together.

Don't see your God-given wife as your problem. That's wrong.

Be ready to work more than one job in a day. Do two or more jobs (even menial jobs). Let your source of income be more than one and don't put a boundary or limit to the jobs or duration of time you use working. No odd hours for you, except for security reasons..

Do these and see change in your finances.

Your advice is logical but it still might not be enough. The guy could adopt this approach but he will still need to take other steps. Because if he doesn't, the problem may still persist. It's sad that most of us are walking this world blind. It's even sadder if the individual is Yoruba. All the tools are there for him.

[Please sir,did you work in oil company before or after marrying ur wife,after being fired from Zenith?

I don't understand.you know many of us here, especially me like to learn from our elders, experienced people.


quote author=Vadese1 post=110553896]Pray you don't encounter problem of life. The young man story is even better compare to my own situation. There is nothing lazy over there . I saw life at a very young age. I worked with some of the biggest oil and gas services company both in Nigeria and different parts of the world. I received thousands of dollars in a month. I have one of the best profession in the oil and gas sector, but for the past 7 years now, my life have never remain the same. The young man story was like he is telling my own story. The only different is that I have seen life at a very bigger stage. Ask anyone who is a completions Engineer, who works international with companies like Weatherford or BakerHughes , how much is there monthly package, you will understand the world am coming from. So don't assume the young man is lazy. The world is full of misery. Before I joined the oil and gas sector, I spent some little time with Zenith Bank far back 2007, but I got fired immediately I came back from my wife introductory marriage. It took me two years to get another job. Is a long story, but don't assume he is lazy


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ajl:


Your advice is logical but it still might not be enough. The guy could adopt this approach but he will still need to take other steps. Because if he doesn't, the problem may still persist. It's sad that most of us are walking this world blind. It's even sadder if the individual is Yoruba. All the tools are there for him.

Multi-approach is better

Needadvice200:


Thanks bro am a Christian but right now am in a state of unknown.

You said you want to leave her... Now let me ask you a question..

How will you feel if after you leave her she finds a man who is ready to see her being freed and together they find a permanent solution and she's eventually healed? As a result, things began to go from good to better then best for them!

If you truly love her as you claim...My advise is that you be that man for her, together you both should find a solution and I can assure you that the reverse would be the case. Because that's usually the outcome after a successful deliverance

You're welcome!!

Attend the weekly deliverance programmes of MFM at the Prayer City with her.

Then, considered your problems are over.

The prayer points are not for lazy men, pls be prepared before you attend.

Needadvice200:



Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted

Go with her to mfm for deliverance

nnamdiosu:
Go with her to mfm for deliverance

Is your MFM any different from the white garment churches others are suggesting?,

Take her to prayer city at mfm and for spiritual deliverance and cleansing, it's free just that u have to get a chalet and go with bucket and towel, tooth paste and stuff for ur personal use.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg dead that nonsense abeg! There is nothing spiritual of what you all claim. All of what the OP described is psychological.

If he had maybe stated that his sickness was spiritual, he would have immediately gotten my attention since we learn from Jesus Christ that sicknesses can be of spiritual origin. But instead, OP is here attempting to blame his wife for his poor business deals and what not.

Chai ! I pity you. Even the fellows you WANNABE know that you need mercy. May God keep you free from what many people go through. Reason; you are too weak to understand

You are sick and need a checkup if you believe all those evil forces bla bla nonsense

Shiloh

She has to be genuinely born again

Lightorder:
Chai ! I pity you. Even the fellows you WANNABE know that you need mercy. May God keep you free from what many people go through. Reason; you are too weak to understand

You need your prayers more than I do.

You seem God already exposed me to enough to make me realize at this point in time that the human mind is powerful enough to not only play games with one but also severely screw with one's reality it one is not careful and able to withstand it.

I didn't fall for what the conmen tried to feed me so, on the contrary, I am not weak at all and I have understanding beyond my years, thanks to all I have experienced as a result of not being able to rightly question everything that was laid before me.

God will not keep you or anyone from these tests. He instead expects you to rise above the usual to show yourself worthy of the understanding He can give. If you doubt it. Read what He said in Matthew 13 vs 10 - 17 and Mark 4 vs 22 - 28. Only those who use the understanding they are given will rise to receive more understanding from God. Those who refuse but instead let the lies swallow them up will have even the little understanding they had taken away from them.

Look around you to see the droves blinded by lies and deceit fed them by conmen and mogs pretending to be of God.

Then stop having sex with her completely, never ever again.

Needadvice200:



Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted

i want to be very honest with you.
1. Numbers 30: 1-9
vs 6 - 8" if indeed she takes a husband while bound by her vows or by a rash utterance from her lips by which she bound herself and her husband hears it and makes no response to her on the day he hears it, then her vows shall standard her agreement by which she bound herself shall stand. But if her husband overrules her on the day that he hears it, he shall make void her vows which she took and what she uttered with her lips by which she bound herself and the Lord will release her"
first I will like to say that you are lucky she is with you on this. that is she does not like what she is going through. You as a husband have an authority that you do not know. You heard about her case and did not renounce it and that's why you have become a victim. if you read that passage very well you will see that it is the Lord that will release her after you have rejected her vows on her behalf.
Talking about deliverance, there cannot be any permanent deliverance if a man has no personal relationship with Christ, and am speaking from personal experience. did you not know that Jesus himself said that if you cast out a demon, it goes around and later comes back to its original abode to see if it is clean so that it can repossess the person and it comes back with seven stronger demons and the persons new state becomes worse than the first? that is why people keep going for deliverance and have nothing to show for it.
Your deliverance will come when you begin to have a personal walk with God and no other way out. if you like looking for the best man of God, you won't be helped. what you need is a personal walk with God, being committed to His word and doing it, not primarily because of the problem but because of Christ and who He is. What if I tell you that everything you have gone through is God trying to draw you to himself.
Now my big question is, ARE YOU BORN AGAIN? if you are not, that's where to start from as you can be going to church but not know the God of the church, you can't be trying to run away from satan if you and your wife are still his children, it will not work. It is after this that you can then claim God promises for your life and you won't even need any deliverance session for it.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

after4:
i want to be very honest with you.
1. Numbers 30: 1-9
vs 6 - 8"...


first I will like to say that you are lucky she is with you on this. that is she does not like what she is going through. You as a husband have an authority that you do not know. You heard about her case and did not renounce it and that's why you have become a victim. if you read that passage very well you will see that it is the Lord that will release her after you have rejected her vows on her behalf.
Talking about deliverance, there cannot be any permanent deliverance if a man has no personal relationship with Christ, and am speaking from personal experience. did you not know that Jesus himself said that if you cast out a demon, it goes around and later comes back to its original abode to see if it is clean so that it can repossess the person and it comes back with seven stronger demons and the persons new state becomes worse than the first? that is why people keep going for deliverance and have nothing to show for it.
Your deliverance will come when you begin to have a personal walk with God and no other way out. if you like looking for the best man of God, you won't be helped. what you need is a personal walk with God, being committed to His word and doing it, not primarily because of the problem but because of Christ and who He is. What if I tell you that everything you have gone through is God trying to draw you to himself.
Now my big question is, ARE YOU BORN AGAIN? if you are not, that's where to start from as you can be going to church but not know the God of the church, you can't be trying to run away from satan if you and your wife are still his children, it will not work. It is after this that you can then claim God promises for your life and you won't even need any deliverance session for it.

All you have done here is tell him lies in the name of God, no different from the lies told him by his pastors and mediums.

Starting with your quote from the book of Numbers which absolutely nothing to do with anyone who is a gentile and/or has anything to do with Jesus Christ , this primarily since God Himself excluded gentiles who reside in gentile nations from participating and benefiting from that Covenant- Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20

Jesus Christ came to redeem those who are tired of living under the burden of the world and God's curse - Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 - they are those who benefit from the redemption that is he, and not people were OP currently is in his life. Don't shove Jesus Christ at people thinking you score with God for doing so. No such thing happens.

JUBILEE2000:
@op, who was Abram before God called him? Abram was deep into idol worship. In fact he was born into idolatry yet God looked beyond him and his foundation and called him out. God made him Abraham and father of many nations! Don't ever listen to pastors or preachers who do not understand who God is. Don't allow your mindset about your wife and marriage to be twisted by them. Mind you, the Bible did not record that Abram fasted and prayed before God met him. There's a dimension of God's grace and love we are yet to comprehend as Christians. God loves your wife! That same God has the capacity to prepare a table for you in the presence of those enemies you are scared of. He will also anoint you and make your cup to run over irrespective of who you think your wife is! Mary Magdalen had seven demons yet she became God's vessel and the first witness of the resurrection of our Lord. I can go on and on. Your wife is not the problem but your mindset is! Change your mindset and begin to speak positive and creative words over your wife, family and business. You will marvel at the wonders that will follow. Shalom

I responded to your email do revert

Kobojunkie:

Acknowledge what? Pray against what? Look, either you believe Jesus Christ is who He said He is and has done what He claims He has done for you or you don't. It is that simple.

Col 4:2
"Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving."

Being watchful means being alert. Peter instructs Christians to be alert for their enemy, the devil prowls around seeking whom he might devour.

Being watchful and alert over your soul and spiritual things is not a cause for doubt over your standing with Christ; it is wisdom for a world of tribulations and dangers to your soul.

It means acknowledging evil abounds, awareness of principalities and powers but trusting that God the omnipotent, has power over them.

So for you to say with certainty, that there are no spiritual issues with OP's wife is wrong.
Mayb not, maybe there is.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

You are a failure!

ArcFresky:

Col 4:2
"Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving."

Being watchful means being alert. Peter instructs Christians to be alert for their enemy, the devil prowls around seeking whom he might devour.

Being watchful and alert over your soul and spiritual things is not a cause for doubt over your standing with Christ; it is wisdom for a world of tribulations and dangers to your soul.

It means acknowledging evil abounds, awareness of principalities and powers but trusting that God the omnipotent, has power over them.

So for you to say with certainty, that there are no spiritual issues with OP's wife is wrong.
Mayb not, maybe there is.

I showed you Jesus Christ's, God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, own commandments to us regarding what we are to watch and pray for. But instead you chose to pull a vague verse from one of Paul's letters only to then proceed to insert your own opinion - lie - as explaination, ignoring God's commandment which depicts as sin any attempts at adding the doctrines and traditions of men(lies) to His Word in any way - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 ?

Repent from this wickedness!

Same thing is happening to me as well cause I noticed the moment I had sex with her I have been broke for like 6 month and now I'm begging to survive and when she told me she belong to such a group u said ur wife is too I was scared but also scared to break up to avoid worse happening to me

Johnaro:
Same thing is happening to me as well cause I noticed the moment I had sex with her I have been broke for like 6 month and now I'm begging to survive and when she told me she belong to such a group u said ur wife is too I was scared but also scared to break up to avoid worse happening to me

How much do you make salary wise?