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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Lekan239(m): 1:58pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
An 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Munzy14(m): 1:58pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
worldclass68:ewee this one can pain. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Lifewasgood: 1:59pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Sammy101111: Abeg nor vex but nothing concern me if you call her 29x a day nor of my business just no girl deserves to be called 4xs a day except business or emergency 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Mariangeles(f): 2:00pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Anobella: She was only unwise to have made herself too available to you. People like you usually lose good friends out of foolishness and pettiness. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:03pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
omoiyamayor:Good afternoon, as beautiful as what you wrote, challenging everything you don't agree with is a little be questionable. Trust me, you can't see everything nor understand everything today. There are some things that you will later understand why things were done that way. So, to avoid too many errors due to our limitations of what we can see now. It better you over look many things and let them be. Peace. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:05pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Emotion... You don't actually knows what transpired between them 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Aidejay(m): 2:06pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
It's the doing unto others that you'll never want them to do back to you. |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Mariangeles(f): 2:10pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
zyzxx: Whatever happened, she tried to reach out. Do not do to someone who cares about you what you would not want someone you care about to do to you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:12pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
danietohbadt:Haha 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:13pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
MAGG0T:Bad boy |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by pseudonomer: 2:14pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
doggedfighter: I ghost people a lot, you are an adult, you know what you did. I don’t have another energy to waste on explaining what you did, and hurt myself again. You hurt me, I leave without explanations. My mental health is more important. I always wish anyone I ghosted the best, and always happy to see them do better, but just forget I existed. And, if anyone choose to ghost me, I’ll always understand. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by NiceMen: 2:14pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
cornerstonee:Yes, it is. I have never experienced it before until recently. What I did? I went head on to confront her an told her I can help her destroy everything so that it dies. I no get time for body language... As last count sha, i sent the picture she voluntarily sent to me a year ago. and told her thats the only one left on my device. She then proudly ask why I haven't deleted them... I told her that i have deleted others since... but this last one was sent to me by Google.. omo, she no fit talk o. She didn't expect that... I did my best to devalue her though as well as telling her to delete all my numbers but she refused to delete it. At least, now she knows the reason I don't communicate with her is because of her attitude towards me cos I made it clear. I no get time for hide and seek. I go confront you and move on. When someone ghost you after drawing close to you, you devalue them 10 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:14pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
goshikid:Wow what a real niggar 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:15pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:some people are "USERS" they reach out to you just to use you. Best way to protect your sanity is to avoid them. Nevertheless, I actually agree with you. There are some characters that make us humans. Finding pleasure in other people's pain is inhuman. He should have open up for conversation, the lady actually tried reaching out. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by gentleguy1975: 2:20pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
doggedfighter:sometimes, it is hard to tell a lady that one is no longer interested hence, decision to lock up, it's not as if I am justifying it though 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:21pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Anobella:Another real niggar like me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by donhils: 2:23pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
The way Virgil Van Dijk ghosted Antonio Rudiger on Sunday in that Carabao cup final, it was epic
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by phemmyfour: 2:29pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
cornerstonee:I do it a lot. The ghostee understand the massage better |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Mariangeles(f): 2:29pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
zyzxx: I always say respect the heart that cares for you. Do not take those who care for you for granted. You will not care about everyone that will care about you, just as not everyone you care about will care about you. Just respect people’s feelings. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by phemmyfour: 2:32pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It's not rejection. Ghosting is a sudden non communication between you and someone that used to be your close pals 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by meeketta: 2:35pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
MAGG0T:E go shock you when time come. |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by zyzxx(m): 2:37pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Apt! Rightly said. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bepositive11: 2:38pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
It's very unhealthy. All that passive aggressive nonsense Tallesty1: |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Yxxx: 2:44pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Rebound is the worst. When someone use you for backup in breakup and you don't know. Experienced it once...so terrible. The person wanted to resume again. I wan am o to back off. Treat people nice especially if they came clean. 17 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bepositive11: 2:45pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
I agree. It's a form of disrespect and it hurts especially when it's from someone we genuinely care about because it's also an indirect form of rejection, neglect, and abandonment I always say that when we spot people like these, we need to hear their stories to know where they learned it from Sometimes, their parents did it to them or their friends did it to them or a colleague did it to them and so on Personally, I think the best thing to do is: - if it's a person you genuinely care about, let them know that them ghosting you is hurting you. If they keep doing it, cut them out of your life and never look back - if they try to change their ways and stop ghosting you and improve their communication with you, forgive them and keep them in your life - if it's a stranger not worth your time, just cut them off I hope you find this informative. And thanks for bringing up this interesting topic for discussion cornerstonee: 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bepositive11: 2:48pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Yes, it's an indirect form of rejection. Also a form of neglect and abandonment. When people we genuinely care about do it to us, it becomes a form of emotional and psychological abuse. It can deeply wound us and even bring down our self esteem. Very toxic behavior in close relationships 11 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bepositive11: 2:50pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
worldclass68: She's lucky that you cut her off. You're a toxic person since you enjoy hurting other people 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Father4all: 2:51pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Descottes:what is ghosting sef? |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Emmymarvel(m): 2:56pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
This actually not ghosting............Ghosting is you complete dissappearing from someone you were vibing with well, without any explanation giving and kept them wondering what they did wrong. Vinnie2000: 10 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Dagger111(m): 2:58pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Sammy101111: People still dey flash this days? |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by blaze2121(m): 3:02pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
This is because you never truly know why the person just went quiet 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Lewisdinho(m): 3:05pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Exactly Double0h7: 4 Likes |
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