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If we like him we want him to stay with us for all eternity, if possible, don't we? Assuming that you really like him and you think that you could have a future together how do you decipher if he sees a future with you?

1. Speech! When he talks about his future and you are part of it so that it's 'we should visit Jamaica next summer' and not 'I think I will go to Jamaica next summer'. For many men this is unconscious as they simply see you as part of their future and this comes out in their speech.

2. Future decisions. They want your input into decisions that are in the future such as 'should we go kayaking next year' etc. If he wants your input into future joint activities then clearly he sees you in that future.

3. His close friends. If he goes out his way to ensure that you and his close friends get along then take note. If he sees a future with you then it's really important to him that you and those closest to him get along as you are both an important part of his future.

4. Takes cares of you. You will feel cared for and he will help you out when he can; and he will do nice special or thoughtful things for you occasionally. He cares about you as he is attentive and caring not just initially but as part of who he is to you. He will be interested in what you say and you will feel listened to.

5. He is fully engaged in the relationship. He is an integral part of your life and he knows what is happening in your life and days. He is privy to the details of what is happening in the background of your life. And he shares insights and things he saw or heard during his day and just had to share with you.

6. Tries to make you happy. He does what he can to ensure that you are happy in life and he does what he can to help you along. He will give you a ride when you need it or make you a hot meal when he knows you have been too busy to cook or whatever will make your life that much easier.

7. Doesn't avoid you during your off days. A man who sees a future with you will stick with you through sick and sin literally. He will not avoid you when you are unwell or under the weather. He will visit and be around you even on these days as he realizes that a future with you will include you in all your different states. If he avoids you when you are unwell or going through a bad time then he is selfish and either doesn't see a future with you or expects you to cope without him during such moments in your future. A relationship that may not be what you had in mind.

A man who sees a future with you will value you and will treat you as precious and you will know it if you see these 7 signs. A man who treats you in a contrary manner does not see a future with you or in some cases he just has not come to the realization that you could be more than a short term fling.

kellylacey:
If we like him we want him to stay with us for all eternity, if possible, don't we? Assuming that you really like him and you think that you could have a future together how do you decipher if he sees a future with you?

1. Speech! When he talks about his future and you are part of it so that it's 'we should visit Jamaica next summer' and not 'I think I will go to Jamaica next summer'. For many men this is unconscious as they simply see you as part of their future and this comes out in their speech.

2. Future decisions. They want your input into decisions that are in the future such as 'should we go kayaking next year' etc. If he wants your input into future joint activities then clearly he sees you in that future.

3. His close friends. If he goes out his way to ensure that you and his close friends get along then take note. If he sees a future with you then it's really important to him that you and those closest to him get along as you are both an important part of his future.

4. Takes cares of you. You will feel cared for and he will help you out when he can; and he will do nice special or thoughtful things for you occasionally. He cares about you as he is attentive and caring not just initially but as part of who he is to you. He will be interested in what you say and you will feel listened to.

5. He is fully engaged in the relationship. He is an integral part of your life and he knows what is happening in your life and days. He is privy to the details of what is happening in the background of your life. And he shares insights and things he saw or heard during his day and just had to share with you.

6. Tries to make you happy. He does what he can to ensure that you are happy in life and he does what he can to help you along. He will give you a ride when you need it or make you a hot meal when he knows you have been too busy to cook or whatever will make your life that much easier.

7. Doesn't avoid you during your off days. A man who sees a future with you will stick with you through sick and sin literally. He will not avoid you when you are unwell or under the weather. He will visit and be around you even on these days as he realizes that a future with you will include you in all your different states. If he avoids you when you are unwell or going through a bad time then he is selfish and either doesn't see a future with you or expects you to cope without him during such moments in your future. A relationship that may not be what you had in mind.

A man who sees a future with you will value you and will treat you as precious and you will know it if you see these 7 signs. A man who treats you in a contrary manner does not see a future with you or in some cases he just has not come to the realization that you could be more than a short term fling.

OP nothing tangible or valuable in all the points you stated, it's all about cruise and cruise and cruise. You didn't mention about building business, skills, acquiring properties together or praying together( having relationship with God) etc,

All you care about are vacation, chop life gang etc...

You are on your own.

If I love someone and want a future with her, I won't do those things you mentioned, rather I will add value to her life.

kellylacey:
If we like him we want him to stay with us for all eternity, if possible, don't we? Assuming that you really like him and you think that you could have a future together how do you decipher if he sees a future with you?

1. Speech! When he talks about his future and you are part of it so that it's 'we should visit Jamaica next summer' and not 'I think I will go to Jamaica next summer'. For many men this is unconscious as they simply see you as part of their future and this comes out in their speech.

2. Future decisions. They want your input into decisions that are in the future such as 'should we go kayaking next year' etc. If he wants your input into future joint activities then clearly he sees you in that future.

3. His close friends. If he goes out his way to ensure that you and his close friends get along then take note. If he sees a future with you then it's really important to him that you and those closest to him get along as you are both an important part of his future.

4. Takes cares of you. You will feel cared for and he will help you out when he can; and he will do nice special or thoughtful things for you occasionally. He cares about you as he is attentive and caring not just initially but as part of who he is to you. He will be interested in what you say and you will feel listened to.

5. He is fully engaged in the relationship. He is an integral part of your life and he knows what is happening in your life and days. He is privy to the details of what is happening in the background of your life. And he shares insights and things he saw or heard during his day and just had to share with you.

6. Tries to make you happy. He does what he can to ensure that you are happy in life and he does what he can to help you along. He will give you a ride when you need it or make you a hot meal when he knows you have been too busy to cook or whatever will make your life that much easier.

7. Doesn't avoid you during your off days. A man who sees a future with you will stick with you through sick and sin literally. He will not avoid you when you are unwell or under the weather. He will visit and be around you even on these days as he realizes that a future with you will include you in all your different states. If he avoids you when you are unwell or going through a bad time then he is selfish and either doesn't see a future with you or expects you to cope without him during such moments in your future. A relationship that may not be what you had in mind.

A man who sees a future with you will value you and will treat you as precious and you will know it if you see these 7 signs. A man who treats you in a contrary manner does not see a future with you or in some cases he just has not come to the realization that you could be more than a short term fling.

inspiring

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all these ones no dey work again...he go even do pass this BT the ticket go still cut after one mama for jand promise am green card to marry n stay with am for jand..