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Lazenby007:
Bro,deep down in you,if you know you aren't financially stable; I don't mean having millions but atleast to provide her daily and basic needs,pls let her go. Her mother only wants to put pressure on you so as to hurrily arrange a wedding. Bro,you can hurrily raise money and do a wedding but you can never hurrily raise money to keep a marriage.

Don't be deceived,love Is not all and will never be all to keep a marriage. MONEY makes love beautiful in a marriage. Where there is no money ,love becomes so ugly.

I know there are people who are poor and are keeping their marriages. You go find out very well. The women are enduring and paying huge sacrifices.

Bro,no woman wan suffer again this present days.

Use your head.

Ojukwu007:
...FORNICATION IS SIN. IT HINDERS DIVINE BLESSINGS ON A NORM.

thesicilian:
Normal scope. A typical businessman will tell you that there are many people waiting to pay for the product you're pricing and it's first come first serve. That shouldn't stop you from looking well before you leap.

Ojukwu007:
Money matters a lot but it's not everything. He must not let her go. If they truly love each other, they can pull through this difficult times together and even come out more financially stable.

Is that how we should all terminate relationships because of lack of affluence? People grow!!. Besides no one will ever force him into marriage, he is a grown man with relatives too.

Young man, keep at your hustle, believe in God...E go pay one day. Nurture your newly rekindled love, build good communication with her and be as open as possible, if she loves you too, she would definitely wait. Most comfortable marriages today did not start on a bed of roses.

Rome wasn't built in a day either!!

One love!! Papi.

Lazenby007:
Your opinion and well said. Pertaining the hustle,surely it will pay one day as long as he remained focused.

You said if she loves him too,she would definitely wait for him. But did you read what the young man said the girlfriend's mum said. She said, ' time waits for no one and that other suitors are coming'.

I am not against building marriages together in difficult times. But even the mother-in-law to be is ruining faster than the bride to be.

You have spoken well.

Agbebakun22:
lol really all these wan una dey yarn dust, i'm nt longer blinded with such teachings. Most our unmarried celebrities and footballers dey fornicate and blessings no run frm dem

Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you

Ojukwu007:
Chai bros None is righteous, not even one... but it still doesn't justify SIN.

Godly ways has its blessings. Do you know how many celebrities get into serious trouble on a daily?

SIN is SIN, there is no justification!!! No be say I holy ooo

Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

Agbebakun22:
nobody dey force u to fornicate abeg free us weh dey fornicate .we no kill person, last time i check hellfaya wasnt created 4 devil alone

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

ndukwechinasa:
That's a good relationship you have. Hang on to it. Be blessed.

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

Youngpo413:
Why won't she be good...she wants to settle down after jumping from one diçk to another all in the name of relationship...age is also not on her side.

Candidlady:
Someone with no money should not think of sex talk-less of having it


Kada ku hankalta ba?

Polyol:
Breakfast will be the outcome of this advice if he takes it.
Don't make her the only woman in your life. Love her well but never make her the only one. I know what I'm saying, she go feed you breakfast if you try am.

valentineuwakwe:
You dnt know what you are saying bro....so you expect him to have several girlfriends while trying to make out something in life, dat will amount to distractions and unnecessary spending that will hit him up in future financially. Forget any past one stories you must have read or hear, getting one sincere lady n working with her aone n being focus will spur any young man with targets to greater heights..provided too the lady is ready to be sincere too n min the guy....
Anyway, your world is yours, mine is mine. If you get a good woman, life will be easy n sweet 4u!

Polyol:
Heard of the adage about putting one's eggs in one basket?

You think there's no chance of the eggs not breaking? There is but it's still advised to not put all eggs in one basket except if you're ready for the possible outcome of losing your eggs to cracks which I think the op isn't ready for, infact no man is ready to lose his eggs to cracks.

You might be getting me wrong but I'm just advising op to not put all his eggs in one basket. Love your woman, spend for her as far as you're gaining from her too, it should be mutual. But don't close your doors to getting other girls cos you can't be ready for the outcome. Don't build your world around one woman cos if the unexpected happens, aswear you'll never be balance in life except for God's intervention.


You are indeed funny....

And yes, I know what I'm saying.

Youngpo413:
sneakers is my problem now...who marriage epp? How much bro?