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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ibawon(m): 2:28pm On Mar 18, 2022
why cant a Lady with good I.Q be submissive.
Being Submissive doesn't mean you cant challenge Authority

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:29pm On Mar 18, 2022
Remman:
wise king Solomon's wives were submissive. Any man who marries a woman who cannot submit to him is a fool and he'll die young...!
You can believe what you want so long as you do not attempt to associate this foolishness of yours with the Bible. grin

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Image123(m): 2:31pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nilon:
between a woman good in bed and a woman that can cook, which will you choose?

Cook, the man can make the woman good in bed if he also is.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by GloriousGbola: 2:32pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nilon:
between a woman good in bed and a woman that can cook, which will you choose?

Why not both?

Didn't they tell you the fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach while riding on his d**k? tongue
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 2:32pm On Mar 18, 2022
The most important quality a woman can posses in the context of a romantic relationship is the ability to submit to her man. If she is beautiful, neat, has common sense, kind, respectful, calm, most men would be just fine with her. I'm not interested in her IQ.
mployer:
She will wreck you with the IQ if she is not submissive.

A good skill can be badly used. Beware. wink

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by greypencils: 2:32pm On Mar 18, 2022
oliviabeem:
When she is submissive, then you can work on her IQ
SMH
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:33pm On Mar 18, 2022
akinade28:

So why did Peter and Paul in the new testament give the instruction that wife to submit to their own husbands?
Those opinions stated in Peter and Paul's letters directly contradict even Jesus Christ who claimed that He alone is Head/Master over each one who belongs to Him, declaring that all are equal in the Kingdom of God. undecided

Why they did it, I don't know but since we are called to trust in and obey the Word of God, Jesus Christ, not the opinions of men, it doesn't matter what there opinions were at the time they wrote those letters. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kelvin3476: 2:33pm On Mar 18, 2022
Blunttruth:

You obviously don't fall within the class. You are one of the insecure ones with inferiority complex. A lot of girls that have average IQ have made you feel so stupid you can't imagine going for one with a high one. Go back and try to comprehend what op posted. Also work on your inferiority complex, it's not my fault you have it. Get the fucq off my mention. I engage with people of like minds not yourself. Dumb.a.s.s
Go and teach ur low psycho relatives.
Please go and marry u father MR SECURED
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:34pm On Mar 18, 2022
judedwriter:
Lol...
Who does the submission... The MAN or the WOMAN?
I didn't know submission was gender specific. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by RightToReject(m): 2:35pm On Mar 18, 2022
If not for your poor IQ, you ought to have known that a woman being submissiveness to the man in her life doesn't automatically mean that she doesn't have a great IQ and good character, and of course, you've mistaken servility for submissiveness because only a servile woman will condone oppression from a man. Reversely, by this thread, you have inferred that no man with a great IQ can love the woman in his life, given that love and submissiveness are complementary to each other, and of course, neither of them entails servility or cruelty.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kelvin3476: 2:35pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Does that then mean equally a man with high IQ will submit to a woman then? undecided
WOMEN'S THREAT AND MENS THREAT ISN'T THE SAME.
AM SPEAKING FROM A MANS PERSPECTIVE, AND MY OWN OPINION
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kelvin3476:

WOMEN'S THREAT AND MENS THREAT ISN'T THE SAME.
AM SPEAKING FROM A MANS PERSPECTIVE, AND MY OWN OPINION
Threat? I have no clue how to even begin to dissect any of what you claim here. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Pimine: 2:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Aswearugaaad

And who says they are mutually exclusive?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Professorcplus(m): 2:38pm On Mar 18, 2022
As long as she has big boo and big yarsh.... I'm okay

~Wizido 2020
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Advancedman(m): 2:40pm On Mar 18, 2022
macrodata:
Why not strive for a woman with great IQ that's submissive? Yes, they are out there.

The IQ is what qualifies and quantify submission

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Remman(m): 2:41pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
You can believe what you want so long as you do not attempt to associate this foolishness of yours with the Bible. grin
Lol! Crazy guy...
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Johfem(m): 2:42pm On Mar 18, 2022
Both are not mutually exclusive.

It is impossible to have a very high IQ without being submissive.

Most times, it is the high expectations put into women who fall into this category that betray their men. To have high IQ is to understand submissiveness, if you think ladies with high IQ lack it, the guy should check inwardly, he might be having a problem being Insecured.

Thanks.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:43pm On Mar 18, 2022
Remman:
Lol! Crazy guy...
According to Bible, submission is a curse and of the path of foolishness and even those in the world have come to realize that hence the reason for the movement to make equality a core right in every society. undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by akinade28(f): 2:43pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Those opinions stated in Peter and Paul's letters directly contradict even Jesus Christ who claimed that He alone is Head/Master over each one who belongs to Him, declaring that all are equal in the Kingdom of God. undecided

Why they did it, I don't know but since we are called to trust in and obey the Word of God, Jesus Christ, not the opinions of men, it doesn't matter what there opinions were at the time they wrote those letters. undecided
So the letters of Peter and Paul are the opinions of men?
Sis or bro, you don't need twist the bible to suit your own selfish opinion.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by EgunMogaji2: 2:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

Your opinion suggests that high intellect and submissiveness are not commonly seen together. It's sad that you think that and I suggest that you expand your dating circle.

To my ladies who possess both you are appreciated and I pray for everything good to find you.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
Johfem:
Both are not mutually exclusive.

It is impossible to have a very high IQ without being submissive.

Most times, it is the high expectations put into women who fall into this category that betray their men. To have high IQ is to understand submissiveness, if you think ladies with high IQ lack it, the guy should check inwardly, he might be having a problem being I secured.

Thanks.
Does the statement in bold also apply as far as men with high IQ as well? undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kelvin3476: 2:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Threat? I have no clue how to even begin to dissect any of what you claim here. undecided
Maybe u fail to understand what I wrote.
U need to ask questions then.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Johfem(m): 2:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
Both are not mutually exclusive.

It is impossible to have a very high IQ without being submissive.

Most times, it is the high expectations put into women who fall into this category that betray their men. To have high IQ is to understand submissiveness, if you think ladies with high IQ lack it, the guy should check inwardly, he might be having a problem being Insecured.

Thanks.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Deenillah(m): 2:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
Great IQ.

If na for cruise, I'd go fo the submissive one, bur marriage wise? IQ all the way.

A smart woman is more likely to give birth to smart children.

Now imagine you being a smart a$$ too. Even though not to her standard.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by eazyduzit: 2:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
Currently I'm dating one girl that is very submissive and lever of IQ is awesome too thou she didn't go to school and I don't give a damn about it.I have made up my mind to wife her this year.
She no go pass me by......

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:48pm On Mar 18, 2022
akinade28:

So the letters of Peter and Paul are the opinions of men?
Sis or bro, you don't need twist the bible to suit your own selfish opinion.
I didn't twist the Bible at all. undecided

Jesus Christ is God's New Covenant Law in the Kingdom of God who Christians, those who claim to follow Him are called to trust and Obey. So much like the Israelites have the books of the Law of Moses to look to for details of God's Law, in much similar manner, Christ's followers have the words of Jesus Christ to live by. undecided

All else are of the doctrines and traditions of men - opinions of men. undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheExclusive: 2:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
Great IQ as Long as I senior her with at least five years and more exposed than her. And I must be the first man she is dating.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Legendoo: 2:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
Truly high iq people have a lot of self introspection, you are more likely to find a combination of humility and intelligence in one person. It's the low iq ones who get easily carried away and difficult to partner with .

Case in point, low iq feminist's, they over compensate for their lack of intelligence using noise and Cardi b wannabe bitches , those ones are monkey see , monkey do.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by derecho(m): 2:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
Being submissive doesn't mean being dumb. It's a product of discipline and prudence.

Intelligence or high I.Q isn't the same as Wisdom.

It takes wisdom and effort to be submissive..
Wise employers would ALWAYS go for loyal and teachable employees over intelligent and mannerless ones.
The later would ultimately become better and more productive over time.

Marriage is not something you can easily change like a job.
If your aim is long-term and peace, A submissive spouse is definitely the way to go.

Ebele Obiano might have high I.Q but her show of shame shows she's corky and disrespectful.
Blunttruth:


Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:50pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kelvin3476:

Maybe u fail to understand what I wrote.
U need to ask questions then.
I did ask you a question and in response I received a convoluted retort from you leading me to accept that you probably don't even understand your own claims to begin with.. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Johfem(m): 2:51pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Does the statement in bold also apply as far as men with high IQ as well? undecided

Having a high IQ translates to you being knowledgeability. This implies that in your high IQ you should honour and respect human persons in love and in submissiveness.

I still stand on my opinion.

Someone like me who has subscribed to every platform to learn, understands that humans deserve respect and honour irrespective.

Our modern day society has interpreted submissiveness as being weak and dumb. There is no such thing as that.

You can be submissive and have a high IQ, and vice versa.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:51pm On Mar 18, 2022
TheExclusive:
Great IQ as Long as I senior her with at least five years and more exposed than her. And I must be the first man she is dating.
ROFLMAO
cheesy cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy

You seem to think age can beat out IQ as far as intelligence and maybe wisdom is concerned? grin

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