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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On Mar 18, 2022
Johel:
Partner with great IQ
Keyword being Partner! undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Jeffy1206(m): 7:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
I'm go with the latter wink
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Johel(m): 7:02pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Keyword being Partner! undecided

Huh? undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 7:05pm On Mar 18, 2022
Johel:
Huh? undecided
Individuals with high IQs(ability to critically reason issues) tend more towards relationships where equal partnership is the agreement, not rulerships or what is commonly known to many as submission.. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Inosky(m): 7:08pm On Mar 18, 2022
Just need a woman with a moderate of the both! That's if I can't have a highly submissive lady with high IQ!
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Johel(m): 7:17pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Individuals with high IQs(ability to critically reason issues) tend more towards relationships where equal partnership is the agreement, not rulerships or what is commonly known to many as submission.. undecided


Yeah, I'm aware of that...I still prefer a Spouse/Partner with Sound IQ.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by bepositive11: 7:30pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

It's insecure and low self esteemed men who want women who depend on them for almost everything
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by bepositive11: 7:31pm On Mar 18, 2022
Blunttruth:


Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.

Right on point
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by wonderr(m): 7:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
According to the Bible, submission is an unholy curse placed on marriage by God and it is from this same that the same God then sends Jesus Christ to redeem man and marriage from, so those who use the Bible as reason for their choosing the path of submission do so in foolishness. undecided
it's your pastor I blame
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 7:39pm On Mar 18, 2022
wonderr:
it's your pastor I blame
My one and only pastor is Jesus Christ so are you saying here that He, Jesus Christ, is a liar? undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Emtol01: 7:43pm On Mar 18, 2022
Truth be told, if you're very intelligent yourself you won't have problems choosing between the two ladies. You need a very high IQ lady plus your own to build a very good family, business and future.
Who told you she (high IQ) doesn't have good character and submissive?
Anyways, you can give out her number we have many people looking for high IQ ladies.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 7:48pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
If you thought carefully about the meaning of the terms themselves, you would probably see the meaning in what I stated there. undecided
Them no dey use your comment as yardstick...You operate on a very personal high frequency. grin
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 7:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
Munzy14:

Them no dey use your comment as yardstick...You operate on a very personal high frequency. grin
If you have nothing sensible to say then abeg Waka pass! undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by wonderr(m): 7:58pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
My one and only pastor is Jesus Christ so are you saying here that He, Jesus Christ, is a liar? undecided
not sure Jesus ever heard your name before cos you just turned his words upside down in your comment earlier
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
wonderr:
not sure Jesus ever heard your name before cos you just turned his words upside down in your comment earlier
Ok
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
If you have nothing sensible to say then abeg Waka pass! undecided
Lmao...So your skin can be penetrated without stress grin grin

Enjoy your frequency. tongue
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
Munzy14:

Lmao...So your skin can be penetrated without stress grin grin

Enjoy your frequency. tongue
Ok
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 8:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
Emtol01:
Truth be told, if you're very intelligent yourself you won't have problems choosing between the two ladies. You need a very high IQ lady plus your own to build a very good family, business and future.
Who told you she (high IQ) doesn't have good character and submissive?
Anyways, you can give out her number we have many people looking for high IQ ladies.
So a submissove lady can't have a high IQ right?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 8:04pm On Mar 18, 2022

Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by lolu2019: 8:08pm On Mar 18, 2022
bepositive11:


It's insecure and low self esteemed men who want women who depend on them for almost everything
please, what make a man to be insecure.if i can put food,shelter and cloth on my family.i dont think i am insecure.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by DonroxyII: 8:22pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed
Higher IQ infact Higher Higher... I love to chase not dragging someone.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by DonroxyII: 8:24pm On Mar 18, 2022
Blunttruth:


Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.
Aswear, make person pikin ask Question make their mama talk say wait mey ur papa come na ihm dey like those kains area
my own area na to cook food for ona ... God Forbid o!

I go just faint for where I dey grin
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by DonroxyII: 8:28pm On Mar 18, 2022
Ayinke93:
Who go marry us wey no Dey submissive bayi (pulling my hair and shedding hot tears on the road embarassed )
Once You meet the one wey pass Your level of IQ, You will submit. That's natural order. If not, You won't.

The problem is "How do you meet the one wey have Reasonableness more than you or atleast slightly equals to yours with little margin"

That's Where the problem is for most SapioSexual ladies !

If You settle for less that's another round of waves of Headache. If you Quit, OH Lord, let the Depression comes and Feminist Movements kicks"

Then You join the all men are dogs crew

Truly, who is to be blamed if a SapioSexual can't land a higher IQ dude

For me, the Sapio of a woman that can't land an intelligent man is Limited. She needs more work on herself before she joins the men are dogs crew grin
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Aaay: 9:23pm On Mar 18, 2022
I don’t need their iq and most men don’t
Just be submissive

Most girls out there are not submissive anymore they have chosen to stay single

Men hates women who aren’t submissive
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ImoleNaija: 9:33pm On Mar 18, 2022
greypencils:
A faithful partner, that's all that is necessary. Submission or IQ will mean nothing if she isn't. As a man, wetin concern me with submission? If you like spend 18hours at your work place as long as you have strict moral values and you are indeed at your workplace. Okonjo Iweala is an example of one with a very good IQ. If you want to tie such a woman down with submission na wahala go kill you.
Imagine my wife is a programmer, Am I expected to interrupt her coding in her study and say hey! go and cook lunch, go and wash the children's clothes? Common sense will tell me she will have her moments of being busy, it's for me to respect her and help her. When it's my turn, she will do the same thing for me and equally help me. And she will love me for it. As long as she knows she is a mother and wife and does her best to balance everything she has to do, I am good.

You just described a virtuous woman in this post.

Faithfull18, am I right?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ibinaboonline: 9:38pm On Mar 18, 2022
You see am? To you, submissive equals to dumb. And you think you are smart. How sad? A woman, or man for that matter, with so-called great IQ but lacks humility is not wise. Keep your intelligence and give me wisdom. I’d choose wisdom over intelligence any day, any time, twice on Tuesday. To me, this question is a no-brained: a good mannered, submissive woman is wise and I’d choose her over an intelligent, well-informed woman that lacks the wisdom that reveals itself in good character and submission to your husband. Let me not get carried away.
Blunttruth:


Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 9:38pm On Mar 18, 2022
DonroxyII:
Then You join the all men are dogs crew

Truly, who is to be blamed if a SapioSexual can't land a higher IQ dude

For me, the Sapio of a woman that can't land an intelligent man is Limited. She needs more work on herself before she joins the men are dogs crew
grin
Why do you, after it all, blame a woman for her inability to land a man more intelligent than she is? undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by DonroxyII: 9:41pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Why do you, after it all, blame a woman for her inability to land a man more intelligent than she is? undecided
I don't blame the other party for My Lack. I blame myself. If I lack, that means I'm yet to reach Optimal thus there is need for more push, more elevation.

A poor man should not blame the rich for his poverty grin.. There is Wealth everywhere why ain't you Courting yours

Oya common on ... I need a fix and no stress me too much!
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Mar 18, 2022
DonroxyII:
I don't blame the other party for My Lack. I blame myself.

A poor man should not blame the rich for his poverty grin

Been a while I argue with you, Oya common on ... I need a fix !
I still don't understand what you are getting at. Are these intelligent women somehow also responsible for raising for themselves men more intelligent than themselves or what? undecided

Following your own post, it pretty much works against these women in the attempt that they choose then to settle for mates with lower intelligence, so dumbing themselves down for the sake of catching a mate is out of the question. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by DonroxyII: 9:50pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I still don't understand what you are getting at. Are these intelligent women somehow also responsible for raising for themselves men more intelligent than themselves or what? undecided

Following your own post, it pretty much works against these women in the attempt that they choose then to settle for mates with lower intelligence, so dumbing themselves down for the sake of catching a mate is out of the question. undecided
Put Straight English for me. I don't like getting confused when you sound intelligent to Only yourself grin

Ask me where you don't understand and make the English simple and straight cheesy

Who is responsible for raising who ?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 10:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
ibinaboonline:
You see am? To you, submissive equals to dumb. And you think you are smart. How sad? A woman, or man for that matter, with so-called great IQ but lacks humility is not wise. Keep your intelligence and give me wisdom. I’d choose wisdom over intelligence any day, any time, twice on Tuesday. To me, this question is a no-brained: a good mannered, submissive woman is wise and I’d choose her over an intelligent, well-informed woman that lacks the wisdom that reveals itself in good character and submission to your husband. Let me not get carried away.

Go and read what the op wrote oga. A woman who depends on the man to make all the plans and has no contribution is dumb to me. I am entitled to my opinion.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 10:02pm On Mar 18, 2022
DonroxyII:
Put Straight English for me. I don't like getting confused when you sound intelligent to Only yourself grin

Ask me where you don't understand and make the English simple and straight cheesy

Who is responsible for raising who ?
Again.... I still don't understand what you are getting at. Are these intelligent women somehow also responsible for raising for themselves men more intelligent than themselves to marry? undecided

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