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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Daboomb: 7:48pm On Mar 18, 2022
moneyissweet:
Taking the shop back from her is a sign of weakness and frustration. Leave the shop for her, divorce her and walk away like a real niggar.

For the sake of love you both shared in the past, you don't need to frustrate her and turn her to a beggar before you divorce her.

Do this and she will always remember you.




I am curious as to why it is important that an Ex-Wife should be required to remember the Ex-husband?
Divorce is meant to finally split the two people (if that is their choice) so that each person can move on with their lives.

Going back to an Ex., is one of the things that can kill a man quickly and easily.

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by advanceDNA: 7:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
Skyfornia:
Why do you seek to collect the shop from her? You never loved her...

Why did she cheat?? She never loved him too

You want to ask how I know she cheated??
.
Men are usually angry to the level of collecting back their gifts when they realize their woman will be enjoying it with the man she cheated with..

Ddnt you hear atiku demanded the house he gave his wife after divorce??

How will I buy you iphone 13 and you will be using it to call and send nudes to another man...That’s witchcraft I cannot allow oooo... grin

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
osazsky:
u didnt see the part that said all the things he bought for her and the shop was in her name..how do u plan in getting i back
By holding meetings in a village square..those politicians u mentioned are educated..anything they are dping4 has to be official with thier name in it..u buy land for woman with her name on the papers..draw plan with her name..register the project for housing ministey with her name now she wants to kick u out of her house u are shouthing court..u think courts have time for stupid cases when better case like election cases they ground..when men go get sense

It's in a joint name.

And not in her name only.

And he could as well show he paid foe it maybe via bank transfer, witnesses etc.

The woman may as well admit that he paid for it..


I hate injustice..

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Judybash93(m): 7:50pm On Mar 18, 2022
sweetonugbu:
Leave the shop for her.

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Daboomb: 7:50pm On Mar 18, 2022
sophirebenitez:


You want to leave your wife high and dry after one year of marriage? Consider the cost of setting up the business for her as the price you have to pay for the divorce.

Why should he have to pay "A Price" for Divorcing a "stranger"?
He paid a Price for marrying her, he paid a Price for Housing and feeding her, now he has to pay a price for Divorcing her?
Which kain advise be that? What Price is the Woman paying?

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Munzy14(m): 7:51pm On Mar 18, 2022
Lalami3232:
Oga, leave the shop for her na. What about the goods wey dey inside the shop, which name na you take buy am? If person come nairaland eeh, to marry go dey make am fear. This na the worst platform to ever visit if you want to uplift your soul. Immediately you come here, na 100% negativity back to back. Oga, leave the shop for her, na beg we dey. Make she no begin do ashawo after divorce. If na oyibo land, dem even suppose share all the property and give her a substantial sum. Once again, bros just leave her with the shop.

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "nairaland news dey get psychological effects"
Lol
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by fof1: 7:51pm On Mar 18, 2022
MufasaLion:


For him to have secured a shop for her, it means he can afford it. He doesn't need it. He's just been petty.

Well, I really don't know how much his wife hurt him. That could have led to his decision also.

Egocentricism,unfaithfulness and Parochialism of a Partner leads to such Decisions... She MUST have turned a Tiger...
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Datikwerreboi(m): 7:52pm On Mar 18, 2022
Candidlady:
sad

[s]Y'all will drop a post then end it will "no insult only mature minds please"...


You the op are you acting maturely yourself ?

Leave the shop for her get your divorce and move on.... The rent will expire!!!
°°°°reason ifind it hard to collect anything from this gender... Call it me being proud your business °°°°°


Una go dey run go marry only to end erthing again...


You meet a guy/girl today four months after you get married... Rubbish..


°°°°you just ruined my smoke this early morning[/s]°°°°
Evening newspaper if u like marry at 50 years , marriage wey go crash go crash. No one is responsible for your singlehood undecided

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by thatigboman1: 7:52pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks
the shop is her name naa in the example you gave.
U are just married for 1 year, I advise you, rectify the issues. Discuss with her, dont involve families. My wife's family wanted to wreck my marriage, until I put all of them in their places. And now there's peace in my home. A honest advice. Whenever my wife gets me angry, I just recollect those days I was pursuing her and forgive her.

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by advanceDNA: 7:52pm On Mar 18, 2022
LagosInter:
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What is barbaric about this?

Are you not being stupid?

You reject a man, you make him unhappy, yet you want his properties and other things?

Atiku took back his house from his divorced wife not minding that she bore kids for him.

Adenuga took his house from estranged side chick that ssuuuvked his dick for 25 years.

Tinubu rejected Ambode when he stopped being loyal.

Even God rejected man he created and punished him when he stopped being loyal.

Lucifer was chased from heaven when he stopped being loyal.


The shop belongs to the office of the wife.

If she ceases to be a wife, then she should vacate the shop.

If you cease to be a staff, you hand over the official vehicle.

If you cease to be a governor, you leave the government house...




You are too blunt
Wickedness is your blood
But me likey...
7 cartons of the below for you

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Judybash93(m): 7:53pm On Mar 18, 2022
sophirebenitez:


You want to leave your wife high and dry after one year of marriage? Consider the cost of setting up the business for her as the price you have to pay for the divorce.

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Datikwerreboi(m): 7:53pm On Mar 18, 2022
Candidlady:
sad

[s]Y'all will drop a post then end it will "no insult only mature minds please"...


You the op are you acting maturely yourself ?

Leave the shop for her get your divorce and move on.... The rent will expire!!!
°°°°reason ifind it hard to collect anything from this gender... Call it me being proud your business °°°°°


Una go dey run go marry only to end erthing again...


You meet a guy/girl today four months after you get married... Rubbish..


°°°°you just ruined my smoke this early morning[/s]°°°°
Op isn't the reason for your frustration and lack of man,besides he said they dated for 2 years. Why are u pained and crying . The whites marry and divorce also, it's normal part of life

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by nesgeeek(m): 7:54pm On Mar 18, 2022
Op, pls show her some level of maturity by leaving the shop for her and move on with ur life if what happened between both of u is irreconcilable.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by almarthins(m): 7:54pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Wickedness the worry you.
Leave the shop for her
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by SocialJustice: 7:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
LagosInter:
.

What is barbaric about this?

Are you not being stupid?

You reject a man, you make him unhappy, yet you want his properties and other things?

Atiku took back his house from his divorced wife not minding that she bore kids for him.

Adenuga took his house from estranged side chick that ssuuuvked his dick for 25 years.

Tinubu rejected Ambode when he stopped being loyal.

Even God rejected man he created and punished him when he stopped being loyal.

Lucifer was chased from heaven when he stopped being loyal.


The shop belongs to the office of the wife.

If she ceases to be a wife, then she should vacate the shop.

If you cease to be a staff, you hand over the official vehicle.

If you cease to be a governor, you leave the government house...



You are mad and need help. Did you not read where he said he opened the shop for her? Did he open the shop for himself and asked his wife to help out with it? Your brain is malfunctioning. Using hearsay as the standard for your wicked life. Continue and see where you will end.

When you start having kids in future and they go against your wish, stop educating them or ask them to refund the money you have spent. Fool.

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Datikwerreboi(m): 7:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
Brian47:
A[s]ll these marriage wahala I read on Narialand everyday, I'm scared for marriage.[/s]
Is nobody's business, besides that's your headache tongue
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by thatigboman1: 7:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
Brian47:
All these marriage wahala I read on Narialand everyday, I'm scared for marriage.
marriage is not easy o, I swear. It is well.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by queenfav(f): 7:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
abobote:
You opened the shop too fast, before you do something like that for a woman, make sure there's a benefit, after giving you a child so that if marriage scatter, you go hold something.
Some wives, ones you open something for them and they start seeing money, they will start dragging shoulder with you. 90% of the girls are totally different when you wife them. Even my own wife, I'm just managing her coz of the kids.
Calm down, collect the shop first, before proceeding with the divorce
Wonderful!
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Datikwerreboi(m): 7:56pm On Mar 18, 2022
SocialJustice:
[s]Leave the shop for her, Nigerian primitive men. Always wanting to starve your women when there's issue. This barbaric attitude must stop[/s].
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by osazsky(m): 7:56pm On Mar 18, 2022
LagosInter:


It's in a joint name.

And not in her name only.

And he could as well show he paid foe it maybe via bank transfer, witnesses etc.

The woman may as well admit that he paid for it..


I hate injustice..
oga i dont understand u..i work in a court..after her marrige where u expecting her to still be bearing her father names as her surname or husbands name..its her name oga..final..after the divorce she goes back to her fathers name but u cant take the shop.if u like employ one million SANs u will still lose
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Daboomb: 7:57pm On Mar 18, 2022
GboyegaD:
Why bother about the shop? It was a gift so leave it at that.

No where in his Post did he say it was a gift, why impinge that into it?

In most cases, a Man will open a Shop for is wife, to ensure she is busy and she contributes financially to the family.
It is different from say, dashing her an iphone or some material things.

I would say dont collect the Shop back, ..... just dont renew the Lease on it, after it expires.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Truvelisback(m): 7:57pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks
Has she bore u any children? By the way, why do u want to divorce her?
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Camelot65: 7:59pm On Mar 18, 2022
Marriage these days is like gamble, some go enter, others go cut.

Just here observing things in 3D.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by babadee1(m): 7:59pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Why must you collect the shop back? Let her have something doing even if you can't reconcile with her. No need to act out of bitterness.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by queenfav(f): 7:59pm On Mar 18, 2022
Dalil8:


You can go ahead and take back your shop, as long as you paid for it then it's yours and can do whatever you want with it. We're solidly behind you.

I hope other men would learn from this. Never purchase a property in your wife's/gf name.
I pity who takes marital advise from nairalanders sha.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by HitSong: 7:59pm On Mar 18, 2022
sweetonugbu:
Leave the shop for her.
Shut up
People just judge senselessly...
Why should he leave the shop?
What if she's a useless adulteress?

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Munzy14(m): 7:59pm On Mar 18, 2022
Nacoss25:
I and my wife just settled our fight.
Thanks all for contribution and suggestion
You sef...smh

Small issue you run to nairaland... lipsrsealed

Marriage is not for everyone. undecided you can have baby mama, you can as well adopt..

If you can't keep a marriage.

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by Daboomb: 8:00pm On Mar 18, 2022
osazsky:
oga i dont understand u..i work in a court..after her marrige where u expecting her to still be bearing her father names as her surname or husbands name..its her name oga..final..after the divorce she goes back to her fathers name but u cant take the shop.if u like employ one million SANs u will still lose

Which Court employed you, and as What? shocked shocked
Thank God you did not claim to be a Judge or Lawyer, l for laugh die. grin grin

BTW: A lot of women still retain and bear their father's name after marriage.
They just add the husband's name at the back undecided

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by pocohantas(f): 8:00pm On Mar 18, 2022
But she has run away from both you and the shop. So you can have your shop now.

It is better to sleep in the corner of a roof, than share a mansion with such a toxic, aggressive and violent man.

Even her parents have refused to tell you where she is. Nigerian parents that don’t mind their daughter dying inside marriage than dealing with the shame? That should tell how troublesome you are.

Hold your shop and 2m car. I am glad ladies are prioritizing their peace of mind over material things. If you want Ms Endurance, go to the next August meeting and chyke one 50+ widow. undecided undecided

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Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by SoapQueen(f): 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
Candidlady:
sad

Y'all will drop a post then end it will "no insult only mature minds please"...


You the op are you acting maturely yourself ?

Leave the shop for her get your divorce and move on.... The rent will expire!!!
°°°°reason ifind it hard to collect anything from this gender... Call it me being proud your business °°°°°


Una go dey run go marry only to end erthing again...


You meet a guy/girl today four months after you get married... Rubbish..


°°°°you just ruined my smoke this early morning°°°°

I'm telling you. It's best to reject gifts and if possible return anything from men/exes because when things end, they'll turn to crybabies like they were forced.

It's better to be proud and retain your respect. Else, na regret you go just dey regret.

Mtshewww.
Re: Is It Possible For Her To Lay Claim On My Shop by torqque7(m): 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
SocialJustice:
Leave the shop for her, Nigerian primitive men. Always wanting to starve your women when there's issue. This barbaric attitude must stop.
Shut up.. which Nigerian men?It's same thing all over the world,when people breakup some will want to take back all they bought for the other person so don't come here and talk rubbish forming woke when clearly you are just being emotional.

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