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Jennyclay:
SMH, Nairaland still have a long way to go. Just listen to the advice being dished out up there, just because it was a guy who cheated. If the reverse was the case. Infact it will be on front page by now because of the traffic. Bunch of biased people and the moderators aren't doing anything about it.

@op, As a lady, you shouldn't have bring your relationship issues here. This platform does not favor women, My advice is that you should open a reddit account and take your relationship issues to that platform.

You will later know the difference between heaven and hell. You gonna be reading mature and first class advice, people there are Angels from heaven while people here are demons from hell.

I take my relationship advice to that platform not here, abi do want me to be a laughing stock? Just take a look at czarr, GooodHardDick, Uzomacharles, Moeman and co advice. SMH.. My dear please, Avoid those Slowpokes up there advice and wait for the wise ones to come. Okay! Because Me, I'm very raw. If I give you my advice about this issue, you will just hate men for life.

Mtchhheeewwww.. Bush!!

I thought I was the only one who noticed.
A lot of people here are bitter.
Some here do it for cruise.

Do y'all notice women these days don't like condoms

They're so into raw sex,you would think they're infection free and immune to pregnancy

These bitches wildin'

Tha fvck

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

Lamba, rearrange ur super story wella

Na normal doings.....u too don Bleep guy wey no use CD ... Counter me if am wrong ....fear women

He has ojukokoro

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

You broke up with him.how is it cheating when you guys are not dating? You are just jealous and it's normal.. get over it and enjoy your new beautiful beginning..

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

You broke up with a guy the guy moved on to another girl what is your business there you definitely not making sense

Oh

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

U have nothing 2 offer aside that pussy. Just don't give D guy STD

the key word here is boyfriend, not husband. much easier and uncomplicated to move on from.
unless irresponsible infidelity is not a deal breaker for you. STDs hit women differently
boyfriend - ex-boyfriend. QED
not sure why this needs to be on NL unless of course its more of seuns glorious clickbait.

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

Forgive him

One man cheats and you say what do men want? Nice generalization! Simply walk away and find you someone who will not cheat. E no hard.

My sister you no go understand,he no get mental problem,as body no be firewood, na you cause all this wahala, you dey service this your boyfriend at all?

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

U are a fool... u broke up with him and blocked him when it happened..so what's the fuss...u are the confused one that dont know what she wants

advanceDNA:
He doesn’t have mental problems...he just lacks sexual discipline...a lot of men are like that....95% actually... the remaining 5% were like that too but later changed....
While he may love you for real, it’s a red flag you should not ignore, because marriage will not automatically change him...

it takes a while for men to realize all they want and need is in the woman they already have..
.sometimes, they never realize it...many end up with babies outside marriage and even bring disease home in worst cases...

sadly the next guy you are going to is probably same....I wish you luck..

E be like na office data u dey use type all dis rubbish abii na opera mini free mode u dey.

LIGHTHEARTED0:
if only SIMPle men boys out there can have abundance mentality you will know girls ain't shit


This is the same thing those pussyyy people do whenever they are in sexrelationship, even before they break up with you they already have handful of 'toaster' on their DMs



What else do you offer in the sexrelationship even with his usual spending than your rotten punanl


cheer up girl, the dlck ain't yours it just your turn

You are a dunce though. Why do you never do well act like robots? Didn't read that she makes her own money ? if The OP was a guy and complained like she has done, you will rain all manner of invective on her. Some times I wonder whether it is a woman that gave birth to you or you dropped from the sky.

Now a guy is furking around and you still have the audacity to spill nonsense? What if he infect her with STDs, imagine this was your sister you fool!

You broke up with him remember? A single man isn’t allowed to do what singles do anymore ?

fidel2:
E be like na office data u dey use type all dis rubbish abii na opera mini free mode u dey.

No be man you be...
Wetin dey make you love your woman but still dey Straff another banny...??

shey una two don break up before him taste another soup?

OP please note this advice I am giving you now. Men generally are polygamists' in nature. We love to sample different pussies, but any woman who want a man to stay with her should give to him more than her pussy. Do not blame the man for what has happened. Find a way to move around the situation if you really love him. I wish you the best of luck in your relationship.

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

The guy dont love u.. u r a working tool for him simple

advanceDNA:
He doesn’t have mental problems...he just lacks sexual discipline...a lot of men are like that....95% actually... the remaining 5% were like that too but later changed....
While he may love you for real, it’s a red flag you should not ignore, because marriage will not automatically change him...

it takes a while for men to realize all they want and need is in the woman they already have..
.sometimes, they never realize it...many end up with babies outside marriage and even bring disease home in worst cases...

sadly the next guy you are going to is probably same....I wish you luck..

us 100%correct..

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

PLEASE,go and do HIV test first.Then you can process what to do next .

Babe I got love for you �����

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

Dear,I understand how you feel about this, it's so painful, so so disappointing,but see,posting here isn't really the best thing because you see nairaland guys,most of them are even more wicked than your boyfriend,they can do more worse than your boyfriend ,you shouldn't expect 'em to feel anyhow bad about what you just said , because it's really something they can do,you can see their comments, they are just bunch of hypocrites!,If it was the other way round (i.e if you were the one you cheated after the break),they won't be saying all these they are saying , hypocrites!

missimelda01:
So you think it was okay for him to be trying to make things work with me and also sleeping with a stranger he met, twice! Not like I wasn't responding positively.

You're not married to him yet, but he already has you tied up in knots in confusion.




Is this not a red flag?



Of all the responsible, matured, marriageable men we have out there, this is the one you chose to fall in love with?



Is this what you want to be dealing with in your marriage when all your mates are investing their energies and funds into progress, you want to do FBI on top of a community phallus?




My dear, pardon my harsh words, but do yourself a favor and drop this guy like a hot useless pan and look out for a well raised young man to take home to Mama.


I wish you'll listen.

GooodHardDick:
Which one is You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything

What exactly have you done for that young man in that relationship? What exactly have you offered him in the relationship other than your pussy? Do you think we're kids here? You better stop this your Jezebelic manipulations.

If you have or had issues with girls you date or dated, deal with it and stop menstruating rubbish under ladies post when they seek advice.

I don't understand, do this forum pay people to post about their personal problems here, Or this platform is just a forum for introverts who don't have friends offline, or no one to share their problems with, so they just come here to share all their life problems