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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by RPG2020(m): 11:29am On Mar 19, 2022
Just tell him you are going to visit your family next week with sweet voice after you left don't come back


Don't fight him leave with sense because if you do it the other way i pray you survive
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by EndRape2(f): 11:30am On Mar 19, 2022
I hope nairaland boys can read this,
Because yesterday a lady wanted to leave a man, they were vomiting rubbish
Besides they are worst than the �



Men are wicked and women are learning from them.


















quote author=Faithqueen post=111162244]I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I remember now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.[/quote]
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by MonkeyMods(m): 11:30am On Mar 19, 2022
Edoziesmart:
Trash and you called yourself American woman in your previous thread yet you can't compose a simple sentence someone can comprehend and digest.

All these fabricated stories flying through this forum all time.
Tueh!

Thanks for speaking my darn mind. America ko, Amukoko ni
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by baralatie(m): 11:30am On Mar 19, 2022
Besto:


It felt like I was doing surd and indices from the first 3 lines.
You did not see the permutation and combination maths ni?
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by Nobody: 11:30am On Mar 19, 2022
Did the children he has stopped you from having yours?
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by yahmohy27: 11:32am On Mar 19, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


So much for women

The earlier we women look before we leap especially when it comes to marriage, the better for us. Karl Marx once said that religion is the opium of the masses. Let me borrow Karl Marx quote and put it in my own way, thus it goes: Marriage is the opium of women.

It's so surprising that when a guy promise a girl marriage, you see once a sane girl loosing her sanity and become so stupid. She does thing as if she's being hypnotize hence you see them rush into marriage without caring to dig more about the guy before accepting his proposal few months you see them coming to complained bitterly, a great number of them endured so much, they can't speak out because of shame.

If I advise them, they say that I am bitter and jealous of them because I am yet to get married, like wtf. I would've been worried about marriage assuming there was a place God says that it's only those that marry that will make heaven, but inasmuch as God never said so, I am so save whether married or not.

Men also should be very careful with the type of women they walk down the aisle..If you get merged with Satan in form of a wife , you'll forever regret your action.


I hope you are married
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by baralatie(m): 11:32am On Mar 19, 2022
AheadMarket:
Did the children he has stopped you from having yours?
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Ah ah!
Are you not seeing that brother is doing orishi rishi !

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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by Lexusgs430: 11:34am On Mar 19, 2022
Faithqueen:
I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I remember now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.


So what are you still doing in this sham marriage ?.....

If you walk with a dog, you would eventually chop shit & move with a pig, you would play in mud .......

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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by clevybrown(m): 11:35am On Mar 19, 2022
advanceDNA:
From the first three lines... I just felt like I was doing advance calculus...
Is it just me, or the story be one kind??
I tot it was me who lacked understanding... grin
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by dotedote: 11:35am On Mar 19, 2022
I can't advice you cos you've intentionally not mentioned the roles you played that led to all ths.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by President2001(m): 11:36am On Mar 19, 2022
Faithqueen:
I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I remember now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.
First correct your impression towards your husband all I see here is hatred secondly there may be something terrible you done to him that makes him run away from you. Try to tell us what transpired within both of you as we're not ready to hear one side story
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by freetheking: 11:37am On Mar 19, 2022
I concur with your view.
MadamVanessa:
shocked


So much for women

The earlier we women look before we leap especially when it comes to marriage, the better for us. Karl Marx once said that religion is the opium of the masses. Let me borrow Karl Marx quote and put it in my own way, thus it goes: Marriage is the opium of women.

It's so surprising that when a guy promise a girl marriage, you see once a sane girl loosing her sanity and become so stupid. She does thing as if she's being hypnotize hence you see them rush into marriage without caring to dig more about the guy before accepting his proposal few months you see them coming to complained bitterly, a great number of them endured so much, they can't speak out because of shame.

If I advise them, they say that I am bitter and jealous of them because I am yet to get married, like wtf. I would've been worried about marriage assuming there was a place God says that it's only those that marry that will make heaven, but inasmuch as God never said so, I am so save whether married or not.

Men also should be very careful with the type of women they walk down the aisle..If you get merged with Satan in form of a wife , you'll forever regret your action.


Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by ednut1(m): 11:37am On Mar 19, 2022
I want a god fearing man crew pele
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by zelnababa(m): 11:37am On Mar 19, 2022
Very poor write up.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by jimtemi1: 11:39am On Mar 19, 2022
How many kids do you have for him?, if none call it off and find ur way.if u have kids with him, I will still suggest leave him and move on.. I have a friend who came to serve in kwarastate, he met the so called medical doctor, not knowing the man has 4kids already and he still went ahead to brainwash her with his age, the man was 55, claiming 42...to cut it short Na BP kill the girl o, leaving behind a 10yrs old boy presently.marriage no be by force I do tell my sister I will prefer u back at home whole heatedly if ur marriage doesn't work than in a body bag.but some parent are so foolish there girls will be having a bad home still telling them to continue with it, with the fear of what will people say

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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by SunTzu123(m): 11:41am On Mar 19, 2022
Most difficult but permanent solution; call your husband and tell him
1. No child of yours will raised outside this home.
2. Therefore, bring all the children you have outside to this home so they will be raised to the same standard
3. Tell him you want all of his children to go to the same school.
4. Watch him make you his bedrock, finance minister, estate administrator and respect you for the rest of his life.
(This option puts you in control. It's very difficult but the outcome pays you more)

Alternatively, quarrel, call meetings, insult him, go to court and accept whatever outcome.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by NGArmyTerrorist: 11:42am On Mar 19, 2022
You know this before you married him, scamming other people so that you two will start enjoying. Na the day wey FBI and Efcc go collect two of you, you go know say water don pass garri. Stay tackling your so-called scamming husband to quit from being fraudulfraudulent.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by talk2hb1(m): 11:43am On Mar 19, 2022
dfrost:


Okay now that I can see that I'm not alone, then I'm normal.
grin cheesy
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by baralatie(m): 11:43am On Mar 19, 2022
advanceDNA:
From the first three lines... I just felt like I was doing advance calculus...
Is it just me, or the story be one kind??
It is a story based on partial differential equations

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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by TheGift: 11:43am On Mar 19, 2022
helinues:
Your husband?

Please how long did you people date for before getting married?

Are you saying you married someone without having much knowledge about what he is into?

Even after years of dating and marriage, people still discover things about their spouses. Especially when people are evolving.

She is asking for advice to move forward not cry over spilt milk.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by advanceDNA: 11:44am On Mar 19, 2022
baralatie:

It is a story based on partial differential equations

Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by baralatie(m): 11:45am On Mar 19, 2022
cry cry

For those of you >who are yet to understand the problem




We

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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by ImoleNaija: 11:46am On Mar 19, 2022
Na 'faworaja' you marry. I hope you haven't put his name in any of your personal properties.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by greypencils: 11:47am On Mar 19, 2022
When you are asked to spend at least 2 years in courtship with the person you intend getting married, you think it's fun? True! You hardly know the things you really need to know within 2 years but you get to see one or two signs that can inform your decision whether to continue the relationship or not. It's better than seeing nothing at all
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by Nobody: 11:48am On Mar 19, 2022
truthCoder:


If you dont have any good job or business, you need to as a matter of urgency focus on that from this moment on.

If you have a side business or a business that cannot even fend for you and your kids, you need to start thinking of upgrading that level immediately.

Under no circumstance must you confront you husband before you become financially independent.

This is the time to start showering him with love and care. Let him invest in your business and independence.

If you allow your emotions or pastors to mislead you, you will suffer more despair in the years to come.

Be smart.

Build yourself and your independence first.

Only then can you now confront him.

But also ask yourself, what are you not offering anymore? How has been your sex life with him? Are you always complaining of been too tired for sex? How's the food? hows the home environment? Look inwards and see the genesis.

Religion can only comfort your mind at the moment, it wont provide practical solutions.

Get the money bag first before you get the sword.
Best advice.

faithqueen


Op dey rub e head to collect as much as you can, sweet talk him and make him invest in a business . Stash savings you can lay your hands on. You need all the financial back up you can get for now.

And while at it, gather all the evidence of his scamming activities you can lay your hands on incase you need leverage .


And lastly, shed and purge yourself of all the religious brainwashing.

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Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by Kajaard: 11:49am On Mar 19, 2022
Which one is SPIRITUAL MUMMY again? undecided

All these illiterate gullible folks. Nonsense.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by RIO1987(m): 11:49am On Mar 19, 2022
It's seems you guys didn't court for long,
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by joetem(m): 11:49am On Mar 19, 2022
The poster should communicate in the language she understands, someone will help her interprete here. The story dey turn my eye
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by slimik: 11:51am On Mar 19, 2022
What have you impacted in his life apart from spreading your legs Now you say he is scamming people etc the car you mentioned ''our car" did both of you buy the car together ....Ladies of this days are the causes of their own problem a country were a man pays heavily for marriage and bride price.

I bet you haven't impacted anything in his life...the way of life and source of his earns means has always been his source of income he used financially to get you to marry him......these days for Nigeria no money no wife,gf so my dear you have to learn to live with it or else you go will kpeme young. if I were you and you kids in your marriage focus on their future.


Faithqueen:
I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I remember now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by BabaIbo: 11:52am On Mar 19, 2022
OP, please I beg no confuse person with this your story.

E be like integration for maths.

I got to a point and I was like, "guy you sure say you go school abi you no sabi read again,ĺ until I saw others complaining about the same thing.

Your story is vague, how do you expect readers to advice you now?
Re: My Husband Has 2 Children With His Spiritual Mother's Daughter by izubext007: 11:52am On Mar 19, 2022
They are ur spiritual step children

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