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17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by LoveUdie: 4:18pm On Mar 20, 2022
1. Women fall in love with words. Words communicate your intentions and why you do what you do with her. Which is why it is important for her to hear you say you love her. Verbalize affection

2. Women stay in love when your actions match your words. This is why she begins to doubt your verbalized affection if your actions are not consistent

3. Women dream revealing dreams and have insticts to protect themselves and their family. Sometimes God will communicate to your woman through dreams or strong insticts about the wrong you are doing or when danger is coming towards you or the children. Pay attention to her

4. If you want to love a woman long-term attend to her emotions. Money, gifts and your good physique might excite a woman for sometime, but ultimately the woman wants a companion, someone who will be responsible with and attend to her emotions

5. Women are actually not complicated. She wants the simple things in life: attention, respect, kindness and thoughtfulness

6. A hurt woman might push you to see if you will fight for her. Her pain makes her run away easily, she expects you to abandon her just like the others did. Show her you are different. Give her stability and assurance and it will help her heal

7. Women prefer to be dumped than to be led on and played with. She can handle the truth. Be courageous enough to tell her you are no longer interested in her instead of giving her false hopes. She would rather be hurt with the truth than to be kept with a lie

8. Women respond well to love and become shaken when neglected. A loved up woman responds back with love but when you make her insecure, she will become frustrated and withdraw

9. Women make love with their heart. Don't expect great sex and regular love making from your wife if you don't treat her right

10. Don't always be quick to advise a woman. Sometimes all she needs is for you to listen and in talking with you, she will find the solutions from within

11. Being domineering and a male chauvinist will work against you. Respect is not demanded, respect is attracted when you treat her the way you want her to treat you. It is in your best interest to value her, the man who loves his woman loves himself

12. When you fail to protect your woman she will protect herself against you. Don't be her enemy, she might love you but still put walls to keep you from hurting her

13. Women too want the joy of being there for someone. Allow her to be love to you, to be there for you and support you. A woman who doesn't feel needed or that she adds no value sees no value in the relationship/marriage

14. Women too have goals, dreams and a purpose. Don't fight her growth

15. Women like to be watered. When you nourish her with love and care she will present herself to you in a pleasant way. A loved up woman doesn't nag or quarrel

16. Women hold back opening up when they feel unsafe or ridiculed. Give her a safe refuge in you where she can talk without feeling judged or made to feel petty

17. Women need clarity so that they invest. When you seem unsure she will not give you a hundred percent. Have no grey areas and... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by latexxbro(m): 4:20pm On Mar 20, 2022
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by rickpat(m): 4:22pm On Mar 20, 2022
hmmm
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 20, 2022
kiss

I agree! Women aren't complicated... Just wanna be loved, respected and protected...

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by FERNANDEZISBACK: 4:24pm On Mar 20, 2022
latexxbro:
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man
Haha this cracked me up..you must be high right now.. cheesy
What you blowing? grin

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Truvelisback(m): 4:25pm On Mar 20, 2022
WOEMEN.

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Nobody: 4:25pm On Mar 20, 2022
latexxbro:
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man
Treat her like sh**?

Most of you are so dumb...

You think women are complex creatures... Ignore simple advice such as this... Do what you want to be seen as a real man... Then come here to wail that you can't understand women...

If you wanna spend your lifesavings on her... Instead of giving her love and attention... Suit yourself...

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Candidlady: 4:47pm On Mar 20, 2022
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latexxbro:
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man
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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by englishmart(m): 4:51pm On Mar 20, 2022
You can't draw such an insanely mendacious conclusion after dating just 2-3 girls. No two people behave absolutely the same way.

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Mofun: 4:53pm On Mar 20, 2022
Women are the most wonderful creatures of the Creator. It takes a lot to really understand them.

Check my signature please.
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by carl90(m): 4:54pm On Mar 20, 2022
You would do all these to that one woman that have passed the test and really deserve your love ,that will be well reciprocated.
Truth be told,there are some ladies that don't deserve all these you have listed out.
Just find the One,love ,care,and respect her.

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by muyico(m): 5:35pm On Mar 20, 2022
Keep on imagine still u summit everything to God.2 take total control.
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by jogojogo: 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2022
This is very true, everything here is completely true. I experiment this on my wife and got exactly the same results as expressed here.
No kidding..if you like call me a simple man but I got 100% loyal wife

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by jogojogo: 5:57pm On Mar 20, 2022
This works like majic especially for the married[ kissquote author=englishmart post=111205720] You can't draw such an insanely mendacious conclusion after dating just 2-3 girls. No two people behave absolutely the same way. [/quote]
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Nobody: 6:19pm On Mar 20, 2022
OP, make a post of the lessons women need to learn about men...I want to see something undecided...

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by VladimirPutiin(m): 6:22pm On Mar 20, 2022
latexxbro:
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man

Those things the OP said are being done by simps. They don’t align with An average Nigerian girl here.

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by VladimirPutiin(m): 6:23pm On Mar 20, 2022
Datboredberry:
kiss

I agree! Women aren't complicated... Just wanna be loved, respected and protected...

While you ladies do the opposite most times. Lol

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Nobody: 6:25pm On Mar 20, 2022
latexxbro:
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by VladimirPutiin(m): 6:26pm On Mar 20, 2022
An average Nigerian girl doesn’t understand those things listed up there.

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Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Nobody: 6:27pm On Mar 20, 2022
carl90:
You would do all these to that one woman that have passed the test and really deserve your love ,that will be well reciprocated.
Truth be told,there are some ladies that don't deserve all these you have listed out.
Just find the One,love ,care,and respect her.
It's easier to find 30million inside bush
No go give yourself high blood pressure becos say u dey find "the one" if she no be jesus she no fit be like Jesus

Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Demigod22: 1:57am On Mar 21, 2022
Learn all these because of woman that will still cheat. I will rather go and read chemistry textbook.

Relationship have no manual, if you like go and read Shakespeare, girl that will cheat will still cheat
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by James150: 3:06pm On Mar 21, 2022
LoveUdie:
1. Women fall in love with words. Words communicate your intentions and why you do what you do with her. Which is why it is important for her to hear you say you love her. Verbalize affection

2. Women stay in love when your actions match your words. This is why she begins to doubt your verbalized affection if your actions are not consistent

3. Women dream revealing dreams and have insticts to protect themselves and their family. Sometimes God will communicate to your woman through dreams or strong insticts about the wrong you are doing or when danger is coming towards you or the children. Pay attention to her

4. If you want to love a woman long-term attend to her emotions. Money, gifts and your good physique might excite a woman for sometime, but ultimately the woman wants a companion, someone who will be responsible with and attend to her emotions

5. Women are actually not complicated. She wants the simple things in life: attention, respect, kindness and thoughtfulness

6. A hurt woman might push you to see if you will fight for her. Her pain makes her run away easily, she expects you to abandon her just like the others did. Show her you are different. Give her stability and assurance and it will help her heal

7. Women prefer to be dumped than to be led on and played with. She can handle the truth. Be courageous enough to tell her you are no longer interested in her instead of giving her false hopes. She would rather be hurt with the truth than to be kept with a lie

8. Women respond well to love and become shaken when neglected. A loved up woman responds back with love but when you make her insecure, she will become frustrated and withdraw

9. Women make love with their heart. Don't expect great sex and regular love making from your wife if you don't treat her right

10. Don't always be quick to advise a woman. Sometimes all she needs is for you to listen and in talking with you, she will find the solutions from within

11. Being domineering and a male chauvinist will work against you. Respect is not demanded, respect is attracted when you treat her the way you want her to treat you. It is in your best interest to value her, the man who loves his woman loves himself

12. When you fail to protect your woman she will protect herself against you. Don't be her enemy, she might love you but still put walls to keep you from hurting her

13. Women too want the joy of being there for someone. Allow her to be love to you, to be there for you and support you. A woman who doesn't feel needed or that she adds no value sees no value in the relationship/marriage

14. Women too have goals, dreams and a purpose. Don't fight her growth

15. Women like to be watered. When you nourish her with love and care she will present herself to you in a pleasant way. A loved up woman doesn't nag or quarrel

16. Women hold back opening up when they feel unsafe or ridiculed. Give her a safe refuge in you where she can talk without feeling judged or made to feel petty

17. Women need clarity so that they invest. When you seem unsure she will not give you a hundred percent. Have no grey areas and... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com

Rubbish shea na women carry us come this life.
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by jericco1(m): 3:12pm On Mar 21, 2022
Lol
In the end, na one tout she go leave you for.
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Nobody: 3:17pm On Mar 21, 2022
Great points, OP.
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by Futurethankgod(m): 3:25pm On Mar 21, 2022
latexxbro:
Guys, Do opposite of everything said here if you want to be a real Man
Lol... the only time nigeria fit better na until nairalanders start to dey use their senses grin grin grin
Re: 17 Lessons That Men Need To Learn About Women by jayworld15(m): 3:26pm On Mar 21, 2022
You're generalizing women as a whole when most of them are dragging food-plate with Satan. It's when you're shown the true nature of most girls or women, that's when you'd know God created alot of them on creation night, while a scanty number of them were created on creation morning.

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