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oz4real83:
Try and reach out to your family members.

Family members no dey rapol with broke family member... They identify with u, when u are rich...

Amza07:
you can assist me here 2092244742 uba God bless you

IIt shall be well bro

People are really suffering in this country.

If those with monthly income still struggle with family upkeep, what happens to the jobless single guys out there?

Op, jah will see you through.

Amza07:
I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

Ibrahim Mustapha. Kogi boy. U no dey rest. Wonder how u sit to put these stories together. Well, its easier than working. You hit jackpot this time, ur story is already swallowed , Congratulations. Now u can rest a while before coming out with another moniker. Your bait don catch plenty fishes. No abusive words now o, but d day u are scrutinised, u will start to curse.

Amza07:
I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

Inrahim Mustapha the make up story teller / scammer, Ur story don hit jackpot this time around
Congratulations. The problem is, u are never satisfied, u will spend up this money and come back again with another moniker and another super story. You get 220k for accnt? Na so.

Suspect1:
And i included "some" in my write up... you are being too noisey and naughty ,be warned! i never insulted you, yunno?

An insult is a rude expression and/of an extreme contempt intended to offend someone.
You opined that I was no different from a "noisemaker" which was an insult because it was an unreasonable accusation of my person as noisiness had nothing to do with my comment.
In addition you just stated in the highlighted that I am not only noisy (though you obviously skipped spelling classes) but naughty as well. That qualifies for an insult.
You insulted me.
A clear indication that you are an ídíot.

Amza07:
do not say what you know nothing about, I generally respect women alot so I love and respect my wife.

I'm sorry if I have misjudged you. I made my assertion based on your writeup. I'm glad you said you respect women. Please continue to protect your wife, it's part of your duty. Avoid unecessary intrusion from friends and family into your immediate family's affair.
Relax, God will fix your financial challenge sooner than you can imagine.
Shalom

Bluezy13:
An insult is a rude expression and/of an extreme contempt intended to offend someone.
You opined that I was no different from a "noisemaker" which was an insult because it was an unreasonable accusation of my person as noisiness had nothing to do with my comment.
In addition you just stated in the highlighted that I am not only noisy (though you obviously skipped spelling classes) but naughty as well. That qualifies for an insult.
You insulted me.
A clear indication that you are an ídíot.

wooh... say by a noisy clown that has already modified his comment up to a thousand time... Get the fvck outtaf here! U useless noise maker!

Suspect1:
wooh... say by a noisy clown that has already modified his comment up to a thousand time... Get the fvck outtaf here! U useless noise maker!

Oh...you could no longer curtail your ídíocy anymore.

Hehehe...

Amza07:
I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

Dude don't mind those here commenting like they have lived this life several times. Some of them have not seen any harsh situation. You married right. Thank God for that. You made a mistake and yes, even the best of us, make mistakes as well but as long as you and your wife are in agreement there is nothing you cannot achieve.

First you two need to pray together often and comfort each other often. Tough times don't last forever. As at 2015 my life was in shambles but my wife stood by me and today things are much better. So please pray together and comfort each other things will get better.

Two, you and wife should think of a business that you two can work on with the money from the bike you sold. In the words of one of my great teachers, Prophet TB Joshua, "big things don't start big". This is very true. Many of the billionaires we see today started very small. And you can do the same. Look at your area where you live, you will find something you can start selling. It could be vegetables, it could recharge cards. It could confectionaries. Just look at your area and find the opportunities that abound.

Three don't listen to the devil. It is in tough times like this that they devil will start whispering evil ideas to you. You and your wife should resolve never to do something wrong just to get money or favors. Don't use charms, it will backfire. Don't trade sex for favors or money it will destroy your marriage. Don't do fraud you will pay back one way or the other. Don't do shady deals and avoid bad friends who give you evil advise or try to exploit you or your wife because of your current condition.

Paraphrasing TB Joshua again, bad times come to build us in character and after we have learned and grown the bad times give way for the good times and good character we have learned will help us preserve and sustain the good times.

Remember two is better than you for they will have a better reward for their labor. Jah bless.

efficiencie:
Dude don't mind those here commenting like they have lived this life several times. Some of them have not seen any harsh situation. You married right. Thank God for that. You made a mistake and yes, even the best of us, make mistakes as well but as long as you and your wife are in agreement there is nothing you cannot achieve.

First you two need to pray together often and comfort each other often. Tough times don't last forever. As at 2015 my life was in shambles but my wife stood by me and today things are much better. So please pray together and comfort each other things will get better.

Two, you and wife should think of a business that you two can work on with the money from the bike you sold. In the words of one of my great teachers, Prophet TB Joshua, "big things don't start big". This is very true. Many of the billionaires we see today started very small. And you can do the same. Look at your area where you live, you will find something you can start selling. It could be vegetables, it could recharge cards. It could confectionaries. Just look at your area and find the opportunities that abound.

Three don't listen to the devil. It is in tough times like this that they devil will start whispering evil ideas to you. You and your wife should resolve never to do something wrong just to get money or favors. Don't use charms, it will backfire. Don't trade sex for favors or money it will destroy your marriage. Don't do fraud you will pay back one way or the other. Don't do shady deals and avoid bad friends who give you evil advise or try to exploit you or your wife because of your current condition.

Paraphrasing TB Joshua again, bad times come to build us in character and after we have learned and grown the bad times give way for the good times and good character we have learned will help us preserve and sustain the good times.

Remember two is better than you for they will have a better reward for their labor. Jah bless.

okay thanks for the advice

Ouchbabe:
I'm sorry if I have misjudged you. I made my assertion based on your writeup. I'm glad you said you respect women. Please continue to protect your wife, it's part of your duty. Avoid unecessary intrusion from friends and family into your immediate family's affair.
Relax, God will fix your financial challenge sooner than you can imagine.
Shalom

I love how u admit to your mistakes may God guide you

Bluezy13:
I think you have a comprehension problem. You could have just asked for explanation to my comment.
Someone had a bike with the intention of buying a passenger tricycle of say N350,000. He planned to sell the bike for say N150,000 and borrow N200,000 from a friend.
The friend promised lending him the money, instead of him to continue managing the bike pending when the friend will give him the money, he chose to sell off the bike instead... which was his only source of income... while hoping on the friend.
Now the friend disappointed him, and he is left stranded.
That is the meaning of counting your chicks before it hatched.

Let me ask you did you offer him any solution to the problem or you just told him his stupid for his mistakes which he has agreed on and decided to ask for suggestions on how to move forward.

Fourwinds:
Here you go again...he could have asked for suggestion here right from the outset before making this decision that he is trying to savage...

And you think he didn't is from him asking for suggestion that a friend promised to give him a loan even though it didn't fall through for. His now here asking for help and all ypu could do was through his mistakes to his face. If he hasn't accepted his mistakes he won't be ask for help on how to solve the problem. Just know life happens and what happens after life happens to you is how you react to it. He reacted by ask for help on yhis platform and all you could do was tell him he made a mistake wow.

Mrquote:
And you think he didn't is from him asking for suggestion that a friend promised to give him a loan even though it didn't fall through for. His now here asking for help and all ypu could do was through his mistakes to his face. If he hasn't accepted his mistakes he won't be ask for help on how to solve the problem. Just know life happens and what happens after life happens to you is how you react to it. He reacted by ask for help on yhis platform and all you could do was tell him he made a mistake wow.

kudos sir

Mrquote:
And you think he didn't is from him asking for suggestion that a friend promised to give him a loan even though it didn't fall through for. His now here asking for help and all ypu could do was through his mistakes to his face. If he hasn't accepted his mistakes he won't be ask for help on how to solve the problem. Just know life happens and what happens after life happens to you is how you react to it. He reacted by ask for help on yhis platform and all you could do was tell him he made a mistake wow.

Yes. Let him know he made a mistake even though he is going to be helped. This nairaland thought me a lot of things and also learnt from other people's mistake.. So others will learn from him...

Fourwinds:
Yes .. They had a plan .the money they were expecting was never theirs and they can not lay claim to it..so why will thek man sell his only means of feeding the family to wait for a promise in the sky...wisdom matters in decision making

.... It's called gamble. Ask a he richest men on the he world, at one point you gat take that decision,...... Left or right...... One mistake can ruin you.

Fourwinds:
Yes. Let him know he made a mistake even though he is going to be helped. This nairaland thought me a lot of things and also learnt from other people's mistake.. So others will learn from him...

And you think he doesn't know that already, my problem is why would you keep reminding him of his mistakes instead of you to offer solutions.

Bluezy13:
Oh...you could no longer curtail your ídíocy anymore.
Hehehe...

keep shut noise maker!

Mrquote:
And you think he doesn't know that already, my problem is why would you keep reminding him of his mistakes instead of you to offer solutions.

yes. He need to be reminded for others whose head are block to learn from it

Trogge:
.... It's called gamble. Ask a he richest men on the he world, at one point you gat take that decision,...... Left or right...... One mistake can ruin you.

yes.. It may even lead to suicide.. That is why we caution people not to be faster than their shadow

Fourwinds:
yes. He need to be reminded for others whose head are block to learn from it

So you're using his own mistake to justify while others shouldn't make mistakes while not offer him some advice first then at the last part you could easily tell him he Bleep up but you have already offered him some piece of what he need. I figured you don't have any advice for him but you preferred to spit his mistakes on his face.

Fourwinds:
yes.. It may even lead to suicide.. That is why we caution people not to be faster than their shadow

.......... I was told then, am like have planned everything, it was a wrong choice I choose. Back to square one

Mrquote:
So you're using his own mistake to justify while others shouldn't make mistakes while not offer him some advice first then at the last part you could easily tell him he Bleep up but you have already offered him some piece of what he need. I figured you don't have any advice for him but you preferred to spit his mistakes on his face.

If you like keeping quoting...he needs to be told his mistake and of course other will learn from it...if you are not to sure of something go and ask not when the deed is done ...it may even be too late to correct.

Fourwinds:
If you like keeping quoting...he needs to be told his mistake and of course other will learn from it...if you are not to sure of something go and ask not when the deed is done ...it may even be too late to correct.

You're not even seen your mistake and that's why you think I'm just quoting you.

turkeyman:
Where do you stay?, drop me an email let's see what will happen echosamuel13@gmail.com

I emailed you since 20th.

9jayes:
If you’re in Lagos I can get you a Korope on hired purchase

Good morning boss
I'd like to have a korope....