oneolajire:
Seems you have taken your mum too closer than your wife to be.

Your mum has maybe 20+ more years to live.

Your wife has maybe 50+ years to live with you and you alone.

Your mum is separated from your dad,so what kind of girl or home do you think she would want you to have, a peaceful one?

Beg your wife to be, do secret wedding without your pepper mummy.

Exclude her from your wedding and marriage/home, else any girl your home may not know peace and hypertension/ heart attack may knock you down soonest.

You are a bad person. No sensible person should take this advice.

oilmane:



Oga go get your own apartment, resolve your dufferences with your girl and stop being a mummy's boy, she should stop coming to your mums apartment until you move into yours, you see a rare breed u day jonse, how many Nigeria girls fit assist you financially? By the time slay queen deal with you na then you go know wetin u won loose, abi na ur mum u won marry?

If I say make I talk I go misyan for this boy wey never grow up or get sense to put parents to where they belong. I wished I have a girl like your that’s very supportive and caring as you have said. She go don get belle sef

What your Mum just did in natural with women, talkless of one with just one child, and a son for that matter! She feels your girlfriend wants to reap where she did not sow. You mum does not want you to love any lady more than her. If mothers and their favorite sons go through this phase, it is in your place to reassure her that you will always love and no woman will ever take her place.

Or come back one day, call her and say: "Mum Am Gay!"

Shock her to let you live your life in peace.

Or threaten to cut her off your life by moving out. She go gentle!

My former flat mate is running mad in their village because of this, his mother finally seduced him and they started having sex, instead of the mother to run mad, when the villagers found out, the son that was seduced became mad.

The choice is up to you.

Or lastly, prayerfully follow your mom

Macgyver1:


You are a bad person. No sensible person should take this advice.

Firstly, you didn't fix your gender on your nairaland profile, but I assume you are one of those wicked and senseless women who don't allow men and young men have peace in their homes.

You should be avoided like a plague.

Buje1987:


If I say make I talk I go misyan for this boy wey never grow up or get sense to put parents to where they belong. I wished I have a girl like your that’s very supportive and caring as you have said. She go don get belle sef

Nor b lie o, no time to check time

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady I love so much.

We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom.

Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened.

My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment. She and my father are separated.

One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me, treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her.

On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

is it your mum that ended the relationship or you?its your decision not your mum's.

You just lost a gold. Apologize to her asap. Don't be a mommy's boy

I don't understand why people allow others to dissuade them when the know they're on the right track.

oneolajire:


Firstly, you didn't fix your gender on your nairaland profile, but I assume you are one of those wicked and senseless women who don't allow men and young men have peace in their homes.

You should be avoided like a plague.

Lmao

Rubbish talk na ur mom wan chose who u go marry

TheWolfen:


You are not listening because you don't wanna listen. . .
Y'all keep forming stupid woke. Like I said before. There is no underestimating parental influence in their kids life.
That is my point. ..
It is only God that can help op. Not your yeye woke advice that will lead him to more problems

That's how many parents have destroyed their children's relationships/marriages. It's not about being woke.

If a parent keeps interfering in their adult children's lives, it means they don't think they brought them up well enough to make decisions for themselves.

Besides, parents are not always right. They too can have selfish interests or myopic views based on their own experiences.

Wicked you.

Futurethankgod:
Only first and last page i read, Sorry.

As in ehhhhhhhhhhh. Marry the girl cos she is wife material. Report your mom to her older siblings if she has one and explain to them. You are loosing a good woman all because of your mom? IS it ur mom u r marrying or the lady? U r an adult abeg.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I always try to wonder and understand why you folks allow your parent or mother have a say in your marriage life...
Why give her that space to even have the audacity to call your girl out whenever there's an issue that can be trashed out..

If you like don't stand your ground and be a man..leave her to ruin your life affair cos of her attitude..it's disgusting at the same time nonsense..let me not talk..

Modified:you already broke up? look go back to that lady and apologise..as for ya momma don't she or you have a house of her/your own? why on Earth is/are she/you still residing with you/her...give yourself/her some privacy..go get her/yourself an apartment and apologise to that innocent lady you hurt..you know what you want for yourself..stand for it and let no mere being have a say in your life...

Shhhh01:
As in ehhhhhhhhhhh. Marry the girl cos she is wife material. Report your mom to her older siblings if she has one and explain to them. You are loosing a good woman all because of your mom? IS it ur mom u r marrying or the lady? U r an adult abeg.

Exactly...I love your Monika and signature.. alpha woman..

Shhhh01:
Wicked you.

Ehh i like am.

LOL

Futurethankgod:
Ehh i like am.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Exactly...I love your Monika and signature.. alpha woman..

TENKIU. LOL

Una plenty out there, and it's from the early stage such things happen mumsy thought u're still dat small boy why she dey reason you & Ur babe but my advice if you can get your apartment respect go dey...

Peace ✌️

Tenkiu jare my fan

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Exactly...I love your Monika and signature.. alpha woman..

You have not said anything.

What is the reason your babe gave for breaking up with you?

His mum being unkind to her is enough reason for her to break up with him. Some marriages are facing issues because of in-laws. She might have properly studied his mum's character and realized she can't put up with it.