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Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nocommonsense: 3:32pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Life, I wish I have a mother that could even slap me right now. People don't value what they have until they lose them. Go back and beg your mother and have meaningful conversation with her like mother and son. 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:32pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
VicM6: I tire ooh.I don dey dey Op shies before but na my stepmom.The day I vex for her I no even know say I say somethings until them start to tell me. 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Grandmeister(m): 3:32pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
ATTemi:Sharap! This is why many teenagers are killing themselves nowadays. Because parents who should be their best friends and confidant have turned cold and insensitive. Which is worse? The young man committing suicide out of depression or the mother receiving bianca level slap? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by leobergy(m): 3:33pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Iyaebe: What if after asking for forgiveness,his mother refuses or accepts but continues been toxic? |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:34pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Nocommonsense: You wish you have a mother that could slap you.You are a big fool.A mother that would Bleep you up mentally. Omo you no need mother my dear. Mothers don't do that ,mothers don't nag their children to anger.Stop saying trash. 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Mavor: 3:34pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
jimmychang:If her mother is as abusive as she claims, then why doesn't she cut off the woman from her life so she can have peace. Only a drug addict hits the parent. What she has done is an abomination unto the Lord. And she and you who are justifying her rubbish are the fools before God, not I. Be there deceiving yourself. So her mum is an abusive person, she should beat her up abi? You clowns always like the easy way in life. 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Grandmeister(m): 3:34pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Nocommonsense:Having a mother that slapped you out of love and correction is a thousand times different from having a mother that hates the very ground you walk upon. Trust me it is not a situation you will wish to experience. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Lamasta(m): 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Fahdiga: The mother failed in her parenting duty...... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nobody: 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by dettolgel: 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Mavor: Demon calling someone else name. Hope accepted that he was wrong. What are your words for the toxic mom? Your mentality is the reason why we can't even talk to our elderly even when they are wrong. Both the op and his mom are wrong and both needs to be caution. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Femeto: 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Omo ko mo. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Afriifa(m): 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:You appear to be a noble and a young gentleman. Please don't blame yourself over that. I'll leave God to see through your heart and judge you accordingly. I can't judge you for your actions. 2 Likes |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Antina(f): 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Reference: Are you saying if your mum makes you angry and slaps you in the process, the next thing to do is to return the slap right and beat her cause she makes you angry? 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by bummyla(m): 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
I have seen a lot in life! And I know if care is not taken, we are bound to make our parents mistakes with our own children! I am not supporting his mother or the father you talked about! I am talking about what is good and acceptable before GOD! Last year I bailed a Benin boy and a loved one from Slavery in Ghana. Their parents pushed and sent them there, both nearly dead, till I have to pay some hard earning money for their freedom, just for the edo boy's parents to tell him not to come back home, with benz and yahoo money. Some parents are horrible but the bible said "Honor your parents, so that your day will be long" Let God deal with the wayward parents, our duty is to honor them, less you will repeat their mistakes with your loved ones Spherical77: |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Afriifa(m): 3:36pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Fahdiga:You are so myopic. What a pathetic being. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Karemarealty288(m): 3:36pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Ticket to purgatory ......... 2 Likes
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Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Afriifa(m): 3:37pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Your first sentence is bullsh*t |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
kkins25:Learning how to set boundaries after experiencing emotional abuse from a parent can be difficult.they wont't admit what they've done,when the abuse is happening try to stay calm...i personally think forgiveness is overrated and you can't let go of resentment as if it were a balloon,it takes a lot of work. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
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Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Prettygirl200(f): 3:38pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Am so sorry about your mother's attitude, some mother's are like that, mine almost has the same characteristics of your mother. Though she pushed u to do that, I won't blame u for hitting her shaaa but will advise next time, just walk away please. What did your dad say? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:38pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Mavor: You will never understand .He didn't beat her up.My own is try to be very toxic towards your children and see the outcome.Nonsense,if you are not good to your children try to be good now ooh. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Mavor: 3:39pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
dettolgel:Your words mean nothing to me. There is nothing in this life that will ever justify a man or a woman hitting his parent. Your parents are the symbol on earth of God's authority over you. Rebel against them and you rebel against God. Jokers like yourself forget that this life is very short and brief but the next life is eternity. But your type are so desperate to live this short life in enjoyment that you are willing and eager to break God's word. If her mother is abusive, why did she not cut off the woman permanently so she could know peace? If an elder messes up, yes you can caution the person. Hitting the elder is another thing entirely. God has commanded that we respect our elders and take care of the frail elderly. If you don't like his commandment, take it up with God Himself. 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:39pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Exactly,only someone who has toxic parents can relate.It is not the OPS fault.I was in his situation once. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nocommonsense: 3:40pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
jimmychang:you have entitle to your opinions same way I do so watch your mouth bruh one love |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by wallarwallar(m): 3:40pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
I sincerely understand ur situation even those experiences u did nt share. Sometime we need to make our point just for the other party to know what they are doing is wrong regardless of who they are may be father, mother or pastor because no matter how mean you think they are they also reason after every event but we need to be conscious to avoid our emotion control our actions. Make your point not in a disrespectful manner and iwen you sense it wud lead to confrontation please leave immediately and if u have to run please do. There are people you don't fight cos at the end of the day wether you are wrong or right you will be the one to beg for forgiveness. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Wallix: 3:40pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
You get mind hit mumsy wey give you life shey? It the almighty or whoever you want to call it, that gives live through our parents. To the OP, it is a rather very unfortnate situation you are in. I am happy for you that you are remorseful of what happened. It shows you are human and have the capabilities of evaluating your actions and reaching morally and emotionally reasonable conclusions. From the way you have described your mum, mehnnn. I have serious reservations commenting or saying things about people I do not know personally. Some people can be very impossible. They may be friends, partners, teachers, employers etc etc. It is just the way they are, and I think they are created for a purpose. If we find ourselves compelled to deal / interact with such people, we need to learn to manage them, as such that we through our reactions to them will not turn out to be de devil. Apologise to your mum, dad and siblings, and make sure you do not ever allow yourself to be cornered into such situation that will warrant such extreme reactions toward her again and never! I wish you all the wisdom and patience you need to deal with the situation. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by letitrainnow(m): 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Apologies to her. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Mavor: 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
jimmychang:Mumu talk. You should be more worried about your own children and the beatings to come your way. God operates strongly through Karma. Be there supporting parental abuse, that is what your type will reap. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by marsup: 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
You made a mistake. You have to beg her, and God for forgiveness. You must also forgive yourself. Look for the person she respects and listens to, beg the person to follow you, so you can beg for forgiveness. Please, don't let this happen again, it's an automatic curse. It's better to just avoid going home for now, if you know you can't live with her in peace. It is well with you. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22: Your mom is troublesome o I can't imagine what your dad must have gone through at her hands. Don't hit yourself too much over it. The guilt will never go away just like that. So, you must learn to live with it. Just don't do it again. It is also a lesson that you need to watch yourself. If you can lose it and go berserk on your mother, then it is a warning to work on your temper so you don't go berserk on your own wife when you get married. Avoid your mother like the Plague. But watch over your father so that she doesn't nag him to death one day. You must PROTECT your father. 1 Like |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Mavor: God is an epitome of love ,when your parents are now the devil's incarnates you should still respect them and allow them to torture you just because they are God's bla bla bla.God is not with any parent who abuse their children go and rest. |
Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Vivian16: 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kneel down and beg her with a gift probably a good wrapper, do it remorsefully she will forgive you even God knows we are humans who can make mistakes or overreact when pushed to the wall irrespective of the person involved. |
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