| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Sleekfingers: 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg Apologize, and move on......but do something about your temperament..... 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Acidbath: 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg Sincerely ask for your mother's forgiveness...then avoid the house for a while. Even when you go back every now and then, avoid any banter with her. Your dad likes her like that...that's why he is still married to her. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by bigcee(m): 3:42pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:
A big fat lie! His future kids would do no such thing if he doesn't drive them crazy like his mom did to him. He's regretting his actions already, let's help him heal. There's a part in the bible that advise parents about being careful with their kids. The two of them needs forgiveness, not just him alone. I pray God will heal his mother. God bless you joor! |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Zeus201(m): 3:42pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
First of all, you messed up by hitting a woman talk more of your mother but you have not done the worse thing known to man. If there was no sin there would be no forgiveness.
Solution:
1. Beg your dad for forgiveness and afterwards ask him to broker peace with your mom for you but being a hot tempered woman I doubt she would forgive immediately but still do it
2. If you are up to 21and have the means, leave the house to avoid further provocation, in doing so you gain your respect and in due time you can rescue you brother from that toxic environment
3. Pray to God for forgiveness, this should be no. 1 self, ask for wisdom and restraint. The Bible asks children to obey their parents in the Lord but admonishes parents not to provoke their children to anger.
After wards, go on your merry way and pursue your career, many people have done worse and still ended up successful because they understood that it's pointless letting the past way you down and don't think too much about any curses because it's God that has the final say to curse or bless.
Take care bro . 3 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by sunkoye: 3:42pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
We are definitely in the end of days. Abi...this one no be curse laidis? So...all the preaching from righteousness no enter your hear  You would be forgiven o but definitely feel the rod of God on your back.. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Mavor: 3:42pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
jimmychang:
God is an epitome of love ,when your parents are now the devil's incarnated you should still respect them.God is not with any parent who abuse their children go and rest. Agreed but God no say make you beat up your parents when dem dey fu*k up. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by pedestal82(m): 3:42pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Ask for forgiveness from her, if she refuses to, go to God for his forgiveness, his forgiveness overides hers if she chooses not to after you have begged her , albeit genuinely.
Not supporting your action though but she will never raise her hand on you again. she would have learnt her lesson too somehow,Never to hit a grown up, there will always be a push back. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Image123(m): 3:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
The world needs Jesus, He is evergreen. If Jesus Christ was in just one of you, this would never happen. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by DryMouth: 3:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Fahdiga:
You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen Shut up you smelling mouth 
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| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Tallesty1(m): 3:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy:
You think I didn't take time to read your write-up before responding? You want me to quote your whole post and show you the demeaning things you said about your mom. You probably forgot what you typed. Like I said, if you can't cope with her, stay away totally from her, allow those who can tolerate her to live with her. Why are you people shying away from the truth simply because it was a woman, his mother.
If what the OP said about the woman is true then she owe him and his siblings an apology. In sane clime, government suppose don collect the kids from her because she's an abusive parent.
Do you know the psychological and emotional damage she's done to these children? Do you even know how abusive people are raised?
Everything he complained about her doesn't matter because she's a mother right? You think being a mother starts and ends at pushing kids out?
It's a miracle if this Op is reserved, that's if he's not lying about himself but that too is a psychological problem. A kind of defense mechanism.
He said in his post that he doesn't have friends, he doesn't trust people. Do you think these things happened naturally? Dude is trying to protect himself from people like his mother. He's damaged.
Let me be honest with you, the OP is very likely to be a violent person, he sees it himself so he's staying away from people because he doesn't want to act it out. He dislikes his mother for it and he will hate himself even more if starts behaving like his mother.
Nothing will happen to the OP if he doesn't apologize, though I will advise him to. Do you think the father will keep quiet if the wife isn't as the son described her?
It's people like you and Iya whatever at the front page that make it difficult for African parents to apologize.
The woman is a bad mother, I won't say she deserves what she got(it should have come from someone else) but I don't blame the Op.
You need to live with a toxic person to be able to have an informed opinion on this issue. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimtemi1: 3:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Not out of RAGE, u've always had it in mind.just the right time to hit the nail in the head which is Bad for ur life because u are already Cursed 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by MyExpression(m): 3:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
jimmychang:
What is endurance when you keep testing or pushing someone Everyone has a limit oooh.I hope you are both the type that make someone angry and blame them for reacting in a way you don't expect. There is societal standard of rationale. We all react differently but we must know where to draw the line. Except you wanna plead self defence from an unarmed lady, who happens to be your mother, you have no justified reason for assaulting her. You already had a vocal backlash...why respond again with blows, when you could have just walked away?! How hard did she really hit you...be truthful, how hard You just wanted to prove a point to her. I really hope you do some self reflection...and explore safer options next time. 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:44pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Vivian16:
Kneel down and beg her with a gift probably a good wrapper, do it remorsefully she will forgive you even God knows we are humans who can make mistakes or overreact when pushed to the wall irrespective of the person involved. This is not overreaction abeg.He has been storing thus anger and hate for long.That moment was the tipping point and he unleashed it.The mom too should have a rethink. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by ChuksHills(m): 3:44pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Ephesians 6:2-3 (KJV), Ex 20:12 2: Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise  3: That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. My brother if you want to live long and succeed in life go and beg your mum to forgive you and also ask God for mercy. There is always a consequence whenever we beat or abuse our parents or the elderly no matter who they are. Parents should also try not to provoke their children because the consequences does not look who is wrong or right. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Kelvin3476: 3:45pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
oga so shame gree u type this nonesense ? i no go read this nonesense u are writing here becus u gat no excuse. ogun kee u there. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Tallesty1(m): 3:45pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
udoji2021:
Forget about all this feminism ish bro, naturally, men are percieved to be stronger than women and going physically with them as a man is morally wrong. All men are not strong and there are strong women that can take decent hits and beat a man senseless.
So? |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by ORIAYO70(m): 3:46pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg Anyone who reign insult on u is either myopic or inexperienced. . I have experience similar situation before with my dad, he hit me with his staff I quickly try to manage the situation n leave. . The only advise I have for u stay away from that woman after u might have apologize to her that it was a mistake. Stay clear of her some mum r like that When her children n grand children begin to stay off her she will learn 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by sunkoye: 3:47pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:
A big fat lie! His future kids would do no such thing if he doesn't drive them crazy like his mom did to him. He's regretting his actions already, let's help him heal. There's a part in the bible that advise parents about being careful with their kids. The two of them needs forgiveness, not just him alone. I pray God will heal his mother. ohhh how convenient of you to explain this situation away.....give out one single reason you don't kick your own mother's head daily? |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Vello(m): 3:47pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Fahdiga:
You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen You're most despicable, unreasonable and a Arrow given your way of reasoning. Next time you have nothing matured to comment, go take Valium and knock yourself out. Arindin omo |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:47pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
MyExpression:
There is societal standard of rationale. We all react differently but we must know where to draw the line.
Except you wanna plead self defence from an unarmed lady, who happens to be your mother, you have no justified reason for assaulting her.
You already had a vocal backlash...why respond again with blows, when you could have just walked away?!
How hard did she really hit you...be truthful, how hard
You just wanted to prove a point to her.
I really hope you do some self reflection...and explore safer options next time. Anger is not easy to control especially anger that has been stored for a long period of time.The thing is that at least he is remorseful. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by jimmychang: 3:48pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
ORIAYO70:
Anyone who reign insult on u is either myopic or inexperienced. .
I have experience similar situation before with my dad, he hit me with his staff I quickly try to manage the situation n leave. .
The only advise I have for u stay away from that woman after u might have apologize to her that it was a mistake.
Stay clear of her some mum r like that
When her children n grand children begin to stay off her she will learn Leave them to be saying trash.Only people with toxic parents can understand how it feels. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Murphyenemuwe: 3:49pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Bro that's bad. Try and apologize and do all your best to reconcile with her even if it's goin to be from distance at first. You won't understand until she's late. No matter how bad she is there will be something special you'd miss about her when she's gone. These parents we complain about are also a product of hurt and hate which has made them become what they are presently. When you observe things that are not right in your parents please don't go confrontational with them. Learn from their mistakes and correct that in your life. What you did out of anger is to bring a continuation to that very thing u detest. Please yield to this advice abeg Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Kelvin3476: 3:49pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Iyaebe:
Hmmmm,you need to seriously beg for her forgiveness else your future kids will hit you too and it becomes a thing in the family, you should have simply left the scene rather than exchanging words with her but she pushed you to it which is bad on her side but she’s your mom and has some edge over you.Learn to keep some distance from people who can easily trigger you be it parents and whatever.Go and redeem this messy situation and never allow such to happen again,also ask God to forgive you after your mom has finally forgiven you.Good luck NAIRALAND COME OOH. MADAM IYAEBE YAF FINAL BOUGHT SOME SENSES. THANK U JESUS |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by twilliamx(m): 3:50pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg All my life i tried to so hard to get away from my mom because she always made me sin against God, she beats my spirit down and her words have made me contemplate suicide several times, finally i escape and now life brought her back to me. Her leg was amputated cos of diabetes and she also has stroke and now she lives with me. What can i do. We don't chose our parents but anyways i have a duty of care to look after her. Apologize to your mom. Its a must you do 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nocommonsense: 3:50pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
AudioMonkey:
If she slaps you out of love is different from having a devil as a mother. Don't even wish for it. I don't need to tell you my story but I wish to have one even if she is devil at least she is alive to call her my mom. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Newyorkitis(m): 3:51pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:
A big fat lie! His future kids would do no such thing if he doesn't drive them crazy like his mom did to him. He's regretting his actions already, let's help him heal. There's a part in the bible that advise parents about being careful with their kids. The two of them needs forgiveness, not just him alone. I pray God will heal his mother. Children honour your father and mother so that you may live long and the verse following states that: Parents, do not provoke your children to anger. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by ledaman: 3:52pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Fahdiga:
You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen Get lost proffer solution not to compound his woes  |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by dettolgel: 3:52pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Mavor:
[s]Your words mean nothing to me. There is nothing in this life that will ever justify a man or a woman hitting his parent. Your parents are the symbol on earth of God's authority over you. Rebel against them and you rebel against God. Jokers like yourself forget that this life is very short and brief but the next life is eternity. But your type are so desperate to live this short life in enjoyment that you are willing and eager to break God's word. If her mother is abusive, why did she not cut off the woman permanently so she could know peace? If an elder messes up, yes you can caution the person. Hitting the elder is another thing entirely. God has commanded that we respect our elders and take care of the frail elderly. If you don't like his commandment, take it up with God Himself[/s]. Of course your words also means nothing to the op. Case close |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Murphyenemuwe: 3:52pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Ephesians 4:6.
It is easier to judge in situations we've never found ourselves. Yeah he made a grievous mistake and the most important thing is that he is sober. If you believe every act done would come to hurt in the future then I'm scared what you're practicing is karma and not Christianity quote author=sunkoye post=111327961] ohhh how convenient of you to explain this situation away.....give out one single reason you don't kick your own mother's head daily?[/quote] |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by mozona(m): 3:53pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Beg her for forgiveness and leave the house for her. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by leobergy(m): 3:53pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Mavor:
You are a demon. People like you who hit their parents are the worst kind of person on earth. You rank on the same category as a child molester. No amount of excuses or long story justifies you hitting your own mother. Abomination!!! If her abuses were too much, then why not cut her off from your life? May God help your soul. I no your type,the ones that grew up with good parents always looking down on people that grew up in toxic homes because you never experienced it. It is lizards like you that would have done worst if you were in his shoes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by zionstaar75: 3:53pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg only one word describes you.."omo ale"(bastard)u dey slap your mama,na bottle your son go break for your head.u still come social media to announce am 3 Likes |
