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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Optimistic4life(f): 3:05pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Graceobey: Okay. Thanks |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Optimistic4life(f): 3:07pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
redstaarx: Oga if you know the cause, e no go change anything nah. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Eddygourdo(m): 3:15pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:if you don't want the divorce. Why does he want it. Why did things breakdown iredeemably on his end but not on yours. Did you let him know you don't want a divorce? It's never too late to say how you feel about everything. If still redeemable |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by nosa2(m): 3:45pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Na that one come my head |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by dahmie2013: 3:49pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: That is good. Some mothers turn their fathers against their children in a divorce. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by BigDawsNet: 3:55pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Sorry about that... Just manage try to pay the fee yourself... May the Lord Be with you |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by OmegaAutos: 4:23pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Decency doesnt mean you should not respond to your biological needs. These things keep one healthy and sane. One just have to be disciplined about it, but congo must be shined |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by thorpido(m): 5:35pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Why? They go to his house to spend time and yet he won't pay? Anyway,I hope the divorce settlement will compel him to pay. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by MajesticKris: 5:39pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by MajesticKris: 5:41pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
I'm serious...... And I'm sorry you're Going through this shit.. ................................................ But life Goes on.. Optimistic4life: |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by DenreleDave(m): 5:45pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
davidadenrele: U bear Adenrele David too.. Nice to meet you sir.. DenreleDave says hy 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by DenreleDave(m): 5:50pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
i thought as much too thorpido: |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by lomprico(m): 8:37pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Are u divorced? |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by davidadenrele: 2:13am On Jan 11, 2022 |
uote author=DenreleDave post=109251828] U bear Adenrele David too.. Nice to meet you sir.. DenreleDave says hy[/quote] You welcome. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by dannywest: 12:07pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Nah, Its in the past. Was a shadow of myself the entire marriage |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by sooperrescue(m): 12:22pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
Signum: You are right, we should make our marriages to work while we are in it. The other option is not palatable. The bible says that the woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive. If she marries while the husband is alive, she shall be called an adultress. Let her go and make peace with the man. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by denobaba: 10:22pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Quality20:After 3 kids? Why don't you offer to marry her? She needs time to understand why she and her ex couldn't keep it together. There are many single beautiful ladies out there, why do you think anyone would prefer a mother of 3 over them. Of course, there's life after divorce but she should never be under any illusion that things will be easy. If she ends up finding a new committed partner, which is a remote possibility by the way, it would still be a man, never an angel from heaven. The best of men are still men, try to avoid divorce unless if it's practically impossible to do so. I wish you luck. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by denobaba: 10:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Why haven't you taken this route yourself. I know that marriage can be tough but divorce to a large extent is the result of pure ego. Let me advise you, your divorce is not yet finalised, therefore, make a move to mend walls with your husband, unless if he completely rebuffs and is unyielding. Divorce after 3 kids seems like a bad decision in my view. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Gainman: 10:41pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:if you truly have Christ in you. I don't believe u will have such problem in your marriage. A real man never leave a wife who truly have Christ. Though u can be church goer and not really God's like Go and settle with your husband. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Kobojunkie: 10:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Gainman:That statement in bold is born of your ignorance and not the truth of Jesus Christ. 2. Your definition of what a real man is has absolutely nothing to do with Jesus Christ. 3. Settle with her husband for what? And why associate her marital situation with God where God Himself told you that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36? 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Gainman: 10:43pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
madone:is that your solution for her. To re marry. What of if she is d problem. By d time she realise it,she must make re marry like 4 times. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Kobojunkie: 10:46pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Gainman:And if the problem was not of her making, what is wrong with her moving on and remarrying? There are men who are on their nth wife in that Nigerian who are still hailed as real men by folks like you. You ever stop to ask put them to the same stake? |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Kobojunkie: 10:49pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
sooperrescue:The Bible doesn't say that, instead Paul asserts that in trying to explain an unrelated idea he had of the law to you but obviously that went over your head there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Gainman: 10:51pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Quality20:how did you finalise d husband is d one at fault. U are not a good judge |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by joetem(m): 9:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: let me take the legal route if u are obedient |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by PastorPaul1: 9:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:In God's Dictionary, there's nothing like divorce and remarriage. You and your husband should make amendments or you risk staying that way till Jesus come. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Gloriagee(f): 9:18am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Just negodu Gainman: |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by anonimi: 9:27am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: What made the marriage not work out, leading to separation after 10 years plus, based on the age of your children? Modified due to your response below earlier. Optimistic4life: 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by anonimi: 9:30am On Mar 25, 2022 |
PastorPaul1: I guess that your God's dictionary is limited to the Bible, and not other references to texts/understandings of the Unknown God preached by Paul to Athenians. Moreover in the Bible, divorce and remarriage are allowed, so stop telling lies that will land you in hellfire. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by torqque7(m): 10:09am On Mar 25, 2022 |
I can assure you that she got caught cheating that's why she got booted out..I have no sympathy for cheating wives..when she was with her husband she cheated and now that she is single she wants to be forming celibacy and fear of God |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by anonimi: 10:20am On Mar 25, 2022 |
IamANigerianMan: Is the bold part what I think it is, or just my "dirty" mind playing up 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by anonimi: 10:24am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Saintinoo: Well said, BUT the man should work lovingly with the co-pilot/co-captain for smooth sailing. Not so 1 Like |
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