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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by aAK1(m): 8:36am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:what makes you think he isn’t taking the kids? |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Lamasta(m): 8:36am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:You will be alright las las no fear |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Saintinoo(m): 8:36am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:The day you women will understand that there is only one captain in a ship, that is the day divorce will stop. kindly leave with it. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by nosa2(m): 8:37am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Your Kpekus is about to get a whole lot of firing 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Elidrisy20: 8:37am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Divorce is not best for the children, effect of broken home is very bad for the kids, well take heart |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Skyehigher1: 8:37am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Skyehigher1:court case can be suspend indefinitely so everything will be alright ok |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by DWJOBScom(m): 8:37am On Jan 08, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: You need Jesus in all things. In strength , comfort , love etc It is even in your weakness that you gain the best experience. I don't know her but i can pray in Jesus Name and she will carry on and achieve what human wisdom cannot give Jesus is everything and wants to be your all 2 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by dannywest: 8:38am On Jan 08, 2022 |
None of those things you mentioned matters. All that matters is your peace and mental health. I'm meant to have filed for mine a year now but just been stalling. Been separated over 2 years and totally over it now. Optimistic4life: 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by sayle1952: 8:38am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Don't be bothered about what the world thinks about you. If there's anything you need to do, try not to keep the kids away from their father unless he doesn't want to be in their lives. This is a time for you to look inwards. Find love with yourself. I mean really do self love. Appreciate your space. Do what makes you happy. The kids will be all over you, not having a father figure around can be too much work on you for some time. However, you will pull through. 2 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by OmegaAutos: 8:39am On Jan 08, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: How will she shine her congo? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Ihavethingstodo: 8:39am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Coping with kids alone? Your ex husband has to support o, the kids are not yours only, they are his too! It won't be easy but God will see you through!!!! The children suffer most when the parents divorce. 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by godumes: 8:39am On Jan 08, 2022 |
[This simply shows the type of person you are! Your family members are not aware, you ran on the internet to make show of it. My sister, the day you stop paying much attention on the internet, that's when you'il be fine. I can see you're addicted to the internet. Am being blunt because divorce is never a good omen.quote author=Optimistic4life post=109178130]Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months. The case is still in court though. We are blessed with 3 kids under 10. Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on. How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady? I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it. What is life like out there for me? The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by anyilalaz: 8:39am On Jan 08, 2022 |
OP, this is your Goldmine. Take all hook and sinker!!! Am out. Enough word for the wise. davidadenrele: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by boxypane(m): 8:39am On Jan 08, 2022 |
jamesversion:Mummy GO said you shall go to hell fire. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by gambia(m): 8:39am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Another story to gain traffic, you gerrit. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Graceobey: 8:40am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Pray to God again |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 8:40am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: You never talk wetin you do madam What led to such situation |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by millhouse: 8:40am On Jan 08, 2022 |
jamesversion:lol ... bad guy !! |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by DWJOBScom(m): 8:40am On Jan 08, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: You are so right This is not a pity parry thing o So so right |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 8:40am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Tejumola856:the person that own this nairaland is human being like you. Work hard and think outside the box. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Angelfrost(m): 8:41am On Jan 08, 2022 |
ednut1: This is so myopic... Many couples who have been "happily" married for donkey years knack steadily outside their homes. Matter of fact, I know married women and men who have been getting sexual qualifications outside their homes for many years while maintaining the hypocritical happy married appearance before gullible society. 10 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Peace1993: 8:41am On Jan 08, 2022 |
HacheNoire:An underrated comment |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Evidenx(m): 8:41am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:AM MORE INTERESTED IN THE WHY....WHY DID HE SERVE YOU A DIVORCE PAPERS?? MAYBE OTHER LADIES CAN LEARN FROM IT. THANKS 5 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by juniorstar(m): 8:41am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:How old are you? Have u both discussed about the kids, who cares/takes custody of them, financial plan about their education. Hope you are employed? My advise still have an open mind though it might settle, did u guys see a counsellor and what was the basis of the divorce here. I wont want to blame anybody cos each person has reasons for his/her actions. So until both parties are heard blames cant be placed. Did he lose his job, did he cheat and was caught, did you also cheat, did u lose respect for him along the way, did he become physically violent towards you. Was he a drunk or chronic womanizer. My advise look good, focus on your job and you both decide how the children can be better if he is someone who has sense and be open to a new relationship if you decide and let the new guy know u have kids or you can choose to stay without a partner some women do cos of their children...put on a smile..there is nothing to be shameful about things happen..if e easy make dem do am. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:41am On Jan 08, 2022 |
OmegaAutos:You boys ehnn..una just want make I talk.. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Sheggy13(m): 8:41am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Trustedpronet:The ex-husband is obligated by law to continue to provide financial support for the children. He can be in a hot soup if he refuses to. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:42am On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:43am On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by SenecaTheYonger: 8:43am On Jan 08, 2022 |
HacheNoire: She will be fine? What kind of mind typed this? How will a person be fine while their offspring are forever affected by the burnt of divorce? Tell her the truth if you truly care about her. But you don’t care about her. All you care about is making yourself feel better by thinking you rendered help to someone meanwhile you just lied to them. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Comedian2019: 8:43am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:First, never look at yourself as a "divorced lady". That's what the society wants you to believe. Rather see yourself as a focused lady, a purposeful woman. Nobody has the right to shame you. Know your worth. Ensure to pray the court to enforce payment of alimony. He must pay for the children upkeep and their education. Take advantage of the court to mandate him to live up to his responsibility. 1 Like |
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