morikee:

Reverse Cowgirl

Arizoner:
i like sucking pussy but am afraid of cancer

eaglebeliever:
My wife had our kids through CS and we live in US. There was really no help and she feels really tired. We took almost 2 years before trying to conceive again and it was condom throughout. We had our second kid and she's not even seeing her period yet but she's so scared of getting pregnant again so its condom again until we start trying for our last kid. I'm a man who has seen her cut open twice to bring out our daughters and I feel the least I can do is to standby her and make the sacrifice. It has nothing to do with being weak, having waited to conceive for 4 years, I just dread the day when she will be pregnant and regret it and blame me for it. That will be stupid, especially thinking about the prayers we made to have our first child. I feel your pain bro, my daughters are 3 years apart and I know what I go through here in America. But again, the deed is done. God will see you through. Your pain can never be compared to the pain of waiting. Let that be your consolation.

yunqdady:

Simp.
Everything isn't feminism. You go soon learn

simplesearch:
SMH for you! Very ungodly counsel. This shows you have no regard for God's constitution.

justli:
So he should kill his child because of the difficulty of taking care of them? This is irresponsible

Arizoner:
how many rounds can you go in bed?

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.
ont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Yeyeoldman:
God will do what? Make a what? Africans, who use religion destroy una like this? Children are not from God. Your wife, your Partner Is pregnant because you made a choice to have sexual intercourse with her when she is ovulating. The science have been here with us for ages.

Actions have consequences. Simple as ABC... Na indiscipline be una problem. A total lack of self control. Religion is for the morally weak/lazy. Why accept responsibility when I can conveniently blame either God or the Devil for the consequences of my own selfish actions?

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

Children are gifts. You guys are very fertile, thank God.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

yunqdady:

Simp.
Everything isn't feminism. You go soon learn

safarigirl:


Why not?

Does he have plans for more children? What is he using the sp3rm to do after a third child?

Besides, there are reversible vasectomies.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

JonOfAustrlia:


Do you know any married people who use condoms abeg �

CowbellY:


It’s a fetus

Doubleoh7:
Baby shift my womb, baby shift my womb. U Don go shift IUD commot. Congrats bro, in few years time the pressure will reduce on you guys

eaglebeliever:
My wife had our kids through CS and we live in US. There was really no help and she feels really tired. We took almost 2 years before trying to conceive again and it was condom throughout. We had our second kid and she's not even seeing her period yet but she's so scared of getting pregnant again so its condom again until we start trying for our last kid. I'm a man who has seen her cut open twice to bring out our daughters and I feel the least I can do is to standby her and make the sacrifice. It has nothing to do with being weak, having waited to conceive for 4 years, I just dread the day when she will be pregnant and regret it and blame me for it. That will be stupid, especially thinking about the prayers we made to have our first child. I feel your pain bro, my daughters are 3 years apart and I know what I go through here in America. But again, the deed is done. God will see you through. Your pain can never be compared to the pain of waiting. Let that be your consolation.

Rugaria:
How do you guys manage to mount a lady that just gave birth sef? I mean how do you do it!? I can't imagine going back there for a long time after she must have given birth.. Not like it's going to be as "sweet" like before, so why are you desperately climbing up there so quickly after the whole "violence" of giving birth!?!?

ofuonyebi:
Abeg carry go nau..afterall God is doing you a favour that others are crying for everyday!
learn to be grateful to him alone that giveth such a free gift

funshint:
Be thankful, she's very fertile

Kemetals:
My Brother don't get tired! as far as there is life there is always a way out. Kids are blessing. Don't regret a bit. A lot are praying to be on your condition. I understood the problem involves especially in abroad. I'd been in your shoe. I lived in abroad for almost 11 years i.e. both in Sweden and Scotland. In Sweden and Norway and most of the European countries your wife is entitled for a minimum of up to 6 months maternity leave with pay. as a husband you are entitle for paternity leave too. if this leave not enough then consider either you or your wife quitting from your job for a while to take care of the kids.. You can as well invite your mum or relative to come over to assist since paying for a nanny in abroad involves a lot of money. Thank God there are some stipends been paid for kids in most of the developed nation as far as you are staying legally.
i hope this advise could help

Enyimbamercedes:


No family planning method is 100% effective. With this in mind, the only way to prevent number 4 is to abstain and let her rest sir or get a vasectomy if you cannot use a condom

howardhooks:
Please don't abort the baby. There has to be a way to fix your situation, maybe get a relative from here to join you and take care of the kids while you both work. I remember an uncle brought the mother inlaw who babysat his four kids for many years.

ejimatic:
I am aware IUD can make you pregnant but the possibility of losing the pregnancy is 80% naturally. Take what God has given you and plan well another time that is if yiyr wife truly wants a successful birth control method. This is so because some wives deliberately plan to get pregnant and deceive thier husbands that they are on contraceptives.

Str8talk21:
You are complaining ehhh?
Ok...come back to Nigeria, you will have house helps to look after them.
And lest I forget, keep blaming uf wife for third pregnancy instead of blaming urself for not controlling ur urge.

eaglebeliever:
My wife had our kids through CS and we live in US. There was really no help and she feels really tired. We took almost 2 years before trying to conceive again and it was condom throughout. We had our second kid and she's not even seeing her period yet but she's so scared of getting pregnant again so its condom again until we start trying for our last kid. I'm a man who has seen her cut open twice to bring out our daughters and I feel the least I can do is to standby her and make the sacrifice. It has nothing to do with being weak, having waited to conceive for 4 years, I just dread the day when she will be pregnant and regret it and blame me for it. That will be stupid, especially thinking about the prayers we made to have our first child. I feel your pain bro, my daughters are 3 years apart and I know what I go through here in America. But again, the deed is done. God will see you through. Your pain can never be compared to the pain of waiting. Let that be your consolation.

baby124:
Get a vasectomy if you don’t want any more kids. It’s really that simple.