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| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by HelipsTech: 5:01pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:She and the husband should just agree to be FWB, it won't be a sin then. But if she get married as a divorcee, she is sinning continuously, until the husband dies Because, I don't want to sin, is because she hasn't seen the opportunity to sin, she is starved already, and at this point, she is vulnerable in the sense that she might even allow anyhow guy to peruse her, on the long run, she becomes a sugar mummy |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Lari03r(m): 5:02pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:So are you concluding that the OP is engaging in lust? That's the bone of contention. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by BluntTheApostle(m): 5:11pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:But the OP never mentioned sexual lust. Rather, she mentioned sexual urge, which is not the same as sexual lust. Sexual urge is an itch to have sex. Sexual lust means sexually desiring somebody. You want sex, but have not committed fornication/adultery in your heart. We are after all humans with weaknesses. But sexual lust is a sin, if the person you desire is not your spouse. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:14pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
HelipsTech:There is no such thing as continuous sin... stop lying in God's Name. ![]() Stop projecting your personal delusions on others abeg! ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:15pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Lari03r:LOL... I suggest you go back to reread the text of mine where you pretend this all started and find out for yourself the answer to your question here. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by HelipsTech: 5:21pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Bible said if a woman or man must divorce, they should remain unmarried, anyone who marries them commits adultery likewise her too. So that is a continuous sin, because you are .married to a divorcee until you separate or the death of any partner, he or she is commiting adultery |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:22pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
BluntTheApostle:1. OP mentioned she chose abstinence in order to please God, and I took the opportunity to explain to her that Sexual lust, not sex, is what God instead deemed sin. And so her choice of abstinence means nothing to God if she instead indulged in sexual lust. ![]() 2. And what I've instead focused on was making it clear that contrary to what is popular, sexual lust in one's heart- not fornication , or homosexuality, or masturbation etc., - is what is condemned as sin by Jesus Christ and this in Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. ![]() What this means also is it does not matter whether one is a virgin as a believer. The moment one commits this sin of sexual lust one is guilty of adultery, regardless of whether one lives a life of abstinence or not. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:23pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:Not really or maybe still not yet. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Emmanuel30a:Sin is as defined by God's Law, and in God's New Covenant, Jesus Christ, there are about 100 laws that define for us what sin is. So anyone who breaks any of the almost 100 laws of the New Covenant is said to sin against God. Anything outside of the about 100 laws is not considered sin against God. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:31pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
HelipsTech:1. Jesus Christ told you that God forgives all sins(except for the one) so are you trying to pick and choose here as far as the teachings of Jesus Christ? ![]() 2. There is no such thing as continuous sin as that suggests God remembers our sin, and it is nowhere suggested by Jesus Christ that death of a partner is only way to end a sin. ![]() Please be careful as you are here adding that own ideas to that which is stated by God's very own Law , Jesus Christ. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by SyndyB(m): 5:35pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Please read 2Tim. 3:16,17 [16] All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: [17] That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. You picked a verse in Math 5 and misinterpret it to suit your lustful desires. Have you read up the whole Math chapter 5? It's unfortunate how people like you euphemise immorality to suit your lustful desires. Please stop seeking out teachers, messages and doctrines that condone your lifestyle (2Tim 4:3). Even traditionalist knows what sexual sin means. I have shown you verses of the scriptures that condemned sexual sins. Show us verses that uphold them. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:38pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SyndyB:Quit rambling and make your point, assuming you have one.. ![]() 1. What part of what is written in Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 has been misquoted by me? Make your claims clearly known. ![]() 2. Again. Stop with the meaningless ramblings and proceed to make your case valid or stop with the attention whoring! ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by SyndyB(m): 5:48pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:And which part of Math 5:27-28 said fornication is not a sin? |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 5:52pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SyndyB:This requires at least basics language comprehension skill alone. ![]() You are told in Matthew 5 vs 27- 28, that without even touching anyone, you are already guilty of sin from the moment you consider engaging in sex with another person in your heart. Do you really think then that it matters whether you engage in the physical act or not afterwards? ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by godliman: 5:55pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:OK she is to overcome lust by her will power not the grace of God right? |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by godliman: 5:58pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SugarGirl44:I understand you are worshipping a god of your own fancy not the God of the bible who reduced Sodom to ashes for sexual sins. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Heroicvic(m): 5:59pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Thought divorce is a sin |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 6:00pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
godliman:God never said anything about you or anyone overcoming sin by His Grace...that bullsheet idea was sold to you by your Pastors and Mogs, not Jesus Christ who never once said it is by some grace that you overcome sin. ![]() Jesus Christ never told the woman caught in the act of adultery to go and sin no more only by grace, neither did He teach that it is because of grace that they can live above sin. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by SyndyB(m): 6:00pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Sexual lust as you quoted above is a sin quite alright. But where you got it wrong is when you said in your initial comment on the woman's case, that Fornication itself, adultery and homosexuality is not a sin. If they are not a sin are they holy communion? |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 6:01pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Heroicvic:First of al, not all divorce is sin, and secondly, like most all sin, even the sin of divorce, God forgives. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 6:06pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SyndyB:Again, like I said, this requires some thinking along with basic language comprehension skills. ![]() Jesus Christ never declared fornication & homosexuality as sins in God's New Covenant Law - a different and separate Covenant from God's Old Law of Moses - they are not sins. As for adultery, He gave various definitions, one of them being sexual lust, and the others He associated with divorce. ![]() Rather than jump to respond, I suggest you instead take time to ruminate on what has been said so far so you comprehend the significance of what is told you by Jesus Christ. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by SyndyB(m): 6:16pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Weldone! Jesus never declare Fornication and homosexuality as sin, he uphold them as part of New Covenant rituals. Probably you will tell us that he also engaged in them to keep body and soul together, weldone my brother! |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by BluntTheApostle(m): 6:16pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You and this your smirk emoji ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SyndyB:Jesus Christ did not need to uphold the Old Laws in any way or form, and rightly so. For one because the one law He gave you in Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 more than covers it all as far as sexual sin is concerned ![]() Spend time contemplating what Jesus Christ said. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by timefarm(m): 6:32pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: ![]() Keep your views yo secular things you know about and stop quoting scriptures I say unto you again. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 6:33pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
timefarm:Stop rambling abeg! ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by timefarm(m): 6:35pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You are free to say what you want to me, but keep quiet when spiritual deep things are discussed. You must not comment on everything just because you have no other job. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Acidosis(m): 6:35pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Oh okay. Thanks for your time. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by SyndyB(m): 6:46pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:What Jesus said in Mathew 5:27,28 is not an opposition to fornication and adultery, stop interpreting the scriptures wrongly. Read the Bible with understanding. |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SyndyB:Again, be slow to responding. Consider the meaning in the information you are given before you respond. That will help in your understanding and eventually your responding. ![]() |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Heroicvic(m): 6:57pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You people are our problem in this continent.... You won't allow someone breathes with the way you twist your scriptural verses to suit your irrelevant claims. Can we as humans wish for something and go for it without all these claims of Hellfire and rapture? Our problem right now is bad leadership and someone will not have sexual urges in peace in this heat period? If you want to help us as a country kindly admonish our leaders who are on looting spree leaving millions of people in penury Modified: anyone that quote to troll me here will face serious consequences that they've never faced as an individual on this platform (in Putin's voice) I dey vex Meanwhile I want to travel out on student visa, any help? |
| Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by SyndyB(m): 6:58pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You don't interpret the Scriptures like your textbooks. I Will advice you to seek Holy Spirit to help you understand Biblical lines. |
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