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Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by dontrulee: 1:26pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Op, enjoy yourself jare. Have sex if you want to have sex but ensure that it's protected. Those of you condemning sex aren't wise. How did you come into this world, isn't it through sexual intercourse?? We are just being overtly religious. Honestly, I have been thinking about this for years: how someone who repented after having several affairs in the past will get the same reward with someone who kept themselves till marriage. It doesn't make sense at all. P.S: As for me, I choose to remain a virgin till marriage |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:30pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
SLOVFO:The statement in bold was addressed by Jesus Christ in Matthew 15 vs 10 - 20 when He explained to His followers that what comes out of you, thoughts and eventually deeds, come from what is stored up in your heart. If you store lies, even from your past, lies beget sin. If you however stare up the Truth of God, then you will beget the goodness of God. And for this reason, Jesus Christ, in John 8 vs 31 - 32 & John 8 vs 41 - 47 explained that it is only by submitting to and obeying His Truth, that one is able to know and store up Truth in one's heart , Truth which eventually sets one free from bondage to sin. For instance, Jesus Christ never said you had to ask Him from grace in order to get it. He gave it freely to all who believes in Him - whether they continue to obey Him or not. But because you believe a lie fed you by others that God's grace is only available to those who ask, you continue pronouncing that lie every where you find the opportunity to. But the moment you choose to accept the Truth as told you by Jesus Christ that indeed the grace of God(eternal life) is given freely to all those who believe(not those who ask) , you begin to rid yourself of that act of lying against God. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:33pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
xynerise:Ofcourse... I don't joke with God since I was not indoctrinated like most. I actually found Him just as He said He could be found and I have no plans to ever loose Him, not that I ever could. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:34pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Blunttruth:ROFLMAO So long as the divorce is not final and ink never dry
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Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:35pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Blunttruth:ROFLMAO So long as the divorce is not yet final
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Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Analysiscorner: 1:35pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Looking critically at your situation. The task and responsibilities ahead. The divorce that is ongoing.. Plan for your means of livelihood and how to pay your bills without begging any relation. Respect for yourself not to get involved with someone who you don't really know much about.. These thoughts can help you put sex off your mind. But the feeling you are experiencing is natural, especially to someone who was once sexually active. When the divorce is finalised, you may remarry. Do you mind telling us why you left the first marriage? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:40pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
evsimmigration:I understand that many an African man was never raised to consider this level of mental self discipline a part of the maturity process, so I won't even enter that argument with you. However when it comes to God and Jesus Christ, the standard is set high so that only those who are able to attain Holiness/perfection aka a life free from bondage to the urges of the mind, body and soul can in fact enter into the gates of God's Kingdom. So either you choose to rise up to God's standard - God's Will - or you continue to live your life according to your own will. It is that simple! |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Ishilove: 1:40pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[e] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heartKobo, stop reading the scriptures upside down. If sexual urges are sinful, we would not have been given them in the first place. What Matthew 5 vs 28 is exhorting against is lusting after a woman who isn't your own wife, and NOT the urge itself. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by nick50(m): 1:41pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Better find an energetic young healthy guy to knack ur pussy to satisfaction cos we all live once..if u deprive urself all these n punish urself u will soon get old and die..uwa bu ofu mbia!!! |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:46pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
godliman:1. Admonition? None of that I simply explained that her acts, though worthy of honor according to standard of men, holds no water where God's standard and Law, Jesus Christ, is concerned. 2. There is no prayer and fasting stipulated by God as far living a life in obedience of His teachings and commandments. Try to learn to separate the doctrines and traditions of your Pastors and their churches from the Truth of God. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:48pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Emmanuel30a:Stop using God's name to judge that which you have little to no understanding of. They are separated and maybe even divorced... it is not the end of the world. The God you mentioned did not classify divorce as the unforgivable sin meaning that like the sin of lying which many of you engage in regularly without cleaning mouth, God can forgive whatever fault there may exists in a divorce and remember even that sin no more. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:50pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
perousd:You are wrong! There are people who have lived without sex for over a decade, even more. Monks and even abandoned woman have even without trying shown your claim to be a lie. Please count your teeth before spewing this gibberish abeg! |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:53pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
agabaI23:Sin is direct disobedience of God's commandments, in our case, as given to us by Jesus Christ, God's Law and Gospel in the Kingdom of God. So where God said in Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 that if you have sexual lust , you commiit the sin of adultery, if means if you do you commit the sin of adultery against God. Many of you claim to know and even preach the Gospel yet have absolutely no knowledge of what the Gospel is of its details , how? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 1:55pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Johnboom:God also hates lying which He condemns as an abomination to Him yet many of you lie without even wiping mouth regularly and majority don't go back to apologize for the lies believing all that is needed is to ask God for forgiveness, the very same forgiveness available to even those who are divorced. 1 Like |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Alaganature09(m): 1:58pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
thorpido: Why una Dey call marry like child play? Nah she wan marry abi nah person wan marry her? My sister I would advise you to masturbate rather than having sex with someone you don’t love |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:02pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
obailala:1. The words of Jesus Christ as recorded in Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 are written in plain human language and require no interpretating or translating, unless ofcourse you lot want to twist what is written to instead say what you prefer, as is typical with you churchians. 2. So Jesus Christ lied to His followers, is what you are saying here? 3. The Pharisees also claimed they did what they did for God, so tell us why the grace of God was not handed to them by God? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by thorpido(m): 2:02pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Alaganature09:It's a process na She needs to allow herself to be open to the process. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by loucbou: 2:05pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
DIVINEEVIDENCE: Liar spotted. Dont you know it's a grievious sin to lie on nairaland |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Hassanmaye(m): 2:06pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
ZooCountry45:Chai 1 Like |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:07pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
titusmichael27:1. That isn't true at all. It is indeed possible to be holy/perfect aka free from bondage to sin. You don't need therapy to help you discipline ýour child, do you? So what makes you think require therapy in order to quit a habit as a human? It is only in the case that one is mentally incapable of controlling oneself that such therapy becomes necessary. She has been able to discipline her body and has not suggested so far that her mind is burdened by sexual thoughts. 2. Loves goes beyond sex, even though many can't seem to separate love love sex because they refuse to discipline their minds as such. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Arizoner: 2:09pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
godliman:doggie or missionary? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:11pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Oyelekevictor:Read Matthew 5 vs 29 - 32 and Matthew 19 vs 3 - 11. Divorce in the case of fornication is not considered a sin. And even if she remarried, like the sin of lying, which is considered an abomination to God, forgiveness awaits those who seek it. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:13pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
AABBIIMM:She seeks encouragement in continuing on a path that is against in the name of God? 2. If you understood what God's grace is, you wouldn't go around making claims of it as you do here. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Tonnierichy(m): 2:14pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: You are at an age when you should constantly have regular sex. You are not a teenage girl that prays to God to help her control her sexual urge. No matter how hard you try, it'll keep coming. I know I'm not helping by saying this but I just have to be honest with you. I'm also not asking you start sleeping around but well.... You gotta do what you gotta do. Get you a good young man. And if you can't find one, I'm really sorry |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Arizoner: 2:16pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
GreatrAnalyst:is öral sex a sin? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:18pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
enonche85:Well, if sex comes to your mind and you react by imagining yourself having sex with that your next door neighbor or that one that got away,you turn that simple thought into sin by that. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Emmanuel30a: 2:19pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Read to understand... Nothing is offensive in the write up. However, divorce according to the Bible is permitted in case of adultery... Paul in his teachings also pointed out situation where and if you can marry an unbeliever. Meanwhile, . I dont know where you have seen "some of you that were telling lies" ... You mean, you are a liar... |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:21pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
GardenOfGod:What has preaching the Gospel Truth to do with encouragement abeg? You think Jesus Christ, the one who commanded that you become Holy and Perfect aka free of sin like His Father said that to encourage you? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:22pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kaytex:You said nothing though.. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:22pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Arizoner:Matthew 5 vs 27 - 32 |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 2:23pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Arizoner:Sexual lust is instead sin.. Matthew 5 vs 27 - 32 |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Tonnierichy(m): 2:23pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: I'm not the devil but don't mind all these people saying that shit o. I know the bible suggests its a sin. But heck, you were once married and you've tasted the sex before. No way in hell you can do without feeling that way. God knows pretty well it's not a sin. Which kain sin bdat. Just be patient with yourself and pray fervently to God to find you a new man. God be with you. 1 Like |
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