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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by johnwegs(m): 10:54pm On Mar 25, 2022
Op may God forgive you, cause na only am ft forgive you, this story dey shiver me like dis.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Ananymaz: 11:02pm On Mar 25, 2022
Oyinmiebiagric your story too sweet bro. It keeps me out of boredom.

Omo festus too get mind walai hope him graduate.

Buccaneers no get mind as of now maybe na then.

This base you're talking how do you guys sleep their without having fear of been attacked.
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Winnerly: 11:05pm On Mar 25, 2022
johnwegs:
Op may God forgive you, cause na only am ft forgive you, this story dey shiver me like dis.

Yea.

In the past when i was naive, i used to think people who do such murders would go back and break down in tears after the gruesome act.

Little did i know they go back to jubilate and eat rice afterwards

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by jasonex4(m): 11:06pm On Mar 25, 2022
Manlikechoba:


Sure... I just love the way saynotocultism talk him own... but this one enter am intoto and thereby raising ego and morale now no one is interested in the learning but the ruggedity .....

E sure me say the said ester or ifeoma or anyone op run things with dey this forum dey read am... o dey sense am among female monikers

Gimme link to his own
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Yujiz(m): 11:39pm On Mar 25, 2022
Omo ds last episode bloody o
And I'm having a feeling OY still neva reach d emotional part of d story...hmmm

Jst keep Thanking God 4 His mercies over u OY!
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Oyinmiebiagric: 12:04am On Mar 26, 2022
I dread buccaneers because they are used to falling family or friends if they don't meet their target, they are not used to rolling, they go directly to your house and if they no see you,them go leave message. No more going to see Esther or Ifeoma, I need those two people safe. My sister is safe,for you to go to her house and try nonsense even if her husband no dey,police go find you for the rest of your life,so I'm not bothered about her.

There is this girl I saw one evening while going home, I said I should visit her that Saturday morning, nothing to do,make I use that one pass time.

Good morning fine girl, please I am looking for Eniola,she pointed her door to me.

Eniola: This one you came this early, is this how you visit people?

Me: Don't mind me,I slept and woke up with you on my mind, I said I must see you this morning.

Eniola: Do I look like one of those girls that you move round hostels flattering, it doesn't work on me.

Me: Do I look as if I'm flattering you,I'm telling you what happened to me.

Eniola: Oyin I know your type, and I have heard your story here in ..... so don't think I don't know you.

Me: I would love to hear the things people told you about me, hope its good things o? All this while she refused to allow me inside her room.

Eniola: Do you have a good story, why should they talk good about you. Please I am busy, if you don't have anything to do,me I have plenty things this morning. She think say she pursue me, she no sabi say she ginger me to disturb her more. She's one of the ugliness girl I've met,but I like her company, because she get mouth.

Me: Can I come later to see you?

Eniola: Please don't come o,before people will think you and I have anything.

Me: Beginning to leave, but we have something na,you are my only friend in .....

Eniola: I no see who to do friend with na you. At least I've spent like thirty minutes with her small boredom and thinking don clear for my head.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Iamolukorede(m): 12:26am On Mar 26, 2022
Normal normal ..

Continue ...
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by emnite(m): 12:45am On Mar 26, 2022
Oyinmiebiagric:
I dread buccaneers because they are used to falling family or friends if they don't meet their target, they are not used to rolling, they go directly to your house and if they no see you,them go leave message. No more going to see Esther or Ifeoma, I need those two people safe. My sister is safe,for you to go to her house and try nonsense even if her husband no dey,police go find you for the rest of your life,so I'm not bothered about her.

There is this girl I saw one evening while going home, I said I should visit her that Saturday morning, nothing to do,make I use that one pass time.

Good morning fine girl, please I am looking for Eniola,she pointed her door to me.

Eniola: This one you came this early, is this how you visit people?

Me: Don't mind me,I slept and woke up with you on my mind, I said I must see you this morning.

Eniola: Do I look like one of those girls that you move round hostels flattering, it doesn't work on me.

Me: Do I look as if I'm flattering you,I'm telling you what happened to me.

Eniola: Oyin I know your type, and I have heard your story here in ..... so don't think I don't know you.

Me: I would love to hear the things people told you about me, hope its good things o? All this while she refused to allow me inside her room.

Eniola: Do you have a good story, why should they talk good about you. Please I am busy, if you don't have anything to do,me I have plenty things this morning. She think say she pursue me, she no sabi say she ginger me to disturb her more. She's one of the ugliness girl I've met,but I like her company, because she get mouth.

Me: Can I come later to see you?

Eniola: Please don't come o,before people will think you and I have anything.

Me: Beginning to leave, but we have something na,you are my only friend in .....

Eniola: I no see who to do friend with na you. At least I've spent like thirty minutes with her small boredom and thinking don clear for my head.





This one over short sleep don hold you? Good night op
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Thatedoboy98: 1:18am On Mar 26, 2022
emnite:




This one over short sleep don hold you? Good night op
guy make una stop to Deu quote everything una well so?

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Yujiz(m): 2:40am On Mar 26, 2022
emnite:




This one over short sleep don hold you? Good night op
Y did u av2 quote d whole episode na..
Nxttym jst drop ur comment wtout quoting abeg
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Oyinmiebiagric: 3:17am On Mar 26, 2022
As I was walking home, I was surprised to see Ifeoma that morning.

Ifeoma: I could not sleep all night, I said I should come and see you.

Me: Hope all is well,what of Esther?

Ifeoma: She's OK. Oyin come and bleep me.

Me: Is that why you came here this morning? Wow! You got me scared. When did you start demanding for sex,hope Esther never they put mumu things for your head, abi you dey follow her watch blue film.

Ifeoma: Common stop that,am I a baby that its Esther that will tell me what to do,when you bleeped me, did I know her then? Don't get me angry, take me to where you sleep. I knew problem was brewing, but I don't know from where its coming from.

We went to Festus room, he was also surprised to see her. This early morning you don run go find your wife abi? He left the room for us. That morning I was uncomfortable, that was the main reason I went to see Eniola, I just wanted my mind to stray. I was not in the mood to bleep, but I ended up bleeping her. We stayed inside the room just gisting and we bleeped three times that day. Her spirit dey see. Esther came in by 7 and was surprised also that I allowed Ifeoma to be with me,something I've never tried with her. They both went home together, that was when I came out to meet men,the one wey dey Call me woman wrapper and other name dey laugh me.

Black Sunday I went to see Eniola again in the morning, this time we spoke in Yoruba throughout, and it seems my plan worked, because she gave me attention and allowed me into her room, I did not stay long before I left. (One thing back then in Enugu, as long as you are not speaking ibo,they classify you as a Yoruba person). So as I speak small Yoruba, I use it to attach myself to Yoruba people.

Sunday went well,a lord brought 5k,and men use am flex ourselves wella. We were sleeping by almost eleven when the worse happened. A bike stopped close to Festus hostel, him look na girl dey come down, next thing his door was being banged,we were almost eight inside the room, Festus don carry 400,thinking say bags don show,who you be. its me Esther, wetin happen. They have shot Ifeoma, she's in the hospital. With sleep eye and no shirt na so I jump up open door, I no even ask wetin happen, na so I jump enter the bike,Oy see your shirt, Ft throw shirt give me,na so me and Esther dey go hospital.

We got to the hospital, a guy was holding Ifeoma, nurses and doctors said they will not attend to her until we produce police report. That night with HIT wey dey town, me and Esther carry bike enter police station, after enough begging for the doctor to stop the blood, them no answer us.

Me: Officer, armed robbers came to my hostel and shot my girlfriend, she's in the hospital, they said they will not treat her or touch her until they see police report, please can you give us the report.

Police: How we go give you report like that,we need send our people go the place first, to ascertain if what you are saying is true.

Me: Officer, she's bleeding non stop abeg follow us go the hospital, tell them to start treatment, so by morning una fit do investigation.

Police: Night don come,come back in the morning, abi na you want teach us our job? I begged these officers with tears and catarrh running down my nose,these people no answer me, just small note make I take go hospital make them treat her,she was shot on her left shoulder close to her neck. Gush he dey like make I strangle those men that night. I did not have a positive response there,we went back to the hospital, another round of begging start, see nurse I dey beg just put face like say she no dey hear me.

Ifeoma how are you. I am not fine, I need water I am getting weaker. If I remain here this girl go die for my hand. I stood up, enter bike back to base,abeg who know where I fit see who go treat Ifeoma for me,hospital no agree to treat her,I was able to get a location that night, we take bike ,back to the hospital, carried Ifeoma put on top bike,to the man house wey go give her first aid,to stop the bleeding, girl them shoot almost ten,to three she still dey bleed.

We got to the place. The last word I heard from Ifeoma

Ifeoma: Oyin help me please, don't let me die.

I began to bang the gate,they were there pointing torch,asking silly questions, Ifeoma don relax her head on top my shoulder, more tears started to roll down my eyes,I could no longer answer the questions, it was Festus that was talking, I was just banging the gate. Dr abeg help us,somebody dey die,I was screaming and crying.

Finally the man came to open the gate,he said we should deposit ten thousand, I gave him five thousand, told him we will balance him in the morning, he complained, but continued, I was there looking at what he was doing, Festus could not follow me inside, him and Esther just held themselves.

Next thing I heard

Doctor: You guys brought her late,she has lost too much blood,she could not make it. See as I shout, everybody ran inside, my girl was no longer breathing, see premium tears,Festus me and Esther begin crying competition. If it was possible, I would have cried blood. Ifeoma died 5 minutes past 4,that Monday morning. She bled continuously for almost six to seven hours.

Those police and nurses are the ones that killed Ifeoma, not the people that shot her. it was not a standard hospital so we were asked to take her to the morgue.

As I heard that another crying spree was activated. How will I tell my people, how will I tell her parents, won't police be involved in the matter, them no go sabi say na cultism issue. I am done for in life.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by loosecanon50(m): 3:48am On Mar 26, 2022
The worst has happened......no wonder you said you had peace of mind while you were in school than when you graduated. Ifeoma is dead. Chai cry

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by olasuncome(m): 3:48am On Mar 26, 2022
@Oy... I felt your pain.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Nobody: 3:51am On Mar 26, 2022
That "police report" doctors request for before treating a gunshot victim is one of the many things that show one is living in a stupid country (or more aptly, jungle). Those idiots called Nigerian doctors don't even know why they're called doctors. No need to complain about the police. Stupidity is their default mode.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Oyinmiebiagric: 4:14am On Mar 26, 2022
The doctor manage to allow us stay there till morning.

Festus: How them use know Ifeoma wey them come kill her? Na bags go run this thing o

Me: Nobody sabi her with me for school, na Esther everybody sabi why na she them come shoot. Esther was my prime suspect, I believed she was the one that sold out Ifeoma, she has been in that place for how long and nobody has ever attacked her. Make everything calm down I must surely go find out.

Esther: It seems they sent them,because the guys were specific that if they shoot her,he go weaken you and Ft,that its because of her they came.

Festus: Them echo, na bags?

Me: Guy leave this issue, wetin dey ground now,na how I go take tell my sister, call her papa and my papa na that one I dey think.

Esther: You guys are not even thinking, Oy what will you tell them happened to her.

Festus: You go say na armed robbers, they wanted to rape her she no gree that's why them shoot her come run.

Esther: That one na good thing,that is what we will tell them,at least na only me and her dey inside room,Angela no sleep house. We agreed that was what we would tell everyone, but I told them I must tell my sister the truth. The doctor man advised us to return to the police station and put in a report.

Morning don dey reach, bags and buccaneers can begin sail,them fit don see us,Festus move enter back to base,me my better half has died,what am I living for? make them come kukuma kill me join.

Esther and I went to the same police station again to report her death.

Officers: Why did you guys not tell us its a serious thing,I begin cry again, you people are wicked,its because of both of you that I have lost my wife. God will never ever forgive you people. Esther was calming me down, them hear say she don die,na now them come dey sympathies with us,they gave us police report and told us to take her to the morgue.

We went to my sister place that morning explained the whole truth to her,but told her our plans on what we are going to say and what we told the police, she told the husband and he called my dad that morning, my dad then drove to our former house and told Ifeoma father.

They called from that their neighbor phone,I could hear her father crying, they said they will be in Enugu that day. My dad and Ifeoma father were in Enugu by One,we went to the hospital, the doctor dey already para,I gave him his 5k balance, he refused the money,we only paid for death certificate. we got an ambulance that day and we. Me,my dad,Ifeoma dad,and Esther went to their village with her corpse. The next day her mother and two of her siblings came in the morning and we buried her.

Everyone was consoling me,it was as if its only our two that was related. The village people asked what happened to her and Esther narrated our talk to them,they swore for the people that carried out the act and I shouted a big ISEeeeeee

After about two days in the village, we all went back to Lagos, I did not follow my parents to our house,rather I followed her parents to their house. It was one hell of a experience for me. I was consistent with my answers of what happened, immediately we got to Lagos Esther went home,I gave her the address of Ifeoma parents and she came the next day with her mum and her fiancé.

Ifeoma mother: Why will she come to Enugu without informing anybody? Not even her siblings. I was surprised when her dad said he's aware that Ifeoma is coming to Enugu to see me,he claimed he let her come because she has been disturbing him for a long time, he was even the one that gave her transport. Thank God say I no do wetin first come my mind.

I felt for the family, I've never cried for someone the way I cried for Ifeoma. I've lost two of my brothers as a big boy,but I never shed tears for either of them. When Amos died,I pitied him but I never sheet tears,the kind of tears I shed for Ifeoma, he go full 25 litres.

Festus joined us in Lagos, stayed for a week and left with Esther, I was still in Lagos mourning my love. Esther paid for all the handouts I needed and helped me with some term paper, a week to the exams,I came back to Enugu and came to my sister's house. From her house I wrote all the third year second semester exams. First semester third year result came out,there was no carry over, the carry over I had I've written the exam,but no result yet.

All through the holiday period, my sister will blame the death of Ifeoma on me,and she will plead with me to stop going out with cult boys. I started going to church regularly, then winners have Tuesday and Thursday service, I no dey miss anyone. Sunday I go join them self,I registered for foundational class and did baptism. All these before school resumed, I became a changed boy and took the things of God seriously, but I was still addicted to weed and cigarettes. I was praying that I should receive grace so I can stop it,although I reduced my taking it,but I did not stop.

I have never felt emotional as I did when writing about her death. Ifeoma I thought I moved you from a dangerous place to a safe place. (My hostel to Esther hostel) I didn't know death will still meet you there. I am sorry I could not protect you or save you as you pleaded with me to do.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by quisera(m): 4:29am On Mar 26, 2022
I dey quiet since dey read the story but this ifeoma death pain me.... So Op naso u just carry your Useless life take affect the poor girl, just imagine the way she died because of your waywardness. You just ended all she has been aspiring for from day 1.
Anyways this also serves as a lesson to all girls who are aware of the criminal lifestyle of their partners and still choose to stay in the relationship because of love abi wetin I no know, just know you're living on a time bomb.
Btw if I hear anybody console with Op dey tell am sorry for your loss base on ifeoma death ehn that person go collect because na oyin kill that girl and he no really deserve peace for this life again.
Shey he don marry now get wife and children while that girl just waste like that. All of una father for here. I don waka

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by austenite(m): 4:55am On Mar 26, 2022
Chai, this death pain me o. E dey do me like say I dey there. A big lesson for all. As a cultist your family is not even safe. Young people learn!!!!

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by otipoju(m): 5:20am On Mar 26, 2022
quisera:
I dey quiet since dey read the story but this ifeoma death pain me.... So Op naso u just carry your Useless life take affect the poor girl, just imagine the way she died because of your waywardness. You just ended all she has been aspiring for from day 1.
Anyways this also serves as a lesson to all girls who are aware of the criminal lifestyle of their partners and still choose to stay in the relationship because of love abi wetin I no know, just know you're living on a time bomb.
Btw if I hear anybody console with Op dey tell am sorry for your loss base on ifeoma death ehn that person go collect because na oyin kill that girl and he no really deserve peace for this life again.
Shey he don marry now get wife and children while that girl just waste like that. All of una father for here. I don waka

When Ifeoma realised he was a cultist, after she bailed him from the police station, she had a choice to make: A. leave for her own safety OR B. stay for the thrill.

She made her choice and regrettably it was a wrong one. Even when the war started and she expressed her fears for her safety, she could have boarded a bus and left.

Yes !!! Her association with OP cost her life but he was honest with her about his lifestyle and you can not guilt trip him for that. If you see fire and you know sey na fire and you still dey chuck your hand inside the fire, you can't blame the fire for burning you. Even after Ese gave birth, she was still riding with him. Even after she knew he was bleeping Esther, she became friends with Esther.

Where i would fault OP is this, immediately he knew that a Lord had been killed, knowing how they operate with dropping message with the blood of friends and relatives, he should have taken Ifeoma back to Lagos himself ASAP.

After OP entered game over time he realised that it is killed or be killed. For the rival tou spare today will surely kill you tomorrow if necessary. There was no sitting on the fence. It was a game of life and death then and it still is until the government one day makes up its mind to tackle the evils of cultism headlong.

Human beings love to belong to something: church denominations, mosques, community association, departmental association, soccer clubs etc.

Besides the senseless violence caused by battle for supremacy,belonging to a fraternity is sweet. My one suggestion is for government to grant amnesty and begin to regulate it. Have an open register of members and convert them to public organisations owned by governments

Let there be student members , with affiliate membership as supporters club. Bring them out there in the open and let the rivalry be in the form of sports and educational competitions.

Fraternities Football Leauge , Fraternities Boxing tournaments, Fraternity science competitions and Campus, State and National quizes sponsored by the government itself with tantalizing cash prizes and scholarships.

Its the only way i think this menace can be tackled.
Let my belonging to a group have positve attractions and benefits.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by LordVarys1: 5:21am On Mar 26, 2022
quisera:
I dey quiet since dey read the story but this ifeoma death pain me.... So Op naso u just carry your Useless life take affect the poor girl, just imagine the way she died because of your waywardness. You just ended all she has been aspiring for from day 1.
Anyways this also serves as a lesson to all girls who are aware of the criminal lifestyle of their partners and still choose to stay in the relationship because of love abi wetin I no know, just know you're living on a time bomb.
Btw if I hear anybody console with Op dey tell am sorry for your loss base on ifeoma death ehn that person go collect because na oyin kill that girl and he no really deserve peace for this life again.
Shey he don marry now get wife and children while that girl just waste like that. All of una father for here. I don waka
Don't blame OP, Ifeoma knew OP was a cultist and has killed many people. The normal thing to do as someone that has sense was to run back to lagos, instead she stayed behind forming Caro. I knew at some point OP will start losing close associates. Festus, Justin, Saint, Pastor even OP sister safe. You can't be killing people up and down and you think you will be safe. That OP is alive today is just God. Let's keep reading, who knows he may be writing this story from the land of the dead grin

Hw who has ears let him hear and learn from this pathetic story.

OP sorry for your loss

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Candidlady: 5:27am On Mar 26, 2022
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quisera:
I dey quiet since dey read the story but this ifeoma death pain me.... So Op naso u just carry your Useless life take affect the poor girl, just imagine the way she died because of your waywardness. You just ended all she has been aspiring for from day 1.
Anyways this also serves as a lesson to all girls who are aware of the criminal lifestyle of their partners and still choose to stay in the relationship because of love abi wetin I no know, just know you're living on a time bomb.
Btw if I hear anybody console with Op dey tell am sorry for your loss base on ifeoma death ehn that person go collect because na oyin kill that girl and he no really deserve peace for this life again.
Shey he don marry now get wife and children while that girl just waste like that. All of una father for here. I don waka
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Was this necessary! Really insensitive post

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Jmarjr(m): 6:08am On Mar 26, 2022
See as i weak, story wey no b my own i don dey cry put inside. Why ifeoma.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Gr8mind07(m): 6:48am On Mar 26, 2022
As per everything I have been reading about that Esther girl, her personality seems dangerous.

Right from her tight accomplice with the OP, at a point she had to show Ifeoma OP's 400 and gave one yeye story to cover up. I expected the OP to have started being careful of her from that moment but unfortunately the OP too has just been too careless to have revealed a lot to her

She sold Ifeoma out that's why she traced her to base that Sunday to perfect her plans.

What a sad memory for the OP. Sorry about the loss. I hope Festus also survived the entire wahala of cultism and still alive. He was a very good friend to you despite his brutal nature.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Osaka1905: 6:49am On Mar 26, 2022
Jmarjr:
See as i weak, story wey no b my own i don dey cry put inside. Why ifeoma.





Her death pain me bro what a pity

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by quisera(m): 6:56am On Mar 26, 2022
Candidlady:
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Was this necessary! Really insensitive post
Abeg swerve... insensitive post but you couldn't make a sensitive and logical contribution like the two readers above you did. Ekpa

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by itsMrIke(m): 7:18am On Mar 26, 2022
Well I knew Ifeoma died, because Oy didn't marry her. And he has expressed regret in an earlier post about not marrying Ifeoma.
With the way he has described their relationship, only death could have stopped Ifeoma from marrying Oy.

Rest In Peace Ifeoma.

As someone who went to ESUT and lived at Artisan Quarters, I can relate to so many of the stories Oy is talking about.

I remember how it used to feel whenever war started in town. How scared you get for your friends you know who are cultists.But you still move about calm because you are a ju.

That was the beautiful thing about Enugu. They will never kill a ju. It is like a sacred pact they have. They can intimidate you, but never kill you. Except if you are related to a cultist and they need to drop a message.

That we experienced too too many times. One time on the 22nd of Dec., we were all woken up by gunshots at some time past 2am. We all stayed in our rooms worried. By day break we heard women crying. We were then informed that the mother and youngest child (girl) of a popular cultist in the quarters was killed. Omo, we just pack our bags and headed straight to Peace Park to board bus to Lagos, before stray bullet touch bois. No be my Christmas bois go spoil for me and family.

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Samrid: 7:28am On Mar 26, 2022
Omo! Of all people, no be Ifeoma suppose died. God is really great ooo. I woke my wife up with me shouting "ahhh" when I read about her death. Oyin sorry for the loss big time...

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by yuikee2: 7:29am On Mar 26, 2022
OMG Ifeoma's death is really painful ��
I hope you told your elder brother the truth about Ifeoma's death
Am very sure you would have written this last episode with tears in your eyes
So sorry for your loss
No one can take Ifeoma's place in your heart o
Because Ifeoma is forever in your heart

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Nobody: 7:34am On Mar 26, 2022
otipoju:


When Ifeoma realised he was a cultist, after she bailed him from the police station, she had a choice to make: A. leave for her own safety OR B. stay for the thrill.

She made her choice and regrettably it was a wrong one. Even when the war started and she expressed her fears for her safety, she could have boarded a bus and left.

Yes !!! Her association with OP cost her life but he was honest with her about his lifestyle and you can not guilt trip him for that. If you see fire and you know sey na fire and you still dey chuck your hand inside the fire, you can't blame the fire for burning you. Even after Ese gave birth, she was still riding with him. Even after she knew he was bleeping Esther, she became friends with Esther.

Where i would fault OP is this, immediately he knew that a Lord had been killed, knowing how they operate with dropping message with the blood of friends and relatives, he should have taken Ifeoma back to Lagos himself ASAP.

After OP entered game over time he realised that it is killed or be killed. For the rival tou spare today will surely kill you tomorrow if necessary. There was no sitting on the fence. It was a game of life and death then and it still is until the government one day makes up its mind to tackle the evils of cultism headlong.

Human beings love to belong to something: church denominations, mosques, community association, departmental association, soccer clubs etc.

Besides the senseless violence caused by battle for supremacy,belonging to a fraternity is sweet. My one suggestion is for government to grant amnesty and begin to regulate it. Have an open register of members and convert them to public organisations owned by governments

Let there be student members , with affiliate membership as supporters club. Bring them out there in the open and let the rivalry be in the form of sports and educational competitions.

Fraternities Football Leauge , Fraternities Boxing tournaments, Fraternity science competitions and Campus, State and National quizes sponsored by the government itself with tantalizing cash prizes and scholarships.

Its the only way i think this menace can be tackled.
Let my belonging to a group have positve attractions and benefits.



When he knew the game has changed to family and friends level, he could have sent her back to lagos... besides I blame all parents in this story... all of them failed parenting... the whole issue started from parents... if the parents did well,he wouldn't have been sleeping around and na woman make am join cult....

What op needs now is to relocate to an unknown country and lay low and he is going to be safe there... my own input

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Samrid: 7:35am On Mar 26, 2022
Besides,you are not taking OT from Ebi again to lead you still. And update from Ebi and Ese too.
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by RUGGEDWEAVER(m): 7:37am On Mar 26, 2022
RIP IFEOMA AND REST IN PEACE WHEREVER YOU ARE embarassed cry.
This serves as good warning to everyone out there, cultism is never the way out, if not for cultism IFEOMA WOULD STILL BE ALIVE TODAY.
Many have lost their souls all in the name of cult; my prayer is that ‘’May the sins of our fathers depart from our children “Amen. cry

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Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by jey4all(m): 7:38am On Mar 26, 2022
This story is so real. OY God bless you
Re: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by emnite(m): 7:40am On Mar 26, 2022
Ifeoma: Common stop that,am I a baby that its Esther that will tell me what to do,when you bleeped me, did I know her then? Don't get me angry, take me to where you sleep. I knew problem was brewing, but I don't know from where its coming from.




She knew something was gonna happen but don't know where it's coming from . So sad

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