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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Legendoo: 4:33pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Check your pocket before you decide on a one/ two income, traditional/modern type family. Na the economy cos all this kasala, otherwise statistically it's better for men to carry the financial load, while women carry the chore family duties. None of it is bad, though the modern type family seem to be plagued by divorce. Left to me if I have the funds my wife no go work. If I don't, then she must work. Simple 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 4:35pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash: How long have you been married? 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Kaffykay: 4:37pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
In the world we live in right now, women tend to attend to the financial issues of the home,it is at a woman best to be financially upright before heading into that marriage..... so as to avoid story that touch. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by kmaster007: 4:38pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Oyo |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Pierocash(m): 4:38pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport:I am a father of 10 yrs but not married |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash: Ok. Congrats though. Does your kid live with you or the mum? |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Pierocash(m): 4:43pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport:the mum.and that is making me spend double |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Funflipper: 4:44pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme: Lol, even aliens from deep space know naija women have a natural source of income in between their legs. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by MrNipplesLover(m): 4:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
That's why Blow-Job is always available. 3 Likes
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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by geelite(m): 4:52pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
God forbid jobless women...… I remembered when I was dating a student at uniport. she nearly killed me. though i really love her in the first place but, later, the love depreciated coz she is a student and she doesn't know the value of money. when your girl is not working, she can never know the value of money and they are the ones that cheat the most. If she ask for ten helps and you were able to do nine out of the ten, she must go outside and sleep with another man just to get the last one. jobless girls are not contented. meanwhile as a man, you can never solve all the problems of your jobless woman . 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by AutoChick4U(f): 4:52pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme:Baba better shift. that she has no job on her wedding day does not mean she'll continue to be unemployed. Una no dey get sense 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Corea4king(m): 4:57pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
If during Jonathan regime, there is no need of that,but in this buhari regime,is very very important to avoid reign of insult 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Oyiboman69: 4:57pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme:I don't know if you're a married man...there are higher percentage of women who earn money but still collects every dime they spent in the marriage, you can see that earning money before marriage for women is not the overall issue but submission to the man .m 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by franchasng: 5:05pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme:What of those that their wives are working and even earning very well yet they dont ask their wife to contribute for family upkeep? This thing is all about who you got married to 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by tollyboy5(m): 5:05pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Tickles001:Just 29 likes. Oga speak for your self. I want money from my spouse 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by tollyboy5(m): 5:07pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme:Don't mind that guy. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Tickles001(m): 5:23pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
NoToPile: Let's be realistic. You know the bolded is false. You can't find that in 98% of financially accomplished woman, the 2% I left out is probably those stumbled on luck (maybe crypto) that made them overnight millionaires. But let's not debate that. I know it's a plus for a wife to be capable of pulling some financial weight. But by the time she gets to that level her femininity has been greatly eroded. Then you marry her because she has money that she won't even bring when you need it |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Tickles001(m): 5:30pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme: I wish that is obtainable. It would have been a bliss if this generation is blessed with a lot of young, financially capable women with a little "fear of God". |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Tickles001(m): 5:42pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
mayo47: Okay. Let me give a realistic instance. Assuming you live in Ogun state, earning like 750k a month with a lot of investments that bring more money and some millions in the bank for cushioning. Then it's time to get married. Would you rather go for a woman that can give you money out of the box, or get a girl who is still young and very feminine that you can still start business for afterwards? |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Mkayfrenzy(m): 5:43pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
This is the main reason my mum is partially suffering. I just pray God provides a good job for me soon so I can take care of her. I'm so sad rn. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Wuminity(f): 5:45pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Marrying without any source of income as a lady, is a suicide mission. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 6:12pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
I can marry without a source of income, what if I marry and the man becomes a blessing to me and get me a job or starts a business for me? you dunno this Nigeria is hard enough. Though I have always been an advocate of having a source of income before marriage cause I hate insult and recieving money constantly from a man can lead to such. I love my self esteem and respect. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Kobojunkie: 6:17pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Nuttella:since we are playing, "what ifs", What if you instead end up like the women described in the OP's post? 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 6:19pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I don't think her husband battered her cause she is jobless, some men are just cruel, prone to domestic violence and would batter any woman, whether she's working or not. Don't get me wrong, I am working and earning side income too. So I will be bringing something to the table 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Kobojunkie: 6:21pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Nuttella:The point the man was instead making when pointing out that she was jobless was that she had nowhere else to go and no way of supporting herself - and so would likely end up going back to kneel and beg her abuser to take her back. If she had her own source of income, she would have probably made decisions of her own, like move out as soon as she noticed she was married to an abuser. But because she had nothing, she basically sat in and accepted the abuse for that main reason. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 6:26pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Eyya, I can't relate. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by koyyess: 6:38pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Please have something doing as a female o. Even though you did not have a job before you got married, find something doing o. Leave all these inventless bab00ns that are shaking their finger b@3 d1cks on this thread. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by koyyess: 6:40pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Mavinsoladele(m): 6:41pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Mercychen: How can I like your comment a thousand times? Kudos to your dad 'cos I love working class, independent women. I hate people with entitlement mentality, most especially ladies. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by 1kinggy(m): 6:45pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
My own is simple, every able bodied adult- male, female or "I don't want to disclose"- should have a tangible source of income. If you agree to start a family, be ready to bear it's attendant responsibilities. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by toprealman: 6:46pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Darlingme:Your story is all over the place. Are you taking about domestic violence or marital financial pressure or matters of the heart or what exactly? You can build a logical progression and make that piece more interesting. You started well beside but your emotion took over after the first few lines 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
1kinggy:That ought to be made Law. 4 Likes |
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