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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Mavinsoladele(m): 6:48pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
CCC2: By their comments, we know wise folks . Your last sentence capped it all. Anything can happen in life. Respect! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Jeferious: 6:49pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
bekpo:Helper keh? Who she dey help? She don help her family people finish? Guy if you like use your hand put yourself for trouble. My wife will be a partner, not just a helper. Otherwise we stay in our parent families and " help" them very well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Mavinsoladele(m): 6:52pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Mkayfrenzy:Don't worry, everything is gonna be alright. I believe, and so should you. Hard conditions don't last forever 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Jeferious: 6:55pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
ArewaTech1:what is the life expectancy of men in that your "culture"? I no fit shout abeg . Shaa me and liability enwero okwu to start with 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Saintmary(f): 6:59pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
safarigirl: You are so right. You know they give those women nice names like 'home maker', 'virtuous woman' etc just to decorate their cages. Hahahahahahahahhahahaha Now the next point to observe is that once you start making money and it's getting obvious, these guys will start trooping around you. Most of them have bad intentions, as in, they want a moneybag they can still control. Do these guys think women are blind? Even if some are blind, does it mean every woman is blind? This new era na to shine eye well well. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by lordally(m): 7:43pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
CCC2: Wise Counsel... He who has ears , let him hear!! |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by TI1919(m): 7:51pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It is important that the man earn a living, if he is lucky to have a woman that earn a good living that is good too but it is not a yardstic that the woman must be working or earning a good living. the man can extablish a business for her. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Goldentulip2: 7:57pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
I will NEVER marry a woman with no source of income. No matter how small, she MUST be earning something or doing a trade. To me that makes her understand money management abit atleast. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by lordally(m): 7:59pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport: When you read things like this , you can't help to admire the matured minds and souls we have here on Nairaland!!! I admire your Brilliance... whomever you are! 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by lordally(m): 8:09pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
ArewaTech1: So I'm summary you're saying a fu fledge man should use his hands and go an carry a grown up adult who isn't deformed as a liability and out inside his house!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by ArewaTech1(m): 8:18pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
lordally: that's how it works, that's how I met it. you see it as a liability, some of us don't. but hey, it is a choice we made. not everyone has to marry a full-time housewife. If you have the means do it. if you can't, get yourself a working-class wife. my wife to be has told me several times that she doesn't wanna work, despite having a 2nd class lower BSc. she wants to be a full-time housewife and I am fine with it. I can take care of her and our children, and she'll take care of the home. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by ArewaTech1(m): 8:21pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Jeferious: 60+ I guess. [no official data] Haha you see it as a liability, some of us don't. my wife to-be has told me several times that she doesn't wanna work, despite having a 2nd class lower BSc. she wants to be a full-time housewife and I am fine with it. I can take care of her and our children, and she'll take care of the home. win-win for us... **shrugs |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by FromZeroToHero(m): 8:22pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Marrying a lady without any source of income would been the greatest mistake of my life. Thank God it never happened. Today I am happily married to a double qualified Nurse who earns 6 figures. She assists me in running the home financially. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by bekpo(m): 8:26pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Jeferious: She's ur helpmeet! |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
abobote: @bolded why won't you do domestic chores when she's contributing? You say a woman that demands that from you doesn't know her place, but you forget that contributing financially isn't the woman's place too? This is the problem I have with traditional folks these days. Most of you are selfish hypocrites. Men want ladies that can contribute financially, but at the same don't want to contribute domestically claiming it's not their role. Is financial contribution the woman's role? While the women want men that will help them with domestic chores, but at the same time don't want to contribute financially. Confused folks!. Y'all should choose one path and follow it strictly. If you want to be traditional, then be traditional to the full. Not traditional when it suites you and otherwise when it doesn't suit you. Same thing for Liberal people. If you wanna be Liberal then be Liberal to the full. Ses fini 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 8:50pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
lordally: Shout out to you too. real recognize real. Brilliance recognizes brilliance. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by lordally(m): 8:52pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
TI1919: So men who worked hard to have their own business or learn a skill and established themselves have two heads abi Why can't a woman do same for her own self?? Why must dey wait for a man to set a business up for her? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Mavinsoladele: . |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Bbbw: 9:06pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by manikspears: 9:15pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
My brother, I will only say this once....na only God dey feed man, you have to work but rely not on your own strength or skills. Many Married and wise people will tell you this. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by omoharry(f): 9:18pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Nigeria is tough as it is and is not the era where the husband should take up all the responsibilities of the home alone . No woman with her right senses should go into marriage with empty hand without empowering herself financially . 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Jeferious: 9:19pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
ArewaTech1:Ok...Kontinue. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 9:20pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash: Why Can't you have the kid and pay less. Did the court rule that she should have the kid |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Kobojunkie: 9:25pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Goldentulip2:Here... meet TI1919, another man in Nigeria, who says a woman that has no source of income.. TI1919: 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Kobojunkie: 9:27pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
omoharry:That decision is to be made and carried by the couple in their marriage. What is instead needed is law to hold couples responsible for any children they birth at least till those kids gain partial independence - whenever that happens. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Roseey0(f): 9:45pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Depends on who you are getting married to sha but won't advise anyone to go unto marriage without a skill or atleast plans to acquire one. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Winn1: 10:11pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Don't marry if you are broke 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Pierocash(m): 10:21pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport:nothing like court. She told me to come take the child but I insisted the boy stays with her. I don't want him to be raised by another woman. I want him to have motherly presence and occasionally his father's presence during holidays. But for me to bring him under the care of another woman when he has a mother,no no for me. And trust women,she used that opportunity to open bank account for my head. I pay his school fees,send money for his monthly upkeep in 10s of thousands, aside other miscellaneous expenses at her request . I do that to make him comfortable 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash: Congrats on taking care of your child. but look at it this way. raising a child is not easy. if you get an opportunity is any state in Nigeria, you won't even think twice, you will be off to the job but that woman has to pause, think about the kid, most time, she will forgo that opportunity because of the child. So yes, what she is doing is normal, I just hope she is not just trying to hurt you intentionallly. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Pierocash(m): 10:42pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport:that is why she is a mother. Abi nah man go play the role before. I don't feel hurt in any way, I am just fine 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 10:46pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash:You mean the role of raising a child? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Pierocash(m): 10:47pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport:yes ofcourse |
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