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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 10:48pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash: So a man does not raise children? I am a bit confused now |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Pierocash(m): 10:51pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Techsupport:that is the duty of a woman bro. A man can only provide the resources ,add one or two pieces of advise as occasion demands. But generally,and naturally,that is the job of a mother 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 10:53pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Pierocash: Ok. I had no idea that is how it is done. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by cococandy(f): 1:21am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Techsupport: 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Nobody: 3:28am On Mar 30, 2022 |
I thank almighty God that every day on this Forum, we keep seeing (Real) Women who live (Real) lives come online once in a blue moon to complain that they cannot do this little thing men do or bring to the table because they never bargained for that nor agreed to this with their husband. You know what? No woman actually ever agrees to do it, but we keep seeing women come online every day saying "little thing they bring". I stress myself less with what women say online in groups. Absolutely false narrative. post=111472731: |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Lordhades21(m): 7:25am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Try dey read to understand, show me one attack on women in my post. I just said what I like. What society thinks doesn't concern me, I know what I want. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Ogunleye40(m): 7:31am On Mar 30, 2022 |
2023 ELECTION:i hope we dont even need a president for now.we should change from democrazy system of government to monarchial system where we will have the power to address our kings and one they messed up we know how to deal with the as a matter of fact democrazy did not favour us in anyway. We should forget about voting let return power to the monarch please can we join hand and chase away these wicked people? In other to secure the future of our unborn child. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by descarado: 7:56am On Mar 30, 2022 |
abobote:Which culture, if I may ask? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by descarado: 8:01am On Mar 30, 2022 |
IAMBlesssed:Cos men hate when a lady is above them in a well known patriarchal society like ours. Hence the stereotype 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by IAMBlesssed(f): 8:47am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Half truth..So the women that are not making money are the only well behaved and submissive ones? Lol.. You ain't seen anything yet..Read up people's stories on family section then you will understand..Bad character is about personality in both gender.. Being wealthy doesn't make people bad. There are many disrespectful and proud poor ladies as well.. My point, being rich and financially independent should be encouraged amongst women to help eradicate poverty in the country, secondly it's never the reason why people are badly behaved..Get yourself a good hardworking rich lady and watch your life blossom.. SKhanmi: |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by IAMBlesssed(f): 8:54am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Brian47: Very true.. Most times, the yes is just for a start ooo..once she enters the marriage, she would change from docile to tiger.. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Goldentulip2: 10:10am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Smh that’s his business. E no concern me |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Darlingme(f): 10:42am On Mar 30, 2022 |
toprealman:I'm sorry o, I'm not too good in writing. I only express my feelings exactly the way it is. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by TI1919(m): 1:20pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Goldentulip2:You are very stupid and senseless |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by TI1919(m): 1:23pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
lordally:You are so stupid and senseless |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by introvertednerd: 1:57pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
My father is a conservative man. He believed that his wife should not work, her duty was the house. Cook, clean, take of the children. He never allowed my mom to have a job or start a business of her because of his insecurities. The old man believed that he could take care of everyone till he died. Now, he's facing financial crisis, things are not going smoothly like before. He can't pay school fees. He doesn't say it but we know he wished my mom had a stable source of income. At least she would take half of the responsibilities. I know multiple families that this things have happened to. Where the man wants to be the bread winner of the family. It's important for a woman to be financially stable or have a good source of income, especially in marriage o. All the men saying they don't need their women to work or wants housewives, in the long run it's going to choke you o 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Acidosis(m): 2:01pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
folake4u: Your husband's money is your money. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Gloriagee(f): 3:22pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
U want buy bag , u go start taking permission. Maybe, in my next life...not this time around. folake4u: |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by folake4u(f): 4:07pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Acidosis: I see what you're doing. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by folake4u(f): 4:08pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Gloriagee: Lmao, not in this life or the next to come sef. I nor fit try am, Sis. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Mariangeles(f): 4:33pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Acidosis: True. Men make money, then find the right woman (for them) to spend it with. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Mariangeles(f): 4:45pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
abobote: Ask her if she’s truly okay and happy with that arrangement. Does she feel fulfilled? I think from time to time, couples should endeavor to ask each other are you happy? It is important. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by ImaIma1(f): 5:02pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Tickles001: Are you married? Or this is just based on theory and hypothesis? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Gloriagee(f): 5:07pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
. To avoid all manner of see finish folake4u: |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by folake4u(f): 5:10pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Gloriagee: Yes oh. I fit deck person teeth sef. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Gloriagee(f): 6:33pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
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Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Acidosis(m): 7:08pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
folake4u: It's the truth o |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Acidosis(m): 7:09pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Mariangeles: That's the reality my dear 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Tickles001(m): 7:20pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ImaIma1: I'm not married, but I'm family friends with a few married people (men and women). What I tell you is not theory. It's insider information based on observations. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by ImaIma1(f): 8:18pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Tickles001: It's not enough to be close to married people. Are you in their private moments? Are you in their bedrooms? You only go by what you are told/what they want you to know. When you are married, you will be able to contribute with facts. Any man who wants to be the only one to provide financially just wants to control his woman. God forbid that you leave this world with her to take care of the children, you will be leaving a "useless" woman that will be running from pillar to post to provide for the kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by Tickles001(m): 9:25pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ImaIma1: I didn't say friend, but family friend. That would tell you I'm not just close, but a member. I like getting very involved in my friends lives some times. ImaIma1: You don't necessarily need to become something before you can understand that thing to a satisfactory level. A great number of single person understand marriage more than the married ones sef. Understand this. Men don't want to be the only provider, but they got no choice. It's either he gets a woman he won't enjoy living with hoping on the little money she's got that she never actually gives, or a young naturally clean happy girl that he will enjoy staying with and later fix her up with something. How many financially capable modest (not the I have changed type) young girls do you see around you. Not much. Now, you mentioned control. Why would you want someone you can't control to become part of you. It's a man that absorbs a woman, and at that a little control is needed. Except you're talking about some other kind of control. ImaIma1: I won't live beyond my means, and won't raise an isolated family. If I die, they'll be much (people and resource) for her to fall back on. And I remember saying I'd fix her up with something within few years of marriage. |
Re: Marrying Without Any Source Of Income As A Lady by ImaIma1(f): 10:34pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Tickles001: You are only talking about an ideal situation where you have enough money for her to fall back on. For how long? I know someone, an inlaw, whose husband forbade her from working. When he died, it wasn't easy. Now her kids are grown, she has to completely depend on them. No single dime of her own. She keeps complaining about her husband holding her back. You said you don't necessarily need to become something....i beg to defer. You can't know exactly what marriage is except you are in it. It's easy to judge from outside and give the best advice from outside till you get married. Single people understand marriage more until they get married. Even if you like to get involved in their lives, do they allow you into every part of their lives? You can't follow them around. Be in their fights, intimate moments, etc. Or can you? I studied my sister and husband's marriage and was very close to them. It still wasn't the same as being in my own marriage. When I say you should wait till you get married, it is not that I am trying to insult you. But you can't be a single person and give an informed opinion no matter how close to you are to married family members. It's simple wisdom. 1 Like
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