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Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ChoCho54(f): 12:04am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Nope! All men cheat. But that's not the worse thing to happen to mankind. What about forgiveness? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ChoCho54(f): 12:09am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You are too emotional for your own good. Grow up mahn. This is the kind of paranoia that drives people to commit murder in a marriage. Provided he is not a street dog, chasing everything on skirts, don't crucify him for that. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:18am On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:Emotinal about what exactly? The women is here explaining she feels her marriage agreement has been violated by her husband's cheating. Why do you advise her to ignore what obviously bothers her all so she can continue to cling to the title of married woman?? I am not even calling the man a street wh0re here, but how do you know he is not a street dog? Because all his wife is aware of are his whatsapp cheating history? 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:19am On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:Correction, not all men cheat. Second, what has forgiveness to do with choosing to remain in a toxic situation abeg? 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ChoCho54(f): 12:23am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Are you not reacting based on the information the woman put out here? I guess not. You act like you know other things about them. If she was your sister, would your first response after reading this be divorce? You are too emotional! It blinds every sense of reasoning.. People with hyper emotions can't keep a job. Any little hiccup, they quit. Where did I say she should remain with him just to answer Mrs? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ChoCho54(f): 12:25am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You obviously have a different meaning of toxicity. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:37am On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:If she were my sister, only she knows what she can and cannot tolerate, and hence endure, and she should rightly make her decision as far as her marriage for her own self. Again, you continue to accuse me of being emotional yet still unable to provide valid reason for why you choose to believe this of my person. I have never quit a job so I don't know why you rant now about those who you consider hyper emotional beings. Well, you suggested that her next, and the one after and so on.... are likely to turn out cheats, suggesting that for reason why she should remain in this marriage of hers, did you not?, 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:40am On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:According to very well.com, A toxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked. On a basic level, any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.verywellmind.com/toxic-relationships-4174665&ved=2ahUKEwiKh5zNwvH2AhXCkIkEHS1oARcQFnoECCIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3VsxXj1IfB2J4qskH3DKQR 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ChoCho54(f): 12:53am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:That lady is not leaving her marriage over the frivolities she brought to social media anyway. Good night! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:53am On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:Huh, what? 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Gloriagee(f): 2:56am On Apr 01, 2022 |
1st thing first, he's cheating. 2nd thing is wat are you gonna do about it |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by olabrinks(f): 4:14am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Advice to you. He is not going to change, so don’t waste your energy trying to change him or keep him in one place. He is cheating on you and he is going to keep on cheating on you until he wants to stop himself. Most never change until old age. No amount of family meeting or reports will change that. It’s either you accept it, or you leave. If you are the type that cannot handle cheating because it affects you spiritually, mentally and physically.. then this is what I will say to you. I will personally advise you to stay put until you have a solid plan, really built your finances, maybe you have a suitor somewhere taking you serious then you can leave. If you leave now without a solid plan you will be worse off. Don’t make harsh decisions based off emotions, everything needs to be timed and planned well, this might even take years. You will also observe his behaviour to see if he is changing or not. No nagging! Just leave him to do what he wants. Start planning now. Collect any support he gives to you and take advantage of it, it’s better than nothing. Do NOT have any more children for this man for now. Keep up with your marital duties so that when the time comes he won’t use any justification for his ways on your head. Detach yourself emotionally from this man gradually if they’re no changes. Be smart you will be happy in the end. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by olabrinks(f): 4:42am On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:I understand your concept but marriage is not a do or die. Sanity in marriage is important..adultery can be tolerated by some, and others can’t. People stab their husbands in their sleep for this same reason. People find themselves in mental institutions because of this. Everyone has their emotional threshold, we are not robots operating on batteries. To turn a blind eye to everything means you are a bomb waiting to explode in most cases. Even 70 year old man deals with emotional trauma it has nothing to do with age. Let her just plan her situation well and not make hasty decisions that could affect the life of her child as well. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Richy4(m): 4:51am On Apr 01, 2022 |
I will only tell you to protect yourself... Insist on condoms when u meet...We don't want to loose you... A smooth Operator is always a smooth Operator anytime any day... But this one is Leaving lots of traces behind and u think it only ends on social media? Hmm!!!! Please prepare your mind for a hotel receipt of a "boardroom meeting" with some clients... U will find it soon if you try harder..... 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Nobody: 6:00am On Apr 01, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by AgentGoat: 7:22am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: Was he like this before you married him? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by kwaso2: 7:39am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Do you both attend same church? Inform him of ur readiness to talk to your(his) pastor. If he is not serious with church, encourage him to join the workforce. Please rule out the option of leaving. I acknowledge u have made a mistake by marrying a cheat after 6years of pre- marriage relationship but it will become your cross to build. Weldone |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by NoToPile: 8:58am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry He is cheating E. O. D, he might not change. That building project in whose name is it? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Nobody: 9:15am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Your husband is taking you for a ride, he thinks you are not smart and would believe everything he tells you. Good women always end up with cheats , stop been too peaceful, men don’t appreciate good women instead they will start taking your goodness for stupidity. 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by CSTRR: 10:50am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:There is nothing you can do to change him. You made a mistake in the choice of life partner. You probably didn't focus on the right things during courtship. Things like contentment and a genuine fear of God. Instead, you were busy tripping for his bad boy swag. You are not the first and won't be the last. Join the Queue. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by jagorinho: 10:53am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:Seems your husband has issues with you not kissing him, sometimes sex is not the ultimate for some people, the quoted text shows your husband really place high emphasis on kissing because he was asking the other lady too....so Mrs!!! Sometimes the little details we discard might be the solution to our issues, why don't you love kissing your husband? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by dannex4adx(m): 10:59am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: Please don't leave your husband. Keep praying for him. And Please don't listen to bad advise. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by HarunaWest(m): 11:29am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:You only saw chats and you are lamenting. The rule is that you should catch him red handed. And leave hid godamn phone alone. Why are you reading his messages, did you buy phone and sim card for him ni? Naso una go dey find wetin no lost. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by MrCover: 11:45am On Apr 01, 2022 |
What are you planning to do now, you noticed that your husband cheat on you @poster? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by organicfoods(m): 11:45am On Apr 01, 2022 |
You need to sit him down and talk this things over, you need to communicate a lot and express your feelings well enough. Besides, you need to distance yourself from his phones, he may be catching cruise like he said which I doubt, you can still give him benefits of doubt. I insist you talk things over before any decisions and persistently too, men hate been troubled over and over again and might have to do a rethink. We you communicate a lot with a man, he finds it difficult to stray off easily Good luck. Meanwhile, Famine is starring us on the face and the best way out is Urban Farming. With Urban Farming or gardening you can grow foods anywhere there is space or water. It requires little efforts. Check the YouTube video the right inspirations. If you are already a practicing farmers and tired of using dangerous chemicals on your farm, here is an effective Organic solution to help out. https://www.nairaland.com/5486295/effective-organic-pesticides-fungicides-against https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FG97P6u-UH0 brightalo1010: |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Cutehector(m): 11:45am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Yeyedabad: 11:46am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Your husband is not a cheat, stop lying |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by hibeebeeking: 11:46am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Follow him around. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by NOwazobia: 11:47am On Apr 01, 2022 |
They have come again. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kelvin30286063(m): 11:47am On Apr 01, 2022 |
As a man who has been married for 3 years too. I think your husband is having difficulty coming to terms with being married. I had the same problem in the early days of my marriage too. My wife will fight and get mad over it again and again. We men call it flirting and we don't see it as cheating but the truth is it is actually cheating. My advice is you seek counselling and make him go with you. Also I think starting a big fight and threatening to leave him works if he truly loves you cos it worked with my case then. I slowly stopped when I realized that I may lose this woman if I don't stop this nonsense. I even left Facebook and WhatsApp for sometime just to stop the urge to chat with tempting girls. Hope it works out between you two. Take care. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
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