₦airaland Forum

luminouz:
So are you married?

You seemed very interested in the topic

rickpat:
any man that cannot or has no plans of moving the wife and kids abroad to join him...HAS A WIFE ABROAD...no need deceiving yourself.

I have one around..she has a child..the man is in the UK..stays there permanently...sends her 50pounds for feeding. pays the rent and school fees... imagine 50pounds...the man has been in the UK for over 20years...matured man o..he barely comes o..he can go years without coming...and you say he has no woman there...


my advise to ladies.. don't just marry any man cus he is abroad and promised to take you there... simple

texasux:
Lol....

We call them Our Nigerian Wife

They are fully in the know about the husband's marital status abroad and are content with being the Nigeria-based wife, taking care of whatever property or investment the man has at home.

LadyRosa:
Nothing special about the topic.My data na unlimited,so I gatz use am anyhow.

luminouz:
You didn't answer my question

LadyRosa:
No I won't cope depending on the length of time,I can only try my best.

LadyRosa:
I don't need to.

Youngpo413:
what if he sends you excess money?

Disclaimer12:
I live abroad, I have a partner that stays in Nigeria, it's been over 7 years, I haven't visit home, I'm not happy about that, it depresses me daily.But one thing most people don't understand is that, they think u stays abroad, u can just buy a flight ticket and come home anytime u like, it's totally wrong! There are categories of visa, i.e study visa, tourism visa, work visa, medical visa and visitors visa, most men don't bother to ask what categories of visa the agent applied for when leaving naija, aside study visa, in many countries converting a visitor visa to a permanent residency permit is never easy! In some cases you have to get married to a citizen to help fast track or update your papers, most men that are married back home find this very difficult to do, the wives back home won't be � happy with that ,knowing her husband is married to another woman, and the woman u use for paper are always very inquisitive to be sure u don't just want papers! No mumu anywhere! U can be abroad for 10 years while still searching for a Permit on your passport to enable u travel in and out of the country! It's never as easy as we all thought, but then most Nigerian youth don't care to find out details before traveling, we all just wanna japa, i know of someone who's been here when his son was a year old, the son is already a university student and he hasn't been home, and in some cases where u used citizens for papers, bringing your wife over is like a suicide attempt! So in all, it's never as easy as we think, it's so unfair to assume men are happy and comfortable about this, no man want to live his wife for so long, the mere thought of someone else sleeping with your wife can drive u crazy! It was very hard initially, but then you have no choice than to accept whatever u meet back home, and u have to swallow the bitter pill that someone else might be taking of your wives pant! There's nothing u can do about that! My advice for people traveling is that, if u can't go with your partner, then be ready to face whatever it is in the future! In all, travelling sweet for singles only! My advice oh

Qatar2022:
Because life is not balance, it's obvious you're still a kid, work and pray , go and ask questions about guys that bring their wives abroad it never end well

bestdefender:
My friend lik dat got married to one , the guy has been away for 6 years now, so one I stumbled upon her for her shop so we be dey gist I come ask her her husband still dey there,I was lik wat of visiting she said no ,then discussion got deeper I had to ask her how she was coping with sex , she laughed n said her mind is zeroed on it I was lik even if you do I won't blame you we are all human n we laughed and I left , after two days she started texting she wanted to visit , that was the time I new that my statement got many meaning ( if u do I won't blame u) I had to tell her dat I no dey town Omo I gat to block her. Someone wife God forbid , nah me send u go marry oyibo base

Cazzim:
hahahaha, u do well abeg, u be real gee��

Disclaimer12:
I live abroad, I have a partner that stays in Nigeria, it's been over 7 years, I haven't visit home, I'm not happy about that, it depresses me daily.But one thing most people don't understand is that, they think u stays abroad, u can just buy a flight ticket and come home anytime u like, it's totally wrong! There are categories of visa, i.e study visa, tourism visa, work visa, medical visa and visitors visa, most men don't bother to ask what categories of visa the agent applied for when leaving naija, aside study visa, in many countries converting a visitor visa to a permanent residency permit is never easy! In some cases you have to get married to a citizen to help fast track or update your papers, most men that are married back home find this very difficult to do, the wives back home won't be � happy with that ,knowing her husband is married to another woman, and the woman u use for paper are always very inquisitive to be sure u don't just want papers! No mumu anywhere! U can be abroad for 10 years while still searching for a Permit on your passport to enable u travel in and out of the country! It's never as easy as we all thought, but then most Nigerian youth don't care to find out details before traveling, we all just wanna japa, i know of someone who's been here when his son was a year old, the son is already a university student and he hasn't been home, and in some cases where u used citizens for papers, bringing your wife over is like a suicide attempt! So in all, it's never as easy as we think, it's so unfair to assume men are happy and comfortable about this, no man want to live his wife for so long, the mere thought of someone else sleeping with your wife can drive u crazy! It was very hard initially, but then you have no choice than to accept whatever u meet back home, and u have to swallow the bitter pill that someone else might be taking of your wives pant! There's nothing u can do about that! My advice for people traveling is that, if u can't go with your partner, then be ready to face whatever it is in the future! In all, travelling sweet for singles only! My advice oh

As regards using Akatas,she must not know you're married in 9ja but how will you not have children together?
When you later get your papers and divorce her,how about alimony payments, property sharing wahala??

QuinModah:

Veggieseedies:
To have a family at home

Disclaimer12:
I live abroad, I have a partner that stays in Nigeria, it's been over 7 years, I haven't visit home, I'm not happy about that, it depresses me daily.But one thing most people don't understand is that, they think u stays abroad, u can just buy a flight ticket and come home anytime u like, it's totally wrong! There are categories of visa, i.e study visa, tourism visa, work visa, medical visa and visitors visa, most men don't bother to ask what categories of visa the agent applied for when leaving naija, aside study visa, in many countries converting a visitor visa to a permanent residency permit is never easy! In some cases you have to get married to a citizen to help fast track or update your papers, most men that are married back home find this very difficult to do, the wives back home won't be � happy with that ,knowing her husband is married to another woman, and the woman u use for paper are always very inquisitive to be sure u don't just want papers! No mumu anywhere! U can be abroad for 10 years while still searching for a Permit on your passport to enable u travel in and out of the country! It's never as easy as we all thought, but then most Nigerian youth don't care to find out details before traveling, we all just wanna japa, i know of someone who's been here when his son was a year old, the son is already a university student and he hasn't been home, and in some cases where u used citizens for papers, bringing your wife over is like a suicide attempt! So in all, it's never as easy as we think, it's so unfair to assume men are happy and comfortable about this, no man want to live his wife for so long, the mere thought of someone else sleeping with your wife can drive u crazy! It was very hard initially, but then you have no choice than to accept whatever u meet back home, and u have to swallow the bitter pill that someone else might be taking of your wives pant! There's nothing u can do about that! My advice for people traveling is that, if u can't go with your partner, then be ready to face whatever it is in the future! In all, travelling sweet for singles only! My advice oh

Disclaimer12:
I live abroad, I have a partner that stays in Nigeria, it's been over 7 years, I haven't visit home, I'm not happy about that, it depresses me daily.But one thing most people don't understand is that, they think u stays abroad, u can just buy a flight ticket and come home anytime u like, it's totally wrong! There are categories of visa, i.e study visa, tourism visa, work visa, medical visa and visitors visa, most men don't bother to ask what categories of visa the agent applied for when leaving naija, aside study visa, in many countries converting a visitor visa to a permanent residency permit is never easy! In some cases you have to get married to a citizen to help fast track or update your papers, most men that are married back home find this very difficult to do, the wives back home won't be � happy with that ,knowing her husband is married to another woman, and the woman u use for paper are always very inquisitive to be sure u don't just want papers! No mumu anywhere! U can be abroad for 10 years while still searching for a Permit on your passport to enable u travel in and out of the country! It's never as easy as we all thought, but then most Nigerian youth don't care to find out details before traveling, we all just wanna japa, i know of someone who's been here when his son was a year old, the son is already a university student and he hasn't been home, and in some cases where u used citizens for papers, bringing your wife over is like a suicide attempt! So in all, it's never as easy as we think, it's so unfair to assume men are happy and comfortable about this, no man want to live his wife for so long, the mere thought of someone else sleeping with your wife can drive u crazy! It was very hard initially, but then you have no choice than to accept whatever u meet back home, and u have to swallow the bitter pill that someone else might be taking of your wives pant! There's nothing u can do about that! My advice for people traveling is that, if u can't go with your partner, then be ready to face whatever it is in the future! In all, travelling sweet for singles only! My advice oh

Cazzim:
is like have seen this beautiful face before, u leave at Abuja??

QuinModah:

Kobojunkie:
a baby mama at home you mean?

Veggieseedies:
Maybe but with a different treatment

Kobojunkie:
Ok, you mean "glorified" baby mama then?,

Even our mothers who were abandoned in marriage, living their caged existence, believed themselves themselves different and better than those women who opted for divorce instead of abandonment too. But the truth is most abandoned in marriage were worse off.

So make we begin to dey call a spade, a spade abeg!

Veggieseedies:
They want the money while the men want the children and with a tag of "family man". Each gets what they want

Generalwoodz:
. Lol. You ignited the hot flames in her and cowardly ran away. You wouldn't help relieve 6 solid years of build up longings, passion and tender wants, why go ahead to give her such advise?

That's the Hallmark of playing with her emotions, awakening the almost dead desires in her and strucking the dusty chord of her clitoris.

Every words you utter are lethal weapons, be very careful how you use them mate... In your case, the words were seeds. You planted it.

Kobojunkie:
So you are convinced these women go into marriage all just they can get money from the deal?

Veggieseedies:
Maybe but with a different treatment

Patriotsleague:
They masturbate.