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premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

I am quoting your long post, so that you can see it.

Your wife is actually a flirt, and can cheat on you if opportunity present itself, but that does not mean she is sleeping with the said man.

This happens alot in any work place, especially markets or shopping complex. Men do play with women alot that you will think they are dating, but hugging and caressing of one another should be out of it, reason I said your wife might be a flirt. So, whenever you see them in such position, just know they have been sleeping with each other or will soon start.

Warn her not to tolerate that from any man again, otherwise, you will send her out the day you caught her in such position again.

premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

If she loved you or value the "marriage" she won't do what you caught her doing. If she can do that outside in front of everyone.. Imagine if she and d driver dey alone.. Oga ,if you value your life,better tell your elders what she did,and look for a wife.. Cux to me,as of now you don't have a wife.. That one is everybody's wife.. And don't forget to run DNA test for the child she said is yours... E get why.. Sorry about the heart break... Na just girl friend been break my hrt those days ,wen I never sabi d game,I knew how bad I felt. Not to talk of person wife.. She no try at all o

Your wife must be jovial/Social!

It's morally wrong and I also detest it.

But if you live among the locals, that's how some too socialized housewife does.

Don't over think it, It always end there, I can bet it your wife isn't cheating on you. She sees it as a norm which is very wrong.

Just let her know you detest such behaviour and you don't want her to do such again, I'm very sure she'll abide by it because her view about it is different from yours.

premierlead:
Thank you, but imagine a bus driver placing hand on a married woman's buttocks here on earth, how do you think it will be in the body of a husband if sighted? With their posture that day even the baby in the womb knew they are in to something

That woman is a LovePeddler

Oga that's the ways of the market people,just maybe nothing is going on between them, talk to her about how you feel and hear from her...if a woman is telling lies u gonna know

Things dey occur.

But i hope you know where she live since she refuse to return home and has she tried reaching out to you at all; maybe beg and stuff

emerazz:
Normally I don't respond to issues Like this but I went through your replies and saw that you are responsible and thus this story is genuine..

Now first of all, tbh with you baa these are common silly practices asper play mostly seen in market women of her kind, its obvious she has no core values nor principles.. But that doesn't mean that she's cheating with him, women don't go diz public with men they're cheating with..

What your woman need is proper orientation, she's just a local girl (sorry to say).. You said it all wen u said that academic stubbornness of a crap.. She's just dumb..

Change her business environment and intimate her about decorum.. You'll be fine..

Don't forget to make inquiries too to check if she actually cheated tho.. If she did, send her packing asap..

Boss I cut cap for you..When men speak, you know..

premierlead:
Oga, but we married already. We did a traditional wedding now

Very simple case..She cheated.

For me, it is a deal breaker..I don't share my woman..Unless we are done for.

If she finds another man attractive(sexually), I am no longer enough...She is going to leave that second, minute, hour.

She disgraced you...Cheating without respect.

Anyway, how you guys started is a messy way..You already know what she is capable of. So regarding this, It shouldn't come to you as a shock.

She played your mom and you as well.

No be by greeting everyone on the street, if you know the way, you will spot bad babe from a distance.

Moreover you are in the academic field, your woman should be from there..Otherwise with this one, you will father kids who aren't yours...Shine ya eye.

She might just be a flirt it's common with market women and doesn't necessarily mean they have been knacking but even tho that she's still a cheat and I would advice you don't take a drastic action base on that she deserves a second chance and that by taking her off that environment if she will have any slight chance of changing. You have done right not involving third party yet sit her down tell her how you feel about it and discuss plan of moving her elsewhere IMO I believe people deserve second chance but the third is stupidity. You should also consider how you guys met it was more of an arrangement so to make the better of it your manliness must come into play

You are not man enough sir

You mean a man puts a hand on your wife's butttock and you kept your cool up until now?

Btw your wife na normal olosho!
Free the bird. She belongs to the streets cos on a norms, that guy don rod her well well!
Just the way you laid her easily. Some girls are like that. We call them Animashawun! They came to earth just to bless men with pun.ani.

And free that talk about the child being your carbon-copy. Don't assume he is yours unless DNA has proven so.

May the gods be with you

premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

First thing first, that her business is over or you open a shop for her close to the house, that is if you still want to keep her.
If not send her packing cos what she did was show the whole market that you are a useless man, she has no respect for you or your marriage at all.
Wetin people dey hide do naim she do for inside market.

Though it's bad but this is common among the locals and it always end there

I can bet it, she's not a cheat. The woman must be one kinda Social person, that's one of the problem of being over Social.

Mooh247:




True forgiveness only comes after thorough punishment

You must make her suffer a slow painful punishment before you consider forgiven her

She's a flirt no doubt, and the only way to tame a flirt is to make her understand every of her actions would have severe consequences

Punishments

1: Lock up the shop you opened for her indefinitely without any reason... Just demand your keys (minimum 2weeks)

2: give her the silent treatment till you notice true remorse (atleast a month)

3: Never eat her food or deliberately waste it and go out to eat more at cafes or your mum's place (2 weeks)

4: Yell and Scold her for almost all simple mistake she over look


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premierlead:
Oga, but we married already. We did a traditional wedding now

Marriage doesn't change a woman...

Never jump from f..k buddy to marriage...do proper courtship and know her and her capabilities properly...Marriage doesn't change character....

Since it is trad u did and not court...use ur head and convert her back to f..k buddy in ur mind, till y decide what is best

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Godada:


You should have spoken up about this act of infidelity in the first instance.

The lady is sizing you to see what you are made up of and what you would do next.

What she is seeing now is probably a weakling.

By the way, are you eating her food?

You should put your foot on the ground. Lay down some rules.

If you intend to share her with her hoodlum driver friend, the business of petty trading is over.

Man up and send her packing.

Your peace of mind is very important.

Sending her packing will be the best option... Yes, he saw her in a position that wasn't meant to be... I will suggest you take the matter to the family if you can't handle it yourself..
If the table was turned around, how will you think she will handle it.. By forgiving you...

[quote author=emerazz post=111679704]Normally I don't respond to issues Like this but I went through your replies and saw that you are responsible and thus this story is genuine..

Now first of all, tbh with you baa these are common silly practices asper play mostly seen in market women of her kind, its obvious she has no core values nor principles.. But that doesn't mean that she's cheating with him, women don't go diz public with men they're cheating with..

What your woman need is proper orientation, she's just a local girl (sorry to say).. You said it all wen u said that academic stubbornness of a crap.. She's just dumb..

Change her business environment and intimate her about decorum.. You'll be fine..

Don't forget to make inquiries too to check if she actually cheated tho.. If she did, send her packing asap..[/quote jah bless you seniorman

I can only imagine how that driver will be aggressively fvking her recklessly like the way they drive on our naija bumpy road. Well, since most women like it manly and rough, she must be getting it from him, she won't stop ,she'd only just hide it better now. Imagine ,the whole market knows your wife is a slut

A slut and a slut-maker!!?

Kai....OP has been cheated badly!!!

The moral of the story: To the single, never get married because of a pregnancy. Bro, you don't know what you married. If she could disrespect you so openly, imagine how bad e go be for your back. You are now the laughing stock of everyone that saw your wife messing up. You need to take action but I can't tell you what to do. Let your heart guide you.

premierlead:
Problem share is half solved, I believe we can be our brother's keeper here. As I share it here I am of the belief that the burden is partially shed from my chest. My chest is heavy before now and I am not the type who raise hand on women

You have not done anything wrong by sharing this anyway.
From the sound of your message, your absence may have caused this. I'm not trying to rationalize her action, it is wrong. However, give her a second chance after you must have given her a thorough warning and let your mother be aware of her misdeed just to keep an eye on her. However, caution is needed here, if your mother is the type that often do not overlook past deeds without mentioning it then I will advice you do not get her involved. But someone must be aware of her two-timing. And please, try and forgive her.

If she'sa flirt, wherever she's moved to, there will be enough men waiting, and it's only a matter of time before she continues her distribution business.

Omotosho1090905:
She might just be a flirt it's common with market women and doesn't necessarily mean they have been knacking but even tho that she's still a cheat and I would advice you don't take a drastic action base on that she deserves a second chance and that by taking her off that environment if she will have any slight chance of changing. You have done right not involving third party yet sit her down tell her how you feel about it and discuss plan of moving her elsewhere IMO I believe people deserve second chance but the third is stupidity. You should also consider how you guys met it was more of an arrangement so to make the better of it your manliness must come into play

jogsman01:
Whatever it is, talk to her first. What if you met them on top each other, will you kill them or commit suicide? No relationship is perfect, and everyone has his/her cross to carry. That's your cross man! Carry am or forget am.

What's there to say, simp?

Kai...men have suffered sha.

Look at the BS a man is vomiting!!!

tee59:
I laugh in Swahili. What do you expect? A lady you sagged twice any day she came to cook for you. She was a hoe before now, but you were blinded by pussy and food. You can't reason well. What did you know about her life gan , before you married her. She was just pretending with those characters of hers , just to get closer to you. And her mission was completed. A hoe will always be a hoe. You can now see her real colour now. Carry your cross ogbeni.

Nice analysis...

Damn!
She belongs to the street and the got her

guy you are simply a weakling and a simp. for the fact she is still living with you and asking for what to do to your ashawo wife shows you are just a lady with a dick. I am sure that child is not yours but for an okada rider or that driver. you are a disgrace bro. don't Pursue her! love her the more and continue eating her public pussy. in my state, if you eat her food after knowing About her adulterous way, you will either run mad or stricken down with incurable sickness that will kill you

RedMac:
Another Coc.k and Bull story...

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It's one thing for someone to have an affair due to them being in a long distance relationship (let's forget about if that is right or wrong for now), but it'sa whole different level when the do it PUBLICLY. That's insultive, IMO. People who know the husband would be looking at him like "eeyah, poor man". Gosh!

mbjsuki:
You have not done anything wrong by sharing this anyway.
From the sound of your message, your absence may have caused this. I'm not trying to rationalize her action, it is wrong. However, give her a second chance after you must have given her a thorough warning and let your mother be aware of her misdeed just to keep an eye on her. However, caution is needed here, if your mother is the type that often do not overlook past deeds without mentioning it then I will advice you do not get her involved. But someone must be aware of her two-timing. And please, try and forgive her.

tayo60:
That lady is a cheat. Is she the only woman that will sell in the market? Flirting with an ordinary bus driver! Op, know that the two have something going on between them. Set people on her to monitor her movement in that market or elsewhere without her knowing. Their feedback will tell you what to do.

What do you mean by ordinary bus driver? Never look down on peoples hustle because I'm sure that you can't even buy a cartoon of indomie talk less of A bus. A bus or any car is still car, any driver is still a driver (commercial or private).

Be warned. Respect the steetz

premierlead:
Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

Why are you such a horrible liar?
To gain what

premierlead:
Dec 18, 2021

I have been disturbing this lady for long, since the beginning of lock down (last year). Lo and behold, she eventually gave up early this month and son of man got her laid last weekend, but what I met under her despite her neat, clean and smooth face is not here. Rough and black inner thighs with so much stretch mark, just like that of old woman.

Her structure was like beautiful and light skin from head to navel, ugly from waist to knees. I have never seen this type of woman before.

My question is that, is this how some ladies are under there with beautiful face?

premierlead:
I think it would be better sending her away as I don't want to be faced with depression or hypertension at this stage of life, though she has been begging for another chance. Thinking of reporting her to mum and her people

Now I know you are not serious.

Fake story