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Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 5:18pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
frozen70: Hehehehehehehehehehehehe |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mindlog: 5:21pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: If he gets prosecuted for bigamy, he will blame his Nigerian based wife as the cause of his woes. Instead of him to lay low, he is exposing himself because for the Dutch government to legalize his marriage there, he would have claimed never been married or divorced (presenting fake divorce papers)... which is clearly falsehood. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 5:22pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
RightToReject: What would you do if you were in his position? |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by RightToReject(m): 6:36pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
Mariangeles: You're not corrupt enough to know the unpalatable pernicious acts; such detail is best reserved for someone that is a bit advanced in corruption like me to avoid leading you astray unnecessarily. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by armyofone(m): 6:43pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
Hummmmmm! RightToReject: |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Richy4(m): 7:07pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
I have seen where the problem was coming from.....The wife was IN charge of the building project... and the in-laws were left out ... She should get herself ready and prepared for what is coming.... But I don't see why a reasonable individual will cut all form of communication because of hear-say... Tell your sister to be strong and face whatever that he's bring squarely...let it be her 2022 challenge that she will need to tackle |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by HeyHey(f): 2:36am On Apr 12, 2022 |
If your sister is in Osun state, you can pm me. First, yes he can divorce her in absentia. By using a proxy or virtual hearing. Second, Unless he can prove that your sister is a bad mother, he can’t take the child. No court will grant a female minor to a father she hasn’t seen for years Third, that your sister’s money is inside the building makes it as much hers as well. She just needs to know the right witnesses to call and she WILL retain the house. Finally, she should let him go, and request for maintenance for her and the child monthly. Most men in such circumstances loss more money, since the divorce is propelled by greed. You can PM me. I practice in Osun |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Ishilove: 4:13am On Apr 12, 2022 |
May God save us from time wasters. After wasting 11 years of her life waiting for an absentee husband, the best years of her youth, he now wants to dump her and take a child that he has no connection with. Useless men everywhere. Utterly useless. Op, let your sis fight to keep the house and her child. That's her compensation for time wasted. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Alexgeneration(m): 12:37pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
HeyHey:Stop lying to her madam lawyer. If her money is in the building, it will be liquidated and the proceeds will be shared accordingly. She will not get a dime for maintenance. The cost of the children's food,shelter, clothes and education will be borne by both parties (this might be very to enforce cos the man is not within the court's jurisdiction). |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by HeyHey(f): 3:03pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Alexgeneration: Have you handled divorce before?, or have you handled divorce where the woman supervised the building project? Cost of children anything is borne by the man, and alimony will be paid to the woman since the man is the adulterous party. He is married, his wife will be sued as well as third party (adulteress) From what you have said any way, I know you have never witnessed divorce, you are not a lawyer, you are not conversant with Matrimonial Act and Matrimonial Procedure Rules. And most of all, you are saying what you lack any iota of clue about. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Kobojunkie: 4:11pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Explain this your laugh abeg! |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Alexgeneration(m): 4:31pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
HeyHey:Calm your tits, sweetheart. Nigerians don't pay alimony to either of the spouses after divorce but you've handled loads of divorce cases and you don't know that. Cost of children is borne by both parties with the parent who got custody paying less but a Judge like you don't know that. Every divorce cases are handled for each party to get justice which boils down to custody and sharing properties JOINTLY owned but you're wrapped up in your emotions to think the Matrimonial Act is for vendetta. PS. You don't need to be a lawyer to know the law. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 4:57pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Wetin you want make I do na? You sef go read that comment again. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 4:59pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
RightToReject: I swear, this was funny. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles: |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by NoToPile: 5:01pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Ishilove: Simple ooo Nawa. Evil people everywhere. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 5:46pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Kobojunkie: 5:47pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles:She reminds me alot of Tpia from back in the days. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 5:52pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I wasn't from back then, so I'm not familiar with that monicker. Although, I've read from some nairalanders that you seem like the Tpia individual. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Kobojunkie: 5:57pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I doubt anyone who really knew Tpia, and myself, would ever consider us similar in anyway. I used to be hyperpolitical, something Tpia wasn't even though she was a regular in the politics sections. She was more able to connect to people on a personal level than I could... she has records on people even to somewhat disturbing levels, and I was just this person focused on discussing just the issue of the day and not much else. Her quarrels always left me wondering if she knew some of the folks intimately cause I was always like clueless as to what going on anytime she got on someone's case. Yeah, I used to be really disconnected back then. This new me is a friendlier less hyperactive version of who I used to be.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 6:09pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: She was that infamous? Yikes!
I like this you. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Kobojunkie: 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I would instead say she was interesting because sometimes when you get her, you get her, but when you don't... don't bother, just move on. I like this me too cause I am less ADHD and less political. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mariangeles(f): 6:38pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:OK. This you is active, yet calm. Your aura is pleasant too. I'm attracted to it. |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Kobojunkie: 6:41pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Yeah, I am all-round better than I used to be, and who would think abandoning everything would bring peace ..... I am glad I did it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by egojeny1(f): 9:00pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
Ishilove:Gbamest!!! |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by OG2BGR8(m): 11:15pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
How do you go about authentication/attestation of the documents at the ministry of foreign affairs? |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Atk1nson(m): 8:54am On Apr 13, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: if you have evidence or can confirm he is maried, he is in trouble. Polygamy is a criminal offence in Europe. He will likely get deported |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by yinkeys(m): 2:55pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mindlog: 3:03pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
yinkeys: No man will leave? In this story, the man is at a disadvantage if the Nigerian wife is conscious of the law because " the husband secretly married to another wife in abroad Netherland to be precise while he still legally married to my sister here in nigeria".......All she needs to do is go to the Dutch Embassy in Nigeria and present their marriage certificate, the guy will be arrested by the Dutch police because he would have claimed to be single for him to get married in the Netherlands. 2 Likes
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Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by yinkeys(m): 3:05pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Mindlog:Do you know what a good woman/wife is ? |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Mindlog: 3:08pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
yinkeys: No, please do tell me. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:21pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: She better off signing the divorce papers, reality is they have been separated for 7 years or he has never returned ever since and you still call it a valid marriage ? who stays 7 years without sex? Reality is they divorced long back due to years of not physically not seeing each other. I dont think he will fight over the house they built, he has higher chance to built another house and also he can leave as part of compersenation to the wife. As per child, it depends how he wants to deal with it i.e per culture or law, law favours the mom most african culture favour the father Then the other side is education, ecomonically and exposed, allowing the child to go to her father, in netherlands were those 3 i meantioned are better off in netherlands than nigeria |
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