appishani1:
My big worry now is that,
her husband won't face the wrath of the law with nigerian police.
They will let him free if he get money.

Whose problem is that?
Did we all cause our society to be this way, where nobody is accountable for their evil deeds, as we have supposedly wise people saying the victims should calm down, like this one below from the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/7076788/what-lagos-bolt-driver-sent

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
The bolt driver should calm down first

She might call back to apologise....at that moment you called her maybe she just want feel like a big girl, feel Cool, Sexy, Smart or Stylish or feel fly in the presence of those boys..or if possible to show to those boys that she is loyal to them
Nobody knows....
just wait she will call back..

She will call back and apologise..and you will be surprised bolt driver and the baby girl will become friends

How does ONE MAN DISCIPLE a Church of 100,000 people? I pity those attending all these big Churches; many lack proper discipleship cover and hence fall into the hands of false prophets and teachers.

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

zoedew:

There must be a complaint. Even if the police step in they must have folks willing to make a statement or two. The complaints and statements and autopsy must show that it led to her death.

You don’t need a complainer in a murder case, the State is the complainer….all they need is evidence and they have a lot.

linearity:


You don’t need a complainer in a murder case, the State is the complainer….all they need is evidence and they have a lot.

Succinct

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

The bold simply shows you that the anointing is as fake as any panda item on the market, and as useless as the P in psychology.
Did the Bible not warn us severally about such charlatans in cassock, wolves pretending to be sheep?

emmanok24:
How does ONE MAN DISCIPLE a Church of 100,000 people? I pity those attending all these big Churches; many lack proper discipleship cover and hence fall into the hands of false prophets and teachers.

There's need for self examination of the soul of the church regarding spiritual covering

Even when Moses in all his gifting wanted to minister over 100,000 people, Jethro His father-in-law screamed and advised for systemic organization

I blame the woman and the foolish ones that saw him perpetrate that act of violence without taking measures to curb it.

A threat to one is a threat to all.

You can correct in love but that doesn't mean you shouldn't expose the evil work of darkness.

Rip woman, possibly you love your husband that's why you tolerate his evil, but love isn't selfish, what he did to you, he'll do to others if not cautioned and dealt with.

I believe the Pastor could have done something significant if he was well informed of the matter. However, this is to also show people that pastors don't know it all, even spiritually.

Nairalandhotboy:
Its your air I breathe oh God... May I not use the strength you gave me to beat a lady but spank her ass well during dobodobo

I like this one, lol

DoctorOlasDesk:



Continue contradicting yourself.

it's not contradiction.

delpee:


You didn't read his message thoroughly. She and her family had regular access to the Pastor. Sadly she chose to keep her problems to herself.

I know of two cases curtently now and you know what both women just lock qnd the pastor has done everything possible to know whatsup but no way...they won't at least talk.

All we do is pray! Dog wey go lost, unfortunately go lost

DoctorOlasDesk:



There's need for self examination of the soul of the church regarding spiritual covering

Even when Moses in all his gifting wanted to minister over 100,000 people, Jethro His father-in-law screamed and advised for systemic organization

Unfortunately, Church growth is now measured by the thousands that fill a Cathedral.

When a general speaks like this, it's not a good thing. The summary of this statement is that she died because Pastor Paul Enechie didn't know she was going through domestic abuse and as a result, proper help could not be rendered.

Oh! No wonder the good books says, WHERE THERE IS NO VISION, THE PEOPLE PERISH" (Prov. 29:18). The word "vision" in Hebrew is "chazown," meaning, "prophetic vision." All over the world, people's lives are stagnate simply because they endeavor to live their lives without consulting with a prophet who can guide them into the perfect will of God through prophetic visions.

As Holy Ghost filled, tongue talking etc as Apostle Paul was, he admitted that he didn't know what will befall him and he had to seek the service of a prophet called Agabus but in today's churches, they want to relegate the office of the prophet.

Be wise, don't die in that situation. Let the prophet prophesy to you today!

Lexusgs430:
How would someone tell you she had chest pain, and you prayed multiple times for her .......


When a complaint of chest pain is received, an immediate ECG, must be conducted .......

We are blinded by religion in this country ....... Shame .....

Prayers, would never change an abuser....... If a man/woman physically assaults you (only once)....

Time to quit that relationship or marriage...... ZERO TOLERANCE TO DOMESTIC ABUSE.......

Didn't you read about all the doctors he called in more that three hospitals to help facilitate the tests and treatments he recommended? Or am I missing something?

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

As usual, yhu won't read properly and understand but will be quick to Express yhur personal grudges and hatred for church and men of God. Very typical of hypocrites like yhu.

Satan himself was once an archangel who became a devil under the nose of God. As perfect as Jesus was, one of his followers out of just 12 became so dangerous that he even sold Jesus out to be killed.


I am afraid, yhur type can pass as one of the examples mentioned above.

While yhu waste so much energy trying to condemn Pastors, yhu fail to realise that God can also reveal things to yhu if only yhu are anything clean and responsible spiritually.

Shouldn't yhu be very ashamed of yhurself right now or yhu still have so much hatred left in yhur vein to Express?

emmanok24:


Unfortunately, Church growth is now measured by the thousands that fill a Cathedral.

We have a global population explosion so churches will have high number of persons definitely. Hence there's need for systems and structures

SweetiliciousD:
All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

What is this you speak? You have little understanding of the issues of this couple.

According to narration, there was a time the family was on a trip with the husband behind the wheels. He was overspeeding. Osinachi carefully called her husband attention to it and pleaded with him to slow down since they have a whole family in the car. The man responded with a slap to the wife, two slaps actually.

So what is your "troublesome woman" and "peaceful man" in this story?

The woman was busy listening to the teachings of the church on family matters. That's what they made her to believe and that was what she applied in her marriage. She kept enduring and praying and hoping that the man will change until he killed her. That's the church teachings which is "endure endure God will touch his heart one day" now see where it lead her to..

KevMitnick:

Didn't you read about all the doctors he called in more that three hospitals to help facilitate the tests and treatments he recommended? Or am I missing something?

Should be medical attention first, before prayers.......


The horse before the cart . ......... Not the other way round ........

appishani1:
My big worry now is that,
her husband won't face the wrath of the law with nigerian police.
They will let him free if he get money.

Person wey don dey receive hot water in police station. Somebody showed us the picture yesterday. imagine when police dey play music, dey cry dey beat person + hardship on ground

Richy4:
The question I would have asked this pastor is... assuming she divorced the husband on her own accord, just to be alive, will she still retain all the position she has as their member.. all the singing...all the title given to her in that church etc.... Or will they look at her in a judgmental way as someone who couldn't keep a home...That God hates divorce etc... These are some of the concerns many religious fanatics has that made them remain in an abusive and toxic relationship...

Thank you

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

This is not a balanced response. It is God that reveals. What happens if He chooses not to.
God gives us mouth to talk. There are things you should use your mouth to do instead of waiting for God to do it for you.

I don't want to believe the pastor had no prior knowledge. Naaaaa. On a normal day in churches that there are always snitches everywhere. No matter the beg that the supposed woman will beg people not to report, someone must surely say something to someone else and that's how the gist will fly.
Why was the pastor continually praying for the children Everytime they run to him? He said it like it was always necessary.
And the fact that the husband drives her car to church and she trekked back home. Was she so invincible that no member saw her trekking or taking bike.
And anybody that will quote me with insult. It'll be better you quote me peacefully and disagree with me peacefully cos I'm stating my own opinion. You can do yours without insults. Thank you.

KevMitnick:

Didn't you read about all the doctors he called in more that three hospitals to help facilitate the tests and treatments he recommended? Or am I missing something?

Don't mind these noise makers bro. All they know is condemn and condemn Pastors when their own lives is even nothing worth of an example.....

Lexusgs430:
How would someone tell you she had chest pain, and you prayed multiple times for her .......


When a complaint of chest pain is received, an immediate ECG, must be conducted .......

We are blinded by religion in this country ....... Shame .....

Prayers, would never change an abuser....... If a man/woman physically assaults you (only once)....

Time to quit that relationship or marriage...... ZERO TOLERANCE TO DOMESTIC ABUSE.......

You have problem I swear!
Your problem too many, 1. You can read but don't understand, listen but don't hear. 2. Your frustrated 3. Your adamant 4. Your f00lish 5. Your stvpid 6. Your unwise 7. Your fighting your destiny etc

Let us leave all these explanations and simply ban RELIGION. Imagine someone, a medical doctor praying for an ailment in the first place. What a NONSENSE.! Why hasn't his prayer healed or woken the woman.
As long as religion is still allowed to thrive in Africa, I tell you, common sense will continue to run away from us.
Developed nations are changing thiwr orientation, we are still using that same NONSENSE to enslave ourselves.

People need to understand the dynamics of narcissism. The gaslighting, the emotional torture, the enablers, the flying monkeys and so many more things involved. Victims of narcissists are usually helpless and in the same situation they refuse or are unable to either speakout or walkaway.
Narcs will still pursue their victims that walkaway sometimes for years.
The only way to be free from narcissists or abusers is exposure. Stand up to them, expose them and seek help from people more powerful than they are. You don't keep quiet and die in silence. Smh...

victorazy:


You have problem I swear!
Your problem too many, 1. You can read but don't understand, listen but don't hear. 2. Your frustrated 3. Your adamant 4. Your f00lish 5. Your stvpid 6. Your unwise 7. Your fighting your destiny etc

Your parents are more stupid and idiotic.......

Oga God only reveal what he wants to reveal. Did God reveal to any pastor or prophet that the man called Judas will be the one to betray Jesus. Please go and read your Bible.

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

iramure:
Let us leave all these explanations and simply ban RELIGION. Imagine someone, a medical doctor praying for an ailment in the first place. What a NONSENSE.! Why hasn't his prayer healed or woken the woman.
As long as religion is still allowed to thrive in Africa, I tell you, common sense will continue to run away from us.
Developed nations are changing thiwr orientation, we are still using that same NONSENSE to enslave ourselves.

Is obvious you didn't watch to the video.

You think without religion you can be here in peace typing these rubbishes?

You can ban other religions sha but not Christianity.