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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by derecho(m): 2:13pm On Apr 15, 2022
Oga, I have read about similar cases in Italy and Spain. When the men in question thought about how the wives would gain everything they've worked for, they killed the women and are in jail now.
For them, those women can't enjoy what they suffered for.
BlueAir:
This is just it. Even if something may have triggered her to run mouth anyhow,couples really need to learn to communicate more. How can u know Mr reaction as a man to been talked down In the mud and still do it non chalantly like u don't care what my worse is. Damn,this matter craze gan
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:14pm On Apr 15, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Abeg shut that ur stupid mouth!!! Nonsense if u dont want ur wife to control u den don't marry an already made woman, go and marry the one u will control. Can u imagine the trash u are spewing with your mouth so u are supporting those voilent beasts that call themselves men?? May your sister's and future daughters marry the likes of osinachies husband in Jesus name. Amen!!!!!
empty prayer
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nomiyesupersaint: 2:15pm On Apr 15, 2022
Only stoopid men will raise their hands and beat a woman. Women are meant to be cared for,they are not punching bags
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:15pm On Apr 15, 2022
luminouz:


Wow...

You even cursed someone in Jesus's name?
All because he has an opinion different from yours?
What kinda God grants such prayers!!!! undecided
ask her o.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by BlueAir: 2:15pm On Apr 15, 2022
sad This is why I always sing prenuptial agreement to men before marrying that perfect and flawless woman! Nothing wrong in protecting ur future. Any woman that takes offense at the idea of a pre nuptial agreement should be wearied of.
derecho:
Oga, I have read about similar cases in Italy and Spain. When the men in question thought about how the wives would gain everything they've worked for, they killed the women and are in jail now.
For them, those women can't enjoy what they suffered for.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Dukio: 2:15pm On Apr 15, 2022
So a man should just walk away?

What happen to you keeping your mouth shut and avoiding trouble?


Lesser gender for a reason
Yewandequeen:
i dont support the curse but the dude uttered total rubbish. No amount of flaw the woman has must make a man to hit her. What happened to him walking away? Some men are just animals pls.

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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:16pm On Apr 15, 2022
Yewandequeen:
i dont support the curse but the dude uttered total rubbish. No amount of flaw the woman has must make a man to hit her. What happened to him walking away? Some men are just animals pls.
you are right . But if any woman hits you , just hit back and move on. Every life matters
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Caleycashh: 2:16pm On Apr 15, 2022
Datikwerreboi:

Why can't the woman walk away too?
Why can't the woman make peace too,why must the woman continuously abuse the man verbally? undecided
Its only a foolish man that walks away from his home, don't mind all these manipulative leeches!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by openmine(m): 2:17pm On Apr 15, 2022
derecho:
No one is supporting domestic violence but Some men would willingly kill them and face the consequences.

Why is difficult for verbally abusive girls to know that's equally as bad as hitting a guy? Is being verbally abusive what makes you a woman? Learn respect from your father's house if you are interested in marriage.
No man, even an agbero enjoys beating the love of his life.All these ones shouting up and down are not doing so because they love other women but are doing so because they know what'd befall them if they refuse to change.
I am also not implying that such persons are promoting domestic violence...all am saying is that a man will always remain the bad guy the moment he raises his hands to hit his wife.....No one will want to know what transpired or what led to the beating!
Thats why if your gf or wifey is being verbally abusive and you know you cant either tolerate or take it,just move out and never come back!
You cant afford to hit her and end up in jail or even a death sentence if she dies in the process according to the law!
You will simply lose everything!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:17pm On Apr 15, 2022
Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.


Thought you had something nearly-reasonable to say.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by inokia: 2:17pm On Apr 15, 2022
Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.
When you say "wen u stood ur ground" dos dat statement means u should beat ur wife to the point of killing her?

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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by BluntTheApostle(m): 2:18pm On Apr 15, 2022
AreaFada2:
My observation is that both young men and women are becoming more and more ill-prepared for marriage.

In life, nothing goes for nothing.

We are currently caught between conservative African norms and Western liberalism/permissiveness.

Men still want the tradition respect from the wife, while the women expect the traditional breadwinner role of the hubby and more Western freedom.

It is easy to say of course, we now live in 21st century, we must modernise. But obviously this modernisation is causing huge problems. So, it's proving more difficult than we think.

We therefore need a re-orientation regarding marriage, especially the youth.

People should marry only when they are emotionally, economically and otherwise ready. If couples are not compatible, please resist societal, familial or religious pressure to marry. It is not just by age.

Think even harder yet before you have kids.

The truth is that no one can ever be emotionally ready for marriage.

The reason why divorce rate is very low in Africa is not because our marriages are doing well. It is because someone or both spouses are tolerating each other for the sake of their children or society.

Even all these marriages that have supposedly lasted the test of time cannot be certainly said to be lasting because the marriage is great, or because both partners are emotionally strong.

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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 2:18pm On Apr 15, 2022
Dukio:
So a man should just walk away?
What happen to you keeping your mouth shut and avoiding trouble?
Lesser gender for a reason
A man who refuses to walk away only confirms himself a fool. undecided

Verbal and emotional abuse are not crimes, though both deemed unacceptable behaviors. However, physical assualt is a crime punishable by law. undecided
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:18pm On Apr 15, 2022
Caleycashh:
Its only a foolish man that walks away from his home, don't mind all these manipulative leeches!
if any woman abuses you, abuse back. Same measure . Every life matters
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Caleycashh: 2:19pm On Apr 15, 2022
Lightorder:
if any woman abuses you, abuse back. Same measure . Every life matters
Naso bro!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 2:20pm On Apr 15, 2022
Lightorder:
you are right . But if any woman hits you , just hit back and move on. Every life matters
If a woman hits you, you are better off having her reported to the police than hitting her back. If in the process of retaliation she ends up in a coma or dies as a result, your life is over be that. undecided
And for what?, undecided
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by openmine(m): 2:20pm On Apr 15, 2022
Dukio:

So a man should just walk away?

What happen to you keeping your mouth shut and avoiding trouble?


Lesser gender for a reason
Unfortunately,that is the situation we find ourselves!
No one wants to know what transpired!
She instantly becomes the victim once you hit her!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:21pm On Apr 15, 2022
inokia:
When you say "wen u stood ur ground" dos dat statement means u should beat ur wife to the point of killing her?
a slap could lead to death.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 15, 2022
openmine:

Misunderstanding a phase or word simply means the person or persons have no idea what it connotes but trying to form an opinion based on their own conclusion!
Just because you have an opinion about what you think those lines mean or imply does not in any way make such viewpoint right!
Why not seek the counsel of the originators to know what they really meant!
FYI altering it does not in any way abate domestic violence!
Mr. Confusion let me summarize everything for you!

Most people misunderstood the phrase For better for worse till death do us apart They believed marriage is a do or die affair, simply because they made that vow and most of them especially the women believe and abide by that vows religiously!

Check most cases of Domestic violence and killings in Nigeria most of the victim abide and follow the vows till their death!

See if you can't comprehend this words, forget about it...Have a nice day!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Dukio: 2:21pm On Apr 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
A man who refuses to walk away only confirms himself a fool. undecided

Verbal and emotional abuse are not crimes, though both deemed unacceptable behaviors. However, physical assualt is a crime punishable by law. undecided
You type like a junkie.....I am not gonna argue with ya
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:23pm On Apr 15, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Didn't u see the trash he typed?? There's no level of offence that should make u hit or beat up your wife or gf to death, she is a woman for Christ sake and u are stronger than her u can't compare your strength to that of a woman, so y beat or hit her to the extent of her dying, they are better ways to punish a woman other than hitting her. Since he is in support of voilent men may his sister's and future daughters marry the likes of osinachies husband, simple!!!
if she hits you , hit her back. We are now living in the world where everyone one is now equal.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 2:23pm On Apr 15, 2022
openmine:

Unfortunately,that is the situation we find ourselves!
No one wants to know what transpired!
She instantly becomes the victim once you hit her!
And the reason she becomes the victim when you hit her is because physical assault is a crime. undecided
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Caleycashh: 2:24pm On Apr 15, 2022
Yewandequeen:
walking away works for both parties. Am I missing something here or your response is personal? No where was it stated that she verbally abuses the man. Generally speaking, it's not even until the woman is verbally abusive before she gets hits. Haven't you seen cases of the most submissive woman still been hit? When some men are angered, they give silent treatment, some leave the house and come back when they are calm while some their only known means is to hit the woman. Look there are one million ways to deal with your spouse without moving a muscle or saying a word when angered. The reactions being put up is a thing of the mind and mentality.
You are a bloody liar, even devil dey fear your manipulations, I have never ever seen a submissive wife being beaten!!!, na only ones like you who thinks they knows everything and wants to tell a man how to do things!, stop the lies!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 2:25pm On Apr 15, 2022
Lightorder:
if she hits you , hit her back. We are now living in the world where everyone one is now equal.
And if she dies in the process, the law will ensure you get the load you equally deserve. undecided
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Caleycashh: 2:25pm On Apr 15, 2022
Yewandequeen:
walking away works for both parties. Am I missing something here or your response is personal? No where was it stated that she verbally abuses the man. Generally speaking, it's not even until the woman is verbally abusive before she gets hits. Haven't you seen cases of the most submissive woman still been hit? When some men are angered, they give silent treatment, some leave the house and come back when they are calm while some their only known means is to hit the woman. Look there are one million ways to deal with your spouse without moving a muscle or saying a word when angered. The reactions being put up is a thing of the mind and mentality.
So I should keep silent and walk out of my house!?... you no well!!!

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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by akeem0706514(m): 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2022
Note: so sorry for saying this...with this your thought, I just hope your husband will not kill you one day.
Yewandequeen:
i dont support the curse but the dude uttered total rubbish. No amount of flaw the woman has must make a man to hit her. What happened to him walking away? Some men are just animals pls.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Okay... here are investigations that have been made, asking questions and then providing answers. If you truly believed so, have you made this research before coming here to type what you just typed? Why did you jump into conclusions and went ahead to pronounce a verdict when you wanted more investigation to be made?

- These are facts about how poverty of women and domestic violence go hand-in-hand:

https://www.safehousecenter.org/the-intersection-of-domestic-violence-and-poverty/

https://cpag.org.uk/news-blogs/news-listings/domestic-abuse-economic-issue-%E2%80%93-its-victims-and-society

- Testimonies shared by victims of domestic violence themselves: REALLY READ IT AND DIGEST and do not go off about something else with me. You asked for findings, right?

https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories

https://safelives.org.uk/news-views/real-life-stories

- The behaviours of abusers, since you claim no sane man can just lay a finger on his wife without cause:

https://ncadv.org/signs-of-abuse

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Did you know that the late Minister submitted her salary to her husband? Did you know that this husband controlled her account and was more or less her manager, wielding control over the shows and contracts she gets? Does that look like a woman who is bragging with the small money she has to you?

You also want to tell me that you've not seen people FOR NO REASON, who are wicked and always angry and always bully people? You have never seen an innocent person being assaulted before? You don't see kids get beaten when they've done no wrong... you don't literally see these things, since you claim these things do not happen without provocation?

Okay, okay, if a wife is verbally abusive to her husband, what did the husband do to provoke her to insulting him?

I know my gender, I can vouch for them here. smiley No sensible woman with a correct head will start insulting a man if he didn't ask for it. Every man turns a woman into a beast of an emotional abuser. Check well, the man deserve it. Abi abi you want to tell me that domestic abuse against a woman is caused by a woman, but emotional abuse against a man is not caused by the man? You see how that sounds, yeah?

But if you believe women can be emotional and verbal abusers without a triggering factor, independently, why do you not believe men can be physical abusers without a triggering factor, independently too?

How about traditional, uneducated housewives who believe a man is the head and that divorce is not an option, who still get beaten on top?

These women are completely virtuous and submissive to their husbands and they don't make money, so they don't even raise their voices back at their husbands, yet they still get beaten? What will you say about that?

Oh, or perhaps you will justify the abuses Nigerians face in the hands of police, soldiers and SARS officials. Have you ever been a victim? Have you ever been harassed by someone bigger than you? Someone of a higher authority and you're helpless and defenseless? Boya, we should switch this on you and use you as a case study. I am anticipating your response. Let us see if you have ever deserved the injustice that has ever been meted out to you at one point or the other. Let's know if you're also responsible for it because of your mouth and your behaviour.

Oh, and don't come at me with you said, "some of these women." That's not going to fly with me. And what you will not do is have me believe there are c.r.a.z.y b.i.t.c.h.e.s who run their mouths and are bad, but that there aren't crazy niggas who use their hands and weights.



Magnoliaa, you did that guy an undue honour by replying him with such intentionality.

He's a HIGHLY INSECURE ABUSE-APPLOGIST (Supposing he's not himself an abuser).

His post disgusted me so much. I just had to refrain myself from responding with an insult.

He was more or less stating that women deserve to be battered if they earn more than their husband... or if they won't be submissive and massage his senses in whatever way that exalts his title as head of the home.

Very foolish take.
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Deicide: 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2022
Brian47:
That gospel singer died because of religion.
Sometimes religion causes these cause "God hates divorce"
God hate divorce because "Men" wrote the Book
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by derecho(m): 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2022
I understand you perfectly just saying some don't care.What's important to them is that any other woman who intends to do that to another man, would think twice.It's an ego ting...unfortunately many ladies don't know.
openmine:

I am also not implying that such persons are promoting domestic violence...all am saying is that a man will always remain the bad guy the moment he raises his hands to hit his wife.....No one will want to know what transpired or what led to the beating!
Thats why if your gf or wifey is being verbally abusive and you know you cant either tolerate or take it,just move out and never come back!
You cant afford to hit her and end up in jail or even a death sentence if she dies in the process according to the law!
You will simply lose everything!
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:27pm On Apr 15, 2022
Bonesbreaker:
show us men killed by
There wife's undecided undecided because is a women naw heaven is falling undecided undecided
are you kidding me ? Just last week a good Nigerian young man was stabbed to death by a woman in the US. Madam , use your google and atleast see the reported ones. It becomes news when women are at the receiving end. I can now see that with sentiments , the man or the boychild is endangered
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by BluntTheApostle(m): 2:28pm On Apr 15, 2022
Nomiyesupersaint:
Only stoopid men will raise their hands and beat a woman.
Women are meant to be cared for,they are not punching bags

But we have seen women brutalize their own house girls.

A person should earn respect to be cared for. You don't demand to be cared for because you are a woman.

Go and see how police officers give women criminals body slams even in liberal societies like the United States?

I remembered a car chase. The car robbers were teenagers (boy and his girlfriend). When police caught up with them, come and see body slams. No preferential treatment. The girl was treated the same as the boy. Lifted up and slammed to the ground, and handcuffed.

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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Lightorder: 2:29pm On Apr 15, 2022
yachal:


You come to my house with this ur foul mouth I will trim it for you.

A piece of advice, don't let your heart be full of hate!
Be tolerant of others and let them air their views even if they are contrary to yours.
The 'cursing' was needless!



PS I don't support domestic violence .
It's Barbaric
they have made it to look like the man’s life is nothing.

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