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SugarGirl44:


But he ended up saying nothing.
If she was the bad one, it was him that was supposed to call off the wedding, not vice versa.
Abusers never own up to their acts.
Were you expecting him to admit that he was truly violent with her? No way!!!

Next time use more of sense than emotions. If you can do one plus one, you'll understand that he added more context. They've dated for 8 years... The guy has been the one wanting the marriage to hold which the babe has found a way to always evade (maybe through abortions).
I'm sure the guy wanted to get the lady pregnant to keep his 8 years investment. �
And the lady didn't call of any wedding. The church most likely decided not to wed them in Holy matrimony because she's pregnant again at the moment. As such the wedding isn't supposed to hold as planned. They can continue with their marriage celebration and the church will bless them if they have no shame. Or the church will arrange to bless them at a later time.
And that doesn't absolves the man of potential domestic abuse of the woman until will hear from the neighbours/umunna.

TOPCRUISE:
I don't believe the side of his story. He has fumbled on his writeup

Kindly explain how.

SIMONEKPA7:

No federal teaching hospital conduct abortion unless under threatening condition. I smell lies in his response

Exactly my response

Imbecilicsamuel:
Late Osinachi's ugly looking, murderous husband would have come to say the same thing if osinachi had smartly left that miserable marriage. People will then turn around and blame osinachi...calling her a Jezebel that deceives people with her cry cry songs.

It seems someone has to die first before her story can taken seriously in this zoo country.

So your mother in-law was not in support of her leaving you....so she aborted the seed you planted in her...and so what? Many mothers don't care when their daughters are maltreated by their spouses..your in-law probably manipulated her to go through the trad ceremony. And maybe your wife flushed your child out cos she didn't want a mini beast growing in her.

Count your losses and move on! Beast!!

You said the truth, but my problem is, did all her deeds justify his constant beatings? cos I don't understand the relevance of the nonsense and obvious lies he came to spew.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... I just dey laugh. We never ready to tell ourselves the truth inrespect of domestic violence.

God go bless you.

JovialJune:
Does that justify domestic violence?

Explain to me how possible it is for her to do abortion in a federal government hospital in a country where abortion is illegal, or didn't you see that part? Isn't that a clear cut lie?

The stupid guy obviously came to spoil show for her because she used her brain to walk away from a beast, but fools will always support their fellow fools just to cast aspersions on females.

I never said anything justifies violence in a relationship. My question is why would a lady date a highly abusive man for more than a year? Second, are you saying no government hospital can illegally conduct abortions?

BTW, she has aborted over 3 children for this man alone, and they have broken up.

All those sex and plenty belle were for nothing.

Who is the unfortunate man that she is now looking for to wife her?

SilentQueen:
I don't even know who to believe sef

Why you go know who to believe.?

Stupid man, is he trying to explain why he beats her with this nonsense revelation or trying to rubbish her because she left? How does this justify the domestic violence

I just feel this guy is lying. Even this rebuttal is filled with so much arrogance. She aborted 3 of your babies, you still opted to marry her even when she said she wasn't interested in having kids. TALES BY MOONLIGHT.

I knew the fullish gal was lying. I fear any man wey no fear Eve.

Agbebakun22:
thankGod here is faceless forum. Most of u thought everyone here is ur mate cux seun doesnt make use of kyc. Person like u need better beating

For your idiotic mind u senior me?( lol)

A woman who an idiot like u said she aborted for him 3ce should need the wedding more than the man, but it is the reverse.

My problem with typical black men like u is that u don't reason DEEPLY but rather have fish brain.

You savi beat woman like your mentor but I hope when u see a fellow man like yourself u can face him, man to man

Like I said earlier: S-H-A-T-T-A-P!!!

BRATISLAVA:
How could she have sex with this guy, let alone numerous abortions? Did men disappear from the Earth and condoms get so expensive?

she is lucky this man accepted her actually.

I ha e looked closely at her pic. With all the paint on her face, she still looks like only a masquerade. No good shape sef.

This man sef no get choice

Wawu �. As for federal teaching hospital Abakaliki? Let's wait for what the elders have to say.

This guy is childish.. She aborted for you 3times your own not another man's you're not even ashamed to say it out no wonder she does not want to marry you. You're a violent man a narcissist! This is their character you have nothing apart from 3abortions (yours o not another man thank God) so she's a decent lady! that's all you want to tarnish her image definitely you were beating her it has shown. God on her side she will have 11 children if she want so you're not God! Women should keep speaking up for themselves this is good!!!

immortalcrown:

I never said anything justifies violence in a relationship. My question is why would a lady date a highly abusive man for more than a year? Second, are you saying no government hospital can illegally conduct abortions?

Go and read her own story, she said the guy started beating her when he paid her bride price or whatever they call it in igbo

And yes no government owned hospital will illegally conduct abortions, it can never be done there.

LilMissFavvy:
Does this guy look like someone who can open a pharmacy and poultry business for his babe? Plus plenty other financial commitments? Liar*

This guy in his frustration* of being dumped*, is out to ruin the girls chances of ever finding a suitor that's why he lays emphasis on the "abortion* accusations". According to him she's a pharmacist. Which health practitioner would expose her womb to 3abortions* within 3years when her bride price was paid, introduction done and fiance available?. Since this man is very rich*, why did they date for 8yrs, and wedding plans dragged since 2020 till 2022. There is no truth or correlation in his side of the story.

Do you know him ?? Na your type them dey use lighter FVck because you mistake am for benz keys...

From your one room apartment located at ikota housing estate, Ajah..you don size him pocket, know him worth...

OGwales:
I knew the fullish gal was lying. I fear any man wey no fear Eve.

How is she lying? Does his lies justify why he beats her?

Daniel7543:
Folks, stop judging by your emotions. That gender who bleeds in between their legs are dangerous.

A woman claimed she abandoned an abusive relationship and I congratulated her for it.. so what exactly is emotional or wrong about doing that?

Or are you here simply seeking my attention in this??

Belives:
There are two sides to every story

three sides actually. Her own, his own and the truth in between. Only men with lots of wisdom can balance it out.

JovialJune:

Go and read her own story, she said the guy started beating her when he paid her bride price or whatever they call it in igbo

And yes no government owned hospital will illegally conduct abortions, it can never be done there.

I read her story. Your second paragraph implies that nothing illegal happens in government organizations.

sharone21:


For your idiotic mind u senior me?( lol)

A woman who an idiot like u said she aborted for him 3ce should need the wedding more than the man, but it is the reverse.

My problem with typical black men like u is that u don't reason DEEPLY but rather have fish brain.

You savi beat woman like your mentor but I hope when u see a fellow man like yourself u can face him, man to man

Like I said earlier: S-H-A-T-T-A-P!!!

u can rant like a loosen dog and uncultured brat who think everyone is her mate here. ThankGod for here being a faceless forum u for hear frm me.

The man looks violent

SIBF:
:Hahahahaha
Which one is aborted marriage again?

Why making mockery of the sentence?
Do you understand English at all?

Two useless flat heads�

Both of them should be summoned b4 Amadioha to swear they are telling the truth. That's the only solution.

Kobojunkie:

A woman claimed she abandoned an abusive relationship and I congratulated her for it.. so what exactly is emotional or wrong about doing that?

Or are you here simply seeking my attention in this??

If you read my comment, you will know I'm talking about another thread, not this thread in particular.

JovialJune:
Stupid man, is he trying to explain why he beats her with this nonsense revelation or trying to rubbish her because she left? How does this justify the domestic violence

The man said he didn't beat her. Why are you foaming all over the thread. We all know its easy to believe a woman when they come online to tell evil stories about a man..even when the woman is clearly the evil.

The lady who ditched him..came online to destroy his image for what gains? Why didn't she quit and go her way instead of trying to make the public see him as evil? He have rightfully returned the favour..you and your ilk are crying.

With all the abortion, I wonder the unfortunate man that will end up there. Tufia.

JovialJune:



Does that justify domestic violence?

Explain to me how possible it is for her to do abortion in a federal government hospital in a country where abortion is illegal, or didn't you see that part? Isn't that a clear cut lie?

The stupid guy obviously came to spoil show for her because she used her brain to walk away from a beast, but fools will always support their fellow fools just to cast aspersions on females.

No b Nigeria we dey? Why can’t they do something illegal? Or you are saying the Nigeria system is perfect and that critical?

What a story

emeernest:
Both of them should be summoned b4 Amadioha to swear they are telling the truth. That's the only solution.

They will both tell you they attend a Bible-believing Church and have nothing to do with dieties

So each of them should replace he/his in Psalm 109, with their birth names as they read out then each should repeat their own side of the story.