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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by GloriousGbola: 11:00pm On Apr 16, 2022
There are 12 year olds who have to put it mildly, budded. Agbalumo breast and behind.

And there are plenty of useless men out there who will sleep with anything. Infact they will go for pubescent kids because those are easy to chance, intimidate, bully and lie to.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Cutehector(m): 11:02pm On Apr 16, 2022
Why are they begging him? Please he should be disgraced properly.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by xenten: 11:02pm On Apr 16, 2022
One mistake in your advice: The man should have been arrested! He might have been doing it to other girls in the past and get away with it. He probably will do it again.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 11:03pm On Apr 16, 2022
KingDash:
Ok here we go... war done start, see the small girl useless a grown ass man sending you dick pics you no report to anyone at 15 year old, y’all gender is something else tho

Shebi you call the girl "small"
And the man "GROWN ASS MAN"
who suppose get sense out of the two?

O boy,this die wey Jesus die again this 2022,make una try use the opportunity get sense.Dont keep wasting his efforts each year

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by slivertongue: 11:03pm On Apr 16, 2022
Disgusting

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by ambale(m): 11:04pm On Apr 16, 2022
LadyRosa:

This is same thing I noticed in my neighborhood.I keep asking myself who are the men sleeping with this teenagers.If a teenager is mating with her agemates,you will know.But a situation where they give this odour that is too "aged" you don't get to perceive that natural baby lotion smell but a weird odour that is soooooo matured for their age.

I mean,the one that offed me is a CBN staffers girl-child of 15 in the Estate.She leads children cathcism in the local parish.

Omo,there are lots of pedophiles in our neighborhood.The father is a well paid employee.
Someone confided in me she is being humped my a married man in the neighborhood.

Why will a matured married man leave all the ladies around just to sleep with minors.The most annoying thing is this men are well educated.Haba!

The problem is we have weak legislations as regards this, especially when some of our lawmakers also engage In this things

How can a teenager attract a well grown man to the extent he's ready to lose his self esteem, and even integrity

Like I'm lost oo

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by tradepunter: 11:04pm On Apr 16, 2022
Men should be matured and correct the young ones like their sisters and daughters...

It's psychological for a young lady to feel good when guys approach them, especially older guys.

Which is why it's always on the guy to take responsibility of ignoring the young lady if she's pestering him or not.

These young ladies are been programed by naked girls in music videos... Bad boy lifestyle of Wizkid, dvido and others ..

Not to talk about pornography they secretly watch on their Mobile...

It's only ladies with a strong mind that will overcome this messy stage of programming..

lagos disgust me because every girl is a target ... Couple of weeks ago noticed a head of security in an estate inviting a lady to come see him now.. I could see the girl is a young lady trying to get into university

Visited a friend that the landlord is sleeping with the young house girl cuz the family doesn't reside in Nigeria.

Been to office where oga is fking all the jambites working under him..

Observed keke drivers fking secondary school girls all in the name of free Keke Ride...

A sensible world as we know it is gone... It's very very very bad

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Grandmeister(m): 11:04pm On Apr 16, 2022
ambale:


Once I know u are a teenager, I disembark almost immediately, you will not be able to handle it when it comes

You are the adult here and you are expected to act right.
Because you're a person with morals and good upbringing. The problem is, not everyone will have such morals. Man is a flawed being that is why pedos and murderers will continue to exist amongst us in the society. Trying to get everybody to act right will not work so your best bet is to safeguard yourself and your loved ones. That is why say parents should do more. The failure of a family is the failure of a society.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by bizzibodi(m): 11:04pm On Apr 16, 2022
Damn!To produce more galchild they scare me now.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by rayvelez(m): 11:06pm On Apr 16, 2022
Grandmeister:

You don't think there's something off for a girl of 15 years to be getting advances from a man and hiding it from her parents? When I was less than that age I knew better. I assumed responsibility for myself and my younger siblings at an age lesser than that because I was always told "they are looking up to you". Nobody is saying the man is not guilty but it reeks of failure and gap in parenting if a 15 year old girl is hiding such things from her parents.
Nah epistles you deh write here remember we have a nairalander who’s serving 1000yrs life sentence in US kuje prison...

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by nonxo007(m): 11:06pm On Apr 16, 2022
He wanted to send the daughter back to the village, how do people reason ?
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Heavensent01(m): 11:07pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?


they all mean she's a child and her naivety shouldn't be taken advantage on?



whatever she's doing or must have done, is/was influence by naivety and elder who should caution such act shouldn't take advantage of her



the point that she should be blame is their own criticism, a naive can't be blame for being naive, you correct or nurtured them up from being naive which is why I use to tell parents, once your girl child is at puberty age or before abeg give them sex education

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by ambale(m): 11:08pm On Apr 16, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Too bad....wetin dey fifteen year old girl body

.if I approach a woman and I notice or realize you are not more than twenty years..then immediately my interest will just die

The one am also interested in for government to regulate is all these hype and dj song they do play in clubs

It is no longer played only in clubs

It is now played even in the gathering and parties of kids

I wonder ooo, infact once I notice you are too young I cut off every form of romantic discussion with you

What exactly attracts matured men to this very young teenagers

Some of we men are damaged beyond control ooo

And as for the government, there is work to be done, censorship is now a necessity if we are to save the next gen, they listen to all manner of rubbish and claim to be woke

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 11:08pm On Apr 16, 2022
Acidosis:



16 is the age of sexual consent. Soon, most countries will reduce it to 14. The world is moving towards that direction.
sheath your paedophilic sword. It is 18 in Nigeria.

Let every paedophilic spirit of stupidity in you die this night!

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by rayvelez(m): 11:08pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
The two parties are to be blamed, both d adult male and d girl child.
If d girl child is not enjoying d conversation, she would hv informed d mum long time ago than hiding it and also passwording her phone.
Or d girl child would hv reported to her teacher on school, imagine adult offering her gifts and money and she accepted them without fear.
When I talk about female, dem go cum for my head,
Oga sha don’t carry this your weak mentality go US cos nah 1000yrs life sentence you are playing with and remember we have one nairalander who’s serving 1000yrs life sentence in US kuje prison...

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 11:10pm On Apr 16, 2022
ambale:


The problem is we have weak legislations as regards this, especially when some of our lawmakers also engage In this things

How can a teenager attract a well grown man to the extent he's ready to lose his self esteem, and even integrity

Like I'm lost oo

Funny thing is,it's so rampant especially in housing Estates.The wife of the idiot is even calm self.I will so frustrate his life with humiliation till he comes suicidal.
I find sexual child abuse very irritating!

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by sunday1989(m): 11:11pm On Apr 16, 2022
Same here. Love you too. Thanks for that peice. May I ask if you're in the military? As per the post, I think that 21st century parents are not doing enough at instilling the necessary discipline in their children. It's well.
QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by professore(m): 11:12pm On Apr 16, 2022
Thanks for sharing

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 11:12pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?
calm down, street cow.

You're just trying to justify your paedophilic impulses unconsciously .

That's why you need to seek help fast before you become a full-blown, psychotic paedophilic bandit!

Funny how you think being street and shameless is an enviable position.

Bloody social pariah!

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Bigchristo: 11:12pm On Apr 16, 2022
QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.
I Dey fear this our generation for immoral behavior, it’s only few people that have fear of God currently, devil don take over a lots of hearts

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Sultty(m): 11:13pm On Apr 16, 2022
if i were in her father's shoes I will tell my boys to tie him up and i will give him like 50 hot strokes of koboko. Him behaving like a saint no concern me he must to collect

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Teeneyo(m): 11:16pm On Apr 16, 2022
The Young girl has no fault
She is just being groomed and peer pressure
Many gals of her age already don get bf
So obviously she will want to join the wagon
Na wetin her brain carry b dt
Kudos to the observant Mother and Agile father for nipping it in the bud

On a lesser note all of us on this forum no get sense
Thank you

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:16pm On Apr 16, 2022
QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.
This is so insightful

The part in green is very important. She should not be shamed

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by basilo101: 11:16pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?
I have noticed that women lack logic and objectivity. 15 year old is not a child. Our fathers married 15 years old and 7th wife

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 11:17pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
The two parties are to be blamed, both d adult male and d girl child.
If d girl child is not enjoying d conversation, she would hv informed d mum long time ago than hiding it and also passwording her phone.
Or d girl child would hv reported to her teacher on school, imagine adult offering her gifts and money and she accepted them without fear.
When I talk about female, dem go cum for my head,
See this paedophile! That girl is so innocent but only curious which the foolish old man was taking advantage of. Were you not once a teen? Did you not do those foolish things you did out of curiosity?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Kpengla(m): 11:18pm On Apr 16, 2022
QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.

Grooming cool

Nigeria men love underage pussy more than their very own lives. Know this and know peace.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Athemisia: 11:18pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Sometimes our judgement is so so biase. A 15 year old girl (teenager), the mother is still alive and she stays with her mother.
An adult started toasting her, she willingly gave her number to d adult, she willingly exchange nude photos with d adult, she willingly accepted gifts and money.
At this juncture, both d adult and d girl are to be blamed. If d adult is pestering her and does not like it, what she should hv done is to report to her mother and teachers in school.
I had an encounter with a teanage girl like that, (when I was working in a pharmacy) d girl came to buy pepper spray, and I asked her who sent her and why she came to buy d pepper spray.
She told me how a boy was disturbing her everywhere she goes and d harrasement from d guy
I told her d following:
1. Anytime she wants to go out, she should not go alone.
2. She should inform her parents about d boy's disturbances and harrasement
3. Should not go out in d night all alone. Infact I hv forgotten d orientation I gv her but my happiness was that she conquered bcs after a while d girl came back to me and thanked me and d idiotic boy did not disturb nor harass her again.
What I'm trying to say here is that d teenage girl has questions to answer and as for d old cargo of a man, well nemesis will surely catch up with him
That girl is just a teenager with no orientation. You don't expect her to know what you know. She's still a child with no exposure.

On the side of reporting to her parents, well it's clear here that her parents aren't close to her that much for her to open up to them.
She felt loved from that pedophile. Love and care her parents doesn't show.

Meanwhile, her being guilty of her acceptance of that pedophile won't count in the court of law.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by highoctane: 11:20pm On Apr 16, 2022
The man is a good candidate for a long prison term.
Charge number 1: indecent exposure to a minor.
Charge number 2: verifiable evidence to lure a minor to sexual act- pedophilism-7 year without bail option.
Charge number 3: Lewd conduct, action that may lead a minor to an exposure to what are obtained in the house of ill repute.
These evidences are there.
The parents should approach an always annoyed magistrate the case will be wrapped up quickly.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 11:21pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Sometimes our judgement is so so biase. A 15 year old girl (teenager), the mother is still alive and she stays with her mother.
An adult started toasting her, she willingly gave her number to d adult, she willingly exchange nude photos with d adult, she willingly accepted gifts and money.
At this juncture, both d adult and d girl are to be blamed. If d adult is pestering her and does not like it, what she should hv done is to report to her mother and teachers in school.
I had an encounter with a teanage girl like that, (when I was working in a pharmacy) d girl came to buy pepper spray, and I asked her who sent her and why she came to buy d pepper spray.
She told me how a boy was disturbing her everywhere she goes and d harrasement from d guy
I told her d following:
1. Anytime she wants to go out, she should not go alone.
2. She should inform her parents about d boy's disturbances and harrasement
3. Should not go out in d night all alone. Infact I hv forgotten d orientation I gv her but my happiness was that she conquered bcs after a while d girl came back to me and thanked me and d idiotic boy did not disturb nor harass her again.
What I'm trying to say here is that d teenage girl has questions to answer and as for d old cargo of a man, well nemesis will surely catch up with him
People like you should not be on the street. There's nothing a 15 year old is enjoying, she is only being taken advantage of.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by OriOko88(m): 11:21pm On Apr 16, 2022
justscorchone:
I saw dick pics and pedophiles trying to creep on my 13yrs old niece, I'm about to treat some violations.
What's your 13 old niece doing with phone In the first place.. Is it that her parents aren't around that warrant her using phone to call them or wat

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 11:22pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?
Oga, that girl is still a child. How old are you?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:23pm On Apr 16, 2022
LadyRosa:

This is same thing I noticed in my neighborhood.I keep asking myself who are the men sleeping with this teenagers.If a teenager is mating with her agemates,you will know.But a situation where they give this odour that is too "aged" you don't get to perceive that natural baby lotion smell but a weird odour that is soooooo matured for their age.

I mean,the one that offed me is a CBN staffers girl-child of 15 in the Estate.She leads children cathcism in the local parish.

Omo,there are lots of pedophiles in our neighborhood.The father is a well paid employee.
Someone confided in me she is being humped my a married man in the neighborhood.

Why will a matured married man leave all the ladies around just to sleep with minors.The most annoying thing is this men are well educated.Haba!
Obara Jesus! shocked shocked
It is finished
Hai gawd

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