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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 11:23pm On Apr 16, 2022
basilo101:

I have noticed that women lack logic and objectivity. 15 year old is not a child. Our fathers married 15 years old and 7th wife


Your father's married 15 years old according to traditional rites,am sure it doesn't include raping them first. undecided

You want to compare the old age of female early marriage grooming to a civilized age where girls are becoming even more educated than the men?!

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 11:25pm On Apr 16, 2022
Hmmmm toto dicckhead matter
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by ambale(m): 11:25pm On Apr 16, 2022
LadyRosa:


Funny thing is,it's so rampant especially in housing Estates.The wife of the idiot is even calm self.I will so frustrate his life with humiliation till he comes suicidal.
I find sexual child abuse very irritating!

Very very irritating, infact I don't know what men do with them

Cos I can't imagine my teenage sisters with men ooo, you will regret ever coming to this world ooo

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Ezemeiyogu(m): 11:26pm On Apr 16, 2022
cococandy:
the easier route would be to raise responsible men but y’all swear that’s impossible

The reaction to this topic is bending already. Wehdon pipu!
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:26pm On Apr 16, 2022
..... Some prick people sef. Nawa o.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 11:26pm On Apr 16, 2022
pocohantas:


They are advising you now, you are running mouth like parrot. This is how your uncle ended up in a UK prison. Tomorrow if hand touch you, you would claim it is racial profiling. Shut up for once and learn!!
Is he in the UK? I can get him reported. He shouldn't be anywhere near kids, prevention is better than cure.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by mysticgal(f): 11:26pm On Apr 16, 2022
iykejohnson:

What stops the girl from telling her parents or teachers or any grown-up associates of her.
Plenty teenagers out there do report such advances at home or to teachers in school. She deserves a resetting slap.
That bastard of a man should be hung

It could be the environment created at home is not freeing enough to converse about it. Remember, some parents are really strict but I’m not here to judge their parenting method

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by sonofElElyon: 11:28pm On Apr 16, 2022
QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.

She should report him to the police.. and female gender advocacy NGOs

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by imagrg(m): 11:30pm On Apr 16, 2022
In the North, a fifteen years old girl go done get pikin. Child abuse is prominent there.

Anyway, the man should have his balls removed with a pincher
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by pocohantas(f): 11:32pm On Apr 16, 2022
OriOko88:

American minor my foot. Many of those minors are on xvideos...under legal age section getting served by a mandigo dvck.. Are u telling me are the parents of such minors not aware of their children pornographic activities or d US govt is not aware that american teens are being used for porns? undecided

So why have you not carried one? How about you experiment and report back to us on how she enjoyed your prick. As na you first carry prick enter America.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 11:32pm On Apr 16, 2022
VeeVeeMyLuv:

Obara Jesus! shocked shocked
It is finished
Hai gawd


But it's the truth.
If a girl start sleeping with matured man,as a very good observer I know, because I've counseled them before as a teacher.

If they are sleeping with their peers ,I also know.

If a girl gives out a particular odour,I know when it's odour associated with adolescence, especially when their body begins to develop in their intimate areas BUT there's also an odour when they start having Bleep.And a behavior that tends to either confuse them every once in a while emotionally and physically.

And when it's a matured person,it's something else.First is they begin to be very disrespectful.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Grandmeister(m): 11:33pm On Apr 16, 2022
mysticgal:


It could be the environment created at home is not freeing enough to converse about it. Remember, some parents are really strict but I’m not here to judge their parenting method
No we should judge parenting methods! Every vice in the society has a root. Just days ago tonto dike had her son spanking her butt. What kind of man do you think that boy will grow up to be if he continues on that path? Your guess is a good as mine. I will consider it a failure on my part as a father if my child seeks validation and attention from someone outside of his /her parents. Much worse from someone else old enough to be their father.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 11:34pm On Apr 16, 2022
pocohantas:


Of course, because men can’t wait to start ravaging vaginas. The earlier the better hah? Because I am sure such laws are not made with women in mind.
old , dry and whittling women are often always insecure by younger girls.

The older they get, the more man-bitter they become.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 11:38pm On Apr 16, 2022
akanbiaa:
She is lucky the man did not use her nude to blackmail her or destroy her on social media by making her depressed or suicidal.
Can you hear yourself? Would you say the same thing if the girl was your child or your relative?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by pocohantas(f): 11:38pm On Apr 16, 2022
TawTaw:
old , dry and whittling women are often always insecure by younger girls.

The older they get, the more man-bitter they become.

Yea right, as usual, make it about my age and claim I am jealous. Soon you would start peeling diapers off the bum of babies, because toto must be harvested ASAP. When I talk, you, in your record-breaking-stoopidity, would once again claim it is because I am old and jealous.

Did I at any point tell you I want to be younger and target of miscreants like you? You need a new brain. The problem is who is willing to donate to someone that would never use it.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by GloriousGbola: 11:40pm On Apr 16, 2022
OriOko88:

American minor my foot. Many of those minors are on xvideos...under legal age section getting served by a mandigo dvck.. Are u telling me the parents of such minors not aware of their children pornographic activities or d US govt is not aware that american teens are being used for porns? undecided

This is how your empty brain will be scattered by make beleive. Americans take sex with minors very seriously and anything with anyone under 18 is child porn. Share a video of a minor if you know or not, get caught and you are a registered sex offender

As to your bs about x videos, go and watch the full Bleep clips. There are always multiple disclaimers at the start for people like you. This is fantasy. This is a work of fiction. All models are over 18.if you are below 18 stop watching. If you are offended by this content stop watching.

The gratuitous ignorance.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by OriOko88(m): 11:41pm On Apr 16, 2022
LadyRosa:



You're very stupid for blaming the girl more.The FOOL wey send him _preek to the small girl na wetin?

Ozuo!
Na people like your papa dey _4ck street kids for area.
Some of imbecilic dotards would just come and be insulting people. Can u fool look a guy face to face in public and abuse him like you're doing now.. Thank God for social media giving you frustrated lots d chance to display ur aggression on BS! Oponu undecided

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Basheer22: 11:41pm On Apr 16, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
The two parties are to be blamed, both d adult male and d girl child.
If d girl child is not enjoying d conversation, she would hv informed d mum long time ago than hiding it and also passwording her phone.
Or d girl child would hv reported to her teacher on school, imagine adult offering her gifts and money and she accepted them without fear.
When I talk about female, dem go cum for my head,

You will eventually die in prison.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Basheer22: 11:42pm On Apr 16, 2022
OriOko88:

Some of imbecilic dotards would just come and be insulting people. Can u fool look a guy face to face in public and abuse him like you're doing now.. Thank God for social media giving you frustrated lots d chance to display ur aggression on BS! Oponu undecided

If you talk like a fool and they call you a fool, that is not an insult.
Besides, you are a noisemaker. There is nothing you will do even if they say it to your face.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by OriOko88(m): 11:43pm On Apr 16, 2022
ukaface:
And men, would think the problem is usually with the females.
Who does all the sweet talks and enticements? MEN.

Stupid lots
Guess ur dad is also amongst d stupid lots??
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by CHoccolaTE: 11:43pm On Apr 16, 2022
Walahi males are nasty, disgusting creatures.

Forget what the holier than thou ones on this thread are typing, almost all of them see nothing wrong with sleeping with a 15 year old. The kind of depravity and sex obsession the average male has in his heart can shock even the devil himself.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Nobody: 11:45pm On Apr 16, 2022
mysticgal:


Why should we talk about a girl that is been coerced by a grown man to give her numbers, her nudes to him. Oh please cry your tears about irritational cases mr clear judgement.

A 15 year old lacks sexual consent. You can smell and see a minor regardless of the body stature. Don’t be stewpid in a public forum. She is 15 slowpoke
So u really had to abuse him to prove a point
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by NamelessOGBENI(m): 11:45pm On Apr 16, 2022
I'm glad the whole shenanigans was nipped in the bud however I felt more could still be done and that's an eye opener to the conflict of interest going on in the world of our children-both the male and female.

It's time we also learn to expend the same energy on the boy child too. Everybody matters and we shouldn't be so conscious of one gender at the detriment of another.

Let face the fact for once.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by OriOko88(m): 11:46pm On Apr 16, 2022
GloriousGbola:


This is how your empty brain will be scattered by make beleive. Americans take sex with minors very seriously and anything with anyone under 18 is child porn. Share a video of a minor if you know or not, get caught and you are a registered sex offender

As to your bs about x videos, go and watch the full Bleep clips. There are always multiple disclaimers at the start for people like you. This is fantasy. This is a work of fiction. All models are over 18.if you are below 18 stop watching. If you are offended by this content stop watching.

The gratuitous ignorance.
Its you Father's brain that's empty.. Its my opinion so get d fvxk off. Omo otee
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by OriOko88(m): 11:47pm On Apr 16, 2022
Basheer22:


If you talk like a fool and they call you a fool, that is not an insult.
Besides, you are a noisemaker. There is nothing you will do even if they say it to your face.
Don't mistake me for coward fool like you. Effing simp. Boda ode.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by drmuchin: 11:47pm On Apr 16, 2022
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Vinnie2000(m): 11:47pm On Apr 16, 2022
To all the pple Bashing emmanuelbrown, a 15yr old Girl is NOT a kid! Lets stop the pretence! She should have rejected the man's advances! I have seen 12 Yr old girls rebuff toasting from randy teenage boys! D girl and mostly her parents take some blame here!

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by iykejohnson(m): 11:48pm On Apr 16, 2022
mysticgal:


It could be the environment created at home is not freeing enough to converse about it. Remember, some parents are really strict but I’m not here to judge their parenting method
We ain't judging the parents shaa.
But to the glory of God that the woman's phone spoiled. If not she wouldn't have known, until now, probably.
The write-up is actually a lesson for everyone here to learn

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by babajeje123(m): 11:48pm On Apr 16, 2022
iykejohnson:

What stops the girl from telling her parents or teachers or any grown-up associates of her.
Plenty teenagers out there do report such advances at home or to teachers in school. She deserves a resetting slap.
That bastard of a man should be hung
You guys should stop being miserable by blaming the girl. She is a teen who is not fortunate to have responsible parents. I can bet it that the parents had no or limited time for the girl before the incident. All blames should go to the parents and the old paedophile.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Darkmode64: 11:49pm On Apr 16, 2022
dawnomike:
Eye opening post ... Unfortunately, mods will not push a reasonable post as this to front page...

But uf na snake or tonto dike matter e go reach front page
Yeah and that's why you had to quote the whole post to make some sense. angry

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