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LadyRosa:
There's no sentiment to this.People are wired differently as even a 30 year old woman still say they "accidentally" got pregnant.

PEOPLE ARE WIRED DIFFERENTLY,and for this there are rules/laws when it involves a minor.An ADULT ought to know better.DONT TALK INTIMACY with teenagers,don't tell them they are beautiful,don't buy them stuffs without their parents availability if they are not your kids!


A girl child with low esteem can easily fall for a man who keeps praising her.ITS THE POPULAR WAY YOU MEN SLEEP WITH THIS MINORS!

They should stick with the matured ones and leave the kids the heck ALONE!

Give them the opportunity to grow a little bit more damn it!

pocohantas:
Then shut the fck up!! I don’t ever see your thpe caution his type. But somehow you think you can be a moral police on how women respond. Shut up!!!!

Grandmeister:
I could feel the veins popping all over your forehead and neck....so much exclamation. You really do need a man beside you.

Basheer22:
You're the one here, right? You will see. Others will learn from your ordeal.

emmanuelbrown26:
I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?

LadyRosa:
Funny thing is,it's so rampant especially in housing Estates.The wife of the idiot is even calm self.I will so frustrate his life with humiliation till he comes suicidal.
I find sexual child abuse very irritating!

Mariangeles:
Shouldn't more of your blame go to the paedophilic [i]agadi nwoke na a gwo ofe[/i]?

Grandmeister:
I won't even give you the e-satisfaction of rolling in the mud with you. If you are a mother you will appreciate even his mother and not throwing vulgar slurs at a woman you know nothing about. Face the person you're exchanging inanities with and leave his mum out.

subsidywise18:
Good post, but still pass wording one's whatsapp is good to protect from hackers. That's the main reason why I did it for mine.

Grandmeister:
I could feel the veins popping all over your forehead and neck....so much exclamation. You really do need a man beside you.

pocohantas:
If you were giving the woman beside you time, would you be here chooking mouth in something that is not your business? I need a man beside me indeed. What has changed in the life of the woman beside you? Asides attending crusade and drinking anointing oil.

Itzlinda:
In my place na 16 years. Ain’t 16 years old having sex?

abbey621:
This isn't about sense or maturity, it is about the LAW! If kid behaves foolishly must an adult behave the same way? A 15 year old might not be a kid in your eyes but the law considers them underage hence you do anyhow, you go see anyhow!

pocohantas:
Yes, women will not cease to amaze you because in your false sensibility and civility, you have failed to realize that some of the ladies that you guys insult here are people’s mothers too. It seems you sef wan collect.

mrdino:
There's no point in arguing with this person, from his stance (and of course reasoning) you should know by now that you are arguing with a potential (or active) paedophile.

This a faceless forum, but there's a saying that goes thus: to see a person's true face (i.e., true character) give him a mask.

LadyRosa:
Naaa,she shouldn't oga.
His mother's TAWTAW gats to be introduced in the fracas.Sometimes we just wanna pull off our shoes and suits and roll in the mud on here.Me dey direct bombshells to trolls mama,weda she dey alive or dead shaperly.Even elitists with their billion dollars net worth still use the word _fuck.

We are here to share ideas.If some guy think say then go just dey run their mouth anyhow Omo,no be all the women here go take that kind bullshit.

If any nigger abuse me,I curse him papa and mama NO TIME.

QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.

TawTaw:
don't mind pocohantas, she needs Nairaland for stability like a comatose patient needs oxygen.

Remember how she used to stuck guys on the ashawo beer thread on sexuality section and even showed guys her thighs?

That girl could do anything for strangers just to be famous and accepted in Nairaland.

TawTaw:
when your own mama toto has been passed around more frequently than a basket ball in training session before rebounding on your dad's unmotivated life?

QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.

pocohantas:
You are always in my mud. It is good you know I own the mud. You can’t beat me to this game. You are only lucky I have been staying away from the mud. If you do anyhow, I would teach you how it is done.

iykejohnson:
Which one is being miserable.
Oga, some 15 in the north are married.
I blame the parents, I blame the bastard man and the girl has some blame as well.
I am still saying it, the girl deserves resetting slap

TawTaw:
when your own mama toto has been passed around more frequently than a basket ball in training session before rebounding on your dad's unmotivated life?

Grandmeister:
OK you too don join the toto fight? Abeg make I cuddle my woman and sleep jaré.

LadyRosa:
If I carry my smelly puz'zy water rub you for that ya mouth na,them go say I don start.

emmanuelbrown26:
The two parties are to be blamed, both d adult male and d girl child.
If d girl child is not enjoying d conversation, she would hv informed d mum long time ago than hiding it and also passwording her phone.
Or d girl child would hv reported to her teacher on school, imagine adult offering her gifts and money and she accepted them without fear.
When I talk about female, dem go cum for my head,