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I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Nobody: 3:12pm On Apr 17, 2022
Hello Guys and Happy Easter.

It's been six days my girlfriend and I broke up, and in those days that I have been alone, it's been hard. I always feel like to call her every day to tell her I am sorry. But it's something that I know if she get away with, she would want to do it again and again.

I have missed her a whole lot. I don't know what to do

Please how do you all get passed this?

P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by tayo60(f): 3:15pm On Apr 17, 2022
Stand your ground. If she realises her mistake and ask for forgiveness, take her back and if not, move on. La las, you go dey alright.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Ocholu: 3:18pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:


P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.

So wetin come happen?? She beat you?

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by DispatcherLagos: 3:20pm On Apr 17, 2022
Stop being a simp boy......else you want to get killed by these whores with your own very hand.

Believe me, while you are still thinking about her, she has moved on and has added your name in her list of "exs".

But why committing yourself so much to a Nigerian girl that you have to think so much about her when the "transaction" ended?

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by doctore212(m): 3:22pm On Apr 17, 2022
Carry like 10 k enter olosho house. Use 500 naira for 20 babes for short time.

You will forget her sharp sharp
Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Nobody: 3:23pm On Apr 17, 2022
Ocholu:


So wetin come happen?? She beat you?

She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:23pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:
Hello Guys and Happy Easter.
It's been six days my girlfriend and I broke up, and in those days that I have been alone, it's been hard. I always feel like to call her every day to tell her I am sorry. But it's something that I know if she get away with, she would want to do it again and again.

I have missed her a whole lot. I don't know what to do
Please how do you all get passed this?
P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.

dont keep an idle mind, get busy doing whatever nonsense on your free time, take it one day at a time... and stick to your guns.

its never easy to part with someone you like, but its part of the process.

simply remember the golden rule: no matter how much you like someone, if she aint good for you then there is no point being with her!

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Nobody: 3:24pm On Apr 17, 2022
doctore212:
Carry like 10 k enter olosho house. Use 500 naira for 20 babes for short time.

You will forget her sharp sharp

To be honest brother, I don't and haven't done that. I don't intend to in any way

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Double0h7(f): 3:24pm On Apr 17, 2022
It depends if the reason you broke up with her is justified. If it's an ego driven reason then you'll suffer for months or even years before you adapt to being without her and even then she'll cross your mind every now and then, and feel the sting of the pain but you'll know how to cope. But if it's a reason based on morals and principles and you feel justified then you'll recover in a month or two.

Ps... I'm just making this up undecided

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Kriss216: 3:27pm On Apr 17, 2022
Please never take relationship advice from Nairaland girls.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by VictorUSA(m): 3:27pm On Apr 17, 2022
Dont try that shit! Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by DispatcherLagos: 3:27pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:


She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.
If it's an issue like this that lead to the broke up......then congratulations you have been dating yourself all these while

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by blackboy(m): 3:28pm On Apr 17, 2022
Do what she asked you to at your own time and you can let her know.

You have taken the right decission. You want to be happy? Dont let your wife to be or anyone threaten you to do sonething.

You dont owe her an apology and dont apologize except for shouting at her if you did

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by funshint(m): 3:28pm On Apr 17, 2022
No need to console you...it's baseless. Why will she threaten you for anything in the first place? That's a red flag.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Ocholu: 3:41pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:


She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.

O'kay. O'kay. I get. She been one use billing injure you. So you had to run for dear life.

You're doing well.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by HopeNeverDies: 4:00pm On Apr 17, 2022
Damnnnnn!!!! It's very hard to move on bro!!!

Very damn hard. I feel your pain..

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by kingBlaq: 4:00pm On Apr 17, 2022
guy dont let anybody fool you, if u have been with d babe more than 2yrs call her, if this girl has eva given u 2k call her, if she comes from an influencial fam call her, dont call her if na only fvck... life is too short 4 bad memories

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Mcslize: 4:26pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:


She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.



For now, move on, and get your mind busy.
Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by czarr(m): 7:01pm On Apr 17, 2022
Whenever you are tempted to call her imagine her on another guys diick! She's probably bouncing on another diicck already, even before she gave you an ultimatum.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by BarrSly: 7:11pm On Apr 17, 2022
What she is doing in the redpill World Is what we call a sh*t test. The sh*t test is done by a lady to see how strong her man is and how well he could stand his ground. The sh*t test is done while the lady is having an affair so when you fail the test she’ll have an excuse for cheating. I don’t believe in the concept of love nor the concept of relationship or marriage but if you must do it then do it with sense don’t let her use you.

Quit that relationship and focus on you.



mikezuruki:


She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by mrcrabs(m): 7:21pm On Apr 17, 2022
I used to think that moving on was hard. If you put your mind to it mehn you can do it, no girl is irreplaceable know this and you go dey alright.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by ukpahu(m): 7:22pm On Apr 17, 2022
All nigeria girl are useless even your sister

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Double0h7(f): 7:35pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:


She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.

Ah, this a battle of wits. She wants to train you to react in a way that pleases her. She wants to teach you what standing by your word means. If you promised to do something and then you broke your promise then she is showing you that that's behaviour she won't tolerate.

If she is a good woman then you might lose her because she knows her worth and is refusing to compromise that.

Your lesson here is to be a man of his word. Don't make promises you can't meet. Let your word be your bond. I really hope she follows through and doesn't let you off because you will continue to get her hopes up and dash them when it doesn't suit you. I really hope she stays strong.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by DonroxyII: 7:56pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:
Hello Guys and Happy Easter.

It's been six days my girlfriend and I broke up, and in those days that I have been alone, it's been hard. I always feel like to call her every day to tell her I am sorry. But it's something that I know if she get away with, she would want to do it again and again.

I have missed her a whole lot. I don't know what to do

Please how do you all get passed this?

P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.
Obsessions Syndrome:
Think about your future and how you can get someone better than her. Map out the Strategies and how to Achieve them. Smile to God and Move da fuq on to Your Hustles.
Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by DonroxyII: 7:58pm On Apr 17, 2022
doctore212:
Carry like 10 k enter olosho house. Use 500 naira for 20 babes for short time.

You will forget her sharp sharp
Post nut clarity will set his mind back.

Dirt can't clean dirt to Cleanliness.
Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Kudducini(m): 8:00pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:
Hello Guys and Happy Easter.

It's been six days my girlfriend and I broke up, and in those days that I have been alone, it's been hard. I always feel like to call her every day to tell her I am sorry. But it's something that I know if she get away with, she would want to do it again and again.

I have missed her a whole lot. I don't know what to do

Please how do you all get passed this?

P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.





If you still see her it’s likely you grow feeling for her avoid seeing her and you’ll be fine
Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Bolsman(m): 10:26pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:
Hello Guys and Happy Easter.

It's been six days my girlfriend and I broke up, and in those days that I have been alone, it's been hard. I always feel like to call her every day to tell her I am sorry. But it's something that I know if she get away with, she would want to do it again and again.

I have missed her a whole lot. I don't know what to do

Please how do you all get passed this?

P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.



If you don't want to move on, you can sit or stand still. You are missing her pele o, does she miss you? Didn't u get it that she's left u?

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by talk2hb1(m): 10:40pm On Apr 17, 2022
mikezuruki:
Hello Guys and Happy Easter.

It's been six days my girlfriend and I broke up, and in those days that I have been alone, it's been hard. I always feel like to call her every day to tell her I am sorry. But it's something that I know if she get away with, she would want to do it again and again.

I have missed her a whole lot. I don't know what to do

Please how do you all get passed this?

P.S: She didn't cheat. Neither did I.

Ehyah, the girl una dey miss don jump ship.

A Lady will not leave a relationship of she has not started another better one.

Go and make money, 1 million dollar is very loyal to the core.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by kelspinall(m): 10:50pm On Apr 17, 2022
been there earlier this year, someone I thought that understood me became my worst nightmare because of reasons best known to her.we split on January 3rd week,I wasn't prepared but I had to accept since is now toxic..
this is for you bro, break up is like a wound/injury, you don't force injuries to go,no you don't, you take the right steps and watch it heal itself, don't force,endure the loneliness for sometime, sooner you will be better.loneliness is not bad and it doesn't kill, change your mindset and you see the bright side of being lonely for sometime..cheer up,get yourself busy with good stuffs like games, music and movies.. you will be alright.one more thing the memories and good time will always flash back in your mind but know this,as it flash soo it fades..

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Realmi: 11:10pm On Apr 17, 2022
U only miss sex....get busy
Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by Nobody: 11:22pm On Apr 17, 2022
Realmi:
U only miss sex....get busy

We haven't had sex before.

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Re: I Am Finding It Hard To Move On by RealNiggaDee(m): 12:00am On Apr 18, 2022
Stop getting emotional attached to people... It's not good .


Stop Simping , stop beating yourself up over a woman.

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