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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Cutehector(m): 10:33am On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:you getting tired of your marriage, you run and come to post on social media... You were asked to leave, yet you said you still love your wife... How confused can you be! If you love her then why the fvck are you even creating a thread in the first place? Telling the whole world how bad she is. Someone who claims to love his wife wont be coming to social media to preach about leaving the marriage.. Get the fvck out abeg 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Camelot65: 10:36am On Apr 18, 2022 |
Lol, that number 3 ehn, I can't live with someone that gets angry easily. Are you saying you didn't notice this before getting married to her? If something is becoming a torment for you, then leave. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by LordKO(m): 10:56am On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: The fact that you lack the grit and gumption required to make your marriage work is not a reason enough to dissuade the guy from marrying when he sees a reasonable woman. You have to embrace grit and gumption to make yours work, your wife's obvious weaknesses, citing your submission, notwithstanding. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by AMGBoss(m): 11:01am On Apr 18, 2022 |
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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by bukatyne(f): 11:34am On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: 1. Ok 2. Hmmmm, I don't what you mean by too much attention; I don't know if you & your female friends understand boundaries in relationships. Also I don't know if you have given her a reason to distrust you in the past. 3. Your reaction/response to her action is faulty. While angry, she doesn't talk to you for days and you are begging; why? Don't you have self respect? Let's assume you are wrong, you apologize and she decides to continue the silent treatment; let her be. Then the height of it: she asks you for food money & you give her during the silent treatment. You don't want to talk to me yet you want my money or any other thing I have to offer ? If it is not a life/death matter, I will develop selective deafness till you come to your senses. You need to sit up and lead your marriage by example the way you want it to be. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Misterone: 11:43am On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:you love her doesn't mean you should be a mumu to her. when things go south she will dump your sorry ass so fast you won't know what hit you. take control of your marriage now. be in charge and take responsibility of your actions when things happen. if she can't cope, then move on. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by tiswell(m): 11:46am On Apr 18, 2022 |
when we tell y'all not to marry these gals again,you call us unprintable names...happy Easter to the happy singles 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mindlog: 12:23pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos: Uncle, you never ready to marry. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by jesmond3945: 12:31pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:lol. She is using the classic manipulation and narcissism used by women to exert control in the home. 1. She doesn't have any low sex drive. She wants to have sex in her own terms. 2. Is she ready to fill the attention gap? If you check she also has men she chats with who give her attention but for you no go area. Don't let her alienate those people from you because they might be your lifesaver tommorow. 3. Don't beg her again and you would not die. Be a man. Fight her silent treatment with harsher silent treatment. If she doesn't talk to you, leave the house and go meet people who will talk to you or rather channel your attention to your daughter. Don't quit your marriage. Don't show physical strength or emotions rather use your brain to win the battle. Show stoicism. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 12:35pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
jesmond3945:thanks bro |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Kobojunkie: 12:36pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:Before you quit, consider counseling please. Your description reads like the textbook case for professional marriage counseling and possible mental health counseling as well. Please consider seeing a professional counselor to at least help you in understanding the issues behind your wife's behavior, and also aide you both in charting a best-fit way forward in your marriage. The reason why professional marriage counseling is beneficial even in the case that that relationship is finally dissolved is it allows you gain wisdom in to the relationship which you would otherwise have not been able to without that kind of intervention. The information obtained is one that will potentially help you in dealing with the future of the relationship, particularly since you both have a child between you, and all other relationships as you know what other signs to look out for. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Pascopele: 12:37pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Kingpin1000:Good questionany do number 3 |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by olabrinks(f): 1:01pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
The reasons are not enough to end a marriage, get a grip please. Next case! |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:13pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Kriss216:I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice. Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by CalmElder(m): 1:13pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos: I ask married people, both male and female, point blank if they are enjoying their marriages. Most say that they don'tt. If not because of morals, I for no reason am lailai! |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:15pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos:Welcome on board Gee, just find one sheri koko gv belle and enjoy your life. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by faithfull18(f): 1:32pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Sha don't leave your marriage, these are minor issues. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:37pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Camelot65:He noticed it but this word called love no allow baba to see it. When I say women needs tough hand not too much petting but dem simps no go believe am 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
tiswell:Same wishes o jareeee, me jeopardise my peace of mind and freedom bcs of one daughter of eve that would only add more burden |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mindlog:Na by force to marry ni 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mindlog: 1:41pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: No one is pointing a gun at anyone to get married. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 1:47pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mindlog:Oya free d guy na 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mindlog: 1:59pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: Did he inform you that I was holding him? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 2:30pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:i give her the money because of my daughter. My baby has to Eat na |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 2:34pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 2:35pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:i only give her because i don't want my daughter to go Hungry |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 4:02pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:Yeah, baby can't go hungry, but u married d wrong person and if care is not taken, I see u having BP sooner than u expect |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ImaIma1(f): 4:08pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: You need to learn how to ignore her when she starts acting up especially when she's at fault. Let her know that you are not taking all the rubbish. The issue is that you condoned it and now it has become a full blown problem. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Margy: 4:19pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
We4all: you dey mind the gooat!.. keeping female friends....as if we don't know what he does with them..OP needs sense..he is the problem |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ChocolateWine(f): 4:29pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Everything is a problem for this generation |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by emmanuelbrown26: 4:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Margy:Op see them, dem dun show, daughters of eve dun showwwwww 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 5:19pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Margy:i haven't Slept with any other woman Asides my wife since we got married and she knows 1 Like |
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