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No bro. That is a total misconception. Have you not seen a family where the kids grew up having no parents but at the end of the day, they turned out to lead exemplary lives.

Where what you are saying mostly works is when you are blessed by fortune and fate. In such cases, you need not do the most because everything will just fall perfectly in place. Have you not heard of children who are old souls. Right from childhood, they already have things figured out like knowing what's best to do in almost any situation. Such kids are not impressionable. They are never moved by peer pressure. They exude wisdom right from birth. They are simply, the very blessing of fortune and fate.

OriOko88:
The excesses of most of these rich kids is outta this world. They re over confident and always think they're intelligent...over pampered lots. The way their parents expose them to different sophisticated gadgets and tools,believing they re treating them nicely and exposing them to d modern world is ludicrous.

So when some of them misbehave like these ones I don't really get amused cos the parents have already damage their physce. Initially when I saw d video,I tot the students were black american teens with the mastery of d little girl in the sex scene..I was really stunned.
Most of those rich kids HV little respect and no fear whatsoever for their parents.. I always witness how those kids relate with their parents when I was staying in an estate.. So saucy kids.

abobote:
The statement is not complete.
How did the boys in 11th and girls in 4th ended up in the same room.
And, they need to ask the girl who disvirgin her, and how long she started this act. Goz that girl is an expert

Ebubu:
should be now stop training kids?

obailala:
Parents alone cannot raise kids... Kids will always be exposed to the society; no matter how excellently perfect parents and teachers are in shielding children from society, children will inevitably be exposed to society. E Even if parents and teachers monitor children 99.9% of the time (which is impractical anyway), that 0.1% of the time the child is exposed to society can still destroy the child.

So yeah in this case, society failed the children too.

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

saintkel:
till now I don't boame d school one bit.....all blame should be directed at d parents.....that girl is purely an addict of pornography.....it means she was left unchecked from d home....sad truth

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No ofcourse not.

We should train them but what I am trying to point out here is the fact that that girl and the boys involved in the act should all be held responsible for everything that happened.

What drives me mad is that some idiots(trust Nigerians to be idiots) are saying she was gangraped. If for anything, she was the one doing the f ucking. How can you rape someone who is atop a dick? Tell me how can you do that? She was even smiling in the video. Like Wtf is wrong with Nigerians and hypocrisy.

They even sanctioned the school.

Expel the f ucking kids.

Damn!!

emperor863:
This episode is a big scandal that the school should not be allowed to wriggle out of. How can a school of such calibre (or any school for that matter) allow such underage children to cohabit to the extent that they were able to engage in sexual activities and even recorded it on their phones. Is it normal for boarded students to have access to mobile phones? What a big shame.

The parents of all the children should bury their heads in shame because ordinarily, at that age (of ten years) the children should not even develop an urge for sex. Only God knows what type of moral and home training some people give to their children. That girl obviously was not having sex for the first time.

The parents should be brought to book on this because the law can do virtually nothing to these children on account of their respective ages.

Lastly, this should be a reflection of what the society really is. If this has happened, it means it can happen (or is also happening) in hundred of other cases in the country - especially among the upper crust of the society where a lot of scandals abound. Whether we like to believe or not, similar thing is happening in boarding schools all over the country.

May God heal our land and cleanse it of all satanic influence.

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

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Can you prescribe the required justice in this case?

All I see is that you are looking for a non-existent masculine party to blame as usual.

You just can't accept the fact that kids are doing bad all by themselves?

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

Julianaa:
I remember a case like this where two students were recorded having intercourse

The lady was sent abroad for scholarship

Nigeria for you

GloriousGbola:


Does this society provide a proper framework for children?

If you turn on any Nigerian TV station will you see any content for children?
Is there any musical artiste that sings songs for children?
Outside of.school books are there any local book series for kids?
Are there any movies made for children?

So already from the beginning you have a society where children have no local media. Everything is media for adults.

Go to eateries what are they playing on their TVs? Channel o booty videos

Go to your average kids party what are they playing? Jolof wind your waist music.

Children every where are saying you are doing well.

There are no local laws or legislation in place to ensure family friendly media or Internet is available.

No one in leadership positions cares about children

Open your dstv. There is PBS, cbeebies, da vinci kids. These are public channels in their home countries. Channels made specifically for children's education, upbringing and values.

Every one is abusing the parents, but everyday on this platform I interact with several youths who have also been failed by society and their parents.

Anyone asking to see the video is a product of this society
Anyone who casually makes excuses for rape is a product of this society
Anyone who casually defends any kind of fraud is a product or this society.

The children who cannot dance Skelewu or recite it are the ones considered strange. The children who are blank when told 'you are doing well' are the nerds.

So yes society is also part of the problem

As an African you should know this.

That is why we have the saying

It takes a whole village to raise a child

emperor863:
This episode is a big scandal that the school should not be allowed to wriggle out of. How can a school of such calibre (or any school for that matter) allow such underage children to cohabit to the extent that they were able to engage in sexual activities and even recorded it on their phones. Is it normal for boarded students to have access to mobile phones? What a big shame.

The parents of all the children should bury their heads in shame because ordinarily, at that age (of ten years) the children should not even develop an urge for sex. Only God knows what type of moral and home training some people give to their children. That girl obviously was not having sex for the first time.

The parents should be brought to book on this because the law can do virtually nothing to these children on account of their respective ages.

Lastly, this should be a reflection of what the society really is. If this has happened, it means it can happen (or is also happening) in hundred of other cases in the country - especially among the upper crust of the society where a lot of scandals abound. Whether we like to believe or not, similar thing is happening in boarding schools all over the country.

May God heal our land and cleanse it of all satanic influence.

BRATISLAVA:


These thoughts never cross their minds. They simply use their local ideas on what happened to judge. All they know is that a little girl had sex, so she must be punished and her mother should be ashamed of her. They can't reason how she came to be in that position.

To illiterate Nigerians, all sex is desired, even when they know there are times it is forced. But they don't want to accept that fact, because it will make them all rapists. Because almost all of them have forcefully had sex with someone else, and believe it is okay to. So they pretend and fight against reality.

Instead of looking for justice, they are looking for how to blame the female party as usual.

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

Ebubu:
well fine submission by you. I’m no longer of the opinion that kids should not be held responsible because a parent and teacher can teach, but the decision is in the hands of the child. And in a case whereby he/she is taught the right thing but decides the wrong decision, why shouldn’t he/she be held responsible for his/her decision? The earlier we start holding kids accountable the earlier they’ll mature into good decision making adults.

Perfecttouchade:
I think something is lost in parenting this days, those days when morals are being imbibed in a child with strict punishment if u misbehave, spear the rod and spoil the child comes to mind..you wey grow up during the era wey parents and teachers get same punishment strategy , u do anyhow for house u collect , u reach school , u still collect..Parents should also stop exposing their children to watching BBN on tv, this things are not meant for them to watch ...that video wasn't a sign that the culprits are just doing for the first time..the girl is already a pro and the boy ehn na another thing entirely

AmazonTopaz:


Everybody is ignoring the boys. Who introduced these kids to this it could be adults oo

Revolution2022:
Do you believe the damage control that the school is coming up with?

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I don't even believe the hoax about referring to kids as people who do not know what they are doing. That is a complete lie to me. When I was about 4 years, I knew everything I was doing. When I say everything, I mean every damn thing. If not, why do I hide when I want to steal meat from the pot at night. If I did not know it was wrong, then why was I hiding each time I did it. It was because I didn't want to get caught.

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I don't even believe the hoax about referring to kids as people who do not know what they are doing. That is a complete lie to me. When I was about 4 years, I knew everything I was doing. When I say everything, I mean every damn thing. If not, why do I hide when I want to steal meat from the pot at night. If I did not know it was wrong, then why was I hiding each time I did it. It was because I didn't want to get caught.

NoToPile:


Sadly you are right ooo.


Even if you go to parties in schools if you see the kind of music they play and children whining and dancing ehn, all these their Yeye end of the year party. the annoying part is nobody sees anything wrong with it. The children who just jump up and down in the form of dancing are sort of looked down own. The day a school in my area had their party, the kind of music blaring from the speakers was terrible.

We don't even allow kids to be kids any more oo.

We expose them to terrible content and those who are not exposed to it are seen as not woke.


Parents protect your children oo.

My bike customer was telling me one day he won't be available that his children were going for interhouse sport (they attend chosen church group of schools so they had a combine interhouse sport, all the Lagos schools met at a particular location for the event).

He said he would have to go with them that he can't leave two of his children to go like that, he said there were busses and all the teachers were going but since his wife won't be available she will stay with the youngest baby and he will follow the other two and watch out for them they should be aged 7 and 5 around that range.

I smiled when he said so, not that he didn't trust the school system, he wanted to take extra steps for his children.

immortalcrown:
School management is hard oh! But this news left one stone unturned. How did the girl end up with boys in a room? The truth is not yet out. The earlier the school says the whole truth, the better for the school. The parents of the kids, the school management and the society contribute to the perversion.

However, the boy is lucky. The society would have buried him alive if there is no video to show he did not rape the girl. His own parents are quiet because they have shame. The girl's mother wants to play smart in a society that is smarter than her. The boy and the girl need to be disciplined according to their ages to avoid their future being ruined.

But wait oh! As una go the world school game finish, which trophy una win? Abi the video na una trophy? Abi na show off una wan go do and the video come spoil the show? E be like say village people follow una reach Dubai.

BRATISLAVA:


Justice is to be pursued by her family. The case should be dissected.

Not what is happening here, in which people don't want to think, they just want to blame. The same approach taken to the Ini Umoren and Uwa cases. Is there any case involving a female that we don't get this same blaming regardless of what the case actually is? It's the default response.

This online show in which everyone is blaming her mother, blaming other women—that's an extension of toxic misogyny.

Clearly she was groomed if she was not being raped. Children don't just wake up to sex. But I understand it's easier for blaming the usual scapegoats to take place. The same thinking being used on the Zanzibar case. The thinking of bottom feeders.

emperor863:

The parents of all the children should bury their heads in shame because ordinarily, at that age (of ten years) the children should not even develop an urge for sex. Only God knows what type of moral and home training some people give to their children. That girl obviously was not having sex
Lastly, this should be a reflection of what the society really is. If this has happened, it means it can happen (or is also happening) in hundred of other cases in the country - especially among the upper crust of the society where a lot of scandals abound. Whether we like to believe or not, similar thing is happening in boarding schools all over the country.

May God heal our land and cleanse it of all satanic influence.

Whitealgae:
As much as I have always not been a strong advocate of excessive exposure to social media I believe it still suffices to say that the age we are in you cannot thrive without it .

And greater thanks to the Almighty COVID,that further emphasizes remote platform to carry out our day to day function

I am quite sure by the time I finish this write up majority of those on this platform would have stopped reading too bad but it's the truth
But if it's a tik tok,or internet skitch
It would have enjoyed millions of view
I haven't seen the said video(even if it is free for all I would not have checked it out) a personal decisions,but I listened to the girls mother and
I was shaken to my core ,
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD BORN WHAT YOU KNOW YOU WILL UNDER ALLEGIANCE TO GOD,NURTURE, GUIDE AND TRAIN .I AM SAYING THIS BECAUSE PARENTING IS NOT BREAD AND BUTTER SO IT TIME WE WOMEN GET OUR ACTS TOGETHER.
I AM A MOTHER AND I KNOW WHAT AM SAYING THE WHOLE BULK STOPS AT YOUR TABLE
BE IT SINGLE PARENTING
OR CO PARENTING
TO KNOW YOU CHILD AND IMPRINT YOUR VALUE IN YOUR CHILDREN IN THIS PRESENT AGE YOU HAVE TO DECISIVELY
GO EXTRA MILE
IF NOT YOU WILL WAKE UP LIKE THIS GIRLS MOTHER TO A STAGGERING REALITY OF WHAT A FAILURE YOU HAVE BEEN
SHE WAS TRYING TO WHIP UP SYMPATHY THROUGH INCOHERENCE
SOMEBODY IN THE BACKGROUND HAD TO GUIDE HER THROUGH A POORLY DELIVERED SHEECH .
MY KIDS ATTENDS ONE OF THE BEST SCHOOLS IN STATE IN WHICH I AM
BUT I AM ONE OF THEIR MOST CRITICAL CLIENT .
I DONT NEED YOU TO LIKE ME AS A SCHOOL OWNER WHEN I KNOW YOU ARE JUST DOING BUSINESS AND CASHING OUT AND COLLECTING MILLIONS FROM ME IN THE NAME IF SCHOOL FEES DUE TO THE FACT THAT THE GOVERMENT THAT IS SUPPOSED TO PROVIDE EDUCATION HAS FAILED ALL AND EXCEPT IF YOU WANT TO BREED MPURU NMIRI SNUFFERS YOU DONT SEND YOUR KIDS TO GOVERMENT OWNED SCHOOL SUPPOSEDLY FUNDED BY TAX PAYERS MONEY.
WHY WOULD YOU LEAVE A TEN YEAR OLD TO GO ALONE TO DIBAI?
WHAT IS THE HYPE?
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO IMPRESS?
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO MEASURE UP TO?
OR PROVE A POINT TO? Too bad
WHAT IS YOUR TEN YEAR OLD DOING WITH ANDROID PHONE
DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN CONTROL AND REGULATE WHAT YOUR CHILD HAVE ACCESS TO ON EVERY SINGLE ELECTRONIC MEDIUM.
TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCEMENT IS A GLOBAL EVOLUTION BUT PLEASE DONT LET IT BE YOUR UNDOING
IT WOULD MOST DEFINITELY RESHAPE THE FUTURE ,ITS YOUR CHOICE HOW YOU WANT IT TO RESHAPE YOURS
MY KIDS DONT HAVE PHONES AND THEY KNOW THEY WONT UNTILL 16 YEARS THIS WE HAVE ALREADY DISCUSSED AND HAVE THEIR UNDERSTANDING
BUT THEY ALL HAVE ELECTRONIC PADS AND LAPTOPS IN WHICH I FULLY CONTROL WHAT THEY HAVE ACCESS TO
IF YOU DONT KNOW HOW GET EXPERT HELP TO DO ALL THIS CONFIGURATION AND PAY THEM OFF AND IF YOU CAN AND WORK IN IT SAVVY ENVIRON LEARN AND RELEARN TO EQUIP YOURSELF NOT ONLY FOR YOUR SECULAR JOB BUT FOR YOUR LIFETIME RESPONSIBILUTY ONCE YOU CHOOSE TO BRING A LIFE TO THIS WORLD.
See the result .
All the internet yeyebrities that all they sell for a living is sex are now commenting on your issue because you failed from the closet.
Who failed ? In this whole chrisland saga.
It is ALL US.
The problem of this girl is a resultant and multiplier effect of social economic failure
Today education from the age of 5 to grade 12 which is equivalent of our Senior secondary SS3 is free ,but in Nigeria you buy supposedly (good education) for your children at exorbitant prices ,SO I YOU AREN'T CAREFULL WHILE CHASING THE MONEY,TO MEET UP YOU FAILED IN YOU FAMILY VALUE SYSTEM .
PARENT! ESPECIALLY MOTHERS! BE CAREFUL BE VIGILANT.
MAKE YOUR CHILDREN YOUR FRIEND
DO EVERYTHING WITH THEM
BE CAREFULL OF THAT FREEDOM YOU SEEK BY PUTTING THEM IN BOARDING HOUSES
EVEN THE WEST THAT BROUGHT EDUCATION TO AFRICA HAVE THEIR KIDS GO FROM HOME UP TO 12TH GRADE.
THERE SO MANY MORE I NEED TO SAY BUT I HAVE TO PREPARE FOR WORK BUT I WILL GIVE A SHORT STORY AT MY DAUGHTERS SHOOL TO MAKE THIS RELATABLE

THE SWIMMING LESSON OCCURENCE
My kids school built a swimming pool and added it to the schools club options
I decided to enroll them as I was already taking them on weekends for the same
"Why I made up my mind that my kids must know how to smim was a job I could no land on graduation from the uni in the fossil fuel sector because I could not swim'
On the first day of swimming less I daughter's uniform was misplaced by her and she brought home another person's.
I would not want to go into the details but I took it up with the school and the uniform was replace with a new one .this was because her missing uniform very much new cos it was purchase that same term and the one she brought home was very old worn out and short
Please dont get me wrong, even if the uniform she brought home was to be new I would still have know because because I prepare my kids for school every morning .and i would never have allowed her to wear it. But without going into the detail it was not a nice occurrence for the owner nor a palatable occurrence to the head of their elementary my daughter is going to be 9yrs by mid year and this happened this term they are just on holiday from.
I spelt it out to the schools management that they were negligent and that there were no structure or standard operating procedure on ground to forestall, control and prevent reoccurrence of such in the future.
Not to sound too unsupportive I guided them on control as a pmp and safety expert.
The following day I went to check out the pools and I concluded on my next string of actions.
I stopped my kid from staying back for the smim classes and talked them out of feeling deprived my making them come to terms with the flaws I have identified.
And the agreed with me
The school call on weither they to stay back on the smim day ,as they dont understand why I will pay and then decline further service,but I just gave excuse of the need for my kids to rest .they can take the money
As far as am concerned, they cant fully protect my kids and I dont need anybody's sorry because of 50k.
I signed up my kids for a 2 weeks stretch at a place where I will permanently station my help .and everyone is ok
PLEASE LET US TAKE RESPONSIBLITY
MANAGE WHAT YOU CAN BECAUSE NO ONE AND NO LIFE IS PERFECT,
BUT KNOW YOUR CHILD
AND THIS CAN ONLY HAPPEN WHENYOU
SPEND TIME WITH THEM
AND TALK TO THEM
BY MAKING THEM YOUR FRIEND
WITHOUT SPARING THE ROD

Great!
Thanks and would like to keep in touch with you.

Nemere2020:
Earlier thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7083543/chrisland-school-accused-covering-up

https://www.nairaland.com/7084316/lagos-shuts-down-chrisland-school



https://dailytrust.com/breaking-five-pupils-misbehaved-in-dubai-chrisland-breaks-silence-on-sex-scandal