Good morning Nairalanders! Have got this pressing issue, I need your advise on.

There is this business friend to my dad, who is in his early forties, he once asked me out for a relationship but I declined because he his married with two lovely children

So I have been on vacation from my job for some weeks now, so I decided to spend time in my family house
so three days ago he brought this job offer to me that I should be his new secretary since his old secretary have relocated abroad, I told him I will get back to him

Pls guys I am just confused and scared, I mean this man once asked me out and me being his secretary means we will be close to each other, I don't want any case of rape or sexual assault from him

Plus his new job salary is almost ×2 of my present job salary!

Could his intentions be pure or could it be that I am overreacting or reading too much meaning to this

Should I accept the job offer from him or not!
Pls I need your critical advise

You said the salary of the new job offer is twice what you currently earn however, you have to bear in mind that financial consideration is not the only factor to look at when deciding on whether to accept a new job offer.

If you feel that the man will start pestering you for sex and turn you into an unintended sex slave then reject the new job offer

The answer to your question is written on the wall for everyone to see. Learn to follow your heart and prioritize your mental health over monetary gain.
Your heart wants peace of mind, but your brain is not contented with it.





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Stay where you are because refusal to do his bidding can get you sacked and you are back to ground zero

OP, lemme help you

Like if you think the man will take advantage of her.

Share if you think she's over reacting

The money offer is a bait. Remain where you are.

He will employ you, ask u out again forcefully by threatening u with losing your job. If u say no or disagree, he will give you sack of rice before December

This thread should be in jokes section.

Stay where you are coz after employing u,he still gon'ask u out. If u refuse,you chop breakfast.
Btw,link me up with the job na,tell him I'm your distant cousin.

Islandlady:
Good morning Nairalanders! Have got this pressing issue, I need your advise on.

There is this business friend to my dad, who is in his early forties, he once asked me out for a relationship but I declined because he his married with two lovely children

So I have been on vacation from my job for some weeks now, so I decided to spend time in my family house
so three days ago he brought this job offer to me that I should be his new secretary since his old secretary have relocated abroad, I told him I will get back to him

Pls guys I am just confused and scared, I mean this man once asked me out and me being his secretary means we will be close to each other, I don't want any case of rape or sexual assault from him

Plus his new job salary is almost ×2 of my present job salary!

Could his intentions be pure or could it be that I am overreacting or reading too much meaning to this

Should I accept the job offer from him or not!
Pls I need your critical advise
Seun
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

For your own peace, turn down the job

He is just looking for a way to get back to u for turning him down.

Run auntie

For someone who has asked you out before, isn't it obvious what kind of pressure he is going to put you through while working with him?Not just as a staff but his secretary?

Money isn't everything.

The answer to your question is very clear

If you don’t want any sexual relationship with the man

Then stick to your current job, btw may I remind you

More money comes with more responsibility

SmellySperm:
Stay where you are coz after employing u,he still gon'ask u out. If u refuse,you chop breakfast.
Btw,link me up with the job na,tell him I'm your distant cousin.

I'm not sure you will be given the job because you don't have the hole he wants...

Remain where you are.

Kobicove:
You said the salary of the new job offer is twice what you currently earn however, you have to bear in mind that financial consideration is not the only factor to look at when deciding on whether to accept a new job offer.

If you feel that the man will start pestering you for sex and turn you into an unintended sex slave then reject the new job offer

Hmm thanks for this advise

Tony4988:
The answer to your question is written on the wall for everyone to see. Learn to follow your heart and prioritize your mental health over monetary gain.
Your heart wants peace of mind, but your brain is contented with it. hm okay thanks





Kindly check my signature for your Academic Affairs, assignments, projects, advertisements, etc...

Hmm thanks

qekng40:
OP, lemme help you

Like if you think the man will take advantage of her.

Share if you think she's over reacting

It's not that easy. With Nigerian men, one can never be sure

Women and Money sha....

Peace of Mnd Over Money...

Tokskob2008:

I'm not sure you will be given the job because you don't have the hole he wants...

I swear bruh! Apparently baba dey find toto

SmellySperm:
Stay where you are coz after employing u,he still gon'ask u out. If u refuse,you chop breakfast.
Btw,link me up with the job na,tell him I'm your distant cousin.

Lol thanks

I don't think he will consider you for the job sha

thorpido:
For someone who has asked you out before, isn't it obvious what kind of pressure he is going to put you through while walking with him?Not just as a staff but his secretary?

Money isn't everything.

Okay thanks

Islandlady:
Lol thanks

I don't think he will consider you for the job sha

Just try na. God fit do miracle o

He go fûck your toto in every angle and corner of his office. Very smart man. Fresh toto on demand

It will always be from a HIM not a HER!

my dear this just a way to take advantage of you...

Newboss:
He go fûck your toto in every angle and corner of his office. Very smart man. Fresh toto on demand

pervert

LordIsaac:
It will always be from a HIM not a HER!

Yes because you guys have been cursed with sex

Jeon:
my dear this just a way to take advantage of you...

Hmm true

Islandlady:
pervert

Pervert? Over consensual sex?

You never ready for real life.

Ladies are Soo soooo xoooo funny.

Your tone of asking the question means you have accepted the job emotionally. 70% of your intellect has started collecting the salary.


The romance offer is by the way which seems you may give in to if the pressure is much.


Funny enough, you might resume the job and owed several months, plus him taking advantage of you. Then leaving with premium tears.