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Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 7:00am On Apr 22
Good morning Nairalanders! Have got this pressing issue, I need your advise on.

There is this business friend to my dad, who is in his early forties, he once asked me out for a relationship but I declined because he his married with two lovely children

So I have been on vacation from my job for some weeks now, so I decided to spend time in my family house
so three days ago he brought this job offer to me that I should be his new secretary since his old secretary have relocated abroad, I told him I will get back to him

Pls guys I am just confused and scared, I mean this man once asked me out and me being his secretary means we will be close to each other, I don't want any case of rape or sexual assault from him

Plus his new job salary is almost ×2 of my present job salary!

Could his intentions be pure or could it be that I am overreacting or reading too much meaning to this

Should I accept the job offer from him or not!
Pls I need your critical advise cry

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Kobicove(m): 7:02am On Apr 22
You said the salary of the new job offer is twice what you currently earn however, you have to bear in mind that financial consideration is not the only factor to look at when deciding on whether to accept a new job offer.

If you feel that the man will start pestering you for sex and turn you into an unintended sex slave then reject the new job offer

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Tony4988(m): 7:02am On Apr 22
The answer to your question is written on the wall for everyone to see. Learn to follow your heart and prioritize your mental health over monetary gain.
Your heart wants peace of mind, but your brain is not contented with it. smiley





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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by luizpippo(m): 7:03am On Apr 22
Stay where you are because refusal to do his bidding can get you sacked and you are back to ground zero

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by qekng40(f): 7:03am On Apr 22
OP, lemme help you sad

Like if you think the man will take advantage of her.

Share if you think she's over reacting

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by MAGG0T(m): 7:04am On Apr 22
I'm not in this case but i have for points to give you in regards to it..

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May everything workout well for you.

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Bluntguy: 7:09am On Apr 22
The money offer is a bait. Remain where you are.

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by slimjohn2k5: 7:10am On Apr 22
He will employ you, ask u out again forcefully by threatening u with losing your job. If u say no or disagree, he will give you sack of rice before December grin grin grin grin

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Nicepoker(m): 7:13am On Apr 22
This thread should be in jokes section.

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Nobody: 7:16am On Apr 22
Stay where you are coz after employing u,he still gon'ask u out. If u refuse,you chop breakfast.
Btw,link me up with the job na,tell him I'm your distant cousin.

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by dawnomike(m): 7:17am On Apr 22
Islandlady:
Good morning Nairalanders! Have got this pressing issue, I need your advise on.

There is this business friend to my dad, who is in his early forties, he once asked me out for a relationship but I declined because he his married with two lovely children

So I have been on vacation from my job for some weeks now, so I decided to spend time in my family house
so three days ago he brought this job offer to me that I should be his new secretary since his old secretary have relocated abroad, I told him I will get back to him

Pls guys I am just confused and scared, I mean this man once asked me out and me being his secretary means we will be close to each other, I don't want any case of rape or sexual assault from him

Plus his new job salary is almost ×2 of my present job salary!

Could his intentions be pure or could it be that I am overreacting or reading too much meaning to this

Should I accept the job offer from him or not!
Pls I need your critical advise cry
Seun
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
For your own peace, turn down the job

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by BigRocky: 7:20am On Apr 22
He is just looking for a way to get back to u for turning him down.

Run auntie

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by thorpido(m): 7:20am On Apr 22
For someone who has asked you out before, isn't it obvious what kind of pressure he is going to put you through while working with him?Not just as a staff but his secretary?

Money isn't everything.

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by nawa4naija(m): 7:24am On Apr 22
The answer to your question is very clear

If you don’t want any sexual relationship with the man

Then stick to your current job, btw may I remind you

More money comes with more responsibility

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Tokskob2008: 7:30am On Apr 22
SmellySperm:
Stay where you are coz after employing u,he still gon'ask u out. If u refuse,you chop breakfast.
Btw,link me up with the job na,tell him I'm your distant cousin.
I'm not sure you will be given the job because you don't have the hole he wants...

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Clinghton: 7:33am On Apr 22
Remain where you are.

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 7:40am On Apr 22
Kobicove:
You said the salary of the new job offer is twice what you currently earn however, you have to bear in mind that financial consideration is not the only factor to look at when deciding on whether to accept a new job offer.

If you feel that the man will start pestering you for sex and turn you into an unintended sex slave then reject the new job offer
Hmm thanks for this advise
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 7:46am On Apr 22
Tony4988:
The answer to your question is written on the wall for everyone to see. Learn to follow your heart and prioritize your mental health over monetary gain.
Your heart wants peace of mind, but your brain is contented with it. smileyhm okay thanks





Kindly check my signature for your Academic Affairs, assignments, projects, advertisements, etc...
Hmm thanks
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by drnoel: 7:50am On Apr 22
qekng40:
OP, lemme help you sad

Like if you think the man will take advantage of her.

Share if you think she's over reacting


It's not that easy. With Nigerian men, one can never be sure

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by MajesticKris: 7:55am On Apr 22
Women and Money sha....

Peace of Mnd Over Money...

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Nobody: 7:59am On Apr 22
Tokskob2008:

I'm not sure you will be given the job because you don't have the hole he wants...
I swear bruh! Apparently baba dey find totocheesy
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 8:07am On Apr 22
SmellySperm:
Stay where you are coz after employing u,he still gon'ask u out. If u refuse,you chop breakfast.
Btw,link me up with the job na,tell him I'm your distant cousin.
Lol thanks

I don't think he will consider you for the job sha
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 8:23am On Apr 22
thorpido:
For someone who has asked you out before, isn't it obvious what kind of pressure he is going to put you through while walking with him?Not just as a staff but his secretary?

Money isn't everything.
Okay thanks

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Nobody: 8:56am On Apr 22
Islandlady:
Lol thanks

I don't think he will consider you for the job sha
Just try na. God fit do miracle o
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Newboss(m): 9:11am On Apr 22
He go fûck your toto in every angle and corner of his office. Very smart man. Fresh toto on demand

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by LordIsaac(m): 9:12am On Apr 22
It will always be from a HIM not a HER!
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Jeon(f): 9:29am On Apr 22
my dear this just a way to take advantage of you...

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 9:41am On Apr 22
Newboss:
He go fûck your toto in every angle and corner of his office. Very smart man. Fresh toto on demand
pervert
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 9:53am On Apr 22
LordIsaac:
It will always be from a HIM not a HER!
Yes because you guys have been cursed with sex

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Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Islandlady(f): 9:54am On Apr 22
Jeon:
my dear this just a way to take advantage of you...
Hmm true undecided
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by Newboss(m): 10:18am On Apr 22
Islandlady:
pervert

Pervert? Over consensual sex?

You never ready for real life.
Re: Should I Accept The Job Offer From Him Or Not? Pls Help! by oneolajire(m): 10:28am On Apr 22
Ladies are Soo soooo xoooo funny.

Your tone of asking the question means you have accepted the job emotionally. 70% of your intellect has started collecting the salary.


The romance offer is by the way which seems you may give in to if the pressure is much.


Funny enough, you might resume the job and owed several months, plus him taking advantage of you. Then leaving with premium tears.

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