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I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Djriri(op): 10:06am On Apr 22, 2022
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Candidlady: 10:07am On Apr 22, 2022
sad


This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by opera1(m): 10:10am On Apr 22, 2022
When you already aware of a bomb close to you, you went ahead to trigger it.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by yuping(m): 10:13am On Apr 22, 2022
undecided any advice you get here is going to be emotional and logical, try and get a better medical advice from 3 different medical expert.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by yuping(m): 10:17am On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad
This is deep! Really deep!!
since it is a boy child I wont even think twi

Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin
What if its a girl?
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by holsconcept(m): 10:24am On Apr 22, 2022
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Kestolove(m): 10:27am On Apr 22, 2022
Abort it
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Ahmed0336(m): 10:28am On Apr 22, 2022
You deliberately took in despite knowing what is at stake?
Hmmm!!! bringing an SS child into this world is not a joke, at some point you may want to consider suicide. Enough said, what you intend to do with the pregnancy is up to you.


Walks outta thread...
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Aboks(m): 10:28am On Apr 22, 2022
Eya poor child
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by shege45: 10:49am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD. After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene. My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
go to YouTube and watch what sickle cell parents go through and also what the patients go through, then make your decision. No be from my mouth you go hear am. But make d decision fast
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by internationalman(m): 10:50am On Apr 22, 2022
Africans and stupidity.

When the child begins to sick now they will start carrying from church to church to native doctor to river and begin to blame one old woman in the village as the witch causing it.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Candidlady: 10:57am On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.
For serious undecided

Will you be there to help her out in times of crisis?
Change from SS to AS... Why tell yourself lies all in name of trying to be optimistic... undecided
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Czario: 10:59am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD. After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene. My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
What form of prenatal diagnosis was used ?
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Djriri(op): 11:01am On Apr 22, 2022
Czario:
What form of prenatal diagnosis was used ?
Chorionic villus sampling was used to diagnose the disease.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Clonus: 11:03am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD. After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene. My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
May I ask how you confirmed the unborn child’s genotype
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Czario: 11:06am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
Chorionic villus sampling was used to diagnose the disease.
Then your fears are well founded...act wisely, don't rush to do anything. Pray about it first
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Djriri(op): 11:07am On Apr 22, 2022
Clonus:
May I ask how you confirmed the unborn child’s genotype
I had went for a newborn screening and a report on the baby health. I told the midwife and my doctor of my situation with my partner and I wanted to be safe. They took tissue sample from my pregnancy and tested it
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Djriri(op): 11:10am On Apr 22, 2022
Kestolove:
Abort it
LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
I had went for a newborn screening and a report on the baby health. I told the midwife and my doctor of my situation with my partner and I wanted to be safe. They took tissue sample from my pregnancy and tested it
please if I may ask what the cost of this test
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Djriri(op): 11:16am On Apr 22, 2022
adeotiabdulaziz:
please if I may ask what the cost of this test
Cost €184.5.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 11:33am On Apr 22, 2022
Carry ur cross,when u were advised u said God will do it.so enjoy ,he has done it
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD. After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene. My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
Cost €184.5.
thanks
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:57am On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD. After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene. My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
if you did CVS and it is confirmed that the genotype of the unborn child is SS then my sister, ABORT!!

You will suffer alone o!! You will regret and gnash your teeth.
Don't use your two legs to enter wahala.

I am tired of writing about this issue.

Better abort and get a divorce, then look for an AA guy to marry. That your partner is not a good person. He is irresponsible!!The lord is showing you red flags and you are asking stupid question
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Algold: 12:00pm On Apr 22, 2022
You scale through first stage...
You are fully aware of the danger ahead, you went ahead.


Is this love or stupidity
...

May God help you and give you the strength to pass this test.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Karleb(m): 12:02pm On Apr 22, 2022
ABORT THE BABY!!!


You will be doing yourself, the father and most importantly the kid a whole lot of good by aborting it.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody:
DrFunmisticGlow:
if you did CVS and it is confirmed that the genotype of the unborn child is SS then my sister, ABORT!!

You will suffer alone o!! You will regret and gnash your teeth.
Don't use your two legs to enter wahala.

I am tired of writing about this issue.

Better abort and get a divorce, then look for an AA guy to marry. That your partner is not a good person. He is irresponsible!!The lord is showing you red flags and you are asking stupid question
I really don't think the partner is a bad person. the partner made it clear even before the pregnancy that he doesn't want another child with her again just wondering why he was still sleeping with her! Abort the pregnancy girl its not worth the pain.
Good luck
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:05pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing
You think the Catholic church will help you when you're running kitikiti katakata with a sick child every month?

Bleep that nonsense and do what's in your best interest. Abort it and beg God for forgiveness.


A good number of sticklers don't make it up to 5years of age. Are you ready for that kind of sorrow?
Are you ready to struggle with Poverty
To raise this child? Because you will when your employers complain about you being absent because of a sick child. Your useless partner has jumped ship and you are busy whining about a church that doesn't care.

I lost my cousin who was 11 when I was 8 to sickle cell anaemia. I see many kids and adults succumb to it

I see and admit at least 6 sicklers every month. One of my patients is always threatening suicide in every admission due to the pain.
If you want that, go ahead.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OBALOLA55(m): 12:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad


This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin
I WILL SEND YOU TO PRISON AGAIN TRUST ME angry
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OBALOLA55(m): 12:09pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
I had went for a newborn screening and a report on the baby health. I told the midwife and my doctor of my situation with my partner and I wanted to be safe. They took tissue sample from my pregnancy and tested it
I HAVE SAID IT REPEATEDLY THAT IM SEARCHING FOR A SECOND WIFE

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