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I Am Tired Of My Mom / I Am Tired Of My Wife / "I Am Tired Of Seeing My Husband's Hard Joystick Every Morning!" - Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Emaprince: 2:59pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Romanoff:Men full out side? How many of them still wants to carty a womans burden? Or better still, how many of them will be foolish enough to marry a divorcee with 4 kids? Are you the men wey full outside? Abi men no get choice again? The OP to me is not looking for another husband. She knows she will lose badly if thats what she wants. She clearly wants to be FREE and SINGLE again so she can Bleep around without the guilt of being married and who.ring. she is clearly bored with same guy..which is normal. I dont think she needs advice. She should get the divorce and enjoy her life. I have seen it play out a lot in this lagos. The husband just need to not let her back into his life again after when she must have been bleeped by many and dumped..then wants to return home. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by ChuksHills(m): 2:59pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Madam many women are looking for your kind of husband. Learn not to be offending and arguing with your husband many men don't like it. You have known that he doesn't get angry easily but you keep on offending and arguing with him which he doesn't like. Please give him peace of mind your husband not a spirit but a human being and thank God for the kind of husband you have. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by jaxxy(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: So what marriage built on? Solomon had 700 wives and only 8 kids? OK now. lol like I said its my philosophy I'm not saying everyone or anyone should follow me. I have my own goals and direction I can't speak for other people and what they want in life. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by richkal(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
She want validation from us. She is bored and want to experience the street. Ho.e phase dey worry her. She go regret her decision when responsibility down on her, it's just a matter of time. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by simpleseyi: 3:01pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: This one will soon end up on the streets prostituting. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by reddingtonblack: 3:01pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Then the only solution for you is to marry PAPA. since you are so sure he is perfect if you ask me i can't think of anybody |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Topmaike007(m): 3:02pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I am only advocating for the Man because according to her, that Man is a Nice Man |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Tomblessings: 3:02pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Have a heart to heart talk with him when he is in good mood. Some men don't even apologise when they are wrong. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by TheZeezle(m): 3:03pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
33 years old? She's still girl and not a woman. Leave her jor... O feh dooko niyen ooo |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by NamelessOGBENI(m): 3:04pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Nuelzi:Real matters. Maybe the hubby should raise his bad boy skill to 5 degree then we wouldn't be having this convo. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by OlawaleBammie: 3:05pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Hassanmaye:how, explain pls |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Maobichek: 3:05pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:07pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
reddingtonblack:1. Marriages crumbling is a sign that standards are changing hopefully for the better. People finally realizing that marriage is not for everyone and there is absolutely no reason to sit tight in a toxic relationship, in the name of marriage, is a good thing. 2. Again, peace exists in this life. If you are in a hot situation where you have no peace, it means you are not were peace is. Those in the grave have no peace since they are dead and cannot discern such things. Only the living csn discern peace from chaos. 3. Even in relationship, if you have none of what you refer to as "inner" peace, what you have chaos aka stress, a killer of men. If it takes you becoming an island for you to live stress free, it is better to do just that than be in hurry to enter your grave. 4. She mentioned two important things that you conveniently overlooked. Her children are being affected emotionally by her husband's tantrums, and she herself seems emotionally drained to the point she believes it better to be single than continue to endure. That there is not a woman who has peace in her marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Topmaike007:Yes, He is a nice man who likely emotionally and verbally abuses op and his children. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000, If what you are describing here is a case of emotional or verbal abuse, I suggest you first separate yourself and your kids from your husband and seek counseling for the kids and with him(professional marriage counselling) afterwards. . |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by zinaunreal(m): 3:12pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
What a rotten excuse to leave marriage |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by OlawaleBammie: 3:12pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
LesbianBoy:Like Seriously, i am weeping for we men, Seriously we re supposed to be pampered cus we suffer alot to bring these daughters of eve afloat. What pain me most is the unworthy accolades we gives these descendants of eve while men are relegated to trashes. Can u her the op, she said she want to face her children, oponu buruku, as if she's the one that took care of the financial burden of those children til this stage. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by frozen70(f): 3:14pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Am glad that your husband is a wonderful man If his anger attitude is what you find as a fault in him, then it's obvious you just want to be separated from him for some time Well, follow your heart if that is what will make you happy But he may have gotten another woman in that gap and don't blame him if he moves on By the time you may wish to come back, you will be treated like a second class wife So I will advise you remain in that marriage as I see no faults in that man Unless you are in love with one man that has been telling you sweet words |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by farous(m): 3:14pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
[quote author=janejjjjj5000 post=112173007]Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired. Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done. He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish. I feel like pouring out my heart.[/quote After reading your post, I did not see any single point you made other than you are a di.k lover that tasting of different d.ks dey hungry you. I doubt if your do called husband is the father of your children. You are a suspect from your statement that you are not far from being adulterous. I pity the good man call your husband. Let him go and conduct paternity test on the children. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Lastborn0074: 3:16pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
From the picture you have painted of your marriage, it's a good one. Most women are looking for such a husband as yours. If u were able to cope for 14 yrs, what happened suddenly? It's either there's a man you want to switch over to, or your friends are deceiving you because they are envious of your peaceful marriage. Keep your marriage if you like, except you just want to be a free woman for all men. The truth is always bitter. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Franklinshaddy(m): 3:17pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
See this one just say you want do olosho and you don't want to feel guilty abi which kind rubbish be this |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by DoctorOlasDesk: 3:18pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Winneygirl: Na so e bad reach @ Beta people no pass 2 again for this Nigeria. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by AutoChick4U(f): 3:18pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:perhaps what you need is a timeout. Like go for a vacation to feel refreshed |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by shedy03(m): 3:21pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:My children this-my children that! How are u even sure you will go with any of the children should you get divorced from your husband? |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by spartanian(m): 3:21pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:You no get problem at all. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Winneygirl(f): 3:23pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk:Na only 2 o. 1. Me 2. ........fill in the gap. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by omasco922: 3:24pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
You better value what you have on till you loose it. BEFORE YOU PACK YOUR LOAD, MAKE SURE YOU RESTITUTE ALL THE MONEY HE SPENT IN YOUR WEDDING DAY. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Sprumbaba: 3:26pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:Why not stop what is making him shout. He cannot be shouting for no reason. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by kepstone: 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Madam hear yourself, look at the yardstick you are using for your marriage... Lol Papa said this and that.. please Biko walk away from your husband ooo... U really don't know what you want. If Papa and Mama have not had their first arguments does that mean they don't have issues or serious issues between them in their marriage. I have stayed with many pastors many like married pastors and u have seen many issues and small fights,some even excalate to something else. No marriage is without issues. What's your own role in aggravating your husband. There is no reaction without a cause, so deeply ask yourself what am I doing that makes my husband fume like this even in the presence of your children and later still apologize to you because he loves and respects you. For heaven God go just dey look you say Lucifer done dial this one number she go soon pick the call. You mean after 14 yrs you still don't know how to get your husband to behave and u still don't know him and how to address this issue... Shaking my head... Go oooo leave your marriage and look for a man that will not shout.. shouting some people is an expression not that they are even toxic .. for me I see nothing wrong with your husband, just that you guyz needs to talk.. stop comparing your marriage with that of your papa in the lord you are not living with them, do you know what the marriage has gone through... |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Highman56: 3:29pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
I have come to conclusion that the female gender is useless and I won't marry 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by zakkxx: 3:33pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
If u live that Man U will burn in hell!! What do women want? He don’t cheat! I believe u because women are perfect in investigation! U think dating with kids in Nigeria is easy!! Young men will use and dum u like useless paper!! That is if u have the money oo!! Be careful Kees your ass right their!! I don’t want to call u a mumu woman ooo! janejjjjj5000: |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Hayzed0601(m): 3:33pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
With the current state of the country,so there is still a man out there that get angry only 3 times a year and our madam here have issues with him 1 Like |
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