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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Oyiboman69: 5:22pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing
you guys should have abort this one and then make another but its like you've both settled for separation already and from what I heard...that thing is really a pain to bear not to talk of bearing it alone....
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
I have a simple question for you and it goes;
How did you know the Baby in the womb is SS?
Where were you informed of it?
And how did they arrive at such?
With this I can advise you..
Mind you, I hate Lies a lot!

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Iseoluwani: 5:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

How did you know the baby IS SS. Where did u do the test and cost
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
Please spare the unborn child a lifetime of suffering and do the needful. Why bring the child to this world to suffer 100 times more for your own mistake.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by LordErrk: 5:27pm On Apr 22, 2022
Even the child would curse you for bringing him into this world.
I have a friend who had an SS child. He told me, almost everyday of the child's life, and everyday of his own life was basically hell.
I also had a cousin I don't even want start with her own...suffering until the day she died

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by ajerimitan: 5:28pm On Apr 22, 2022
A burden of lead with limited time frame and expiration period the soul can bear. A burden of Flint and wool to be born forever crushes the soul. Do not initiate what will cause you endless pain and if you have initiated it simply end it before it ends you. Or just let nature have it's course its your choise

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:29pm On Apr 22, 2022
raymondhillmimi:
Please spare the unborn child a lifetime of suffering and do the needful. Why bring the child to this world to suffer 100 times more for your own mistake.
Have you ever bothered to ask her how the person knew the baby in the womb has got SS?
Let the person educate us.
We are here to learn...
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:31pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

The ball is in your court. Firstly, I’m shocked that you and your partner didn’t confirm your genotypes before the first child. That mistake was bad enough but God saved your asses and gave you an AS child. And then you took in again and you want to bring an SS child to this world? Now you are claiming to be religious. I don’t know which is more horrific, deliberately bring an SS child to this world to suffer severe pains/illness that the child will eventually succumb to or aborting the child at the earliest stage. Additionally, the decision is yours to make, you’ll carry your cross and mind you, you don’t even have a partner who is ready to support you. It’s gonna be hard mehn but I sincerely wish you and the child the best.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by LordErrk: 5:31pm On Apr 22, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:

I have a simple question for you and it goes;
How did you know the Baby in the womb is SS?
Where were you informed of it?
And how did they arrive at such?
With this I can advise you..
Mind you, I hate Lies a lot!

A lot of genetic abnormalities can be detected, before birth. It's not even a new thing. Lol
Before you try to attack someone, please do your research so you won't sound like an 1diot
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:32pm On Apr 22, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:

Have you ever bothered to ask her how the person knew the baby in the womb has got SS?
Let the person educate us.
We are here to learn...

Check the first page, someone already asked and she mentioned it. You can google her response to get more details

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by chaloskyx: 5:33pm On Apr 22, 2022
Aunty abort the baby must you Nigerians always put religion be for being rational for goodness sake make una start using your head now. you think God gives a damn on the decisions you made? you would keep the child that would give you sleepiness nights cause he is SS then you would still run back to God to provide a solution when he already gave you one aunty ABORT THE BABY!!!!!!!!
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:33pm On Apr 22, 2022
Justbehave:
Did you see where she wrote that since the pregnancy is a boy that she wouldn't think twice aborting it? Do you know what it implies?

To each their own. For with our words we make our fate... I will not bother about what fate you choose to make for yourself so why bother with mine .. if I am smart enough to only use my words to create a peaceful awesome future for myself and you choose to use yours to wreck havoc in your own future why should I care so much to begin insulting you ?

Get enlightened
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:34pm On Apr 22, 2022
During my uni days, many yrs back, the best student in my department was a sickler. Her papa get money and spend well on her YET, she couldn't make it. We were very close and she never stay in the campus. The day we had exam of one voluminous course like that in our 300L, she came over to the campus to sleep over. After that exam, she had crises, and that was the end like play like play. She was a first class material in a department that has never produced more than 1 first class in over 40 years then. That's to tell you what can happen at any time especially if you no get money to run around. Even if you do, chances of survival is limited.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 5:35pm On Apr 22, 2022
Dawn91:


To each their own. For with our words we make our fate... I will not bother about what fate you choose to make for yourself so why bother with mine .. if I am smart enough to only use my words to create a peaceful awesome future for myself and you choose to use yours to wreck havoc in your own future why should I care so much to begin insulting you ?

Get enlightened
Oh yes. Simps will always say nonsense to please a girl even when she's wrong just for pussy. Shame
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Unbreakable007: 5:37pm On Apr 22, 2022
tammyf:

It's possible bro.mine changed from AS to AA after a 3 days fast indoors....I mean total dry fast .no pastor involved ..its in us all to do the impossible but we never harness it based on ignorance and laziness....this is a personal experience bro.i took the challenge when I understood my ex fiancee then was AS and I didn't want to lose her.we r all gods but we know not.

U were nt actually SS maybe it was just medical error. It happened to me. My mum is Staff nurse,whn i wanted to marry my result said AS and mum frowned at it dt she is my mother and she knw am AA. It was error.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by gracealonev: 5:37pm On Apr 22, 2022
opera1:
When you already aware of a bomb close to you, you went ahead to trigger it.

Well, when you are in love or you are convinced you should go ahead, you'll fell like hanging on and expect a miracle.

I have a testimony regarding this (about which I am so cautious that I can not just share it in an open fellowship).
My wife and I are both AS. We knew about it and prayed very well ahead. The summary is that we have 5 children now and everyone in my house is AS.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:37pm On Apr 22, 2022
Justbehave:
Oh yes. Simps will always say nonsense to please a girl even when she's wrong just for pussy. Shame

Oh you are focused on that authors gender ? Why does that worry you so much? I didn't even know if it was male or female you just told me...

I want to ask you, why do you worry about people's gender so much ?

Are you writing some kind of thesis on gender roles or disparity? Or something cool like that ?
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by LordErrk: 5:39pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

Religion has nothing to do with thus rn...in fact, it actually does. With all your knowledge of SS and how they suffer an intensely horrible life, you still decide to keep the child. Aunty, that punishment from God that your looking for, you'll find it
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 5:42pm On Apr 22, 2022
Dawn91:


Oh you are focused on that authors gender ? Why does that worry you so much? I didn't even know if it was male or female you just told me...

I want to ask you, why do you worry about people's gender so much ?

Are you writing some kind of thesis on gender roles or disparity? Or something cool like that ?
Don't try to be smart which you re not. If you cannot deduce the implication of her comment then you are very far.Keep claiming woke. Lol

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:42pm On Apr 22, 2022
LordErrk:


A lot of genetic abnormalities can be detected, before birth. It's not even a new thing. Lol
Before you try to attack someone, please do your research so you won't sound like an 1diot
I'm not an IDIOT.
I beg to differ.
I'm a well respected Professional.
I know the reason I asked her that...
I wanted to delineate her story to see if she made them up. I know the investigations that can be done in utero and ex utero for such.

In Fact to shock you more I conduct such myself.
Such centers where these Tests can be done in Nigeria are very few and I know them.
I supply reagents to them.

Finally, there was no form of ATTACK meted out to her. I simply demanded she explained further.
Stop rushing to insult people.
The Internet has made it possible for people like you to rain INSULTS on people without recourse to cerebral control.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:43pm On Apr 22, 2022
Justbehave:
Don't try to be smart which you re not. If you cannot deduce the implication of her comment then you are very far.Keep claiming woke. Lol

What do you mean by woke? Do I sound like a teenager to you? But you on the other hand who has resorted to tossing insults are obviously a teenager ..

Do not quote me again ,I don't interact with uneducated ill mannered teenagers
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by LordErrk: 5:45pm On Apr 22, 2022
gracealonev:


Well, when you are in love or you are convinced you should go ahead, you'll fell like hanging on and expect a miracle.

I have a testimony regarding this (about which I am so cautious that I can not just share it in an open fellowship).
My wife and I are both AS. We knew about it and prayed very well ahead. The summary is that we have 5 children now and everyone in my house is AS.

Oga that wasn't God. God wouldn't do for you what you can avoid or prevent by yourself. What happened was simply luck.
And this is why there's so much people with the Sickle trait in Africa. We just don't listen. By now, SS should have have been reduced to an insignificant number. Now you've gone to bring in 5 more people who are now carriers of the S gene
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 5:45pm On Apr 22, 2022
Dawn91:


What do you mean by woke? Do I sound like a teenager to you? But you on the other hand who has resorted to tossing insults are obviously a teenager ..

Do not quote me again ,I don't interact with uneducated ill mannered teenagers
Simps always claiming educated. Smh for you sissies.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by wunmi590(m): 5:46pm On Apr 22, 2022
Themaths:


She called the guy her "partner" not husband. I'm not sure they are married.

Ok, no whala..
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:46pm On Apr 22, 2022
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Justbehave:
Simps always claiming educated. Smh for you sissies.
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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Otunbalai(m): 5:47pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:




Chorionic villus sampling was used to diagnose the disease.


What is the cost and where did you do it ?

Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by oilmane(m): 5:47pm On Apr 22, 2022
OKOATA:
The kind of pain they feel isn't even a psychological pain o, there's this body pain I just can't explain, the pain stays in their joint, chest, it's like they will start feeling the pains all over like someone beat them with sticks, Its like a torment or some kind of tortue. Taofeek would cry every night before he went to bed, he would fall sick for days, there was no day he was ever ok. Funniest thing he was so intelligent, he would curse and curse his parents. He died while writing jamb. It was so sad. One of my bros friend too would borrow us PS1 CDs then, I aksed my bro he said he just died of sickle cell, I normally go cross my dog with a friend across the street, didn't know he was SS until he died. In a summary SS usually die at the end so what's the point in keeping the baby since the probability he's still gonna die. Why let him pass through the torture and pain .

It is why I asked her to jettison her desire to have a son, she shouldn't bring him into the world to suffer, the pain he will go through will certainly kill that joy of motherhood she's seeking.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:48pm On Apr 22, 2022
Yureyes:


Check the first page, someone already asked and she mentioned it. You can google her response to get more details
Thanks for your warm response.
I know Tests.
But we have too many Lies permeating the society now.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by LordErrk: 5:48pm On Apr 22, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:

I'm not an IDIOT.
I beg to differ.
I'm a well respected Professional.
I know the reason I asked her that...
I wanted to delineate her story to see if she made them up.
I know the investigations that can be done in utero and ex utero for such.
In Fact to shock you more I conduct such myself.
Such centers where these Tests can be done in Nigeria are very few and I know them.
I supply reagents to them.

Finally, there was no form of ATTACK meted out to her. I simply demanded she explained further.
Stop rushing to insult people.

Alright. I'm really sorry for calling you an 1diot.
Just a lot of people on this forum insult people when they don't even have an idea of what is going on
Sorry again

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Phelixblaq(m): 5:49pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

Nor worry. Body go tell you and your catholic mentality in 3 years time. I wonder how dumb people can be, even oyinbo wey bring catholic and all this Una churches does not see abortion as a sin. Oyinbo doctor will ask you once you test positive for pregnancy. Did you want to abort it or keep?? Ode!
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by peace0813(f): 5:53pm On Apr 22, 2022
OKOATA:
The kind of pain they feel isn't even a psychological pain o, there's this body pain I just can't explain, the pain stays in their joint, chest, it's like they will start feeling the pains all over like someone beat them with sticks, Its like a torment or some kind of tortue. Taofeek would cry every night before he went to bed, he would fall sick for days, there was no day he was ever ok. Funniest thing he was so intelligent, he would curse and curse his parents. He died while writing jamb. It was so sad. One of my bros friend too would borrow us PS1 CDs then, I aksed my bro he said he just died of sickle cell, I normally go cross my dog with a friend across the street, didn't know he was SS until he died. In a summary SS usually die at the end so what's the point in keeping the baby since the probability he's still gonna die. Why let him pass through the torture and pain .
Hmm! Anybody can die at the end not only SS

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