| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Abdogood(m): 12:09am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. This one dey whine me ni. See excuse. Madam leave now. Go n look for what you did not lost. Omo see excuses faa. Go n be single ooo. Ur hubby n kids will be fine without you. You said ur hubby is a good man abi. 7 mature vargins are available to take your place. Please when you leave come back n tell us ooo. This madam dey whine us sha... |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by DoctorOlasDesk: 12:24am On Apr 23, 2022 |
NoToPile:
Same thing running through my mind.
She needs someone to talk to about what she sees as a problem, is that supposed to be a bad thing?
It's our society for you |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Nobody: 12:53am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:
Enjoy praise and worship to what end kwanu? What for? 
Go back to the hostel to rest and gist this while she has 4 kids with her to worry about?, It's her mental health or four kids. You can only care for others when you care for yourself. PS: she can go with the kids. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:54am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. You feel like pouring what? Abeg divorce the divorce wey you wan divorce na make we hear word. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 12:55am On Apr 23, 2022 |
nenyewrites:
It's her mental health or four kids. Thankfully, what the woman wants instead is to leave with her children, she ain't a selfish mother. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:55am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
I am tired. I have a better view of marriage. He is not meeting up. My children are saying that the way he talks when upsets affects them. The children cry and he apologizes to all of us. I know I sound confused but I am just tired. I feel that my children will not be seeing this when we divorce. That is why I don't want the marriage anymore. I just want all round peace. I am tired. Divorce and give yourself the peace you want...let him too also go and find his peace somewhere else! |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:58am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Thank you, sir.
I think I will go for counseling. He has told me he is willing to go for counseling. He is begging me not to end the marriage.
...begging you? No amount of begging will bring you the peace you seek. No need for counselling. It is better you leave now before you come back here to tell us he has beaten you...if I could see your hubby I'd tell him to give you some space for like 6 months and if you still hate his guts he should file for a divorce if you won't! |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 1:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Sanchez01:
She married too early. That's the problem here. This is often a thing with those who get married early. She is bored, wants independence and suddenly wants to be alone to explore. I'd say it's pretty normal.
I know someone who got married at 21, has three kids and now wants to leave just because she wants to live life and never had the chance to while she was younger. And she cannot live that life with the man she had amazing chemistry with at 21? She wants to live life? Is she dead? Doesn't her husband also want to live life? And by live life what does she want to do that she cannot do with her husband? No she wants to live a reckless life. A life without boundaries. A life with rules. A life of fantasy...by the time she wakes up at 40 and realizes the mess she has made of her life suicide will be the next exciting thing! |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by adetem(m): 2:23am On Apr 23, 2022 |
You already get the point, someone dey give her good sex than her husband. She never say the truth Nuelzi:
What exactly does this gender want?
Sorry to say this but if what you wrote up there is true then permit me to say that you don't really know what you want
- you pointed out these qualities that most men lack yet you don't want to hold onto him.
E be like say e get niqqa wey you dey eye somewhere na why you wan dropout
Nobody should quote me....na my mind I talk,I no stone person |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by TheNiceGuy(m): 2:58am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Don't mind her, Very very selfish. Op If you still don't want him to get angry that thrice a year, DONT DO WHAT WILL MAKE HIM ANGRY. .Between you're very very selfish and please come straight, leave that good man alone. He needs a better woman than you OlawaleBammie:
U re very selfish and insensitive, u disgust me. Once again u re very selfish to the core.
Sebi u have gained wat u want, ur retirement plan(the kids) that is how most of ur mates are doing na. Congratulations ma.
Now u can divorce him after u have used him to gain wat u want.
Am pretty sure u had nothing wen u guys married, at 19, u were practically a burden to him, what a poor man he is...
Now after carrying ur burden all these years this is what u have to pay him in return abi.
The young man laboured to put u in, take care of u and am sure ur family would have bn beneficiaries of his benevolence but wen its tym for u to build the great future u guys needed, wen its tym for u to join hands with him to build the empire for your children u suddenly want to back out just for the freedom of receiving random dicks.
Madam u can go, just tell the poor man ur plan and stop maltreating him emotionally before they acuse him of domestic violence (as a result of ur maltreatment towards him)
How i wished he had turned u to baby mama from the onset, how i wished, wen he met u den in his mind he has found a future partner  , future partner my foot.
Madam please file for divorce before u implicate the young ma, but am sure the universe has its way of locating everyone with his or her reward.
To be sincere, men shouldn't be marrying again, just give one or two random girls belle and drop out, if this is what they called marriage ooh, den men has no business with it, i just pity those who are kneeling down to propose
Am sure the man would have knelt down wen he wanted to propose to this deeperlife bible church goer ooh |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by xamodans: 3:45am On Apr 23, 2022 |
You don't know what you have until you loose it. "He gets angry 3 times in a year" Yet you are not ok with such. Madam, you have another agenda. Maybe when you start paying the bills all alone you will know his worth. Why don't you seat him down and tell him how you feel and what you don't want? You claim you are fighting for the children, is leaving an healthy marriage a solution? Please set your mind aright janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by MadamOk(f): 3:54am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Na wa ooo
It is well |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by MadamOk(f): 4:01am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Especially on the internet, especially now people are advocating about walking out of marriage if you know you don't feel comfortable, this woman need counseling libertyfather:
Someone has been deceiving this one either on whatsap or facebook messenger |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by MadamOk(f): 4:06am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Omo you dey vex ooo well you said it all Sha OlawaleBammie:
U re very selfish and insensitive, u disgust me. Once again u re very selfish to the core.
Sebi u have gained wat u want, ur retirement plan(the kids) that is how most of ur mates are doing na. Congratulations ma.
Now u can divorce him after u have used him to gain wat u want.
Am pretty sure u had nothing wen u guys married, at 19, u were practically a burden to him, what a poor man he is...
Now after carrying ur burden all these years this is what u have to pay him in return abi.
The young man laboured to put u in, take care of u and am sure ur family would have bn beneficiaries of his benevolence but wen its tym for u to build the great future u guys needed, wen its tym for u to join hands with him to build the empire for your children u suddenly want to back out just for the freedom of receiving random dicks.
Madam u can go, just tell the poor man ur plan and stop maltreating him emotionally before they acuse him of domestic violence (as a result of ur maltreatment towards him)
How i wished he had turned u to baby mama from the onset, how i wished, wen he met u den in his mind he has found a future partner , future partner my foot.
Madam please file for divorce before u implicate the young ma, but am sure the universe has its way of locating everyone with his or her reward.
To be sincere, men shouldn't be marrying again, just give one or two random girls belle and drop out, if this is what they called marriage ooh, den men has no business with it, i just pity those who are kneeling down to propose
Am sure the man would have knelt down wen he wanted to propose to this deeperlife bible church goer ooh |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by wales4real(m): 5:17am On Apr 23, 2022 |
May God bless you abundantly this girl. Your wisdom will keep increasing and you will always know peace in your life. I wonder what kind of message some churches pas across or is it the way we decide the messages. Has this woman herself not even argued with her kids she's claiming she love before? Madam join your husband to build your home, work on him just as he's working on you and the kids. You yourself cannot be perfect. For your info, no court anywhere in the world will give you custody of your children with this kind of flimsy excuses because I sense that is part of what you want in addition to your personal goals. This man devoted, worked and toiled for all of you and this is how you reward him? Please don't take a wrong step, remember the laws of Karma. JovialJune:
Why the hell will you believe such a lie? Use your common sense na,, siblings argue, colleagues argue, friends argue, didn't you see your parents argue at a point? Once you're staying with a person for a long period of time, there is no way there won't be misunderstanding now, haba
At bolded, you've never shouted at your husband? You don't provoke him too? In fact your comment above shows you are really naive, and that's the effect of marrying too early, SMH.
You are very delusional babe, because your reason for leaving your marriage is very silly, you are simply tired of being married because you never experienced single life, you married at age 19, so I understand your mid life crisis
You are your problem, not your husband. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Munzy14(m): 5:20am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. You are simply a user...So You didn't dropout until you have 3girls and a boy? You want to create a dysfunctional home and upbringing for those little girls? So you deny them of father figure which is extremely important in a girl child life to put her in check..Hehehehehe get ready to have at least one or two coded harlorts as daughters..Because boys will use materials things to deceive them. Don't take them to this dangerous path..You will regret it. Even ladies from decent homes with cool parents don dey old for house, not to talk of the one from a divorced home with problems. Don't make those kids regret having you as a mother. Life is short, make sacrifices with your SO and give the kids the best foundation you can. You are manipulating and blackmailing him emotionally..And it is the reason he flare up ones in a while. Na so domestic violence dey start...All this marrying of younger ladies is a recipe for disaster most times in the long run.. A lady should have a huge sense of maturity and responsibility before going into her Matrimonial home.. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by shege45: 6:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. Just talk say single life dey hungry you again. You wan dey free Cus I don’t see a serious issue her |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by OlawaleBammie: 6:23am On Apr 23, 2022 |
MadamOk:
Omo you dey vex ooo well you said it all Sha maami the tin vex me ni, if a young and vibrant, but sensitive young man see this he would surely be discouraged to marry. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Papichulostunne(m): 6:52am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. Say that smallboy wey dey gist you naim dey put this nonsense for your head.. You want to be single and free so that when u am him start konackoing nobody will say you are committing adultry.. Well whether you say or leave before you konacl your smallboy.. Adultry is adultry.. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by 1870event: 7:07am On Apr 23, 2022 |
[s] Miracle2022:
that is why she should go for rehabilitation. [/s] |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by 1870ev: 7:09am On Apr 23, 2022 |
[s] TheNiceGuy:
Don't mind her, Very very selfish.
Op If you still don't want him to get angry that thrice a year, DONT DO WHAT WILL MAKE HIM ANGRY.
.Between you're very very selfish and please come straight, leave that good man alone. He needs a better woman than you
[/s] |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by adeememman(m): 7:09am On Apr 23, 2022 |
I'm enjoying the advise/comments from under 18s here. I like the Op sha for her truthfulness. Let me make something clear to you @Op and I'm sure married men can relate well. Since the economy has been the way it is, life has not been the way it used to be, married men are going through a lot just to make sure they cater for their home, income is not increasing while expenses are now in multiples of what it used to be. Someone already asked if you bother to inquire why he's angry to that extent. His actions may be as a result of stress.
What you need is Wisdom not divorce. The effect of divorce will be more on the kids. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Peacefulgold(m): 7:12am On Apr 23, 2022 |
I really understand people like you at this stage ...from calculations ,you got married at 19 , probably you missed out catching fun and playing around before marriage ,child bearing and nursing of your kids has held you down for d past decade,your last kids are almost 2yrs,so now you are done with child bearing and you want to explore d life you missed between 19-27,well all I have to say to you is that *all that glitters is not gold* ,that you guy praising your beauty and promising you eternal love and exploration,once you become his responsibility,my dear he will get tired of you and dump you ..if you want d best for your kids ,perish that idea of divorce and thank God for giving you such a nice man in dis era of scarce good men ,your husband is just 39,so you guys should still b able to vibe well romantically ...pls retrace your steps while there is still time .. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by METTLESUM: 7:13am On Apr 23, 2022 |
This one don dey eye one dick outside. E go soon clear for your eye. You go collect wotowoto. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by galantjoe(m): 7:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Probably your intention abnitio was to divorce him after you people finished having kids
Now you want to materialize your plan.
Nobody can force to stay in a marriage you don't want. It is either you kill him one day in order to escape from the union.
If you don't really want to divorce him have heart to heart discussion with him. At least you people will chart a new course.
However where you re head bent in freeing yourself from the marriage, go to court and divorce him.
But remember that action has equal and opposite reactions.
He may reacted very harsh such that your intentions to train your children alone may be dammed
Tread carefully |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by 1870ba: 7:31am On Apr 23, 2022 |
[s] Miracle2022:
that is why she should go for rehabilitation. [/s] |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mcwin: 7:32am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mcwin: 7:34am On Apr 23, 2022 |
You will use you leg and come back by yourself. You must regret this move.just leave first. janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Poleski: 7:41am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. This is not something that should make you end your marriage! Sit your man down and have a candid discussion with him about this issue. Let him know how it makes you feel.
You'll definitely regret it if you go ahead with your rash decision. Unless you don't love him anymore.
Every marriage has its ups and downs. No marriage is perfect. I'm married, and my marriage is not perfect either.
If you compare your marriage to what most women are going through in theirs nowadays, you'll be thankful that you have a good husband. And you already confessed that he's good.
As I advised earlier, have a heart-to-heart conversation with him. I believe he'll change. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by brandmix: 7:49am On Apr 23, 2022 |
advanceDNA:
what you describe doesn't sound bad..its as if you are saying he doesn't have right to be angry or upset..
u even said he hardly gets angry, like maybe three times a year... u sound like u don't love or respect him anymore becos he's too nice....
yes....a man that gets angry only 3 times a year is obviously very quiet and too nice ....and from my experience you women don't like nice guys because nice guys don't take you on a roller coaster type of marriage
... I think you are just bored...u married too early, so midlife crisis hit you too early as well...whats worse you married a guy that's not keeping you on the edge of your seat...
U want some excitement in your life...
The mistake you are making is that instead of rekindling that excitement with your man, you are already looking outside...
this is witchcraft..
it will not end well......
Spot on. She married too early, she is also religious and and seem to normalize her desire to experiment and find something exciting |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by brandmix: 7:52am On Apr 23, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk:
I have friends and family members that we've all never argued. over 20-25 years of relationship And you were there, under their nose for 25 years ba. Disappointed in you small for this fallacy |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by elmagnifico411(m): 8:06am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:
I am tired. I have a better view of marriage. He is not meeting up. My children are saying that the way he talks when upsets affects them. The children cry and he apologizes to all of us. I know I sound confused but I am just tired. I feel that my children will not be seeing this when we divorce. That is why I don't want the marriage anymore. I just want all round peace. I am tired. your complains are very little, and yet u are tired like he's been doing alot. Woman, just tell us there's something outside u want to go and pick. You keep saying "my children" like you gave birth to them alone. You want to go away with kids and leave him alone like he means nothing, and your kids are everything. I think there's something you're not saying here. I think you're the problem. Someone that rarely gets angry, yet you're soooo tired. Have tried to ask what triggers his anger‽ Have u even spoken to him concerning the anger maybe there's a way your getting him worked up. With what you've written, I think you're just looking problem where there's none. You live abroad abi? And from the look of things, your so sure all your kids would be given to u in court. You Don't deserve that man. You'll be so shocked that you won't have all your kids to yourself and your world would begin to crumble. I Don't even know, what do u people want? Maybe what's affecting u is that you people started way too early, and you feel there's some fun you're missing out there. Believe me, you'll regret your actions and 'im sorry' wouldn't cut it when you finally realise how stupid you've been. |
