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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by duduade: 10:47am On Apr 24, 2022
Obviously your wife isn’t contented

Be careful with her

Na like this e dey take start
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by IbrahimSkiba(f): 10:49am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.


The owner of this Monica is a lover boy

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Burgerlomo: 10:50am On Apr 24, 2022
Another SIMPle dude spotted grin
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by zedegit: 10:50am On Apr 24, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
what on earth are you sniffing panties for?

Gross. It gets him high.
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Czario: 10:50am On Apr 24, 2022
May God restore the joy or glory of marriage or maybe marriage concept has already expired in the21st century.

Marriages today lack that buzz of 30 or more years ago..it's just a bad excuse for diverse kinds of sufferings these days....
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by gambia(m): 10:50am On Apr 24, 2022
drLammy:
How did we get here... Indeed modern man is truly suffering

No be small suffering. Modern man cannot can.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by NiceMen: 10:51am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Your wife is living her fantasy...

The best way to punish her is to make her know that you are also desired out there..

You need to put women on their toes, build that competition. It's the only way that your wife will coordinate herself.

There is need to let her know you can move on with someone else and that you are not afraid.

You can pay a female friend of urs to make this happen...

Just don't have sex or relationship with one but only create an impression.

Your wife will change afterwards.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 24, 2022
The only reason she told you about it is because someone that knows you both probably saw her with the guy in the cinema ,women are cold hearted bro

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by zedegit: 10:52am On Apr 24, 2022
OlawaleBammie:
kpele, am married sir.

So you will honestly divorce your wife if she cheats?

Don't tell someone to do what you cannot do.
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by DryMouth: 10:52am On Apr 24, 2022
Kobicove:


The way you guys call people ashawo sef?! sad
The same way they tag us broke..

Baba abeg face front

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by zeenaman: 10:53am On Apr 24, 2022
Women don't tell the whole truth. They hold back the vital part, they only release some part s of the information to ease their guilt a bit. To think of it, she planned the outing, not something that happened by chance. I'm sorry bro. Men deserve better than all this

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by bonnyhope: 10:56am On Apr 24, 2022
OlawaleBammie:
if u no catch her cheating red-handed just do ur own part as the good husband.

But if u catch her den discharge her without blinking the eye, else u would have ursef to blame

How is it possible to see 2 adults knacking
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by postmann: 10:56am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
.!

One has to be careful when making input on marital issues. This is an institution as sacred and as private as can be, more than any other human institution.

However, when issues suggestive of unfaithfulness or adultery creep up, then it is only a matter of obligation that one lends an advice.

On the strength of this resolve, I'll make bold to tell you that you need to keep a closer watch on your wife. She has shown appetite for extramarital social engagements that open doors to adultery. She has preferred the company of another man in a private/romantic capacity over you. Her ex wouldn't ask her to "create time" if she didn't encourage small, suggestive talks with this man who's supposed to belong in the thrash can of her history.

I'm afraid, your "wife" has shown signs of irresponsibility and untrustworthiness. And you should sit up. Not being "romantic enough" is no excuse for her behaviour. While you must try to rekindle your romantic overtures in your relationship, the lack of it does not make a morally healthy woman dance to drums of infidelity. Women unlike men, build infidelity with emotional involvement and time spent together with their cheating partner. In other words, theirs is calculated and deliberate. In pure but harsher term, it's UNFORGIVABLE.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by bonnyhope: 10:57am On Apr 24, 2022
Jeon:


hi please don't deactivate ..
I'm curious about you because of ur signature.

Una like sweet talk too much

Unrealistic fellows

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Soleye24(m): 10:58am On Apr 24, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
what on earth are you sniffing panties for?
He is high on cheap drugs.
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by EvilNeedle(m): 11:01am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Simp

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Jeon(f): 11:02am On Apr 24, 2022
bonnyhope:


Una like sweet talk too much

Unrealistic fellows

eyahy sorry.. my thoughts are far from there..

his /er signature attracted me
"THE ONLY RULE IS THAT THERE IS NO RULE "
BECAUSE THIS STATEMENT IS ASSOCIATED TO ONE SIGN.. AND AFTER CHECKING THE PPL THAT ARE QUICK TO MAKE THIS POINT BIRTH PROFILE [JAN -FEB ].. MY CURIOSITY B3C0M3 LESS.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Jaqenhghar: 11:03am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.
What have you been doing to her?
A woman cannot just leave her husband for her ex. You must have been doing something wrong.
Let's hear her side of the story first. There are 2 sides to every story
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by postmann: 11:03am On Apr 24, 2022
EvilNeedle:


Simp

May your days be long!
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nasri100(m): 11:05am On Apr 24, 2022
fabiano09:
The only reason she told you about it is because someone that knows you both probably saw her with the guy in the cinema ,women are cold hearted bro

Smartest comment in this thread grin grin

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by ak22(m): 11:06am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Forget all these sir/ma
A dog that will lost won't hear the hunter whistle . Even though you give a cheating wife all these things you mentioned it won't stop her to cheat .
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by ak22(m): 11:07am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Forget all these sir/ma
A dog that will lost won't hear the hunter whistle . Even though you give a cheating wife all these things you mentioned it won't stop her to cheat .

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Tingotoe: 11:13am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.
She's certainly lying to you and very likely cheating on you
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Berankis: 11:13am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.
You are typing all these nonsense because you never marry. Marry first na and face reality....
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by infortech(m): 11:16am On Apr 24, 2022
She told you because, some one saw her, she don't want you to hear it from someone esle. Be care full women can't be trusted.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by advanceDNA: 11:19am On Apr 24, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
what on earth are you sniffing panties for?

person wey don mad...
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by advanceDNA: 11:20am On Apr 24, 2022
Berankis:

You are typing all these nonsense because you never marry. Marry first na and face reality....

he dey look for nairaland babes to deceive....
he knows that's what they like...simps...

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by funshint(m): 11:23am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.
Rubbish!!
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Idaytesj29(m): 11:23am On Apr 24, 2022
Adjovi:
Well someone told you already. Be romantic plan dates ,go to cinemas. Stop all this old school boring marriage life of mummy and daddy. Be her best friend and husband and vice versa.

Easier said than done for many homes plagued with financial irregularities, 7 to 7 jobs and children to Care for etc
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by soloehis(m): 11:25am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.
pls forgive her.know that if she had Kept it away from you there is no way you would have known..my advice at this point is to give her more attention..your wife still have some guilt in her..nuture it. Love conquers all.. you can caution her and let her know how those actions of her affects your companionship…also let her know you love her so much and you are not comfortable with the fact that she still communicate with her ex..make sure she block her ex on every social media platform…block and delete their number..let her know there is no way you can move forward if you don’t let go of the past.. forgive her never use it against her.. she is not a bad woman .
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by fabianiyobosa(m): 11:26am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Yes, sneaking clothes in bags. She's 26 years old.

If there is bo baby involved or she's nor pregnant, I suggest you put any plans of having one as that may be the reason you decide to stay later of you find out she's not worth it.

Marriage is more than just love. Been married for a year and 6 months, believe me, it is not easy even if you married the best one out there.
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Remman(m): 11:27am On Apr 24, 2022
Fake fox news ~ Trump 2020

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