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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by PrimePerfect(m): 11:37am On Apr 25, 2022
You can challenge him in court if you're capable, or Reach an agreement that still favours you with him..
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Jamesmadisson(m): 11:38am On Apr 25, 2022
This is so sad
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by olola4(m): 11:39am On Apr 25, 2022
The eldest is 5 years while you the mother is 30 years and the father is 66years - so at the age of 25 you are dating a 60+ years old man

Look at what you have brought upon yourself now, you want to be like Regina Daniels abi undecided

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by mctech(m): 11:39am On Apr 25, 2022
But madam you sef greedy! You were side chick to your father's mate for 7 years just because of money.

Well, get a lawyer. Your children, at least, need motherly care.

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Proudlyomonna: 11:39am On Apr 25, 2022
Wahala everywhere.
This is what happens when you just spread your legs waahhhh without sense grin grin
Hanty count your loss and move on.
Next time think twice before you spread your legs waahhhh grin grin

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Hediad: 11:39am On Apr 25, 2022
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by ybalogs(m): 11:40am On Apr 25, 2022
Just move on if you're scared if not sure the wereh
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Mindlog: 11:42am On Apr 25, 2022
davidmoyes:


Anything legal would require money bro. And I can see only one winner here. The man is connected and will definitely manipulate his way to make it all favor him. If she goes to the court, she'll end up losing both ways. Na naija we Dey bro.

She should go visit FIDA office, they offer representation for such.
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by nazablossom(f): 11:44am On Apr 25, 2022
63-30=
Cohabiting for SEVEN YEARS=
4TH BABY MAMA=
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by ivolt: 11:45am On Apr 25, 2022
rickpat:
cohabiting for 7yrs ain't the issue... it's called COMMON LAW...i.e living with someone not legally married to you...it exist in law
Say what you know.
Stop speculating.
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Proudlyomonna: 11:45am On Apr 25, 2022
Mindlog:


She should go visit FIDA office, they offer representation for such.

Did you read the part where she said she is not legally married to the Man.
She has been spreading her legs waahhhh without the Man even paying her bride price hmm don't give her advice to waste her time oo.

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by neonly: 11:45am On Apr 25, 2022
peepydelano:
They are his kids as well and will obviously fare better with him than with you.If he’s not denying you visits then I see no case here.

No answer her she wan they cash out with d children
Jezebel

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Nobody: 11:45am On Apr 25, 2022
Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...


If you are in Lagos, get a lawyer to approach the family court for you.

Atleast, the lawyer should be able to help you fight for primary custody and maintenance which will include health, feeding, clothing and education. It’s the legal right of the children whether or not you guys were legally married.

But know this for sure. The father of the children is allowed to access his children under the law while you are allowed to retain primary custody since they are minors.

His professional standing has nothing to do with this. The law is the law.

I rise

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by doshiyad1: 11:46am On Apr 25, 2022
Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Nobody: 11:46am On Apr 25, 2022
Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by vickydevoka(m): 11:46am On Apr 25, 2022
peepydelano:
They are his kids as well and will obviously fare better with him than with you.If he’s not denying you visits then I see no case here.
Women this days says kids are there's. They want to emulate de white buh de don't want to share bill like white

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Omooba77: 11:46am On Apr 25, 2022
Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...
4th wife and you put head....

Nothing we can do here, go and get elders of your family...From the description, the man is old to be your dad.... Letter elders beg him to give you custody until the children are old enough to live in a polygamous home......
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by bigdammyj: 11:47am On Apr 25, 2022
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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Proudlyomonna: 11:49am On Apr 25, 2022
olola4:
The eldest is 5 years while you the mother is 30 years and the father is 66years - so at the age of 25 you are dating a 60+ years old man

Look at what you have brought upon yourself now, you want to be like Regina Daniels abi undecided

And she will be doing I am a married woman yanga for those unmarried women too oo �
She is just 30 let her count her loss and move on to the next ancestor to spread her legs waahhhh without sense again ��.
Some people must get sense by vawulent occurrence �

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by chris51(f): 11:49am On Apr 25, 2022
My young lady. I believe it's greed that got you entangled with a man more than 30 years your senior.
He didn't marry you and you were comfortable sleeping with him free of charge.
My advice to you is to leave the children with their father. Make sure you have access to them.
I bet you, if you institute legal proceedings on him, you won't see your children again.
Take it easy and maintain good relationship with the man.
Good luck

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Lexusgs430: 11:50am On Apr 25, 2022
Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...

You have not been a wife ......... Start by accepting that reality........

Head to the office of the public defender........... You knew he was a child collector, you still went ahead to have children with him .......

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by chris51(f): 11:50am On Apr 25, 2022
chris51:
My young lady. I believe it's greed that got you entangled with a man more than 30 years your senior.
He didn't marry you and you were comfortable sleeping with him free of charge.
My advice to you is to leave the children with their father. Make sure you have access to them.
I bet you, if you institute legal proceedings on him, you won't see your children again.
Take it easy and maintain good relationship with the man.
Good luck
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by doshiyad1: 11:51am On Apr 25, 2022
RedCentaur:
I just had migraine while reading this.


Cohabiting for 7yrs? Birthing children without doing as little as paying your dowry?

The elders are coming.

Hmmm! cohabited with 66yrs old man and she is 30 for 7 years yet she is his wife Am i missing something here?? Honestly, i can't get it, i need some clarification please tongue tongue undecided undecided
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Gospel367: 11:51am On Apr 25, 2022
Movingon5:



Amen........ was just 22years den. But as am growing older i really now no wat i want...

Imagine, 22 years years and you were fucking a 58years old man for 7 years. You are shameless. The love of money have brought these pains to you. 4th wife? You are not even a wife. You are the 4th side chick or concubine or adultery partner. The man who is the father has the children, let him have them. He has all it takes to take care of them and wouldn't treat them any less than you could. Strike a peace deal with him and go rebuild your life. If rightly done, your children will always know you, if not, take it as a reward for uncut lifestyle in the past.

What were you thinking or expecting when you started dating an old demon like that and even went on to give birth to children for him after living initially with him for 2 years. Thats gold digging and you got served...

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Mindlog: 11:51am On Apr 25, 2022
Proudlyomonna:


Did you read the part where she said she is not legally married to the Man.
She has been spreading her legs waahhhh without the Man even paying her bride price hmm don't give her advice to waste her time oo.

She was never his wife and that before the law does not diminish the fact that she is the children' biological mother just as the man is their biological father.

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by oodua1stson: 11:51am On Apr 25, 2022
I'm sure you de pepper your friends with your sugar daddy when you were dating a 60 year old man at 23 . Carry your cross oooo, I cannot help you

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by kaycshine(f): 11:52am On Apr 25, 2022
Damn babe what the Heck is wrong with you having an affairs with a man old enough to be your ancestor what were you expecting? You wanted a good life and luxury and he gave it to you cos you can't tell me you wanted a children there are alot of young guys out there who can meet that need but you chose an old rich ancestor and him in turn wanted children

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Kobicove(m): 11:54am On Apr 25, 2022
I don't like judging thi type of case based on just the story from one of the parties involved undecided
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Gospel367: 11:55am On Apr 25, 2022
Mindlog:


She was never his wife and that before the law does not diminish the fact that she is the children' biological mother just as the man is their biological father. Even Globacom owner's son and his baby mama ended up in court over the custody of their daughter (they were never married).

If I am the man (Of course i can never be), she don enter. Either she accepts the peace offer or end up in pieces...

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by SavageResponse(m): 11:56am On Apr 25, 2022
Women use the same method of manipulation to take custody of children so I have no pity to give when a woman is at the receiving end

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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by munas: 11:56am On Apr 25, 2022
frozen70:


You can't fight this man because he is rugged

You dated him simply because he was flashing all sort of wealth and comfort to you so you were just ok with him

For the fact that you are the forth woman having kids for him would have made you not to have any child for him

Assuming you used your head very well and get a bachelor to cohibit with and have those kids even if he has no money to give you, you will be in charge of the home

I will advise you look for people he respects and go to them to talk to him to allow you have the kids or better still get a place for you and the children then he can be visiting you guys there

Because they are minor, they are supposed to be with you, that's all the court can do for you

Wether he did any marriage rites on you or not, he is not supposed to trickly take those kids away from you

Involve your family while going through some one that can talk to him

Alternatively, if he allows you to be coming to see the children, but won't allow you to take them away from where he wants them to be, that's still OK

Be visiting them and start another life

This time around, look for a bachelor, even If he is poor, start life with him, struggle and have a say in your marriage
You are a fool.
The lady is simply saling for a solution and you are talking trash. Who asked you for all that?

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