demoBaba:



Small small girls and their are greed and love for money, how can you married someone that senior your father because of money, even when you see red flag in his attitude when you are enjoying during that 7 years you didn't disturb us...each family have they're issues please manage your grandfather attitude.

Did you say marry?...

She didn't.. She was cohabiting... She must be 22/23yrs, moved in with a 58/59 yrs man...

Do the analysis... She must have been seeing the man when she was 21 yrs before finalising moving in witout any marital right... Then I ask no parent or relations to reprove her??


Well.. I pray for the kids.. may parent care not have negative effect on them!!

Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...

Good story but you skipped that part where he complained about you being a WHÓRE and CHEATING on him with different men.




I SUSPECT AN ARROGANT AND DESPERATE GOLD DIGGER... YOU MUST HAVE SNATCHED HIM FROM ANOTHER WOMAN...

NOW YOU'RE GETTING A TASTE OF YOUR OWN MEDICINE.

KARMA IS INDEED A BlTCH

I was about saying something reasonable not until the BOLDED.

You now know what you want ba?

Who knows maybe it was even infidelity from your side that warranted all the treatments you get from him.

You can't expose yourself cos I have never seen a thief admitting he is one.

Anyway,your marriage your problem.

Nonsense

Movingon5:



Amen........ was just 22years den. But as am growing older i really now no wat i want...

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

I'm not shocked by you women anymore. Just imagine. Your kids. So the man na wetin, their Uncle?

Make sure if such should happen to any female in your family, you'll let the he� to forcefully go with the kids.

Cashio:
Her kids you say?
So the kids are not the man's as well.

So far I'm concern, he doesn't own those kids, abi did you read where she said he paid anything on her head?

When handling things, try not to sides for any f***ing reason, cause you belong to that gender.

Lamasta:

Not his kids abi

He's just a sperm donor ��
Maybe I skipped where he went to do the needful while reading
So you can help in pointing that to me, when you come across it.

Justkatty:
He's just a sperm donor ��
Maybe I skipped where he went to do the needful while reading
So you can help in pointing that to me, when you come across it.

So he is now a sperm donor eh kwa All these while the 'sperm donor' kept her in his house and took care of her for seven good years!!! You are very heartless for saying such shit!!! You have no idea, the meaning of sperm donor!!! Sometimes your kind thinks from their anus!

Justkatty:
Make sure if such should happen to any female in your family, you'll let the he� to forcefully go with the kids.

Hmmmmmm... thanks sis. I choose to comment on only positive comments

HitSong:

Good story but you skipped that part where he complained about you being a WHÓRE and CHEATING on him with different men.




I SUSPECT AN ARROGANT AND DESPERATE GOLD DIGGER... YOU MUST HAVE SNATCHED HIM FROM ANOTHER WOMAN...

NOW YOU'RE GETTING A TASTE OF YOUR OWN MEDICINE.

KARMA IS INDEED A BlTCH

Bitter and frustrated misogynist

cuddling44:


Hmmmmmm... thanks sis. I choose to comment on only positive comments

Don't mind this gender, that some of them are so myopic in reasoning. Dishing out what they can't accept.

Melkizedeck:




So he is now a sperm donor eh kwa All these while the 'sperm donor' kept her in his house and took care of her for seven good years!!! You are very heartless for saying such shit!!! You have no idea, the meaning of sperm donor!!! Sometimes your kind thinks from their anus!

If he wasn't a sperm donor he would have gone to do the needful.....stop being backward in your reasoning
Always allow the chain of your sense to connect with your hands before you come here disgracing yourself.

I want to thank you all for your advice.
I have learnt a lot.
Sometimes,one learns in silence.

U can't eat ur cake and still have it. Sorry u got what you deserve.

Better you leave those kids with him and go catch another ancestor as you now know what you want and still very young as you claimed . Season film ni ....

Movingon5:



No sir, this is not him

Okay. I thought he is, because this man is a very good man

Justkatty:
He's just a sperm donor ��
Maybe I skipped where he went to do the needful while reading
So you can help in pointing that to me, when you come across it.

And the woman sperm collector

Hmmm

Lawyers in the house should help create an educating topic on how the court determines who take custody of the child in an event of marriage dissolution.

It is irritating to see women saying, 'leave my kid for me,' 'he took my kid away from me,' and such other annoying comments, as if the a father does not co-own the child with them.

Most times, when the mother succeed to gain custody, they raise the child in a manner that makes them hate their father, telling the children lies and falsely describing him as an irresponsible man. They make sure the father gets nothing from the child's financial success despite his contribution of child support fee in raising them. In the end, the father loses in term of the lovely support and care he expect from his biological child when he (the father) grows old.

This explains why fathers these days no longer wish to allow the mothers take full custody of children whenever their union comes to an unplanned end.

What make matter worse in this 21st century is the crop of irresponsible women that parade as mothers, though I don't see the original poster as one (going by her mood of narration). Many of these 21st century incidental mothers can't was their kid's bum after poo, they can't clear their kid's poo, or even wash their napkins. Some full-house ones among them can't even breadfeed the baby for six months. They see these chilld-raising tasks as dirty, and still they want to be entrusted with child custody merely on the ground that they are women.

These parentally irresponsible women see the above motherhood tasks as nauseating. So instead they either get someone else to do all these important jobs for them or abandon the child with another woman of their kind while they slay around, thereby upbringing the child through what is technically called UNINVOLVED PARENTING STYLE, which family experts remark to be bad for the child and the society.

I think it is time the court started to examine the acclaimed mother's capacity of parenting before allowing them child custody, and not just allow them such custody because they women. I don't think it is a good judgement when the court sexually discriminate against the father and deny him child custody even when he is competent.

As for the poster, I can sense your motherly love for your children, and how you feel to miss children you painfully carried for nine months in your womb. I will advice you to first humbly negotiate with the man to let both of you co-parent the children, assurinring him you will raise the children under his (bearable) instruction. Let a team composed of his parents, his intimate friend, your parents, and a clergyman do this for you. If the team fails to achieve that, then employ the service of a family expert/marriage counsellor. If the expert also fails, then get a lawyer to discuss with him your pain of not having a parental touch with your children in their upbringing and your intention to seek court interference if he remains on such position.

I'm sure the man will allow you custody without resulting to court if you take these steps.There are reasons the man want to deny you custody:

1) he doubts your parental capacity to raise the children because he loses his authority and watch as head to decide how the children are raised when he is no longer in relationship with you.
2) because of point number 1 he fear that you will you will not raise the children in a manner he wants as he believe you will be slaying and flirting around (for one in her very early 30s) trying to hook up with another man.
3) most importanty, he fears that you will brainwash the children to deny him, hate him, or
disrespect him when they grow up.

So if you can, through the steps I earlier suggested, assure him of his interest in the upbringing of the chilren, then I see no reason why he should deny you custody. I pray God answer your prayer.

Lamasta:

And the woman sperm collector

Na you come know that one

Stupid woman.when you were enjoying his money eating all kinds of good meals. fucking each other.screaming in pleasure.gossiping about. you didn't complain.now you no longer recive those things now you no he is not a good man right.is now you no cohabited.the kids are his own kids too.since he want them to be with him no problem.you can come see them as you like.can you even take care of them if you are given the child.you think to take care of children financially na mary k and eye lashes.hair you do fix.the problem with you girls is that you are too lazy to work.just want to sit down continue to spend man money for ur entire life.you have taken marriage to business.that exactly what is dealing with you now.see go find better tin doing.get ready for chalenges in life you.will see diffrence.take my advice you will see changes.who quote me for saying truth hug transformer.

Go to human right radio Abuja and meet the Ordinary President himself.... even if na Bubu the man be he his finished once that man get him time

Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for no j7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...

U shudnt have bore him any child/children since u know that his usual modus operandi


U for no open leg to input his general stick

munas:

You are a fool.
The lady is simply saling for a solution and you are talking trash. Who asked you for all that?

You're a frustrated senseless bîtch

Pained mumu

Birds of the same feathers

Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...

He's not legally married to you, but you're his 4th wife. Madam we need to hear the other side of the story from your cohabited whatever.

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Amen........ was just 22years den. But as am growing older i really now no wat i want...[/quot]


I fear una wey be women. I guess you were the reason for your failed marriage.

Justkatty [s:
post=112270500]Make sure if such should happen to any female in your family, you'll let the he� to forcefully go with the kids.[/s]

Aswearugaaad

When it happens to your brother, make sure you'll let the woman go with the kids.

Juicie2u:

The man is almost twice her age and knows her like the palm of his hand, for me she should get the compensation and marry someone within her age bracket and start a new home because she can never find peace of mind with this man in particular... He will say he picked her from the gutter and anything she tries will bring shame on her because of the way she presented herself to him.... Cheap

weh we guys tell ladies we put age into consideration they will say all that matter is love blablabla,,,which love be that

peepydelano:
They are his kids as well and will obviously fare better with him than with you.If he’s not denying you visits then I see no case here.

On what grounds will they fare better with him? Because he has money? Is that the only thing a child needs to become a well rounded individual?

Prettychild:

lol! Bros I no get strength to argue with you, because this argument no go fetch me money. But if you want me to enlighten you on this, you can pay me consultation fee and I will throw more light on this and even give you plethora of cases where the courts have ruled on this issue.

Don't start what you can't finish then. NO DEBATE ON NAIRALAND HAS EVER FETCHED ANYBODY MONEY. So that weak tactics doesn't cut it. Just admit you were talking sh#t.

revolt:


Don't start what you can't finish then. NO DEBATE ON NAIRALAND HAS EVER FETCHED ANYBODY MONEY. So that weak tactics doesn't cut it. Just admit you were talking sh#t.

Lol! I have no words to banter with you. I see you are very uncouth and I don’t argue with people who are uncouth and can’t even grasp a thing or two from statements made. You are not a lawyer so you won’t be able to comprehend what I am saying.

obisite:



Did you say marry?...

She didn't.. She was cohabiting... She must be 22/23yrs, moved in with a 58/59 yrs man...

Do the analysis... She must have been seeing the man when she was 21 yrs before finalising moving in witout any marital right... Then I ask no parent or relations to reprove her??


Well.. I pray for the kids.. may parent care not have negative effect on them!!

Then what motivated her to being seeing an aged man at 21? The answer is money let assumed that the first child was a mistake what about the send child.

Highter1:
Apparently you are not the first wife and probably you are a side chick turned wife...KAMAL IS AT WORK.

KAMAL kor KAZEEM ni